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ProfessorPlum

(11,256 posts)
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 05:25 PM Dec 2017

Here's another thing that bothers me about Franken's assassination: the photo

Everyone (especially the right wing) pretends it is evidence of him groping Tweeden. Even though it clearly doesn't show that.

Ok, people say. Well, Al posed for the photograph and was acting like a jerk and it wasn't funny.

Here's the thing - Al wasn't being a jerk in the photograph. He was pretending to act like an asshole to get laughs. Like "aren't people who would be creepy like this ridiculous"?

I know this is too many layers deep for people in the MSM.

It's not a picture of him groping someone

It's not even a picture of him sincerely pretending to grope someone

It is him pretending to be an asshole who would grope someone ... for a laugh.

Kind of like Stephen Colbert pretending to be a right wing asshole. For laughs.

Kind of like Kelsey Grammar pretending to be a pretentious asshole. For laughs.

Whatever. The guy's being crucified on the altar of GOP hypocrisy.



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Here's another thing that bothers me about Franken's assassination: the photo (Original Post) ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 OP
Who are they going to believe, Fox News or their lying eyes? underpants Dec 2017 #1
+1 K&R. However, Kelsey Grammar is a pretentious asshole. n/t rzemanfl Dec 2017 #2
I had that thought too when I was writing it lol ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #3
You beat me to it. panader0 Dec 2017 #7
100% agree. dchill Dec 2017 #29
It only means rock Dec 2017 #35
It certainly is a portrayal misanthrope Dec 2017 #57
+1 re: Grammer. geardaddy Dec 2017 #42
My thought exactly. BHDem53 Dec 2017 #73
Isn't he also a Republican? Dark n Stormy Knight Dec 2017 #82
That's my recollection. n/t rzemanfl Dec 2017 #86
gop hypocrisy? umm no its the dems dumping him. nt msongs Dec 2017 #4
Yes, it's ALL been ludicrous. NanceGreggs Dec 2017 #5
I'm so upset about this hit job on Franken suegeo Dec 2017 #91
I understand ... NanceGreggs Dec 2017 #94
Thank you suegeo Dec 2017 #98
Do you think Al would have the votes if he ran as an Independent next time? LiberalLovinLug Dec 2017 #117
So now it was high-minded social commentary? CrowCity_Dem Dec 2017 #6
Use a canoe paddle. n/t rzemanfl Dec 2017 #8
Hey I recognize you from another post about Al. LakeArenal Dec 2017 #9
It's just a coincidence, not an agenda Brother Buzz Dec 2017 #12
Saying what? LakeArenal Dec 2017 #15
You? Brother Buzz Dec 2017 #26
I'm pretty old Brother. Must have missed Bob. LakeArenal Dec 2017 #27
If you have some spare time, you might enjoy reading an old DU staple.... Brother Buzz Dec 2017 #31
I will. Thanks LakeArenal Dec 2017 #51
lol. ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #50
everybody gotta work somewhere questionseverything Dec 2017 #24
No it was a bad joke Egnever Dec 2017 #10
How about the OP: CrowCity_Dem Dec 2017 #16
We treat many things as a joke Egnever Dec 2017 #18
I am shocked, SHOCKED, that an alumnus of SNL would engage in sight gags and raunchy humor!!! Hekate Dec 2017 #23
From the video that I saw the guy that she did the lap dance on doc03 Dec 2017 #49
Wow, joined just to sow division Bettie Dec 2017 #63
HE'S DEAD??? WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2017 #11
Agreed pandr32 Dec 2017 #13
"assasination" brooklynite Dec 2017 #14
it is an image treestar Dec 2017 #22
I don't think you are accused of over the top writing ChubbyStar Dec 2017 #39
would you prefer "defenestration"? ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #41
I would. It's my favorite word. Susan Calvin Dec 2017 #71
It WAS done to Franken, politically. JHB Dec 2017 #118
Yes, it absolutely was. nt Susan Calvin Dec 2017 #120
Not that far off. Franken's political career is dead. brush Dec 2017 #53
Not by me. Franken 2020! nt Susan Calvin Dec 2017 #121
It was an assassination.. cannabis_flower Dec 2017 #64
Agreed on all points, and furthermore: Qutzupalotl Dec 2017 #17
Like some in this thread. nt Wednesdays Dec 2017 #19
thank you ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #43
And wasn't she pretending to be asleep snort Dec 2017 #52
That's what I want to know. Susan Calvin Dec 2017 #122
Down is up; Up is down. rainin Dec 2017 #20
Too subtle for the literal-minded treestar Dec 2017 #21
I don't think you wanna use Kelsey Grammar in your list. Honeycombe8 Dec 2017 #25
According to the allegation, Ms. Toad Dec 2017 #28
I'm sure Playboy had a signed release though. n/t rzemanfl Dec 2017 #30
I hope you are not suggesting that consent in one sexually charged situation Ms. Toad Dec 2017 #34
No I am not. I am not convinced she was asleep, nor am I convinced she was not in on the gag. rzemanfl Dec 2017 #37
