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mzmolly

(51,694 posts)
Fri May 29, 2020, 10:47 PM May 2020

Wife of George Floyd's Accused Killer Derek Chauvin Demands Divorce from Ex-Cop

Source: DAILY BEAST

Kellie Chauvin, the wife of the former Minneapolis police officer charged in the death of George Floyd, has announced she is “devastated” over the situation and is divorcing her husband, according to CBS Minnesota. In a statement, a representative told the news station that her “utmost sympathy lies with his [Floyd’s] family, with his loved ones and with everyone who is grieving tragedy.” She is said to have already filed for the dissolution of her marriage to the former police officer, and asks for “privacy during this difficult time.”




Read more: https://www.thedailybeast.com/wife-of-george-floyds-accused-killer-derek-chauvin-demands-divorce-from-ex-cop?source=twitter&via=mobile

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Wife of George Floyd's Accused Killer Derek Chauvin Demands Divorce from Ex-Cop (Original Post) mzmolly May 2020 OP
Saving the family assets, are we? Tiger8 May 2020 #1
Of course. Dios Mio May 2020 #9
That was my thought...may be a wrongful death suit as well. KewlKat May 2020 #14
Or for physical protective reasons? Laura PourMeADrink May 2020 #15
Says someone who has never been in an abusive relationship obamanut2012 May 2020 #26
I'm very sorry... SkyDaddy7 May 2020 #33
Thank you for this post. SharonClark May 2020 #34
Post removed Post removed May 2020 #42
Nice RobinA May 2020 #38
Lost his job, then his wife, arrested and charged with 3rd degree murder IronLionZion May 2020 #2
I bet he was not a mice man at home either and this gave her an out. LizBeth May 2020 #3
Yup, the best time she's ever had to leave an abusive cop obamanut2012 May 2020 #28
Knows it's time to cut bait and kacekwl May 2020 #4
Kellie Chauvin: dalton99a May 2020 #5
I'm sorry for your loss vercetti2021 May 2020 #6
Post removed Post removed May 2020 #7
Wow, gender slur much? obamanut2012 May 2020 #29
She just realised she married an ass hole? Dios Mio May 2020 #8
Or she could have known it for years and been too afraid to leave Massacure May 2020 #13
My thought also Demobrat May 2020 #21
That was my first thought too Sapient Donkey May 2020 #24
My first thought too though I don't know where the abuse mentioned by some comes from. live love laugh May 2020 #44
Says someone lucky enough to never be in a relationship with an obamanut2012 May 2020 #30
Couldn't find the door? Dios Mio May 2020 #35
You don't really understand abuse, eh? LanternWaste May 2020 #39
I am sorry there are posters so callous and well, ignorant on the issue. LizBeth May 2020 #36
Every asshole is different Polybius May 2020 #41
Trying to salvage assets. He's been the same jerk for years. marble falls May 2020 #10
. madamesilverspurs May 2020 #11
I agree. mzmolly May 2020 #12
Hard To Believe, Isn't It? ProfessorGAC May 2020 #46
Indeed. mzmolly May 2020 #48
Can An Ex-Wife Testify Against Her Ex-Husband?.....nt global1 May 2020 #16
global1 - That is a great question.... Upthevibe May 2020 #17
He may have been day to day tolerable, before... Mopar151 May 2020 #23
Of course she can -- a current wife can also testify obamanut2012 May 2020 #31
Not a lawyer but... GopherGal May 2020 #37
I Was On A Jury In March ProfessorGAC May 2020 #47
like she doesnt know what kind of guy he really is lol nt msongs May 2020 #18
My friend in Minneapolis said that on TV she said he was kind and gentle, loving man. BamaRefugee May 2020 #19
Maybe that was before she saw the vid of him murdering a man in cold blood Hekate May 2020 #20
Who knows. I had a Korean girlfriend. She had some real cultural differences from the outside world BamaRefugee May 2020 #22
That book will sell quicker than hot cakes. nt oasis May 2020 #25
Maybe her and Mrs. Trophy could go in together and save some money.... Bengus81 May 2020 #27
Humans are very good at fooling DeminPennswoods May 2020 #32
SHE SHOULD DO MORE. maybe lace a gift of brownines with something realllllllllllllly nasty. trueblue2007 May 2020 #40
If He Acts That Way at Work AnnieBW May 2020 #43
So much speculation. Maybe it's exactly as she says. Progressive Jones May 2020 #45
 

Tiger8

(432 posts)
1. Saving the family assets, are we?
Fri May 29, 2020, 10:59 PM
May 2020

Call me cynical, but she knew exactly who he was long before this happened.

obamanut2012

(27,847 posts)
26. Says someone who has never been in an abusive relationship
Sat May 30, 2020, 06:54 AM
May 2020

Which is what this seems to be. I've been in a bad relationship with an abusive cop, and it is scary AF, and very difficult to leave. I find her brave and compassionate.

But go ahead and denounce her.

SkyDaddy7

(6,045 posts)
33. I'm very sorry...
Sat May 30, 2020, 07:17 AM
May 2020

About your past abusive relationship...I can only imagine how scary that must be for anyone but for you, like a lot of cop’s spouses, girlfriends or boyfriends, to caught in an abusive relationship with cop must be as bad as they get.
...And that’s why my 1st thoughts, despite being a straight male & thankfully never having to have dealt with that in my life, I’m with you my mind jump straight to this woman finally has a chance at freedom!
...Then I scroll down & start to 2nd guess myself???
...Not that I Hope she’s an abused woman but if she is doing what the other commenters have suggested then she’s just about as scumming as her murdering hubby!
...Of course I don’t know them but I would be very surprised if they were even worth enough for such a act of desperation to be worth it after cost of everything shakes out!?!?

