Bernie Sanders says the tone of the Democratic presidential race has become too personal
Source: W Post
By John Wagner
CONCORD, N.H. -- Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) said Saturday that he thinks the Democratic race for the White House has become too personal as supporters of Hillary Rodham Clinton have accused him and his campaign of taking on a sexist tone.
I do, and I think that is unfortunate, Sanders told reporters at a news conference called here to tout endorsements from a statewide postal workers union and two local trade unions.
We disagree on a number of the issues, but I dont think we want to make this campaign personal, and I have tried my best not to do that, Sanders said. A serious election is a debate on the issues. Thats called democracy, not attacking people on a personal level.
Sanders has been fending off suggestions of sexism from Clinton boosters since late last week, when Clinton took issue with one of Sanderss comments on gun control from the first Democratic debate in Las Vegas. Sanders said that he favors sensible solutions to reduce violence but told Clinton that all the shouting in the world is not going to do what I hope all of us want.
FULL story at link.
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Bernie Sanders takes part in a presidential debate sponsored by CNN on Oct. 13. (Photo by Joe Raedle/Getty Images)
Read more: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-politics/wp/2015/10/31/bernie-sanders-says-the-tone-of-the-democratic-presidential-race-has-become-too-personal/
mdbl
(8,650 posts)I hope Bernie can win the nomination whether it gets personal or not, but history proves it will only get worse. All Bernie can do is have the answers ready when the BS starts to fly.
forest444
(5,902 posts)I think she did herself no favors by insinuating that Bernie is somehow sexist, and that his comments to the effect that there's too much shouting about gun control were somehow directed at her.
She should understand by now that these aren't GOP zombies she's talking to, and that saying things like that only comes off an insults to everyone's intelligence - nothing more.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)that his comments weren't directed to her.
The hell they weren't. She, unlike Bernie, had never raised her voice in the debate. But when a woman speaks with determination, that's often how she will be perceived.
And no one has ever answered: how come Bernie can shout about any issue he wants, but it isn't helpful for people to do that who are concerned about gun control?
wordpix
(18,652 posts)of the US and he shows it. He sometimes shows he's just about had it and is not gonna take it anymore. And that's the way I feel, too.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)So why don't you view him as a shouter?
Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)And he didn't claim shouting was bad. He said it didn't solve issues.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)I don't know what your definition of singling her out is, but his statement was a direct response to hers.
Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)pnwmom
(110,261 posts)Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)And I have perfect hearing and vision.
MADem
(135,425 posts)It's a bit one-note, after a bit. It sounds too much like a litany of complaints.
Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)Rather amazing, I didn't think that was possible.
MADem
(135,425 posts)The guy has a long record of yelling:
Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)Nothing wrong with shouting when it is called for,
daleanime
(17,796 posts)you will see Bernie as sexist, facts or not. Just don't expect to convince any one else. Have a lovely evening.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)when he's the only one on the stage who IS shouting.
And I don't blame her for perceiving that as sexism, because that's not an uncommon reaction to women speaking definitively.
daleanime
(17,796 posts)You know very well that he was talking about the conflict over the subject, not any single person. But that wouldn't be useful, would it? You did notice that she won't take credit for it, just wants it floating out there in case it's useful, if it turns out not to be she will of course deny ever having meant it. Still enjoy a lovely evening.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)have to deal with.
Would you believe her on the same subject?
cui bono
(19,926 posts)Thanks!
I don't see anyone putting forth that there is no sexism in government so you can give up your strawman argument.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)cui bono
(19,926 posts)I take it you can't. If you can, then you're just playing a game here since you haven't posted it.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)She never said that.
Her supporters, however, have pointed out that he said to her, "Senator Clinton, shouting about guns . . ." just after she was calmly speaking about guns -- not shouting.
And that was a strange thing for him to say since he was the only person shouting in the whole debate.
Karma13612
(4,982 posts)Hillary herself has not said Bernie was being sexist.
Her campaign staff has.
And here is lynch pin: She is not denying the claim.
