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TomCADem

(17,387 posts)
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 01:15 PM Jun 2016

Omar Mateen got 'very angry' seeing two men kissing, father tells NBC

Source: LA Times

Omar Mateen's father, Mir Seddique, spoke to NBC News about the shooting . "This had nothing to do with religion," he told the network.

"We were in downtown Miami, Bayside, people were playing music. And he saw two men kissing each other in front of his wife and kid and he got very angry," Seddique told NBC. "They were kissing each other and touching each other and he said, 'Look at that. In front of my son they are doing that.' And then we were in the men's bathroom and men were kissing each other."

Read more: http://www.latimes.com/nation/la-na-orlando-nightclub-shooting-live-omar-mateen-got-very-angry-seeing-two-1465749495-htmlstory.html



Edit to add that he was born in the U.S. contrary to earlier reports that he was an immigrant.

http://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/pulse-orlando-nightclub-shooting/os-omar-mateen-orlando-nightclub-shooting-story.html

Federal investigators are checking out local police reports that the Orlando nightclub shooter who killed 50 people at a gay venue pledged allegiance to Islamic State and said prayers to Allah during the attack, but haven't confirmed the information, a senior U.S. law enforcement official said Sunday.

The official, who spoke on the condition of anonymity to discuss internal assessments, said investigators think Omar Mateen is a U.S. citizen who was born in New York state to immigrant parents originally from Afghanistan.

He was abusive to his wife and recently angered by seeing two men kissing, relatives told media outlets.

Authorities say Mateen of Port St. Lucie was armed with an assault rifle and pistol when he shot at an Orlando officer outside the venue then moved inside where he opened fire on the hundreds inside.
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Omar Mateen got 'very angry' seeing two men kissing, father tells NBC (Original Post) TomCADem Jun 2016 OP
Good grief Imajika Jun 2016 #1
Homophobia ? busterbrown Jun 2016 #2
religion says death to gays and he kills gays. no coincidence at all.... nt msongs Jun 2016 #3
Its a Hate Crime. Religion Is Often Invoked To Justify Hate TomCADem Jun 2016 #5
Ummmm...no skepticscott Jun 2016 #7
Chicken and Egg - The Rise of the Religious Right Motivated By Race TomCADem Jun 2016 #11
So, he would not be a homophobe if he were not Muslim? rug Jun 2016 #16
Not remotely what I said or think skepticscott Jun 2016 #24
Ummmm...no rug Jun 2016 #26
So please show us skepticscott Jun 2016 #29
Hmmm . . .. could it be that Islam is a religion? rug Jun 2016 #30
I said "religion" skepticscott Jun 2016 #33
You don't think Islam is a religion? rug Jun 2016 #36
Like I said skepticscott Jun 2016 #38
It's pretty clear who's right here, scottie. rug Jun 2016 #39
"He was abusive to his wife" JI7 Jun 2016 #4
The gays ruined his marriage IronLionZion Jun 2016 #17
All too familiar Boomer Jun 2016 #6
Perhaps. Or not. Igel Jun 2016 #31
"This had nothing to do with religion," AlbertCat Jun 2016 #8
Religion Being Used To Justify Acts of Hate and Violence TomCADem Jun 2016 #12
Many folks manage to practice and observe their faith without going on a killing spree. AlbertCat Jun 2016 #13
Another piece says that his wife left him in 2011 bigworld Jun 2016 #9
NBC is saying that he pledged allegiance to ISIS. iandhr Jun 2016 #10
Post removed Post removed Jun 2016 #14
Post removed Post removed Jun 2016 #15
no and your post should be hidden too Kali Jun 2016 #28
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2016 #32
this is offensive to lgbt community JI7 Jun 2016 #19
Thank you! Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #22
Mark me down Aerows Jun 2016 #34
The Taliban supporting father? Very reliable! MowCowWhoHow III Jun 2016 #18
Religion is the main reason for bigotry. rockfordfile Jun 2016 #20
The father is blaming the kissing men and excusing his son's rage, and that's nasty and obviously Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #21
Victim blaming. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #23
"Our community is attacked and people want to make US the goddamned problem!" Aerows Jun 2016 #35
His religion informed his hatred of gay people. smirkymonkey Jun 2016 #25
I remember when I first watched "Six Feet Under" on HBO. Gomez163 Jun 2016 #27
Father is a Taliban-supporting POS. Odin2005 Jun 2016 #37
Islam is pretty homophobic bluestateguy Jun 2016 #40
He sounds like goddamn Ralph Wiggam ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #41

TomCADem

(17,387 posts)
5. Its a Hate Crime. Religion Is Often Invoked To Justify Hate
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 01:23 PM
Jun 2016

Robert Lewis, Jr., the person who shot up a planned parenthood, is not seen as a religious zealot, because he was Christian, but he did describe himself as a member of “Army of God,” a Christian antiabortion organization.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2016/04/12/the-twisted-remorselessness-of-accused-planned-parenthood-killer-robert-dear-jr/

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
7. Ummmm...no
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 01:34 PM
Jun 2016

Religion often generates hate that would not otherwise be there.