Again, so sorry about your past...Hope you’ve found happier times since.

Response to obamanut2012 (Reply #26)

RobinA

(10,168 posts)
38. Nice
Sat May 30, 2020, 02:25 PM
May 2020

Jump to conclusions based on nothing whatsoever. That’s the kind of reaction we need more of right now.

IronLionZion

(47,035 posts)
2. Lost his job, then his wife, arrested and charged with 3rd degree murder
Fri May 29, 2020, 11:00 PM
May 2020

next he needs to lose his freedom. Lock him up

obamanut2012

(27,847 posts)
28. Yup, the best time she's ever had to leave an abusive cop
Sat May 30, 2020, 06:55 AM
May 2020

His teeth will be dulled now, and he can't send his buddies after her to harass her everywhere around town, which is what happens whe you try and l3ave a cop. Or, you wind up dead, like most of convicted murderer Drew Peterson's wives.

Response to mzmolly (Original post)

Demobrat

(9,909 posts)
21. My thought also
Sat May 30, 2020, 12:51 AM
May 2020

While he’s in jail is the perfect time to get away. Hopefully he won’t make bail.

Sapient Donkey

(1,568 posts)
24. That was my first thought too
Sat May 30, 2020, 01:43 AM
May 2020

but then a couple comments on here put the idea that maybe she's just trying to protect assets into my head. Not sure if that make sense or not, but now it's in my head as possiblity

live love laugh

(14,491 posts)
44. My first thought too though I don't know where the abuse mentioned by some comes from.
Sat May 30, 2020, 11:24 PM
May 2020

It’s not mentioned in her statement or the story about her. If he’s capable of murder, however, he’s capable of anything.

obamanut2012

(27,847 posts)
30. Says someone lucky enough to never be in a relationship with an
Sat May 30, 2020, 06:58 AM
May 2020

Abusive cop.

Your compassion is so overwhelming. /s

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
39. You don't really understand abuse, eh?
Sat May 30, 2020, 02:28 PM
May 2020

There are many objective resources allowing you to realize the senselessness and fault inherent in your sentiment.

Polybius

(18,094 posts)
41. Every asshole is different
Sat May 30, 2020, 02:46 PM
May 2020

Some are good to their wife/girlfriend and horrible to others. I've known a few like that.

madamesilverspurs

(16,063 posts)
11. .
Fri May 29, 2020, 11:35 PM
May 2020

It could be that his being behind bars presents her with the safety to leave. Some abusive types don't take it well when their victims try to flee.

Or not.

But could be.

mzmolly

(51,694 posts)
12. I agree.
Fri May 29, 2020, 11:37 PM
May 2020

I doubt he was an angel at home, given his obvious sociopathic ways.

I'm glad she's getting out.

ProfessorGAC

(70,276 posts)
46. Hard To Believe, Isn't It?
Sun May 31, 2020, 06:06 AM
May 2020

We saw him torture someone until they died, ON CAMERA!
Hard to believe he's a nice guy in any other circumstance.

Upthevibe

(9,201 posts)
17. global1 - That is a great question....
Sat May 30, 2020, 12:23 AM
May 2020

We don't know anything about their marriage. Maybe she was in a situation she couldn't get out of....we just don't know but you pose an excellent question....Attorneys....What say you?

Mopar151

(10,185 posts)
23. He may have been day to day tolerable, before...
Sat May 30, 2020, 01:14 AM
May 2020

But if he somehow makes bail, its Freak off the leash!

GopherGal

(2,401 posts)
37. Not a lawyer but...
Sat May 30, 2020, 01:42 PM
May 2020

If my googling/years-of-crime-drama-watching is correct:
The accused can object to/prevent their spouse testifying against them.
A spouse can refuse a subpoena to testify against their current spouse.
But neither of those privileges appear to survive past divorce. (The couple must be married at the time of assertion of the privilege, which I presume to mean at the time of the trial/deposition)

There is also a privilege of protected "marital communication" which appears to extend even after divorce (but pertains only to communications during the marriage, and appears to cover only one-to-one communications, not things a spouse overhears.)

I'm sure there's enough complexity there for some lawyers to make some money off of.

ProfessorGAC

(70,276 posts)
47. I Was On A Jury In March
Sun May 31, 2020, 06:09 AM
May 2020

The ex-wife testified against the defendant in that trial.
We found the guy NG, but she did, in fact testify.
Might be different by state, but in IL there doesn't appear to be any barrier to divorced people testifying against an ex.

Hekate

(95,015 posts)
20. Maybe that was before she saw the vid of him murdering a man in cold blood
Sat May 30, 2020, 12:49 AM
May 2020

Most women would not want to live with that

BamaRefugee

(3,709 posts)
22. Who knows. I had a Korean girlfriend. She had some real cultural differences from the outside world
Sat May 30, 2020, 12:51 AM
May 2020

Once the front door was shut.

AnnieBW

(11,309 posts)
43. If He Acts That Way at Work
Sat May 30, 2020, 10:26 PM
May 2020

You gotta know that he was an abusive bastard at home. And she couldn't call the police, because he was the police. Hell, his arrest was probably the break that she needed to GTFO of the house!

Progressive Jones

(6,011 posts)
45. So much speculation. Maybe it's exactly as she says.
Sun May 31, 2020, 12:08 AM
May 2020

He's a murderous piece of shit, and she wants nothing to do with.
Yes, she's probably going to take his money, but that's how divorce works.
This fucking pig deserves every bit of harm that comes his way. In this case, this will be a real quick divorce.

I understand she's a real estate agent.
If she's any good at it, she makes way more fucking money than a cop does.

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