That has nothing to do with the point I was responding to - Ms. Toad Dec 2017 #38
The first thing I said was I am not convinced she was sleeping. The second thing I said was I was rzemanfl Dec 2017 #60
The OP I was responding to was only addressing Franken's behavior Ms. Toad Dec 2017 #66
There are so many threads they blur together. rzemanfl Dec 2017 #69
Somebody paid that girl a lot of money FakeNoose Dec 2017 #67
I take Breitbart/FOX allegations for what they're worth. dchill Dec 2017 #32
Yeah, but she also alleged he wrote the skit as an excuse to kiss her Drahthaardogs Dec 2017 #33
Another point is that people who grope don't do it in front of others lunatica Dec 2017 #36
of course. an excellent and important point ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #46
All the accusations agaist him mainstreetonce Dec 2017 #80
Inappropriate contact happens in public. Pacifist Patriot Dec 2017 #108
Not in my experience Pacifist Patriot Dec 2017 #107
That's a good point PatSeg Dec 2017 #40
However Al stated "she didn't have any ability to consent. She had every right to feel violated" wishstar Dec 2017 #44
Yes. Yes, he did. ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #47
So he was lying when he said she was asleep and unable to consent? Voltaire2 Dec 2017 #54
he was responding to her allegation by taking her claims seriously ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #61
No he explicitly stated that "she didn't have any ability to consent." Voltaire2 Dec 2017 #109
just because you don't understand it ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #113
Has any one ever seen Benny Hill LakeArenal Dec 2017 #56
i would bet that 99% of people who think benny hill is funny are teenage males. nt TheFrenchRazor Dec 2017 #105
Most of the soldiers at a USO show.... LakeArenal Dec 2017 #111
But you understand ... Whiskeytide Dec 2017 #70
Yes snort Dec 2017 #75
Oddly... tonedevil Dec 2017 #85
My theory - Someone was having a drink ... Whiskeytide Dec 2017 #97
The out for a drink... tonedevil Dec 2017 #100
You seem to have a false impression of the meaning of those words Nevernose Dec 2017 #96
exactly ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #102
Thank you so much for this post. scarletwoman Dec 2017 #45
And the alter zentrum Dec 2017 #48
Thanks for calling it what it is... workinclasszero Dec 2017 #55
No, actually he has been crucified on a cross of PatrickforO Dec 2017 #58
Agree. mn9driver Dec 2017 #77
And she's a Tweet friend of tRump Jr. for Pete's sake! ffr Dec 2017 #59
Occasional nuisance behavior is nowhere near years and years of sexual predation. ancianita Dec 2017 #62
And the altar of Liberal Purity. BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2017 #65
It's called "mugging" for the camera. trof Dec 2017 #68
would he grab a man's butt? or a child's butt? people clearly know what they think they can get away TheFrenchRazor Dec 2017 #106
A waste of time DeltaLitProf Dec 2017 #72
you are lying ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #74
This message was self-deleted by its author ChubbyStar Dec 2017 #83
Correction - most of them are anonymous dansolo Dec 2017 #119
Like charging an actor with a crime a character commits McCamy Taylor Dec 2017 #76
Except Kelsey Grammar isn't pretending. He IS a pompous (RW) @$$h**e. nt tblue37 Dec 2017 #78
In the other photo, their heads are not in the reflection behind them! L. Coyote Dec 2017 #79
+1 dalton99a Dec 2017 #110
I agree. It is important to be accurate about the accusation... tandem5 Dec 2017 #81
I'd been trying to put that same idea into words. Dark n Stormy Knight Dec 2017 #84
Didn't he shoot the photo with Tweeden's cell phone? MrPurple Dec 2017 #87
Excellent post ProfessorPlum Dec 2017 #89
Plus hurple Dec 2017 #88
There were witnesses riverwalker Dec 2017 #90
You're overcomplicating it. It was just goofy. A goofy, staged, consensual promo shot. MrModerate Dec 2017 #92
When Tweeden came out with the original story riverwalker Dec 2017 #93
If only there could be an investigation to find out the answer to that! suegeo Dec 2017 #95
she backed off and said how she accepted the apology and didn't want him to resign JI7 Dec 2017 #124
Mocked groping. chowder66 Dec 2017 #99
It's all moot now HopeAgain Dec 2017 #101
He was the sacrificial lamb...nt Heartstrings Dec 2017 #103
You can't grope someone in a flak jacket. THAT was the joke. SargeXXX Dec 2017 #104
NO, he's being crucified by complicit dems for their own advancement. lark Dec 2017 #112
+1 oasis Dec 2017 #125
Nailed it except for one thing: RVN VET71 Dec 2017 #114
Yes, 1000x yes. Your humor analysis is spot on. n/t Beartracks Dec 2017 #115
" Kelsey Grammar pretending to be a pretentious asshole." its not so much pretending .... marble falls Dec 2017 #116
Good insight Raine Dec 2017 #123