The notion that there is some minimum quota of hate and bigotry that human beings are predestined to express, and that if it wasn't motivated by religion, there would always be another cause, is just dopey apologist nonsense. This guy may not have been thinking right at that instant "God wants me to kill these people", but if not for the undercurrent of homophobic bigotry that religion has sown in this country for so many years, it's quite likely that his reaction would not have been what it was.

TomCADem

(17,387 posts)
11. Chicken and Egg - The Rise of the Religious Right Motivated By Race
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 01:42 PM
Jun 2016

In the 1970s, it was considered to be improper for Christians to get overly involved in political activities. However, when the IRS began cracking down on Christian universities because of they continued to engage in segregation, the religious right was formed. Of course, it was not a great argument to defend racist practices, so abortion became the focus of their efforts. Abortion did not give rise to the religious right. It was segregation.

http://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2014/05/religious-right-real-origins-107133_Page3.html#.V12eEPkrKUk

The Green v. Connally ruling provided a necessary first step: It captured the attention of evangelical leaders, especially as the IRS began sending questionnaires to church-related “segregation academies,” including Falwell’s own Lynchburg Christian School, inquiring about their racial policies. Falwell was furious. “In some states,” he famously complained, “It’s easier to open a massage parlor than a Christian school.”

One such school, Bob Jones University—a fundamentalist college in Greenville, South Carolina—was especially obdurate. The IRS had sent its first letter to Bob Jones University in November 1970 to ascertain whether or not it discriminated on the basis of race. The school responded defiantly: It did not admit African Americans.

Although Bob Jones Jr., the school’s founder, argued that racial segregation was mandated by the Bible, Falwell and Weyrich quickly sought to shift the grounds of the debate, framing their opposition in terms of religious freedom rather than in defense of racial segregation. For decades, evangelical leaders had boasted that because their educational institutions accepted no federal money (except for, of course, not having to pay taxes) the government could not tell them how to run their shops—whom to hire or not, whom to admit or reject. The Civil Rights Act, however, changed that calculus.

Bob Jones University did, in fact, try to placate the IRS—in its own way. Following initial inquiries into the school’s racial policies, Bob Jones admitted one African-American, a worker in its radio station, as a part-time student; he dropped out a month later. In 1975, again in an attempt to forestall IRS action, the school admitted blacks to the student body, but, out of fears of miscegenation, refused to admit unmarried African-Americans. The school also stipulated that any students who engaged in interracial dating, or who were even associated with organizations that advocated interracial dating, would be expelled.
 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
24. Not remotely what I said or think
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 03:55 PM
Jun 2016

But I understand why you keep trying to put words in my mouth, ruggie. It's the only way you have to win arguments.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
26. Ummmm...no
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 04:16 PM
Jun 2016
"Religion often generates hate that would not otherwise be there."

Your words precisely, scottie. Including the ellipsis.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
29. So please show us
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 04:37 PM
Jun 2016

where my "precise" words said anything about him being a Muslim, as you tried to attribute to me:

"he would not be a homophobe if he were not Muslim?"

That's YOUR exact statement, ruggie...and as noted, it's not what I said or think.

Try again. Or squirm some more...

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
30. Hmmm . . .. could it be that Islam is a religion?
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 04:41 PM
Jun 2016

One of those things that "often generates hate that would not otherwise be there."

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
33. I said "religion"
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 06:18 PM
Jun 2016

I did not specify Islam or Muslims, now did I? And yet you tried to pretend I did.

Keep trying to misrepresent what I said, ruggie. I'll let you know when you get it right.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
38. Like I said
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 08:23 PM
Jun 2016

When you get it right, I'll let you know.

Here's a hint, just because I feel sorry for you...All Islams are religions, but not all religions are Islams.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
39. It's pretty clear who's right here, scottie.
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 08:28 PM
Jun 2016

A rather disturbing display of someone running from the conclusions of his own words.

Not as disturbing, though, as seeing you rolling around laughing in this kind of thread.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
4. "He was abusive to his wife"
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 01:22 PM
Jun 2016

So it was just fine for him to be abusive to his wife and his son seeing that but 2 men kissing was the problem ?

IronLionZion

(45,431 posts)
17. The gays ruined his marriage
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 02:53 PM
Jun 2016

and caused the wife to leave him.



Which is probably how he justified it in his mind

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
6. All too familiar
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 01:25 PM
Jun 2016

Men who react with rage at seeing two men together betray their own deeply-seated fears of being gay themselves.

I'm so tired of my community being ravaged by this self-loathing turned against everyone else.

Igel

(35,300 posts)
31. Perhaps. Or not.
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 05:19 PM
Jun 2016

Imagine this: "A man who reacts with rage at a woman's being raped betray his own deeply-seated fears of being a rapist himself."

Or "A woman who reacts with rage at a black youth's being gunned down betrays her own deeply-seated fears of being a racist killer herself."

I doubt we'd think that of most people. Perhaps we'd think that of those we especially dislike, but then it's just our desire to insult them that's doing the "thinking."

Sometimes it might happen, but Freudian analysis is best left to psychiatrists who actually interact with the subject. Otherwise it comes off as puerile.

