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brooklynite

(94,519 posts)
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 09:28 AM Mar 2021

Cuomo boasted about 'the large size of his hands,' accuser tells investigators

Source: Politico

ALBANY, N.Y. — One of the women accusing New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo of inappropriate behavior met virtually with state investigators for more than four hours on Monday, according to her attorney.

Debra Katz, who represents Charlotte Bennett, said in a statement that Bennett detailed her allegations and gave investigators from state Attorney General Tish James’ office more than 120 pages of records and other documentation to back up her claims.


Katz said Bennett, who has accused the governor of asking her intimate questions, provided new information “about the sexually hostile work environment” in the governor’s New York City and Albany offices and “his deliberate effort to create rivalries and tension among female staffers on whom he bestowed attention.”

“One piece of new information that came to light today was the Governor’s preoccupation with his hand size and what the large size of his hands indicated to Charlotte and other members of his staff,” Katz said.


Read more: https://www.politico.com/states/new-york/albany/story/2021/03/15/cuomo-accuser-meets-with-investigators-says-he-spoke-of-his-hand-size-1368331
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Cuomo boasted about 'the large size of his hands,' accuser tells investigators (Original Post) brooklynite Mar 2021 OP
Gross Walleye Mar 2021 #1
. mzmolly Mar 2021 #2
A repeated attempt at humor in reference to Trump's tiny hands? Freethinker65 Mar 2021 #3
No, it relates to his penis' size. machoneman Mar 2021 #4
Same with Trump's hand size. That is why Trump was so angry about comments about his small hands Freethinker65 Mar 2021 #9
His behavior is wildly inappropriate. It's interfering with the people's business Bucky Mar 2021 #17
That is a good point Marthe48 Mar 2021 #46
Thing is, did anyone tell him to cut the sexual crap. Ms. Toad Mar 2021 #50
To your last question, yes and yes n/t TexasBushwhacker Mar 2021 #54
This needs to be part of the investigation Bucky Mar 2021 #13
As of yesterday most NYers do not want him to resign... caber09 Mar 2021 #26
I've never heard that about hands. mzmolly Mar 2021 #25
That's what I thought, too. It only became hands because trump has small hands and people.... George II Mar 2021 #42
This message was self-deleted by its author George II Mar 2021 #51
Exactly. orangecrush Mar 2021 #44
Staff was evaluating him on the size of his hands? bucolic_frolic Mar 2021 #5
Well, you know what they say about guys with big hands, right? Jedi Guy Mar 2021 #6
Big hands big heart mzmolly Mar 2021 #24
"If it doesn't fit, you must acquit " MichMan Mar 2021 #53
Oh, come on now!!!!! Enough already! secondwind Mar 2021 #7
As several have pointed out Brooklynite seems to be on a mission caber09 Mar 2021 #10
Any Clue As To What It Is? Me. Mar 2021 #12
Haha its pretty clear... caber09 Mar 2021 #32
If it's in the news and from a mainstream site, why not post it? Polybius Mar 2021 #55
This message was self-deleted by its author Hiawatha Pete Mar 2021 #8
He got elected President after that. George II Mar 2021 #43
"the little child inside the man" Spitzer, Weiner, male insecurities vanity and lust run the show. Evolve Dammit Mar 2021 #11
Thank you Bucky Mar 2021 #14
Bring on the matriarchy IronLionZion Mar 2021 #20
Judging by Elizabeth Warren and AOC, they will rub our noses in how... Bucky Mar 2021 #21
I'm willing to take that risk IronLionZion Mar 2021 #22
... PoliticAverse Mar 2021 #23
I believe you are correct. If women knew what men thought, they'd never stop slapping us. Evolve Dammit Mar 2021 #27
NY Matriarchy TheJillMill Mar 2021 #40
This message was self-deleted by its author Bucky Mar 2021 #15
Trashing PortTack Mar 2021 #16
So, Cuomo thinks he has big hands. That's newsworthy! No other news to report. Beastly Boy Mar 2021 #18
And yet it finds itself in "Latest Breaking News"!!! George II Mar 2021 #30
Trash Thread. onecaliberal Mar 2021 #19
That's just typical male dumbassery Warpy Mar 2021 #28
It is, if it happens "pervasively" in the workplace. spooky3 Mar 2021 #34
OH NO! LOCK HIM UP!!! These people are really stretching now. I'm "preoccupied" with size... George II Mar 2021 #29
+1. I'm waiting for the porn star story with a yuuuge Nixie Mar 2021 #57
The most important part of that Politico article is: George II Mar 2021 #31
Agreed.. caber09 Mar 2021 #33
Back in the late 70's when I was very young, I would daily walk into the service dept. LizBeth Mar 2021 #36
Ms Bennett said Cuomo never touched her. Dawson Leery Mar 2021 #35
I have mostly stayed out of this conversation, lightly perusing developments yet this thread is LizBeth Mar 2021 #37
Was this during the time every Democrat on earth was laughing at Trump's small hand size? Vinca Mar 2021 #38
At the Republican's Presidential debates this issue was raised between Rubio and Tru$$ia WA-03 Democrat Mar 2021 #48
I wish Al Franken could have been granted half the slack that Cuomo's getting on this thread. Paladin Mar 2021 #39
The reason Cuomo is getting that is because of what happened with Franken JI7 Mar 2021 #59
I call BS... that's a Trumpism we've heard before ... NotHardly Mar 2021 #41
Due process. No new Franken. orangecrush Mar 2021 #45
Roger Stone's writing is too on the nose, don't you think? (n/m) BradAllison Mar 2021 #47
where's the LBN stuff? don't see any on this post nt msongs Mar 2021 #49
This afternoon I was watching the Senate proceedings on C-Span. Kyrsten Sinema is presiding.... George II Mar 2021 #52
Creepy Dorian Gray Mar 2021 #56
YUCK, if he has to brag there's probably nothing worth bragging about. 😵 nt Raine Mar 2021 #58

