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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Tue May 22, 2018, 04:57 PM May 2018

Texas school shooting suspect's father thinks he was bullied

Source: Associated Press




SANTA FE, Texas (AP) — A 17-year-old student accused of fatally shooting 10 people at a Texas high school should be seen as a “victim” because he may have recently been bullied, causing him to lash out, his father said.

In a phone interview over the weekend with Greece’s Antenna TV, Antonios Pagourtzis said he wished he could have stopped the killing Friday at Santa Fe High School. His voice cracked as he described how he told police to let him inside the school so his son, Dimitrios Pagourtzis, could kill him instead. He said he suspects his son was under pressure, perhaps due to bullying.

“Something must have happened now, this last week,” he told the station. “Somebody probably came and hurt him, and since he was a solid boy, I don’t know what could have happened. I can’t say what happened. All I can say is what I suspect as a father.”

The suspect’s attorney, Nicholas Poehl, has said he is investigating whether his client endured any “teacher-on-student” bullying after reading reports of the teen being mistreated by football coaches. The school district issued a statement saying it investigated the accusations and “confirmed that these reports were untrue.”

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Texas school shooting suspect's father thinks he was bullied (Original Post) DonViejo May 2018 OP
Looks like snowybirdie May 2018 #1
Mr. Pagourtzis could have stopped the killing if he would have locked up his guns. njhoneybadger May 2018 #2
He thinks his son was bullied or is this trumper just using the current rw excuse? lark May 2018 #3
Uhhh...he also took ammo you had laying around. Probably up on the shelf of the same closet.... Bengus81 May 2018 #4
I was bullied a lot in my youth Dyedinthewoolliberal May 2018 #5
I never once thought... OnlinePoker May 2018 #14
Agreeing with OnlinePoker woundedkarma May 2018 #17
Two of the survivors interviewed on thes scene cyclonefence May 2018 #6
People get bullied all the time. We don't go shooting people. AllyCat May 2018 #7
Always interesting how what one does changes the narrative RhodeIslandOne May 2018 #8
I'll just leave these here... Blue_Tires May 2018 #9
After supreme court ruling, minors are not eligible for death penalty. LisaL May 2018 #13
Fuck this shit, seriously... Blue_Tires May 2018 #10
Wow. Father thinks son is a good boy? LisaL May 2018 #15
Not bullied, just rejected. Jimvanhise May 2018 #11
Just one observation here Nac Mac Feegle May 2018 #12
Bullshit! "Solid Boys" don't snap by being bullied! Everybody's been "recently bullied" at one time TheBlackAdder May 2018 #16
Sorry, but cry me a river. Bullying is not an excuse to gun down a girl who sinkingfeeling May 2018 #18
Precisely Sherman A1 May 2018 #19
This doesn't line up. Kid is bullied but doesn't go after antagonizers? apnu May 2018 #20

lark

(23,091 posts)
3. He thinks his son was bullied or is this trumper just using the current rw excuse?
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:03 PM
May 2018

I'd bet big money its the later. He's just trying to deflect from himself being an accomplice to the childrens, teachers and cops deaths when he is guilty of failing to keep his many guns out of the hands of his murdering son. Son posted on FB about wanting to kill folks, dad is a total ass and guilty or murder and in a sane world would be charged as such in a sane country - which we are not in these sad horribly twisted times

Bengus81

(6,931 posts)
4. Uhhh...he also took ammo you had laying around. Probably up on the shelf of the same closet....
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:05 PM
May 2018

This guy is trying to cover his ass by finding a reason to blame it on instead of him.

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,566 posts)
5. I was bullied a lot in my youth
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:10 PM
May 2018

until I learned what it was all about. I never once thought of killing anyone........

OnlinePoker

(5,719 posts)
14. I never once thought...
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:56 PM
May 2018

I did...myself. If you aren't shown coping mechanisms or places to turn to early, school can be a vile place. Add onto it the shit that happens outside and it was hell.

 

woundedkarma

(498 posts)
17. Agreeing with OnlinePoker
Tue May 22, 2018, 06:42 PM
May 2018

Bullying.. the things that can happen in school.. when you're a kid can be horrible and devastating. School shootings aren't the only horrible thing that scars children and adults happening in schools.

Murdering people can't be justified or defended by crying "bullies" but I believe there could be some correlation.

cyclonefence

(4,483 posts)
6. Two of the survivors interviewed on thes scene
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:10 PM
May 2018

said that the kid was bullied, but not by other students so much as by the coach (mostly) and his teachers.

AllyCat

(16,177 posts)
7. People get bullied all the time. We don't go shooting people.
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:11 PM
May 2018

This does not make any of it right. We need fewer guns if this is how some folks respond to bullying.

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
8. Always interesting how what one does changes the narrative
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:14 PM
May 2018

If this kid had committed suicide without killing anyone else, and his father came out and said "My son was bullied and committed suicide", what would the reaction to a post about it be?

Mental illness, teen fragility and the effects of bullying manifests itself in many ways. Sometimes it brings harm to only oneself and their family and in others it brings harm to many.

And mind you, I say this as someone who is angry that young woman stood up to him and his ongoing harassment and got killed for it.



LisaL

(44,973 posts)
13. After supreme court ruling, minors are not eligible for death penalty.
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:54 PM
May 2018

Tay-K isn't going to be eligible for the death penalty either if he committed a crime at 17.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
15. Wow. Father thinks son is a good boy?
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:57 PM
May 2018

Lets give him a cookie, ask him not do it again and send him right on home.

Jimvanhise

(301 posts)
11. Not bullied, just rejected.
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:34 PM
May 2018

The mother of the first girl he murdered said that he had been pressuring her to date him but she rejected him just a couple days before he went on his rampage. He clearly felt entitled to the girl's affection. He is not a victim in any way.

Nac Mac Feegle

(970 posts)
12. Just one observation here
Tue May 22, 2018, 05:51 PM
May 2018

From what I've seen, and experienced, bullying tends to destroy the self-image of the victim, leading to suicidal thoughts or actions.

The helplessness pounded (often literally) into the victim chews away at them inside, until they decide to "put themselves out of their misery". The effects are "internal-facing".

To do something like a shooting rampage seems more of an "outward-facing" power dynamic; "To show everyone who's Boss". "Who's laughing now?" More of a revenge scenario against perceived insults.

It might seem a fine distinction from the outside, but from the inside, it's quite different.

The bullied are targeted for their differences or their helplessness and that is reinforced, creating the downward spiral.

I don't really see someone in that type of a situation turning a weapon on anyone but themselves.

The mass shooting scenario seems to be more of an expression of rage, turning outward, rather than helplessness turning inward.

I read something, somewhere that if bullying were the cause of these shootings then minorities that are often the targets (Gay, Black, different religions, etc...) would be the perpetrators. These perpetrators have invariably been white, Christian, and male.

Just my two cents.

sinkingfeeling

(51,445 posts)
18. Sorry, but cry me a river. Bullying is not an excuse to gun down a girl who
Tue May 22, 2018, 07:18 PM
May 2018

rejected him and others he "didn't like."

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
19. Precisely
Wed May 23, 2018, 08:14 AM
May 2018

The guns should have been secured and this kid or anyone else should not have been able to access them. He went after the girl who rejected him.

apnu

(8,755 posts)
20. This doesn't line up. Kid is bullied but doesn't go after antagonizers?
Wed May 23, 2018, 08:35 AM
May 2018

Dad says the kid is bullied by football coach and some other teachers. But the kid takes weapons to school and goes right after the girl who he'd been harassing for months. This excuse doesn't line up and smells of a premeditated defense from some lawyer trying to control the PR game.

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