If she does not deny the Hillary staff assertions that Bernie is sexist, then she is supporting the claim that Bernie is sexist. It goes directly to the concept that her campaign and it's staff represent her.
Welcome to triangulation and dirty politics. She doesn't get her hands dirty at all.
But, Bernie is smeared.
Francois9
(54 posts)July 5, 2015
We have been yelling and screaming at each other about guns for decades with very little success...
July 26, 2015
And what I said is that as a nation, we can't continue screaming at each other, or else we've got to find common ground.
July 26, 2015
...stop shouting at each other and come forward with sensible ideas.
August 29, 2015
...but I think that people just shouting at each other and going nowhere in a hurry in trying to address that issue is not doing anybody any good...
August 30, 2015
...I think I can get beyond the noise and all of these arguments and people shouting at each other and come up with real, constructive gun control legislation...
September 3, 2015
I think that I can play a good role in working with both sides on this issue so that we can get beyond the screaming at each other and the contentiousness that exists
October 1, 2015
But what we need, Chris, as a nation is to get beyond the shouting.
and
So, I think the job is to bring people together and say, yes, we`ve got to move forward, we`ve got to move forward aggressively, stop the shouting and let`s work together to do something that`s realistic.
October 2, 2015
...and the President is right. Condolences are not enough. We've got to do something. We've got to stop shouting at each other...
October 5, 2015
The status quo clearly is not working and people on both sides of this issue cannot simply continue shouting at each other.
October 10, 2015
...instead of people yelling at each other, we have got to come together...
October 11, 2015
What I did say is that we keep shouting at each other, which is what has been going on here for 20 years
In addition to having used the "shouting" theme for quite some time prior to the debate, Sanders has also used this theme in a plural sense, using words and phrases such as "we", "each other", "both sides", "as a nation", and "people". Sanders never uses this theme in reference to any individual, including Secretary Clinton.
It's important to note as well that in the last quote shown above, which dates from two days before the debate, Sanders refers to the "shouting" having taken place over the last 20 years. It seems fairly apparent that Sanders was not referring to Clinton in that statement, as he and Secretary Clinton have only been running against each other for five months and not twenty years.
The bottom line is, this is not an honest assessment of Sanders' statement by Secretary Clinton. I knew immediately that Senator Sanders has been using the "shouting" theme for months because I've listened to his interviews and speeches. You know who else listens to Sanders' interviews and speeches? That's right, Secretary Clinton's crack opposition research team does. Secretary Clinton knows full well that Sanders' comment in the debate was not aimed at her specifically, and that it was aimed, as it always has been, at the two warring sides in the gun control debate.
As political strategist James Carville is reputed to have said, When your opponent is drowning, throw the son of a bitch an anvil. The attack on Sanders' character is certainly a very nice anvil. It also happens to be wrong.
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2015/10/27/1440438/-Bernie-Hillary-and-guns-all-over-but-the-shouting#
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)but he can tell Hillary when it is and isn't appropriate? And she's supposed to realize that he ALWAYS says shouting isn't appropriate about gun control (and only gun control)?
Marty McGraw
(1,024 posts)Shouting as well but don't take it as a negative. And do understand what is perceived by me is not necessarily so with others. Almost seems like it is a per-requisite for a politician to get elected and in Bernie's case, crowds will gather around unexpectedly without the luxury of having a microphone around and am sure the raised voice is more habit than anything else.
Francois9
(54 posts)The point is that he wasn't attributing "shouting" to Hillary, but to the usual participants on both sides of the gun control debate, who have been shouting instead of arguing rationally. Did you see all those quotes in the article I posted where he uses the word "shouting" to describe with the gun control controversy? Only a paranoid (or paranoid by proxy) would think that he was attributing "shouting" specifically to Hillary.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)saying that the "usual participants" "have been shouting instead of arguing rationally."
Why, after Hillary makes a calm, reasoned comment, is this an appropriate moment to bring up "participants" who shout instead of "arguing rationally." She WAS arguing rationally. So why did he address this comment to her -- as he did, directly. (Even naming her.)