rock

(13,218 posts)
35. It only means
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:21 PM
Dec 2017

That he can play one excellently! I've never seen a better portrayal (or is it?).

misanthrope

(7,411 posts)
57. It certainly is a portrayal
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:54 PM
Dec 2017

Grammer is neither as learned, refined, judicious or intelligent as his famous TV character. He merely sounds as if he is.

It's kind of like Jeff Goldblum, a guy who everyone sees as a highly educated nerdly type, a scientist in black leather. Truth is he only holds a high school diploma.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
82. Isn't he also a Republican?
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:56 PM
Dec 2017

Anyone who can self ID as a Republican now, that's enough for me to know they're an asshole, if not necessarily a pretentious one.

NanceGreggs

(27,813 posts)
5. Yes, it's ALL been ludicrous.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 05:35 PM
Dec 2017

Like the "here's a photo of me and Al together at the state fair. I know it looks innocent, but that was just before he groped me. What further proof do you need?"

suegeo

(2,573 posts)
91. I'm so upset about this hit job on Franken
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 08:52 PM
Dec 2017

I am from Minnesota, and watched the fascists in this state somehow turn the memorial service for Paul Wellstone into something against democrats. I saw how low they could go, and did go.

I watched Al Franken during the recount against Coleman, fighting for every vote, knowing how they stole the election from Al Gore. My vote for Al Franken got counted because he was willing to fight back against the election stealing republicans.

Flash forward to current times. My vote for Al Franken got stolen from me by bumbling women in the Democratic party. Al Franken groped women at the state fair? Really? There are hundreds of thousands of people at the state fair, why would he grope someone in so public a venue? In front of one woman's husband? The crowds are so deep you get bumped all the time, if in fact you can even move through the crowds in line at the over-rated Sweet Martha's cookie stand. Jesus, maybe I was groped too? When that guy or a couple of 50 ran into me by the Gizmo sandwich stand?

And don't get me started on the USO thing and the republican talk radio hag who is friends with that fink Hannity. Republican dirty tricks. All over again. It's how they fuc@ the rats. Like at the Wellstone memorial thing.

How are democrats so stupid to fall for it every time, this time pissing me the hell off?

Now I gotta give more money, more time, to support a seat that was won, so it doesn't go to the rat bastard republicans. And the fascist Grand old politburo party will run the country into the ground in the mean time, without Franken there to stop them. FML.

NanceGreggs

(27,813 posts)
94. I understand ...
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 09:10 PM
Dec 2017

... that this nightmare is even more keenly felt by the people he directly represents.

We have all lost a strong voice and ally in the Senate - but Minnesotans have now been forced to swallow a particularly bitter pill.

Stay strong, stay active - and my condolences for having lost such a strong voice on your state's behalf.

suegeo

(2,573 posts)
98. Thank you
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 09:28 PM
Dec 2017

What you wrote really resonated with me. A couple of pictures at the state fair are all it takes to throw our best player under the bus? By his own team?

I am so pissed I can't write straight now. Thanks to Godess you can.

And people who claim "The republicans, supporting that raper in Alabama, will now be know as the pedophile party" Ummm Denny Hastert ring any bells. They are already the baby abusing party.

Children! Christ on a trailer hitch!

LiberalLovinLug

(14,173 posts)
117. Do you think Al would have the votes if he ran as an Independent next time?
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 06:09 PM
Dec 2017

Seeing as you are from his home State. Personally I think he would. I hope enough Minnesotans are as angry about this as you, and are prepared to stick with him.

Brother Buzz

(36,416 posts)
26. You?
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:09 PM
Dec 2017

Not at all.

Bummer Bob Boudelang was WAY, WAY before your time because you'd know exactly was I was IMPLYING.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
10. No it was a bad joke
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 05:46 PM
Dec 2017

one that has been repeated millions of times by others but when it was done by a sitting senator before he was a senator apparently it is a bridge too far.

