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Newsjock

(11,733 posts)
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 10:49 PM Oct 2013

Leaders say Mormons cannot condone same-sex marriage

Source: Salt Lake Tribune

Human laws may change to include same-sex marriage, but moral laws don’t, two high-ranking Mormon leaders said Sunday.

God meant marriage for a man and a woman, they said. Anything else is sin.

On the second and final day of the LDS Church’s 183rd Semiannual General Conference, apostle Dallin H. Oaks bemoaned America’s dropping birthrates, later marriages and rising incidence of cohabitation as evidence of "political and social pressures for legal and policy changes to establish behaviors contrary to God’s decrees about sexual morality and the eternal nature and purposes of marriage and child-bearing."

... An LDS eternal perspective does not allow Mormons "to condone such behaviors or to find justification in the laws that permit them," said the apostle, a former Utah Supreme Court justice. "And, unlike other organizations that can change their policies and even their doctrines, our policies are determined by the truths God has declared to be unchangeable."

Read more: http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/56965652-78/god-lds-marriage-church.html.csp

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Leaders say Mormons cannot condone same-sex marriage (Original Post) Newsjock Oct 2013 OP
Hpw about same sex polygamism? Would that work for them? coldmountain Oct 2013 #1
perhaps they mean for a man and women Skittles Oct 2013 #2
Interesting...my wife and i CANNOT condone Mormanism. diabeticman Oct 2013 #3
... Fridays Child Oct 2013 #7
I've seen this before. liberalmuse Oct 2013 #4
So while the women were left out of the meeting they instructed the men to go make more babies? Heather MC Oct 2013 #5
You forgot: the Bible expressly endorses communes jmowreader Oct 2013 #10
Love Being an Atheist Heather MC Oct 2013 #22
The Bible is secondary to the NEW word of god... defacto7 Oct 2013 #23
I like your translation. LuvNewcastle Oct 2013 #31
It'd be a lot shorter too jmowreader Oct 2013 #45
They're welcome to their doctrine, but their blatant influence in CA's Prop 8 isn't forgotten. pinto Oct 2013 #6
Their doctrine doesn't supersede that. The CCC Oct 2013 #35
And don't forget... defacto7 Oct 2013 #8
And Utah's "great land prices" had nothing to do with it? jmowreader Oct 2013 #11
What? You mean just out of Draper? Riverton? Redwood Road? defacto7 Oct 2013 #17
This is the greatest post ever MFrohike Oct 2013 #53
yeah and i cannot condone bigots but dont try to deprive them of secular rights. La Lioness Priyanka Oct 2013 #9
Agreed. Deep13 Oct 2013 #13
agreed La Lioness Priyanka Oct 2013 #15
This is a fact. n/t defacto7 Oct 2013 #18
Are they going to decide that Africans aren't really people after all? Deep13 Oct 2013 #12
You're giving them too much credit. It was 1978. LeftyMom Oct 2013 #26
oops, thanks. nt Deep13 Oct 2013 #51
Post removed Post removed Oct 2013 #36
In other words, Mormons who publicly support marriage equality will be excommunicated. n/t cynatnite Oct 2013 #14
Yup! defacto7 Oct 2013 #19
In other words, Mormons who publicly support marriage equality will be excommunicated. n/t The CCC Oct 2013 #37
What made God change his mind about black priests? jsr Oct 2013 #16
...and they, the Mormon presidents, determine the truths of God. defacto7 Oct 2013 #20
and they, the Mormon presidents, determine the truths of God The CCC Oct 2013 #38
Actually that is doctrine FreeState Oct 2013 #40
Didn't say it was. Didn't say I was LDS. defacto7 Oct 2013 #41
BYU football. LeftyMom Oct 2013 #27
Bingo. Drunken Irishman Oct 2013 #33
I love the leader! Fearless Oct 2013 #21
Well, Leviticus also says that we aren't supposed to eat shellfish, Vashta Nerada Oct 2013 #24
Well, Leviticus also says that we aren't supposed to eat shellfish, The CCC Oct 2013 #39
Touché. Vashta Nerada Oct 2013 #44
"The Truths God Has Declared" DallasNE Oct 2013 #25
It takes all the thrill out of being nasty-bad if it's acceptable, ya know.....nt dougolat Oct 2013 #28
And I believe that in 1978 God changed his mind about black people... Loudly Oct 2013 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author Hulk Oct 2013 #30
Mormon: Marriage should be between 1 man and 1 woman, blkmusclmachine Oct 2013 #32
Never mind. Phlem Oct 2013 #34
No wonder they're desperate to find new sheeple to preach to. alp227 Oct 2013 #42
keeping society in 1840 MFM008 Oct 2013 #43
If Joseph Smith was alive today, he would have opted for Wall St over the religion business Snake Plissken Oct 2013 #46
Great news: they don't have to! Recursion Oct 2013 #47
Quorum of the 12 Apostles?? That's just creepy. titaniumsalute Oct 2013 #48
Bigots will be bigoted. Politicub Oct 2013 #49
How many times have they changed during their short history? LiberalFighter Oct 2013 #50
Unless the Lessmon Church Makes Money out of It Wolf Frankula Oct 2013 #52
 