You are sliding into the same error that he did.
Francois9
(54 posts)You begin noticing slights where you never saw them before. They must be slights because that's what your world view tells you, regardless of how the facts may buck.
JudyM
(29,785 posts)He clearly has a pattern of characterizing the gun debate as an ongoing shouting match. Someone should get this in front of both him and Hillary to put this nonsense to bed.
I am also an ardent feminist with an acute sensitivity to veiled sexism, and this ain't it, IMO.
Red Knight
(704 posts)That's a reach at best. And even IF they had been it has nothing to do with sexism. If Bernie gets a little loud so be it. What the centrist Hillary supporters don't understand is that progressives have been marginalized in the party. His tone is our tone.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)on gun control.
And I don't care that he gets loud. It just seems hypocritical for him to call anyone else out on being loud.
cui bono
(19,926 posts)riversedge
(80,810 posts)See how that works!
INdemo
(7,024 posts)then her campaign polling numbers are not what is being reported.
Bernie Sanders was not shouting at Hillary..If you watched the debate you should realize what he meant.
Many forget the negative tone that Billary used against Obama in 2008 and many Democrats at the time issued statements calling for the negatives to stop.
It was Bill that brought the Rev Wright issue up in the 2008 campaign then ran and hid in the bushes like some little kid would do knowing he was the guilty party that broke the window.
Hillary is talking about issues Bernie brought up months ago and now claiming them as her own ("ideas?)
and the media is playing along with her.
Think she is not a corporate candidate?
Matariki
(18,775 posts)it's disingenuous to try to turn it into an issue of sexism.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)What difference does it make if it's a common turn of speech? Ordinary, garden variety sexism is common, too.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)I can't wait until the primaries are over. Sanders isn't sexist. Hillary isn't a monster. One of them will be our candidate in the General Election and hopefully everyone here will be able to lick their wounds and get behind that person.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)of raising their voices, or getting overly emotional, or shouting -- when they aren't. When the exact same behavior wouldn't even be noticed if it was done by a man.
This article was written about Elizabeth Warren, but it describes the situation all women in politics face. They're constantly trying to walk a tightrope that white males don't have to walk.
Now there seems to be some rule that you can feel one of two ways about remarks like Reids or Buffetts: that they are evidence that the person behind the remark is a stone cold sexist, or that they somehow arent worth talking about in the first place. But thats a disappointing trap. Especially now. More than ever, words like unconscious bias and soft sexism are part of the public vocabulary, but we still tend to treat real world examples of these things as insignificant outliers, no matter how many times we see them.
http://www.salon.com/2015/04/27/shes_very_disarming_why_we_still_judge_women_in_politics_on_their_ability_to_make_you_feel_comfortable/
Matariki
(18,775 posts)a = b : grass is green
b = c : green is a color
then c = a : color is grass
Like I said, I can't wait until the primaries are over.
Francois9
(54 posts)She just wouldn't bother.
peacebird
(14,195 posts)forest444
(5,902 posts)And welcome to DU, François. Bienvenue!
SoapBox
(18,791 posts)Others just want to cover their flip-flops and changing positions with dirty politics.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)But gun control isn't one of them.
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)It takes a very, VERY special kind of person to try to make Sanders into a sexist, a racist, a gun nut, and so on.
I deleted the rest. You probably need to hear it, but I deleted it anyway.
doc03
(39,086 posts)mostly his supports that are responsible for that. Oh if you don't think so just read the posts on page one of the latest threads.
azmom
(5,208 posts)Hillary is ahead in most polls, why even attack Bernie like that. She's coming across as an arrogant bully.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)99th_Monkey
(19,326 posts)because in the GE he's going to have to face many dirty tricks and personal attacks, guaranteed.
So this gives him some practice honing his already considerable skills at turning attacks to
his advantage, like when Hillary's PAC ran that nasty ad that instantly raised $1 million dollars
for Bernie's campaign.