 

CrowCity_Dem

(37 posts)
16. How about the OP:
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 05:58 PM
Dec 2017

Comparing it to real Satire like The Colbert Report. Seriously? Maybe the fact we treat this stuff like a joke is why it's so pervasive.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
18. We treat many things as a joke
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:00 PM
Dec 2017

usually we have the wherewithal to understand they are jokes and often they are funny because they point out the ridiculousness of the action.

If comedy is dead so are we as a country.

Hekate

(90,645 posts)
23. I am shocked, SHOCKED, that an alumnus of SNL would engage in sight gags and raunchy humor!!!
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:06 PM
Dec 2017

While on a comedy entertainment tour for the troops no less!!! Dear gods what is the world coming to?!

Now, go away please.

doc03

(35,325 posts)
49. From the video that I saw the guy that she did the lap dance on
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:46 PM
Dec 2017

or the one that got his ass groped should be doing the complaining.

ChubbyStar

(3,191 posts)
39. I don't think you are accused of over the top writing
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:27 PM
Dec 2017

From the replies I have seen most people just think it is bad. Difference. Press on!

JHB

(37,158 posts)
118. It WAS done to Franken, politically.
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 06:20 PM
Dec 2017

His Senate work was thrown out a window, along with “pragmatism.”

Qutzupalotl

(14,302 posts)
17. Agreed on all points, and furthermore:
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 05:58 PM
Dec 2017

a) in the photo, the flash is so close to the lens you can't be sure his hands are touching her jacket or are slightly above; and

b) even if they were touching, SHE'S WEARING A FUCKING FLAK JACKET, so it's not like Franken was getting any jollies other than the obvious joke. Those things are so thick you can't feel a thing through them! So that is also part of the joke...and went over the heads of the obtuse.

snort

(2,334 posts)
52. And wasn't she pretending to be asleep
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:49 PM
Dec 2017

like the guy next to her was. Or did she fall asleep wearing battle fatigues, for some reason? Like the guy next to her.

Because if she was pretending, she was in on the joke.

Susan Calvin

(1,646 posts)
122. That's what I want to know.
Sun Dec 10, 2017, 12:21 AM
Dec 2017

If she was in on it, she's got nothing.

I would like to know the fact of that, which I am sure is available.

rainin

(3,011 posts)
20. Down is up; Up is down.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:04 PM
Dec 2017

How can you even explain this lack of critical thinking? I don't get it. Great post, btw.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
25. I don't think you wanna use Kelsey Grammar in your list.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:07 PM
Dec 2017
There's a babysitter thing in his past.

But moving on, there IS a photo of HER twerking against a fellow male musician's butt.




Ms. Toad

(34,062 posts)
28. According to the allegation,
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:12 PM
Dec 2017

She was asleep, and did not consent to the photo.

If that was me, and somoene used my sleeping body as a prop, to pretend to act like a jerk to get laughs, it would not matter to me that their intent was not to grope me or to actually be a jerk.

Using my body as a prop for a joke without my consent is not appropriate, and Franken properly apologized for it.

Ms. Toad

(34,062 posts)
34. I hope you are not suggesting that consent in one sexually charged situation
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:19 PM
Dec 2017

has anything to do with whether there was consent in this specific situation.

Because that would mean you're stuck back in the 70s or earlier, when prostitutes couldn't be raped, wives couldn't be raped by their husbands, etc. Because one consent covered everything.

Surely no one on a progressive board engages in that kind of backward, misogynistic, thinking.

rzemanfl

(29,556 posts)
37. No I am not. I am not convinced she was asleep, nor am I convinced she was not in on the gag.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:23 PM
Dec 2017

She is pals with Hannity and Drumpf, Jr. She announces for a right-wing radio station. I have more to say but dinner is ready.

Ms. Toad

(34,062 posts)
38. That has nothing to do with the point I was responding to -
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:26 PM
Dec 2017

which suggested everything was just fine (consent or not) becuase Franken wasn't really trying to grope her, or wasn't really being a jerk, he was just pretending to be a jerk for laughs.

My point is that that his motive (sexual gratification, being a jerk, or making a failed joke) is absolutely irrelevant if she was sleeping and did not consent to the use of her sleeping body as a prop.

rzemanfl

(29,556 posts)
60. The first thing I said was I am not convinced she was sleeping. The second thing I said was I was
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:57 PM
Dec 2017

not convinced she was not in on the joke. There are a lot of things about her story that don't add up, when the photo was taken, where the plane was going, etc. Why Hannity claimed to have seen it years ago and why it didn't surface during the 2008 campaign. I recently read Giant of the Senate and they were scouring Franken's life for anything to use against him then.