coldmountain

(802 posts)
1. Hpw about same sex polygamism? Would that work for them?
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 10:54 PM
Oct 2013

It would seem the Mormons should have very little to criticize about others marriages.

liberalmuse

(18,881 posts)
4. I've seen this before.
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 11:00 PM
Oct 2013

Yes, I was a Mormon, and lived in SLC and know that "Stepford Wives" doesn't even begin to cover the fasod that is the Mormon church. They really need to clean house in SLC before issuing directives like this.

We're close to a tipping point, and as soon as gay marriage is accepted in a dozen more states, and more and more people shake their heads at homophobia, they'll come around. I clearly remember them doing so in the 1980's with their racist policy of not allowing blacks to hold the Priesthood. Even as a kid, I knew this was racist, but was so brainwashed that the only thing I did was argue with Sunday School teachers and ask them over and over again, why? I finally walked out when I was 15 or 16 and never went back.

 

Heather MC

(8,084 posts)
5. So while the women were left out of the meeting they instructed the men to go make more babies?
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 11:00 PM
Oct 2013

Last edited Mon Oct 7, 2013, 12:20 AM - Edit history (1)

And do they not READ the bible. it's filled with all sorts of wacky marital hooks ups
Woman and Rapist
Woman + Concubine and Man
Slave +Man
Woman +Slave+ Concubine and Man
Man +Woman, man Dies Woman + Brother inlaw
and more

jmowreader

(53,194 posts)
10. You forgot: the Bible expressly endorses communes
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 11:31 PM
Oct 2013

Leviticus 18.7-9 tell you:

7: Don't fuck your own mother
8: Don't fuck your father's wife
9: Don't fuck either your father's daughter or your mother's daughter.

18.7 is self explanatory. And 18.8 is understandable in the context that polygamy was widely practiced then...but 18.9? Did women have multiple husbands?

 

Heather MC

(8,084 posts)
22. Love Being an Atheist
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 12:26 AM
Oct 2013

My life has become far less complicated

I often had to mentally wrestle with myself to figure out how to read the horrible stuff in the bible, and see what man does in the name of God and religion and still call it all good. All while having feelings that were in direct contridiction to what I was reading.

Now that I am not trying to find belief or deeper meanings in the bible, or trying to figure out how it all applys to my life. it's actually easier to read and understand it. I understand it's just a made up jumble of sentences put together in the hope of controlling the masses.

defacto7

(14,162 posts)
23. The Bible is secondary to the NEW word of god...
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 12:26 AM
Oct 2013

The Book of Mormon.

The old testament is updated by the new testament and they are both topped off by The Book of Mormon.

No, women do not have multiple husbands in the Mormon church.

LuvNewcastle

(17,821 posts)
31. I like your translation.
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 01:35 AM
Oct 2013

The Bible would be a lot more fun to read if it said things like, "Don't fuck your mother."

jmowreader

(53,194 posts)
45. It'd be a lot shorter too
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 03:55 AM
Oct 2013

If you were to remove all the smiting, the historical texts (like Nehemiah), and all the "I am the Lord" justification for not doing anything your minister doesn't like, and also the things that are definitely outdated (the entirety of Leviticus 11, for example), you could get the whole Bible down to a hundred pages.

pinto

(106,886 posts)
6. They're welcome to their doctrine, but their blatant influence in CA's Prop 8 isn't forgotten.
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 11:02 PM
Oct 2013

We have a church / state separation standard for a reason. Their doctrine doesn't supersede that.