Go Bernie!!!
riversedge
(80,810 posts)99th_Monkey
(19,326 posts)yep. he may need to do this, hopefully not much more in the primary, but keeping
the record straight is part of running a clean campaign not based on warrantless
personal attacks.
riversedge
(80,810 posts)99th_Monkey
(19,326 posts)please do have a happy Halloween! cheers
Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)Sounds like a sexist term to me. And gawd forbid we accuse Hillary of whining. Jheez, could you people plllleeeease take some of Hillary's advice and 'cut it out'?
MADem
(135,425 posts)ESL? Immigrant? I could see someone not understanding this common and oft-used reference in those cases.
If you were born/raised in USA, though, this is not an uncommon phrase. Affecting ignorance of it, or suggesting it is somehow 'sexist,' suggests you are either being snarky, or you have a gap in your education. Let me help you with that gap:
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/bone%20up
bone up
verb
Definition of BONE UP
intransitive verb
1
: to try to master necessary information quickly : cram <bone up for the exam>
2
: to renew one's skill or refresh one's memory <boned up on the speech just before giving it>
Examples of BONE UP
<I suggest you bone up a bit on torts before the next attempt at the bar exam.>
Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)And making fun of ESL students, how quaint.
riversedge
(80,810 posts)time to look up a word/term so you could learn what it means. Instead of accusing a fellow DU member of patronizing,- you could have done the polite thing and said Thank you. That would have been the right thing to do.
Marty McGraw
(1,024 posts)Here, really *is* a stretch. And her use of the word immigrant make us all feel like 'Foreign' or an 'Other'. It just knits this side of the aisle so much closer together.
riversedge
(80,810 posts)the learning of a new term --. If you want to discuss other concerns--bring it up with that poster, not me.
cui bono
(19,926 posts)time to look up a word/term so you could learn what it means. Instead of accusing a fellow DU member of patronizing,- you could have done the polite thing and said Thank you. That would have been the right thing to do.
riversedge
(80,810 posts)riversedge
(80,810 posts)MaDem. I hope next time you will take the time to look up a word/term instead of engaging in suppuration. Have a nice day.
Kalidurga
(14,177 posts)PaulaFarrell
(1,236 posts)I know the phrase well, but I took it as an inference that he was weak and unmanly as well. Used the way you used it, it doesn't make sense. What should he be studying?
Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)Shouting, it sounded sexists when he said the statement and when Clinton elaborated on his statement in a speech she is accused of calling him a sexists. She never said he was a sexists and since he has chosen not to apologize for his statement it appears he does not intends to apologize. Where does this leave him, he is the owner of his statement, he does not apologize. He has earned his title.
99th_Monkey
(19,326 posts)for months, in the same context on the same issue: guns.
Hillary threw the gender card down hard, it was a misplaced personal attack & it misfired,
just like Brocks slimy attack misfired.
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)Elmer S. E. Dump
(5,751 posts)Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)this is not the way it works, the consequences are Sanders. He has had more than ample time to apologize.
Elmer S. E. Dump
(5,751 posts)You seem to be here for one reason, and one reason only.
I respectfully decline to interact with you. Please don't ask me why.
I am, after all, a Gentleman.
Response to Elmer S. E. Dump (Reply #68)
Thinkingabout This message was self-deleted by its author.
Plucketeer
(12,882 posts)CRY BABIES gonna cry - end of story.
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)Sanders is not going to apologize for his statement, let it go. As a Clinton supporter I accept his decision not to apologize.
Elmer S. E. Dump
(5,751 posts)People here know the truth. You are just making yourself look badly. You should be ashamed but I bet that word is notin your dictionary.
George II
(67,782 posts)....now he says its "too personal" and I suppose he wants it to stop?
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)MADem
(135,425 posts)He always raises his voice while he's accusing others of shouting.
I don't think he, personally, is a sexist. The comment he made sounded condescending, though. The optics are just bad.
If you have to go back through the archives, and find examples where he yells at men about shouting, and say "See? Look! He does it to EVERYONE!" it suggests HE is the one who needs to "modulate his tone" and maybe speak a little more softly on occasion.