Freethinker65

(10,016 posts)
3. A repeated attempt at humor in reference to Trump's tiny hands?
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 09:44 AM
Mar 2021

Cuomo was definitely enjoying his time in the spotlight as an alternative to Trump.

machoneman

(4,006 posts)
4. No, it relates to his penis' size.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 09:56 AM
Mar 2021

Big hand = big penis even though that's a commonly believed falsehood.

Freethinker65

(10,016 posts)
9. Same with Trump's hand size. That is why Trump was so angry about comments about his small hands
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 10:15 AM
Mar 2021

Look. I get Cuomo enjoyed being seen as an alpha male. Sounds like he has been cocky for a long time and crossed the line long ago. Thing is, did anyone tell him to cut the sexual crap. Often banter sneaks into conversations and gets progressively worse and more suggestive over time (with men and with women). He was in power and evidently had been getting away with it for some time. Did he realize it was becoming a hostile working environment? That is where I am a bit torn.

As far as I have heard, he did not assault or outright proposition or threaten anyone. No payoffs, no NDAs. Did he EVER realize the attention and banter were unwanted and not harmless? Are many men just clueless or do they know they are crossing the line and just don't care?

Bucky

(53,998 posts)
17. His behavior is wildly inappropriate. It's interfering with the people's business
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 10:54 AM
Mar 2021

But the impeachment movement is largely catching momentum because of how he's handled this. The public responds to contrition, not stonewalling

He needed to come straight out at the start of it and expose all his wrongdoing and take a censure of some kind. I just don't see how he comes back from where he's gotten himself.

Marthe48

(16,949 posts)
46. That is a good point
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 02:33 PM
Mar 2021

I had to say in plain words to co-workers to stop talking to me a certain way, or I'd report them for sexual harassment. They shut up and none of us ever went there again.

To be fair, I was in my 40s and just starting to work outside the home. I'd grown up around men who had no boundaries, and then had been the only woman in a group of men, including my husband, who socialized often at our house. I went to work thinking that what I was used to in my private life among friends, was okay and other people would recognize and understand that I was just joking. But it didn't work out that way, and humorous banter turned really graphic. I learned from that workplace that I needed to behave appropriately, no suggestive comments from me, no jokes, to avoid tacit permission to people around me that it was okay to have frankly sexual conversations. I still regret that I was partly to blame and I am glad that a concise threat stopped the banter, without ruining the bonds we had as co-workers.

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
50. Thing is, did anyone tell him to cut the sexual crap.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 02:52 PM
Mar 2021

Seriously? He gets a pass because no one called him on sexually aggressive crep? It's not the victim's responsbility to keep an abuser in line.

Bucky

(53,998 posts)
13. This needs to be part of the investigation
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 10:49 AM
Mar 2021

The people demand to see Andrew Cuomo's cock!!

(I'm already tired of this "news" story)

 

caber09

(666 posts)
26. As of yesterday most NYers do not want him to resign...
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 11:33 AM
Mar 2021

Impeachment and/or Resignation has not gained momentum at all with the voters

George II

(67,782 posts)
42. That's what I thought, too. It only became hands because trump has small hands and people....
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 02:10 PM
Mar 2021

....liked to joke about that.

Response to George II (Reply #42)

bucolic_frolic

(43,146 posts)
5. Staff was evaluating him on the size of his hands?
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 09:58 AM
Mar 2021

So it was a talking point? I'd have to wonder if that indicates some negativity toward the boss.

mzmolly

(50,992 posts)
24. Big hands big heart
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 11:30 AM
Mar 2021

is what I've always heard.

Good grief, he's supposed to resign over this shit?

 

caber09

(666 posts)
10. As several have pointed out Brooklynite seems to be on a mission
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 10:28 AM
Mar 2021

We are probably moments away from the next Cuomo bashing post

 

caber09

(666 posts)
32. Haha its pretty clear...
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 12:31 PM
Mar 2021

Always make sure those posts are top of breaking news, or top stories on the main page too...there is def an agenda there

Response to brooklynite (Original post)

Bucky

(53,998 posts)
14. Thank you
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 10:51 AM
Mar 2021

I'm ready for the matriarchy. All us boys need to be in a timeout until we learn how to act more like Anthony Fauci

Bucky

(53,998 posts)
21. Judging by Elizabeth Warren and AOC, they will rub our noses in how...
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 11:06 AM
Mar 2021

They pass effective legislation and deliver constituent services. How obnoxious

Evolve Dammit

(16,725 posts)
27. I believe you are correct. If women knew what men thought, they'd never stop slapping us.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 11:37 AM
Mar 2021

And yes, Dr. Fauci is a great role model. I am reminded however, that I once thought Bill Cosby was a great role model.