The CCC

(463 posts)
35. Their doctrine doesn't supersede that.
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 02:37 AM
Oct 2013

That has nothing to do with the separation of church and state. LDS Members whom live in the US have every right to petition the government for a redress of grievances like every other citizen.

defacto7

(14,162 posts)
8. And don't forget...
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 11:22 PM
Oct 2013

The big new NSA operation of massive proportion is in Utah south of Salt Lake City. Utah as the location for the new facility was chosen because of Utah's, "great patriotism!". That area of Utah and most of it's surrounding area is 99% Mormon.

jmowreader

(53,194 posts)
11. And Utah's "great land prices" had nothing to do with it?
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 11:34 PM
Oct 2013

Trust me on this: they bought the cheapest level land they could possibly find to put this on. If the land that met that description was between a nudist colony and a Church of Satan compound, a whole shitload of naked devil worshippers would be running the data center.

defacto7

(14,162 posts)
17. What? You mean just out of Draper? Riverton? Redwood Road?
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 12:11 AM
Oct 2013

That's not a cheep area, it's on the outskirts of one of the fastest growing upscale population areas in the state and the Mormons have kept a reign on real estate values throughout the whole recession pouring billions of their church funds into the real estate market to hold up their own property values. While the rest of the country's real estate was crashing, Utah's Mormon properties hardly saw a blip. If they bought cheep, it's for other reasons than it being cheep; it's because the Mormons wanted to solidify their position in it's well known stealth and influence. Trust me on this: they have a hell of a lot of influence.

I live about 20 miles from that site. The Mormon church has been a huge "practically anonymous" force in the US government for many years. George Jr. visited the Mormon Prophet and presidents in person to discuss "things" during his time in office, as have other recent US presidents. Trust me on this: I am in the middle of the Mormon thing... literally.

Deep13

(39,157 posts)
13. Agreed.
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 11:36 PM
Oct 2013

The only thing I agree with less than Mormonism, Christianity generally, Islam, or Judaism would laws that restrict the civil rights of those groups. I'm sure there are a lot of decent Mormons in the world. The ones running their church, however, are not among them.

Deep13

(39,157 posts)
12. Are they going to decide that Africans aren't really people after all?
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 11:34 PM
Oct 2013

They altered that view to accept civil rights about 50 years ago. Changing dogma to conform to evidence is a bad precedent. After all, we would not want to do anything to make that church compatible with modernity and prolong its existence.

Response to Deep13 (Reply #12)

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
14. In other words, Mormons who publicly support marriage equality will be excommunicated. n/t
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 11:42 PM
Oct 2013

The CCC

(463 posts)
37. In other words, Mormons who publicly support marriage equality will be excommunicated. n/t
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 02:41 AM
Oct 2013

Nope.

jsr

(7,712 posts)
16. What made God change his mind about black priests?
Sun Oct 6, 2013, 11:53 PM
Oct 2013

"our policies are determined by the truths God has declared to be unchangeable"

defacto7

(14,162 posts)
20. ...and they, the Mormon presidents, determine the truths of God.
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 12:16 AM
Oct 2013

politically and spiritually speaking of course. They reason that God (and they) didn't change anything. It was just God's time to add Blacks to the church and forgive their crimes against God's people in the past when God had to turn them Black as a curse.

FreeState

(10,702 posts)
40. Actually that is doctrine
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 02:57 AM
Oct 2013

The prophet is the only person in the church that is allowed to receive revelation that pertains to every member of the church.