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)MADem
(135,425 posts)Plucketeer
(12,882 posts)If ONLY Bernie would emulate Ben Carson - why - he'd be practically perfect! Like all of us are.
billhicks76
(5,082 posts)I cant wait to see it ride off into the sunset with her ally Jeb Bush.
riversedge
(80,810 posts)billhicks76
(5,082 posts)Thanks for encouraging people to believe her lies and doing the world a disservice.
redstateblues
(10,565 posts)Elmer S. E. Dump
(5,751 posts)I can't speak for anyone but myself but Hillary has nowhere to go but down. Bernie and his minions have not yet begun to fight. The power of the people is what this nation and our constitution are supposed to be about.
I've said way too much. I'll leave it to others to add their 2 cents.
billhicks76
(5,082 posts)Good look with logic like that. Keep living in a bubble.
mwrguy
(3,245 posts)Poor Bernie.
NonMetro
(631 posts)Or her supporters.
True, she personally did not use the word "sexist" but she did this. She took an innocuous statement by Sanders about "shouting" and purposely turned it into a gender issue. A couple of days after the exchange about gun control, in which Sanders said all the "shouting" in the world won't do any good, she said "some people" think when a "woman talks", she's shouting.
She knew Sanders didn't mean it that way.
Yes, it's ugly. Hillary Clinton made it that way.
indivisibleman
(482 posts)Elmer S. E. Dump
(5,751 posts)NonMetro
(631 posts)And a lot of HRC supporters are quick to triumphantly point out that she didn't say "sexist" - as if they didn't know what she meant. They're being dishonest -and unfortunately, it would appear that needs to be pointed out to them. But they will also take offense if you do point it out!
peacebird
(14,195 posts)KingCharlemagne
(7,908 posts)a non-sexist issue.
Karma13612
(4,982 posts)wordpix
(18,652 posts)that is, if moderators ask the question
and we'll counter with minimum wage.
Elmer S. E. Dump
(5,751 posts)jtuck004
(15,882 posts)Bernblu
(441 posts)It's something Karl Rove Would be proud of and shows how low Clinton and her campaign will go.
George II
(67,782 posts)Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)that happens.
George II
(67,782 posts)George II
(67,782 posts)PatrickforO
(15,426 posts)She plays dirty and we saw it with Obama in 08. She'll milk this shouting thing for all its worth and then some. She has to. She can't hold a candle to Sanders on issues.
davidpdx
(22,000 posts)and insinuated that Barack Obama didn't.
Francois9
(54 posts)The disastrous war Hillary engineered against Libya shows that Hillary does not pass the "commander in chief threshold."
6000eliot
(5,643 posts)Beacool
(30,518 posts)They have attacked her relentlessly over a long time, but goodness forbid anyone says anything about their candidate of choice, then all hell brakes lose.
Either way, the whole thing is a big yawn, we all know who will actually win the nomination.
eridani
(51,907 posts)Her prior history on issues of concern to me is seriously lousy, with the exception of reproductive rights.
flamingdem
(40,891 posts)Hillary can't resist. Point for Bernie but the games work better with media reporting.
MyNameGoesHere
(7,638 posts)so stop shouting at me.
FreedomRain
(413 posts)Of course politicians shout. It's a standard rhetorical tool. I am positive Sanders knows quite well he himself uses it more than Clinton, and the remark clearly included himself in the label. His point was we should do more than that for once, because on this issue that's just about all we have ever done.
Vinca
(53,994 posts)This is American politics. At best it's dirty. Wait until Hillary's gang starts painting him as a Commie Pinko. You know it's coming.
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)get.
How and why in the world Hillary took it personally is beyond me.
Hillary was not shouting so the shouting word did not apply to her. She was not the only person on the stage or "in the world" talking about gun legislation.
Hillary is the sexist candidate here taking a statement that was innocuous out of context to play the victim of sexism. I'm not even sure she agrees with her surrogates who are screaming "sexist."