If she was asleep and unknowingly used as a prop I totally agree with you.

An ethics hearing would clear this all up, oh wait....

Ms. Toad

(34,062 posts)
66. The OP I was responding to was only addressing Franken's behavior
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:04 PM
Dec 2017

And was alleging it was all fine becasue we misunderstood that he wasn't really groping her or wasn't really acting like a jerk - he was only play-acting that he was a jerk for a joke.

If she consented, the story is over.

There would be no need to explain things are fine because he wasn't groping, or acting like a jerk, but merely play-acting that he was a jerk for a joke.

FakeNoose

(32,634 posts)
67. Somebody paid that girl a lot of money
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:05 PM
Dec 2017

... maybe it was Steve Bannon or Junior?

I have no way of knowing. But she didn't do this for free.


Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
33. Yeah, but she also alleged he wrote the skit as an excuse to kiss her
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:18 PM
Dec 2017

Which was proven to be a lie unless Al fucking Franken travels time.

So she's a liar.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
36. Another point is that people who grope don't do it in front of others
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:22 PM
Dec 2017

Gropers like to be alone with their victims. That way they can claim she's lying if she says anything.

ProfessorPlum

(11,256 posts)
46. of course. an excellent and important point
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:32 PM
Dec 2017

"Look, Franken's so creepy he even poses for photographs while he commits assault "

for fuck's sake

mainstreetonce

(4,178 posts)
80. All the accusations agaist him
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:48 PM
Dec 2017

happened in public or in front of witnesses. There is no way any of it is sexual assault.

There is not one accusation of Franken actually trying to have sex with a woman.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
108. Inappropriate contact happens in public.
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 09:36 AM
Dec 2017

But inappropriate contact is not the same thing as sexual assault. The assault part of that phrase is being used way too freely. It's trivializing real sexual assault. However, sexual assault does happen in public at times, and we have to be realistic about that. Sexual harassment happens in public all the damn time.

The public/private aspect of these accusations is irrelevant in my opinion. The act itself is what needs to be evaluated.
Someone puts their hand on my ass or squeezes my waist without my permission, that's inappropriate contact. And that damn well has happened in public. It might upset me, but it's not going to traumatize me for life. And the response to inappropriate contact verses sexual assault should be different.


Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
107. Not in my experience
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 09:29 AM
Dec 2017

I've been groped in plenty of public places. Gropers rely on no one giving a shit or being brave enough to say anything.

Don't get me wrong. I don't think Franken is guilty of groping, but simply because the accusations came from public places means squat. As I mentioned in a post the other day, Governor Clinton groped my ass in an auditorium. There were over a thousand people there. Wasn't remotely traumatized and voted for him for president twice. Would all over again.

PatSeg

(47,400 posts)
40. That's a good point
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:27 PM
Dec 2017

He was a performer and he was playing a role for laughs, even if it wasn't before a regular audience. Obviously there were other people there and the one with the camera was awake.

wishstar

(5,268 posts)
44. However Al stated "she didn't have any ability to consent. She had every right to feel violated"
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:31 PM
Dec 2017

Full quote by Al supersedes whatever we may believe about the circumstances and context of the photo:

“What my intention was doesn’t matter. What matters is that I am chained to that photo. She didn’t have any ability to consent. She had every right to feel violated by that photo. I have apologized to her, and I was very grateful that she accepted my apology.”

ProfessorPlum

(11,256 posts)
47. Yes. Yes, he did.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:36 PM
Dec 2017

This was Franken trying to show the world and other assholes how to take an accusation seriously.

To validate the other persons' experience. To state understanding for why someone might feel bad about this or that. It's what actual human beings do when someone tells them they have hurt them.

And to show that it doesn't matter what our own intentions are when you hurt someone. What matters is that they feel hurt, and a real human acknowledges and validates the other's feelings.

It is how you treat a real accusation. Which is great. Except when you are dealing with ratfuckers like this crowd, who aren't making real accusations.

Voltaire2

(13,014 posts)
54. So he was lying when he said she was asleep and unable to consent?
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:51 PM
Dec 2017

Er, no I think that's not what happened. This point does however wreak havoc with your theory so you have to explain it away.

ProfessorPlum

(11,256 posts)
61. he was responding to her allegation by taking her claims seriously
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:58 PM
Dec 2017

Even if he thought it was bullshit, remembered it a completely different way, or thinks that maybe she is sincerely mis-remembering the incident.

