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Judi Lynn

(160,631 posts)
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 01:21 PM Jul 2013

Irish lawmaker pulls female MP onto his lap during abortion debate

Source: Raw Story

Irish lawmaker pulls female MP onto his lap during abortion debate
By David Edwards
Friday, July 12, 2013 13:05 EDT

An Irish politician has apologized after he was seen pulling a female colleague onto his lap during an abortion debate that ran into the early hours of Wednesday morning.

As the Republic of Ireland’s upper house was debating a landmark bill that for the first time granted abortion rights in the cases where the life of the mother was at risk, Fine Gael TD Tom Barry was caught on parliament video forcing colleague TD Aine Collins to sit on his lap.

“I went to the Dail bar but I wasn’t drinking excessively,” Barry explained, according to the Irish Independent. “There was nothing pre-meditated, it was stupid, it was disrespectful.”

“I spoke to my wife this morning and all she said to me was: ‘You big eejit.’ I feel so embarrassed over this,” he continued. “I feel very upset that it is being described as that (sexist). I didn’t intend to offend anyone and I can’t offer any excuse other than to put it down to stupidity, naivety and inexperience.”

Read more: http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2013/07/12/irish-lawmaker-pulls-female-mp-onto-his-lap-during-abortion-debate/

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Irish lawmaker pulls female MP onto his lap during abortion debate (Original Post) Judi Lynn Jul 2013 OP
It looks like assault in the pic. NYC_SKP Jul 2013 #1
Yep, that's an assault all right. bemildred Jul 2013 #26
Gross. polly7 Jul 2013 #2
Ewwww! bravenak Jul 2013 #3
What the actual f*ck?! prole_for_peace Jul 2013 #4
That's called battery, jackass. Hell Hath No Fury Jul 2013 #5
assault and battery.... Alameda Jul 2013 #14
“I feel very upset that it is being described as that (sexist). geek tragedy Jul 2013 #6
He's "upset" that his actions are being called sexist? Scairp Jul 2013 #7
And slaps her rear as she's getting up. Creeper Blandocyte Jul 2013 #8
Reminds me of the Bush and Merkel incident. Definitley upstaged the creep factor. adirondacker Jul 2013 #9
GWB DWinNJ Jul 2013 #11
I hope he apologized to his victim. nt Ilsa Jul 2013 #10
He has yet to apologzie to anyone Kelvin Mace Jul 2013 #21
His lawyers probably told him NOT to apologize. Ken Burch Jul 2013 #23
A 44-year-old man pleads "Naivete and inexperience" mainer Jul 2013 #12
What's the latest estimate for male life expectancy in the Western world? Ken Burch Jul 2013 #24
Stupid, yes. Stargazer09 Jul 2013 #13
I guess they have republicians in Ireland too. olddad56 Jul 2013 #15
K&R! DeSwiss Jul 2013 #16
Creep. Solly Mack Jul 2013 #17
Uh oh. Looks like the Texas GOP has found its replacement for Rick Perry! B Stieg Jul 2013 #18
DUzy! derby378 Jul 2013 #19
Jeebus, how many damned non-apologies Kelvin Mace Jul 2013 #20
Bonus points for enlightenment Jul 2013 #25
Definitely elbow into the thorax time. Zoeisright Jul 2013 #22

polly7

(20,582 posts)
2. Gross.
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 01:27 PM
Jul 2013

It looks like she's nauseated and holding her stomach as she leaves. How can such a stupid man be in a position to decide the fate of anyone but his pet goldfish.

prole_for_peace

(2,064 posts)
4. What the actual f*ck?!
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 01:39 PM
Jul 2013

I was eating my sandwich and browsing the latest threads. I was just taking another bite when I read this title. I sure hope no one was walking past my office because my eyes got wide and I was frozen with my mouth around my sandwich for what seemed like forever before my brain processed what I was reading and I was able to reach for my mouse and click.

And now I am a little sick to my stomach

 

Hell Hath No Fury

(16,327 posts)
5. That's called battery, jackass.
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 02:03 PM
Jul 2013
Unfrickin' believable that this happened and further unfrickin' believable he's upset because it is being called sexist. And during a debate about women's bodily autonomy, no less! Dude needs an official smackdown from the House.

Scairp

(2,749 posts)
7. He's "upset" that his actions are being called sexist?
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 02:25 PM
Jul 2013

Well I don't know what else you could call it. Would he have done the same thing to a male colleague? If the answer would be no, then yes it was a sexist act, and male or female he pulled onto his lap against their will, it is also at the very least battery upon another person and at the very worst sexual harassment. I keep thinking that Ireland has evolved into a sophisticated, European country with sense, but time and again they prove me wrong. It's just very disappointing.

DWinNJ

(261 posts)
11. GWB
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 03:29 PM
Jul 2013

His stupid and inappropriate acts alone qualifies him for worst president.
He also winked at the Queen of England

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
23. His lawyers probably told him NOT to apologize.
Sat Jul 13, 2013, 12:58 AM
Jul 2013

If the Irish legal system is anything at all like ours, an apology is tantamount to an admission of guilt, and he'd be totally screwed if the female TD(that's what members or deputies of the Irish Dail are called) were to pursue criminal charges or a civil action.

mainer

(12,031 posts)
12. A 44-year-old man pleads "Naivete and inexperience"
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 03:34 PM
Jul 2013

"I can’t offer any excuse other than to put it down to stupidity, naivety and inexperience,” he said.

How old do men have to be to no longer use naivete as an excuse?

Stargazer09

(2,132 posts)
13. Stupid, yes.
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 03:46 PM
Jul 2013

Naive and inexperienced? No. He was simply being a jerk, trying to "put the little lady in her place."

 

Kelvin Mace

(17,469 posts)
20. Jeebus, how many damned non-apologies
Sat Jul 13, 2013, 12:43 AM
Jul 2013

can you put into a single non-apology?

“I went to the Dail bar but I wasn’t drinking excessively"

I was drunk, but not really drunk.

“There was nothing pre-meditated, it was stupid, it was disrespectful.”

You reached up and grabbed the woman and forced her on to your lap. "Stupid" and "disrespectful" are not the words I would use, "assault" and "battery" are. Also, you had a thought "I am going to grab that woman and make her sit on my lap" you then did just that, so "premeditation" is apparent.

“I spoke to my wife this morning and all she said to me was: ‘You big eejit.’ I feel so embarrassed over this,”

"Eejit"? Really? So, you are married to Bobby Singer from "Supernatural"?



I am sure your wife called you something, but "eejit" wasn't the word, unless it is Irish for "My solicitor will be by with the divorce papers in the morning."

“I feel very upset that it is being described as that (sexist)"

Klansmen, for some odd reason, get really upset when you call them racist assholes. Go figure.

"I didn’t intend to offend anyone"

So you grabbed a woman and assaulted her because.....? I mean, it seems that human beings, as a rule, take offense at being physically assaulted. Or, maybe that's just me.

"I can’t offer any excuse other than to put it down to stupidity, naivety and inexperience.”

*Bzzzzzt!!!*

No, I am sorry, but thank you for playing. The correct response was:

"I can't offer any excuse."

You just invalidated "I can't offer any excuse" by offering up excuses.

Stupidity? No question. Add to that, sexist ass-hattery, boorishness, cadishness, all out colostomy-bagishness.

But "naivety and inexperience”? Are you feckin' kidding me, Father Ted? You get to make that excuse when you are eight, not forty-four.

But, what the hell, we'll try you as an adult in any case.
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