TomCADem

(17,387 posts)
12. Religion Being Used To Justify Acts of Hate and Violence
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 01:45 PM
Jun 2016

Many folks manage to practice and observe their faith without going on a killing spree.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
13. Many folks manage to practice and observe their faith without going on a killing spree.
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 01:49 PM
Jun 2016

So what.

Some folks manage to practice and observe their faith and do go on killing sprees because of them.

Same religions. Can be used, thru cherry picking, to justify all manner of stupid behavior.... and it is.

Religion is ridiculous.

bigworld

(1,807 posts)
9. Another piece says that his wife left him in 2011
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 01:36 PM
Jun 2016

so he's been thinking about the kissing for a loooong time it seems.

Response to TomCADem (Original post)

Response to Post removed (Reply #14)

Kali

(55,007 posts)
28. no and your post should be hidden too
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 04:22 PM
Jun 2016

you are essentially saying gays are so fucked up they hate themselves enough to kill other gays. that is fucking WRONG.

ASSHOLES are bigoted and filled with hate. PERIOD.

Response to Kali (Reply #28)

JI7

(89,247 posts)
19. this is offensive to lgbt community
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 03:00 PM
Jun 2016

Throughout history people have been hateful towards those who may be different in any way.

Behind the Aegis

(53,951 posts)
22. Thank you!
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 03:52 PM
Jun 2016

I am surprised it was hidden, even by a slim margin. I am fucking sick and tired of people who try to make this a "gay" issue, meaning it was because the attacker is "secretly gay." Some homophobes are homophobes because they are hate-filled assholes. Not a single fucking person claimed Stormm "secretly" wanted to be black when he massacred 9 African-American people. When someone murders a Muslim, NO ONE claims the person "secretly" wants to be Muslim, but every goddamned time, EVERY FUCKING TIME, a gay person is murdered, the murder is speculated to be a "secret" homo who hates himself. It is nothing more than victim blaming and maki8ng excuses for homophobia spewed from the non-GLBT community!!!

I am sick of it!

MowCowWhoHow III

(2,103 posts)
18. The Taliban supporting father? Very reliable!
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 02:56 PM
Jun 2016
Orlando shooting suspect’s father hosted a political TV show

The father of Omar Mateen, identified by police as the man behind the carnage at an Orlando nightclub early Sunday morning, is an Afghan man who holds strong political views, including support for the Afghan Taliban.

Seddique Mateen, who has been referred to as Mir Seddique in early news reports, hosted the “Durand Jirga Show” on a channel called Payam-e-Afghan, which broadcasts from California. In it, the elder Mateen speaks in the Dari language on a variety of political subjects. Dozens of videos are posted on a channel under Seddique Mateen's name on YouTube. A phone number and post office box that are displayed on the show were traced back to the Mateen home in Florida. Mateen also owns a nonprofit organization under the name Durand Jirga, which is registered in Port St. Lucie, Fla.

In one video, Mateen expresses gratitude toward the Afghan Taliban, while denouncing the Pakistani government.

“Our brothers in Waziristan, our warrior brothers in [the] Taliban movement and national Afghan Taliban are rising up,” he said. “Inshallah the Durand Line issue will be solved soon.”

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2016/06/12/orlando-shooting-suspects-father-hosted-a-political-tv-show-and-even-tried-to-run-for-the-afghan-presidency/?tid=sm_tw


 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
21. The father is blaming the kissing men and excusing his son's rage, and that's nasty and obviously
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 03:34 PM
Jun 2016

Dad taught him this hate, Dad being a big Taliban supporter and all.

Behind the Aegis

(53,951 posts)
23. Victim blaming.
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 03:53 PM
Jun 2016

And, like the rising of the sun, there are those assuming the shooter was "just really a self-loathing homo!" Our community is attacked and people want to make US the goddamned problem!

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
35. "Our community is attacked and people want to make US the goddamned problem!"
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 06:31 PM
Jun 2016

Bingo, and I'm getting seriously pissed off about it.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
25. His religion informed his hatred of gay people.
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 04:14 PM
Jun 2016

Therefore I think it was a major factor in this hate fueled massacre.

 

Gomez163

(2,039 posts)
27. I remember when I first watched "Six Feet Under" on HBO.
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 04:18 PM
Jun 2016

Yes, to see two men kissing was jarring. I never really ever saw that in person.

But I got over it and accepted that it was how life was.

People can love whoever they want.

bluestateguy

(44,173 posts)
40. Islam is pretty homophobic
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 09:32 PM
Jun 2016

More so than Christianity (which also still has a good many homophobes too).

But even most "moderate" Muslisms hold anti-gay views.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
41. He sounds like goddamn Ralph Wiggam
Sun Jun 12, 2016, 10:23 PM
Jun 2016
"They were kissing each other and touching each other and he said, 'Look at that. In front of my son they are doing that.' And then we were in the men's bathroom and men were kissing each other."


“Mrs. Krabappel and Principal Skinner were in the closet making babies and I saw one of the babies and the baby looked at me!”

Fucking cretins. Get the fuck out of this country if you don't like it. Go back to a country where murdering gay people and women is lauded and celebrated, you fucking scumbag.
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