For the sake of argument, he was taking her allegations seriously and at face value. Even though the charge of groping her through a flak jacket while she slept and he posed mischievously for a photograph is fucking nonsense on its face.

this is what someone does when someone says you've hurt them. You don't tell them their feelings are wrong - you acknowledge their feelings, validate them as a person, and state why they might feel that way.

God, even his being an exemplar of the most humane way to deal with someone who says you hurt them works against him. As your misunderstanding shows.

Voltaire2

(13,014 posts)
109. No he explicitly stated that "she didn't have any ability to consent."
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 10:30 AM
Dec 2017

That is unambiguous. And it destroys your theory.

ProfessorPlum

(11,256 posts)
113. just because you don't understand it
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 01:52 PM
Dec 2017

or are pretending to not understand it doesn't mean that you are reading it correctly.

LakeArenal

(28,817 posts)
56. Has any one ever seen Benny Hill
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:54 PM
Dec 2017

Lots and lots of folks think this stuff is funny. I have seen worse on Bob Hope USO Specials.

LakeArenal

(28,817 posts)
111. Most of the soldiers at a USO show....
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 10:49 AM
Dec 2017

Are teenage soldiers. I don’t know what the nuance is anyway. I know many 45 men who loved Benny Hill.

Whiskeytide

(4,461 posts)
70. But you understand ...
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:07 PM
Dec 2017

... that refers to her consent to go along with the joke. NOT her consent to be groped. She doesn’t get to claim she was sexually assaulted by what occurred in the photo (although that is EXACTLY What she claimed - she has ZERO credibility because of that).

If her complaint was “they used me for a crude joke and I didn’t appreciate it”, I would say fair enough. Al should - and did - apologize for that. That should be the end of it.

But that’s not what happened here. They used the photo out of context - PROMOTED it out of context - and it caught fire as something it wasn’t. She was not sincere in her victimhood. It was a put on.

She showed the photo to Hannity 10 years ago. Neither she nor Hannity thought then that it was evidence of sexual assault. But they got together again a month or two ago, and in the wave of the MeToo movement, decided to pull a takedown op.

This shit diminishes victims of assault just as insidiously as actually blaming victims. And Tweeden, Stone and Hannity are laughing every time a Dem says “it’s good that Al resigned”.

 

tonedevil

(3,022 posts)
85. Oddly...
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:58 PM
Dec 2017

Hannity did say she had shown it to him years ago. That was after she said she had never shared it.

Whiskeytide

(4,461 posts)
97. My theory - Someone was having a drink ...
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 09:18 PM
Dec 2017

... somewhere - could have been any of them - and remembered that pic. They figured they could use it, put a story about a forced kiss that was “just the two of them” (convenient) to spice it up. I don’t know if the next two were orchestrated or just pile ons. They hoped a few more would pop up. The “he grabbed my waist” lady looks like a genuine misperception. And then a couple of anonymous claims.

It’s just shit. It’s a shame. He’s a good guy I think, and doesn’t deserve this. But he pissed off the wrong assholes, I guess.

 

tonedevil

(3,022 posts)
100. The out for a drink...
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 09:59 PM
Dec 2017

origin theory seems plausible. I want to know why we only heard from Melanie Morgan once? Lindsay Menz gets credit for being the second accuser, but Ms. Morgan said that the Senator stalked her after they appeared together on Politically Incorrect before that. It seems her story didn't have sex in it so she got written out of the show.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
96. You seem to have a false impression of the meaning of those words
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 09:15 PM
Dec 2017

“But in responding to their claims I also wanted to be respectful of that broader conversation, because all women deserve to be heard and their experiences taken seriously.

I think that was the right thing to do. I also think it gave some people the false impression that I was admitting to doing things that in fact I haven't done.

Some of the allegations against me are simply not true. Others I remember very differently.”

He wasn’t admitting to groping her. He was apologizing for involving her in a tasteless gag photo, while not shitting all over the millions of ACTUAL victims out there.

zentrum

(9,865 posts)
48. And the alter
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:40 PM
Dec 2017

…of Dem weakness.

(But, IMO, Kelsey Grammar really is a pretentious ass—as are most right wingers.)

 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
55. Thanks for calling it what it is...
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:53 PM
Dec 2017

A political assassination.

No hearings, no trial, bang you are dead Senator Franken, GTFO now!


PatrickforO

(14,570 posts)
58. No, actually he has been crucified on a cross of
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:55 PM
Dec 2017

Democratic Party hypocrisy. Specifically, he has been sacrificed at the Kirsten Gillibrand and Kamala Harris altar of presidential ambition.

