Alabama bill would let ministers refuse same-sex marriages
Source: Associated Press
Alabama bill would let ministers refuse same-sex marriages
| May 6, 2015 | Updated: May 6, 2015 9:14pm
MONTGOMERY, Ala. (AP) A bill working its way through the Alabama Legislature would allow probate judges and ministers to refuse to marry same-sex couples on religious grounds.
The Senate Judiciary Committee on Wednesday heard passionate testimony about the bill that the sponsor says came about after a brief period of legalized gay marriage in Alabama.
Proponents say the bill would protect religious beliefs, but opponents say it opens the door to broader discrimination of same-sex couples and other groups.
Rep. Jim Hill says he brought the bill, which has already passed the House, after a federal judge ruled that Alabama's gay marriage ban was unconstitutional. He says the legislation wouldn't prevent gay couples from marrying.
Read more: http://www.chron.com/news/us/article/Alabama-bill-would-let-ministers-refuse-same-sex-6247480.php
rpannier
(24,329 posts)It doesn't matter the reason. They just don't
There are plenty of ministers that won't perform marriages of people from differing religions, that are of different races, etc
It's perfectly legal
Judges shouldn't have that option
They're a state employee.
Leave their damned religion at the workplace door or find another job
Hekate
(90,645 posts)You took the words right out of my mouth. Ministers, priests, rabbis, imams, clergy of any stripe -- ALL are entitled to follow the rules of their faith when it comes to performing their sacraments.
When I married my husband, we would never have had the arrogance to walk into a Roman Catholic church and demand the priest marry us. Neither of us is Catholic, both of us had been divorced, and my husband is Jewish, and for any and all of those reasons a Catholic priest would have the right to refuse. My husband wanted to get married "under the chuppah" but the local rabbi wanted me to convert first. So we asked the Unitarian Universalist minister to officiate at our wedding, and he did so without hesitation. (The UUs, btw, likewise have no difficulty with gay marriages.)
However, a public official is sworn to uphold secular law, and when secular law says that any two consenting adults are eligible to wed, judges, justices of the peace, and county clerks are bound by law to comply. And that is as it should be.
thats their plan!
LiberalFighter
(50,888 posts)Even if the bride and groom are members of the same church as the clergy person.
malthaussen
(17,187 posts)But apparently this bill applies to probate judges as well. Not a good idea.
-- Mal
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)Little Tich
(6,171 posts)Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)It is nothing more than codified bigotry.
Little Tich
(6,171 posts)Perhaps, if a priest refuses to marry a same-sex couple, perhaps he (or she) should be obligated to provide a substitute priest to do it. That would make both parties happy, I think.
pnwmom
(108,976 posts)open to anyone.
Anyone who is turned away by a priest has the option of going to a judge or other public servant, who should not be allowed to turn them away under any circumstances.
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)I went through the same here in OK. We couldn't even get a Justice of the Peace once the anti-marriage equality law was shot down in OK. I had to be married by a minister. I am Jewish; it was far from ideal, but at least we are able to get it done. A civil servant shouldn't have a "religious exemption."
Little Tich
(6,171 posts)And if they do, they shouldnt remain civil servants.
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)muriel_volestrangler
(101,307 posts)It's allowing the public servants to refuse to carry out their duties that is the crappy part of the bill that should be stopped. eg the discussion on the Scottish marriage bill:
"Registrars are employed to deliver a public function and may be required to solemnise same sex marriages.
"This is similar to requirements that have been placed on some registrars since the Civil Partnerships Act 2004, meaning many have been required to perform civil partnerships as part of their duties."
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-highlands-islands-21800035
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)It would be the equivalent of passing a law saying the sun must rise in the east.
JustAnotherGen
(31,810 posts)Its not religious officiants - its the ones supported by tax payers that I have a problem with. IE Probate judges. You don't want to do your job for everyone equally? You're fired!
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)No one is trying to make religious leaders marry everyone. That's absurd. It is nothing more than trying to codify bigotry. They don't want government interfering with religion, but they sure want government to support their religious bigotry. It really irritates me so many don't really see the real issue.
jwirr
(39,215 posts)than that the government does not have the right to establish religion. Thank God. Can you imagine what rw theology would mean to all our laws? Well, yes, you can imagine it. It is happening to you.
