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BumRushDaShow

(171,332 posts)
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 07:05 AM Mar 20

Father of service member killed in Iran war said he never told Pete Hegseth to 'finish' the job

Source: NBC News

March 19, 2026, 7:27 PM EDT


WASHINGTON — Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth met privately Wednesday with the families of six service members who died in the Iran war and, in a press briefing the next morning, said the message he got was consistent and supportive. “What I heard through tears, through hugs, through strength and through unbreakable resolve was the same from family after family. They said, ‘Finish this. Honor their sacrifice. Do not waver. Do not stop until the job is done,’” Hegseth said.

One of the people he met at Dover Air Force Base in Delaware was Charles Simmons. His 28-year-old son, Tech. Sgt. Tyler H. Simmons, was among the six crew members killed when their refueling plane crashed in Iraq last week. Simmons recalled his exchange differently. “I can’t speak for the other families. When he spoke to me, that was not something we talked about,” he told NBC News in an interview Thursday.

Simmons said he spoke separately to Hegseth and President Donald Trump at Dover and was grateful for the warmth that both men showed him. He and Hegseth spoke mostly about Tyler, his impressive service record and the speed with which he had advanced in the military, Simmons recalled.

He said he told the defense secretary, “I understand there’s a lot of peril that goes into making decisions like this, and I just certainly hope the decisions being made are necessary.”. Asked if he said anything to Hegseth or Trump about the need to keep fighting the war, Simmons said, “No, I didn’t say anything along those lines.”

Read more: https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/donald-trump/father-servicemember-killed-iran-war-never-told-hegseth-finish-the-job-rcna264297

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Father of service member killed in Iran war said he never told Pete Hegseth to 'finish' the job (Original Post) BumRushDaShow Mar 20 OP
The family should sue Hegseth. Chasstev365 Mar 20 #1
GQP have no shame................. Lovie777 Mar 20 #2
Someone in this administration lied? Ray Bruns Mar 20 #3
"Finish the job, Sir!" sop Mar 20 #4
don't forget the rippling muscles. Javaman Mar 20 #5
Trump only appoints shameless liars surfered Mar 20 #6
They are conmen. They lie to manipulate people. It ain't rocket science. Midnight Writer Mar 20 #7
If I ever met either of these sociopaths, I would not experience warmth. suegeo Mar 20 #8
Whiskey Pete hallucinating again. republianmushroom Mar 20 #9
These bastards have no shame.. Playingmantis Mar 20 #10
It's all cosplay COL Mustard Mar 20 #19
Right-wingers don't speak in truth, they speak in propaganda mdbl Mar 20 #11
This is true ck4829 Mar 23 #25
now we need the other families (5 i think) to come out and say what happened, what was said. orleans Mar 20 #12
Hegseth was probably drunk again Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Mar 20 #13
More likely, he was getting flak from Trump for news of $pending on lobsters, crab legs, fancy steaks getting out Attilatheblond Mar 20 #16
Likely ck4829 Mar 23 #24
Father of service member killed in Iran war said he never told Pete Hegseth to 'finish' the job LetMyPeopleVote Mar 20 #14
"Finish the job Sec.Hogshit. Grab a rifle and take oasis Mar 20 #15
Yep! ck4829 Mar 23 #23
And who confirmed this guy for this department.......... turbinetree Mar 20 #17
I'm sure the Lord told that to Whiskey Pete COL Mustard Mar 20 #18
I highly doubt people who just lost a child Skittles Mar 21 #20
Right? Absolutely disgusting. ck4829 Mar 23 #22
remember during the Afghanistan war Skittles Mar 23 #26
What a joke ck4829 Mar 23 #21

Javaman

(65,941 posts)
5. don't forget the rippling muscles.
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 08:58 AM
Mar 20

as the music swelled and the wind tousled his hair.

Midnight Writer

(25,616 posts)
7. They are conmen. They lie to manipulate people. It ain't rocket science.
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 09:24 AM
Mar 20

Reminds me of Trump telling people Princes Dianna had bought a condo in one of his buildings in NY.

She hadn't, of course. But Trump knew the rumor would bring in a lot of status conscious wealthy people who would pay a premium price to live at the same address as the Princess.

suegeo

(3,139 posts)
8. If I ever met either of these sociopaths, I would not experience warmth.
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 09:55 AM
Mar 20

I believe a sociopath would make the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.

mdbl

(8,721 posts)
11. Right-wingers don't speak in truth, they speak in propaganda
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 01:31 PM
Mar 20

I won't even bother talking to them anymore.

orleans

(37,114 posts)
12. now we need the other families (5 i think) to come out and say what happened, what was said.
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 02:19 PM
Mar 20

maybe all the rest of them said finish the job, avenge my child's death.

but i doubt it.

Attilatheblond

(9,125 posts)
16. More likely, he was getting flak from Trump for news of $pending on lobsters, crab legs, fancy steaks getting out
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 06:01 PM
Mar 20

Hegseth is afraid of photographs and now microphones. He is in full panic as his failures are matched only by his ridiculous lies. He has to know the boss demands more than just a pretty face now.

LetMyPeopleVote

(181,185 posts)
14. Father of service member killed in Iran war said he never told Pete Hegseth to 'finish' the job
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 04:07 PM
Mar 20

Hegseth said "family after family" of service members killed urged the administration to “not stop until the job is done." The father said he appreciated the compassion that Hegseth and Trump showed him during their visit.

https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/donald-trump/father-servicemember-killed-iran-war-never-told-hegseth-finish-the-job-rcna264297

WASHINGTON — Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth met privately Wednesday with the families of six service members who died in the Iran war and, in a press briefing the next morning, said the message he got was consistent and supportive.

“What I heard through tears, through hugs, through strength and through unbreakable resolve was the same from family after family. They said, ‘Finish this. Honor their sacrifice. Do not waver. Do not stop until the job is done,’” Hegseth said.

One of the people he met at Dover Air Force Base in Delaware was Charles Simmons. His 28-year-old son, Tech. Sgt. Tyler H. Simmons, was among the six crew members killed when their refueling plane crashed in Iraq last week.

Simmons recalled his exchange differently.

“I can’t speak for the other families. When he spoke to me, that was not something we talked about,” he told NBC News in an interview Thursday.

Simmons said he spoke separately to Hegseth and President Donald Trump at Dover and was grateful for the warmth that both men showed him.

turbinetree

(27,618 posts)
17. And who confirmed this guy for this department..........
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 06:46 PM
Mar 20
https://ballotpedia.org/Confirmation_process_for_Pete_Hegseth_for_secretary_of_defense

and we should hold the 6 maga Supreme court justices that said that leader of that maga party has immunity for this current shit show unfolding before our eyes.........is Barron Trump going to go and fight............

COL Mustard

(8,329 posts)
18. I'm sure the Lord told that to Whiskey Pete
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 07:34 PM
Mar 20

While he was on his knees, praying to Jesus Christ in his Pentagon office.

We get periodic invites to his prayer services but they are exclusively Christian. I have zero interest in ever attending one with him, nor frankly with anyone else in the workplace.

On the other hand, I was delighted to see that the press restrictions were overturned today. First Amendment rules, baby!

Skittles

(172,392 posts)
20. I highly doubt people who just lost a child
Sat Mar 21, 2026, 12:45 AM
Mar 21

are rooting for it to happen to others

shameful lying

Skittles

(172,392 posts)
26. remember during the Afghanistan war
Mon Mar 23, 2026, 05:16 PM
Mar 23

they kept saying we couldn't stop because, you know, that would "dishonor" those who lost their lives - so they kept going until thousands lost their lives - for nothing

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