But, hey, don't worry. Come primary season, I won't be forgetting this. In fact, I just called Gillibrand's office and told her to expect major blowback from this miscalculation in my state, because that's what I'm hearing from the base on the ground.

mn9driver

(4,424 posts)
77. Agree.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:34 PM
Dec 2017

I won’t be forgetting the names of any of the folks who decided to run him out based on pretty thin allegations of nothing worse than being too handsy.

Al’s political career is over. As far as I’m concerned, so are theirs.

ffr

(22,669 posts)
59. And she's a Tweet friend of tRump Jr. for Pete's sake!
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:56 PM
Dec 2017

She's a tRump groupy who brags about wanting to golf with tRump and corresponds with Jr. semi-regularly.

Does she have bone to pick with Al Franken? You bet she does!!

ancianita

(36,023 posts)
62. Occasional nuisance behavior is nowhere near years and years of sexual predation.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 06:59 PM
Dec 2017

The guy's being crucified on the altar of silly Democratic "both sides do it" fear.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
65. And the altar of Liberal Purity.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:03 PM
Dec 2017

Or, I hate to say it, but, Feminist Purity.

No, #BelieveWomen doesn’t mean forget about investigation and dive in to believe any piece of made-up partisan bullshit thrown out by someone who is professionally sexually inappropriate and a trumpanzee.

trof

(54,256 posts)
68. It's called "mugging" for the camera.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:06 PM
Dec 2017

And it is physically impossible to 'grope' someone through a flak jacket.
Hold a cast iron frying up in front of your chest.
Ask someone to grope you through it.

 

TheFrenchRazor

(2,116 posts)
106. would he grab a man's butt? or a child's butt? people clearly know what they think they can get away
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 04:08 AM
Dec 2017

get away with, what will be considered socially acceptable. i think a lot of women are tired of this kind of treatment being socially acceptable; clearly there is some disagreement on this, even right here on DU.

DeltaLitProf

(769 posts)
72. A waste of time
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:18 PM
Dec 2017

If Tweeden's were the only allegation, maybe there'd be some merit in pursuing this. But several other women, most of them Democrats, have also come forward. And their stories are consistent with one another.

Give it up.

Response to DeltaLitProf (Reply #72)

dansolo

(5,376 posts)
119. Correction - most of them are anonymous
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 06:23 PM
Dec 2017

We have no idea who half of the accusers are, and no way of verifying any aspects of their stories. Three of the accusers are Republicans, with the first one being a close associate of Sean Hannity. And the last one claimed that he groped her waist while taking a picture with her. Really? Is that the standard now?

tandem5

(2,072 posts)
81. I agree. It is important to be accurate about the accusation...
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 07:55 PM
Dec 2017

And this all falls under the current theme of distorted facts trumping reality: All we can do is operate off of what has been claimed and what the existing evidence shows. In this case she said that she had been asleep when it happened. I'm not aware of any confirmed claim that others witnessed him touching her. So she cannot say for certain he made contact and by all appearances it looks like a gag photo.

So in terms of the accusation all one can reasonably say is that it appears as though he was part of a gag photo in which it was made to appear that he was touching her. So in those terms the argument can be made that is was wrong for him to use her in the photo without her consent and that is a very real, and valid claim, but absent of any additional information that should've been how the media presented it, but instead it was sloppily registered as a check mark under the "groping" column.

As a slightly off-topic note that adds credence to the idea that it was a gag photo. A 2003 (not 2006) Christmas in Kuwait event appears to show a scripted act in which it is recommended that she should have a 'breast examination' and in response Franken holds out his hands in a similar way to the photo. I want to be clear though that even if the photo might stem from a reenactment of a scripted element in a show it would still be wrong if she were not awake at the time and "in" on the joke.

Additionally I think the topic of the USO tours was not adequately presented by the media. These shows are historically bawdy and over the top. This is not an excuse for Franken, but it does offer a fair context.

None of this takes away from the veracity of the other claims and that's the point. We need to emphasize that each accusation made should be addressed uniquely and seriously on its own merits. We shouldn't be afraid of being accurate because we are afraid it might jeopardize other claims or the larger movement. If we play that game of mutual dependency we help the likes of Steve Bannon destroy everything with one calculated fabrication.

MrPurple

(985 posts)
87. Didn't he shoot the photo with Tweeden's cell phone?
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 08:12 PM
Dec 2017

It was obviously just a prank of a goofy photo that she would stumble on later as a laugh. They were on a USO tour where they were doing a comedy sketch of him lusting for her. This whole thing is what Al described in his book as "the dehumorizer".