I'm a woman. I've personally suffered from sexism in my youth.
Bernie is not sexist, and his statement "all the shouting in the world" had nothing absolutely nothing to do with sex or gender. How could he have said what he said any differently? How about,"all, and I do not include you, Hillary in the word all because you are a woman, the screaming, and I am not accusing you, Hillary of screaming because since you are a woman I know you speak like a lady at all times and don't scream, in the world, such world not directed specifically to your world, Hillary bur rather to the entire world including all the men in this roon
This is a made-up controversy that makes Hillary look like an overly sensitive whiner.
djean111
(14,255 posts)It does not seem very "presidential". Just what we need - a thin-skinned hawk for a president.
you said it better than me.
cynzke
(1,254 posts)Seize on something your opponents says and use it against them. Bernie Sanders shouts at times. A fact. Nothing wrong with that. It is what Democrats should see in their candidates. Our government is messed up and we want to see someone who is passionate and as angry as we are. If Hillary wants to shout at times, that would be ok too. Now I do not believe that what Bernie said was a DELIBERATE (plotted) attack on Hillary. But the phrasing was easy to EXPLOIT from a political standpoint. I watched Hillary's speech and while she did not directly accuse Sanders by her words that he was being "sexist", there is no doubt she is IMPLYING it. This is standard practice of political campaigns today. Find a chink in the armor of your opponent and attack that weakness. I don't think it wise of Hillary or her supporters to dwell on this and try to make it an issue. Sanders does not truly appear to be sexist and we as Democrats should REJECT this type of campaigning. If a candidate is BLATANTLY flaunting a flaw in their character REPEATEDLY by comments they make, then by all means call them out on it and use it to your political advantage. But I think in this case, Sanders comment is being exaggerated and hyped for political purposes.
Evergreen Emerald
(13,096 posts)wambulance anyone?
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)Marty McGraw
(1,024 posts)wasted money is still stuck in the dumb-shit ever-so obvious mis-constructed way of advocating to only the more extreme conservative head out there and gets completely laughed at or ignored by the rest of us.
Didn't we all just love those anti-ObamaCare commercials the Kochs put up? Their tactics are tired & old and I can't see any production crew being all that enthused about creating one. A lot of people are desperate for a paycheck though.
Blasphemer
(3,623 posts)Yes, it would be nice if we had civil presidential elections but that's not happening anytime soon. If a candidate can't survive a relatively mild primary battle (it's like Wild West around here but the actually campaigns have barely scratched the surface of contention), then the general election would be a slaughter. As I decide on who to support this primary season, one thing I've looked for is fortitude. Dealing with decades of GOP mudslinging puts about a million checks in the Clinton column on that front.
sulphurdunn
(6,891 posts)I'm pretty sure there isn't much, if anything, HRC wouldn't do to win the nomination. That gives her a distinct advantage over any candidate with scruples.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)Much less elect people who will actually do anything about them. With all this grade school bullshit about who was shouting, who was accusing who of what blah blah blah. It's embarassing.
And how WILL we fix the gun control problem in this country? Who has the best ideas and why?
deutsey
(20,166 posts)Most of those in the news media do (ratings=$$$), of course, but I believe many others enjoy the thrill they feel in the reptile part of their brains when elections are reduced to petty personality squabbles or demonizing Muslims, immigrants, socialists, fill in the blank.
Start seriously talking (i.e., not just bloviating rhetoric) about how the economy has become increasingly rigged since Reagan to benefit a tiny elite and what needs to be done about, about our collapsing infrastructure and what needs to be done about it, about climate change and what needs to be done about it, and about other complex issues that profoundly affect us all and people's eyes glaze over.
The Second Stone
(2,900 posts)get out of the kitchen. Sen. Sanders has been handled with kid gloves by his opponents in the Democratic primary. If his skin is this thin, he certainly won't be able to serve as President. Whoever the nominee is, they are going to be savaged by the Republicans and the media. And they won't get anywhere whining about it. Just ask Obama. It's personal.