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Freddie Stubbs

(29,853 posts)
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 11:49 AM Jun 2012

75 Percent of Women Say They Won't Date Unemployed Men

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Source: BusinessNewsDaily

While losing your job may be a devastating blow to your career aspirations, it may be an even bigger blow to your personal life, according to new research conducted by a dating service. A significant majority of women said they would not date a man who was unemployed. Just one-third of men said they would date an unemployed woman.

Overall, 75 percent of women said they would be unlikely to date an unemployed man, with 33 percent saying no outright. Another 42 percent of women answered maybe when asked about the possibility of dating an unemployed man. That answer, however, came with the stipulation that those women would not want to spend a lot of time in the relationship if the man did not have a plan in place. Just 21 percent of women said they would date an unemployed man.

Women, however, insist their feelings are not solely based on money. Rather, respondents said they were interested in dating someone who is engaged in an activity. Respondents felt that work was a beneficial activity for men to participate in.

"Not having a job will definitely make it harder for men to date someone they don't already know," said Irene LaCota, spokesperson for It's Just Lunch, a dating service for professionals that conducted the research. "This is the rare area, compared to other topics we've done surveys on, where women's old-fashioned beliefs about sex roles seem to apply."

Read more: http://news.yahoo.com/75-percent-women-wont-date-unemployed-men-113858283.html

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75 Percent of Women Say They Won't Date Unemployed Men (Original Post) Freddie Stubbs Jun 2012 OP
Cue the music dipsydoodle Jun 2012 #1
LOL maddezmom Jun 2012 #4
I've seen this first hand Drale Jun 2012 #2
Everybody has their litmus tests with dating bluestateguy Jun 2012 #3
Understandable NickB79 Jun 2012 #5
Not breaking news OKNancy Jun 2012 #6

dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
1. Cue the music
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 11:54 AM
Jun 2012

maddezmom

(135,060 posts)
4. LOL
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 11:56 AM
Jun 2012

Drale

(7,932 posts)
2. I've seen this first hand
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 11:56 AM
Jun 2012

They won't even date you if your unemployed but going to school. I finally found someone who doesn't care whether I have a job or not and loves the fact that I'm in school bettering myself. I'd say about 80% (I just made that percentage up) of women are never going to find someone to love who will treat them right unless they get off their high horse especially in this economy. I'm not talking about lowering your standards but just because someone doesn't have a job does not mean they are not looking for one and that they are not a good person.

bluestateguy

(44,173 posts)
3. Everybody has their litmus tests with dating
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 11:56 AM
Jun 2012

Some men and women will refuse to date outside of their religion, or cross certain religions off their list of acceptable dates.

Some men refuse to date fat women.

Regretabbly, race is a factor in dating for some men and women.

In recent years we have seen that even a person's politics can even be a deal breaker to a potential date.

NickB79

(20,357 posts)
5. Understandable
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 12:04 PM
Jun 2012

It's stressful to be the breadwinner of the relationship, knowing that if anything happened to your job you'd both be out on the street. A good friend of mine recently broke up with her fiance because of his perennial unemployment/underemployment.

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
6. Not breaking news
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 12:05 PM
Jun 2012

1. originally posted at businessnewsdaily over 24 hours ago
2. it's more of a feature article/soft news
3. it's not really "Important news of national interest only"

Probably be better to post it in Good Reads or General discussion

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