Many churches limit who they will marry. Most only allow members to marry in the church. Many today require so many counseling visits before they will even marry members. They also refuse to marry someone who appears to be a very good candidate for divorce. They also refuse to marry couples from other denominations. Years ago they would not marry racially mixed couples.
I realize that this is a true form of discrimination but I do not see our courts overturning a religious law.
What I do think will change this (and already has in some churches) is time. The laws are in your favor now - let people see that all the things they have imagined would happen (when you were actually recognized as legal) are not going to happen.
If we could look ahead in the future I think we will see a very different world. The youth are changing a lot of attitudes and that is not going to change.
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)The minister who married us usually only marries people from his church and requires 6 hours of pre-marital counseling. However, after the anti-equality law was over turned in Oklahoma, he amend his ways because the state allowed JOP/clerks to deny marrying gay people, if they stopped all marriages, which is what happened in many counties. He figured since we had been together for 13 years, counseling wasn't really needed. He was even respectful enough not to mention Jesus in his brief speech and allowed for my Jewish traditions.
"I realize that this is a true form of discrimination but I do not see our courts overturning a religious law."
I am afraid that may be the case too. If the SC does the right thing, we may see more places enact similar laws. So, while gays will be allowed to legally married, it will be a chore, possibly a feat, to find someone to do it. It will be similar to women who wish to terminate a pregnancy; legally they can do it, but it can be a real hassle to find a place that will do it, and avoid places that trick you.
jwirr
(39,215 posts)through this with my sister who married a black man. She found a minister and he married them in a park in their town.
pnwmom
(108,976 posts)to discriminate.
Ministers aren't required anywhere to marry same-sex couples.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)that right. Just another superfluous law to feed their sheep some red meat.
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)If that is removed, then it would be, as you said, superfluous. However, as it is written, it is an attempt to codify bigotry and pre-emptively "defend" themselves from a possibility the SC will rule in favor of marriage equality. There will be more of these bills to come.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)A lawyer would have to explain to me whether - given the supreme court does the right thing in June - that would make this law unconstitutional. I swear, I will never understand these losers.
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)Would these laws be unconstitutional? One thing is for sure, it will make it more difficult for gay people and involve even more court cases.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)shenmue
(38,506 posts)Anti-leprechaun jerks.
Nitram
(22,791 posts)That's what religion does. If a gay couple want to be married in a church, they just need to find a gay-friendly one. The Catholic Church in Tokyo (where I was living at the time) wouldn't let my wife and I get married there because I am not a Catholic and she is not a Christian (although the Bishop told us my being a Protestant was more problematic than my wife being a "heathen" .
jwirr
(39,215 posts)TheSarcastinator
(854 posts)This is exactly correct: churches should never be held to the same standards of equal access as the rest of the nation simply because the belief systems upon which they rely are based in prejudice, bigotry and exclusion -- we certainly could never expect them to change in order to make a more equal and just society. Just as a Catholic cathedral may refuse service to non-Catholic couples, so too should Evangelical churches be allowed to refuse service to miscegenated couples, gay couples, and anyone else they find to be outside of their ring of salvation.
Why? Religion is SPECIAL.
Nitram
(22,791 posts)I'd rather be married by an open-minded minister than a bigot.
LiberalFighter
(50,888 posts)Eliminate the middle man. Fill out the marriage license. Have the clerk sign and notarize it. Now considered married.
immoderate
(20,885 posts)--imm
beachbum bob
(10,437 posts)seems like more hyperbole than anything else
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)They are civil servants.
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)Justice Alito had asked what about a brother and sister marrying?
If marriage is not specifically about a man, a woman, and procreation - traditional family - would it be discriminatory for a brother and sister, who lived together, loved each other of course, had no on else to leave property and values too, would it be discriminatory to ban marriage, especially if they are not incestuous, especially if sexual relationship can not be a determinant?
I was a little confused by the answer in court, but since it was asked can we expect the Supreme Court to be real specific on what is marriage?