TheJillMill

(34 posts)
40. NY Matriarchy
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 01:31 PM
Mar 2021

It would be about time, considering the Haudenosaunee had the most civilized society IMO in the world. Women were mostly in charge for hundreds of years right here in New York. The United States government was based on the Iroquois Confederacy except the matrilineal, matriarchal women's role was left out, and obviously we're still *way* behind. I voted for Zephyr Teachout last primary but Kathy Hochul will do if Cuomo gets impeached or resigns. I do believe he should get due process though. If either impeachment or resignation do not happen, I sure hope he doesn't run again.

Response to Evolve Dammit (Reply #11)

Beastly Boy

(9,323 posts)
18. So, Cuomo thinks he has big hands. That's newsworthy! No other news to report.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 10:57 AM
Mar 2021

Sensationalism is the media's problem, not Cuomo's.

But seriously, this is the right way to approach the matter. Report it to the AG and let her determine if this, along with other accusations, is legitimate and adds up to a pattern of harassment, and to what degree. Very different from assuming a pattern of harassment without an investigation.

Warpy

(111,254 posts)
28. That's just typical male dumbassery
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 12:13 PM
Mar 2021

One woman has said he grabbed her with them. That's actionable. Male dumbassery isn't.

spooky3

(34,444 posts)
34. It is, if it happens "pervasively" in the workplace.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 12:46 PM
Mar 2021

Check out the NY gov website on sexual harassment.

George II

(67,782 posts)
29. OH NO! LOCK HIM UP!!! These people are really stretching now. I'm "preoccupied" with size...
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 12:22 PM
Mar 2021

...of my nose, I wonder what they would have thought about that?

A governor should not be forced to resign because he's talking about the size of his hands. This is almost as silly as him asking aides to help solve a problem with his iPhone.

Nixie

(16,950 posts)
57. +1. I'm waiting for the porn star story with a yuuuge
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 11:20 PM
Mar 2021

payoff to keep quiet. They seem to be running out of material so surely that will be worth a try.

 

caber09

(666 posts)
33. Agreed..
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 12:39 PM
Mar 2021

Problem is that Bennett & Hinton this week have just repeated what they said a few weeks ago..and the media and some on here are acting like they are new allegations...I mean Boylan is attacking Biden & Harris and forming a PAC to weaken our Democrats...did Boylan ever go after Trump on these issue? I am not sure, but I would sure like to find out if she did.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
36. Back in the late 70's when I was very young, I would daily walk into the service dept.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 12:59 PM
Mar 2021

There was a calendar on the wall with women legs spread, naked. No one grabbed me. That was a hostile work environment and I should never had to participate in males denigration of women on a daily basis. Once I brought it to the VPs attention how it made me uncomfortable, daily, it disappeared.

So no, it is not only about touching someone. But then we all know that.

Dawson Leery

(19,348 posts)
35. Ms Bennett said Cuomo never touched her.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 12:52 PM
Mar 2021

This is now getting ridiculous. He made comment about himself, not someone else.

Cuomo MUST STAY IN PLACE at least until the investigation is complete.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
37. I have mostly stayed out of this conversation, lightly perusing developments yet this thread is
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 01:01 PM
Mar 2021

amazing how solidly so many stand with meh... he never touched her. Cuomo is good to go. Every person, and especially men saying this right here and now know that their ass would be on the line if they just "joked" and didn't touch in the work environment.

Vinca

(50,269 posts)
38. Was this during the time every Democrat on earth was laughing at Trump's small hand size?
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 01:02 PM
Mar 2021

Good lord. Let's pile on a little more, shall we? Sometimes office jokes are just that: jokes.

WA-03 Democrat

(3,047 posts)
48. At the Republican's Presidential debates this issue was raised between Rubio and Tru$$ia
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 02:44 PM
Mar 2021

Exhibit 9,623,855 of how Republicans are jokes.

The next level of this jokes is them whipping out rulers and tape measures

Paladin

(28,254 posts)
39. I wish Al Franken could have been granted half the slack that Cuomo's getting on this thread.
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 01:12 PM
Mar 2021

We sure as hell could have used a Senator Franken over the last few years.

NotHardly

(1,062 posts)
41. I call BS... that's a Trumpism we've heard before ...
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 01:43 PM
Mar 2021

This is just media crapola used to heat things up...they'll find a new bone to chew next week.

George II

(67,782 posts)
52. This afternoon I was watching the Senate proceedings on C-Span. Kyrsten Sinema is presiding....
Tue Mar 16, 2021, 05:45 PM
Mar 2021

....over today's session. I couldn't help noticing that she has pretty big hands, too!

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