I would expect that Fox would purposely misrepresent the situation, but it's kind of surprising that no one in the MSM described the correct context of what this picture was. I guess it was better for their ratings to have another case in the explosion of sexual harassment scandals, but SOMEONE should have differentiated that this was NOT that,

hurple

(1,306 posts)
88. Plus
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 08:17 PM
Dec 2017

several other witnesses at the scene have said it was a POSED photo with full participation and approval from Tweeden!!!

riverwalker

(8,694 posts)
90. There were witnesses
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 08:51 PM
Dec 2017

The photographer, the guy in the next seat, across the aisle, it was a packed plane. Franken should hire a private dick to get their statements down.

 

MrModerate

(9,753 posts)
92. You're overcomplicating it. It was just goofy. A goofy, staged, consensual promo shot.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 08:52 PM
Dec 2017

Franken had a professional responsibility to be goofy and the shot was. The subtlety of the subtext never rose above "hubba-hubba."

Which was as it should be.

riverwalker

(8,694 posts)
93. When Tweeden came out with the original story
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 08:57 PM
Dec 2017

She said “he groped me”. When clearly he didn’t. Why did she say that?

suegeo

(2,573 posts)
95. If only there could be an investigation to find out the answer to that!
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 09:11 PM
Dec 2017

I am from Minnesota and I feel violated. By women "leaders" in my own party.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
124. she backed off and said how she accepted the apology and didn't want him to resign
Sun Dec 10, 2017, 05:49 AM
Dec 2017

and how he was a good senator.

they are all very much opposed to any investigation.

chowder66

(9,067 posts)
99. Mocked groping.
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 09:39 PM
Dec 2017

It's like a little kid who sees boobs and acts like he's grabbing them. Immature for an adult male...but he's a comedian.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
101. It's all moot now
Fri Dec 8, 2017, 10:15 PM
Dec 2017

I've been trolling the Alabama news sites with comments about Moore. Posing as a Southern Baptist who is just not going to vote this time out of disgust in my "hometown" of Mobile. Cheered me up a bit and got my mind off this mess.

Is that bad?

lark

(23,093 posts)
112. NO, he's being crucified by complicit dems for their own advancement.
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 10:50 AM
Dec 2017

I know repugs are traitors and oligarchs first, but to have Dems do this is just astounding to me. I can't believe the depths of treachery that exists that they would allow a rw saboteur to force franken out of office without giving him a hearing. It's the dems who stabbed the country in the back, helping repugs kill one of the most effective curbs on the repug machine.

RVN VET71

(2,690 posts)
114. Nailed it except for one thing:
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 02:57 PM
Dec 2017

It wasn't GOP hypocrisy that did Al in. It was Democratic cowardice; tempered by not a little contempt for our intelligence. The Party moved against Franken not because any one of them really felt offended by Franken's photos but because they thought the majority of us would be.

My greatest disappointment in this whole extremely disappointing affair: Elizabeth Warren and Bernie Sanders.

I'll still vote for Senator Warren when she gets the Democratic nomination in 2020, but my vote will be against the GOP rather than for her. I'll vote against any Republican because all Republicans favor pedophilia over health care and deficit reduction. But I see through the whole Democratic Party as representing virtue without strength of conviction or honor.

Lily Tomlin's words have never rung truer than after the Democratic sacrifice of Franken to the GOP: I try to be cynical, but it's so hard keeping up.

marble falls

(57,077 posts)
116. " Kelsey Grammar pretending to be a pretentious asshole." its not so much pretending ....
Sat Dec 9, 2017, 04:54 PM
Dec 2017
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1310273/Kelsey-Grammer-launches-Tea-Party-TV-Actor-public-face-new-right-wing-U-S-network.html

Kelsey Grammer launches 'Tea Party TV': Actor becomes public face of new right-wing U.S. network

By Mail Foreign Service
Updated: 07:08 EST, 9 September 2010

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[caption]

Kelsey Grammer has become the public face of a new U.S. network dubbed 'Tea Party TV'.

The actor is also an investor in RightNetwork, which launched today.

The network presents entertainment designed to appeal to political conservatives.

It has been dubbed 'Tea Party TV' by various left-wing blogs and news outlets for its political leanings, and because the network was working closely with the Tea Party in preparation for its launch.

Mr Grammer said the network represented a desire by him and some political friends 'to stop allowing people who hate us to define us'.

'If you have NBC, ABC, you have entire networks flooded with a very particular point of view,' he said.

'They won't admit it, but it's clearly the way it is. There's plenty of room for us.'

He added: 'We're not out to vilify or accuse or identify anybody as an enemy... We're out there to encourage people to open their minds and take a look at some things that we as a group of people believe is the right direction for the country.'

Mr Grammer said he 'came out' as a conservative in Hollywood 20 years ago.

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