"As members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we are blessed to be led by living prophets—inspired men called to speak for the Lord, as did Moses, Isaiah, Peter, Paul, Nephi, Mormon, and other prophets of the scriptures. We sustain the President of the Church as prophet, seer, and revelator—the only person on the earth who receives revelation to guide the entire Church. We also sustain the counselors in the First Presidency and the members of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles as prophets, seers, and revelators."


http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?locale=0&sourceId=c6549c57af139010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&vgnextoid=bbd508f54922d010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD

defacto7

(14,162 posts)
41. Didn't say it was. Didn't say I was LDS.
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 03:01 AM
Oct 2013

But that is this atheists point of view on the LDS church. I really don't care about Mormon official doctrine except where it crosses the line into politics and undermines civil human rights of Mormons and non-Mormons alike. Then I call it as I see it.

 

Vashta Nerada

(3,922 posts)
24. Well, Leviticus also says that we aren't supposed to eat shellfish,
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 12:31 AM
Oct 2013

menstruating women aren't allowed indoors, and we're not supposed to wear cotton/poly blends.

I wonder if any Mormon followed those? I doubt it!

The CCC

(463 posts)
39. Well, Leviticus also says that we aren't supposed to eat shellfish,
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 02:44 AM
Oct 2013

The LDS don't follow Leviticus.

DallasNE

(8,008 posts)
25. "The Truths God Has Declared"
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 12:55 AM
Oct 2013

Are not those "truths" really things man has declared in the name of God, such as the 10 Commandments.

And did not the Mormon Church once declare that polygamy was one of those truths. How unchangeable was that? I also find his phrasing is odd when he says "God meant marriage for a man and a woman". Why would he say it that way unless he still harbors the notion that polygamy is not a sin. After all, he did not say "God meant marriage to be between one man and one woman". This is not a slip of the tongue. After all apostle Dallin H. Oaks is a former Utah Supreme Court Justice. One of the truths is that God has created homosexual Mormons so has God created sin? That seems to be what Oaks is saying. This is the problem when men declare things in the name of God and someone comes along and declares them to be unchangeable. It sets up indefensible positions, making people look rather foolish.

 

Loudly

(2,436 posts)
29. And I believe that in 1978 God changed his mind about black people...
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 01:28 AM
Oct 2013

You can be a Mormon,

A Mormon who just believes!

Response to Newsjock (Original post)

 

blkmusclmachine

(16,149 posts)
32. Mormon: Marriage should be between 1 man and 1 woman,
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 02:18 AM
Oct 2013
and another woman,

and another woman,

and another woman,

and another woman,

and another woman,

and another woman,

and another woman,

and another woman,

and another woman,

.....

alp227

(33,283 posts)
42. No wonder they're desperate to find new sheeple to preach to.
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 03:06 AM
Oct 2013

There's an LDS Institute of Religion one block from my college. LDS missionaries are always around campus handing out flyers promoting the Institute's proselytizing events. Their ideas are becoming outdated, and they're desperate for impressionable, programmable young people.

MFM008

(20,042 posts)
43. keeping society in 1840
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 03:43 AM
Oct 2013

Mormon specialty. We dont care what you think. Get with the forward movement of civilization.

Snake Plissken

(4,103 posts)
46. If Joseph Smith was alive today, he would have opted for Wall St over the religion business
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 05:22 AM
Oct 2013

Instead of being killed by the people he conned, he'd probably be safely sitting in a cell next Bernie Madoff.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
47. Great news: they don't have to!
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 06:04 AM
Oct 2013

They don't have to any more than my racist great-grandmother had to condone interracial marriage. That's the beauty of it: they can "not condone" it all they want, and nobody is stopping them.

titaniumsalute

(4,742 posts)
48. Quorum of the 12 Apostles?? That's just creepy.
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 08:12 AM
Oct 2013

Dallin Harris Oaks is an American attorney, jurist, author, professor, public speaker, and religious leader. Since 1984, he has been a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

Wolf Frankula

(3,835 posts)
52. Unless the Lessmon Church Makes Money out of It
Mon Oct 7, 2013, 08:11 PM
Oct 2013

Remember how they denied Pepsi to their followers. Then the Church owned a lot of Pepsi stock. Suddenly Pepsi was allowed to Mormons.

If somebody finds a way to make money out of same sex marriage, the Church will buy stock in it. Suddenly Same Sex marriage will be moral.

Wolf

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