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SecularMotion

(7,981 posts)
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 11:39 AM Dec 2013

Facebook is 'dead and buried', replaced by simpler networks, study finds

Source: theage.com

A study of how older teenagers use social media has found Facebook is "not just on the slide, it is basically dead and buried" and is being replaced by simpler social networks such as Twitter and Snapchat, an expert has claimed.

Young people now see the site as "uncool" and keep their profiles live purely to stay in touch with older relations, among whom it remains popular.

Professor Daniel Miller of University College London, an anthropologist who worked on the European Union-funded research, wrote in an article for the academic news website The Conversation: "Mostly they feel embarrassed even to be associated with it.

"This year marked the start of what looks likely to be a sustained decline of what had been the most pervasive of all social networking sites.

Read more: http://www.theage.com.au/digital-life/digital-life-news/facebook-is-dead-and-buried-replaced-by-simpler-networks-study-finds-20131228-300f7.html

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Facebook is 'dead and buried', replaced by simpler networks, study finds (Original Post) SecularMotion Dec 2013 OP
These days Facebook is mostly for things like new moms posting placenta pics. Nye Bevan Dec 2013 #1
The problem with enabling sharing... Jester Messiah Dec 2013 #80
Facebook themselves have been emphasizing this message... Jesus Malverde Dec 2013 #2
Well - if FB wants to target us older people, I'm all for it. ConcernedCanuk Dec 2013 #6
A fad, basically. nt bemildred Dec 2013 #3
That was what I thought when the kids started wearing their pants around their knees. bluedigger Dec 2013 #13
Something I wish would become uncool. bitchkitty Dec 2013 #62
I guess... Sometimes though I want to look at the brighter side of things. Xyzse Dec 2013 #72
LOL n/t bitchkitty Dec 2013 #74
Yeah, just like the internet... former9thward Dec 2013 #20
The Internet is not a fad, but there are lots of fads on the internet. bemildred Dec 2013 #21
Well FB is not one of them. former9thward Dec 2013 #24
Right. nt bemildred Dec 2013 #26
I'm older and I love FB.. 4dsc Dec 2013 #4
LOL.... Plucketeer Dec 2013 #11
I love their liberal news feeds too. 4dsc Dec 2013 #5
I agree davidpdx Dec 2013 #50
Only one thing to see on facebook anymore Garion_55 Dec 2013 #7
What more do you need? Ed Suspicious Dec 2013 #9
And what may I ask is wrong with cat pictures ? dipsydoodle Dec 2013 #17
Yeah davidpdx Dec 2013 #49
I still use it to play Pot Farm Viva_La_Revolution Dec 2013 #8
Never done it, Never will. SoapBox Dec 2013 #10
What? Young people don't want to do the things their parents and grandparents are doing? progressoid Dec 2013 #12
I'm enjoying my FB experience much more than I thought I would. KG Dec 2013 #14
Snapchat Downplays Phone Number Matching Hack, Says It’s Added New Counter-Measures Lint Head Dec 2013 #15
I have no idea what the "teenagers" are doing madville Dec 2013 #16
Social networking without all those complicated words and thoughts. Codeine Dec 2013 #18
Stopped using it as soon as it became clear they had no respect for privacy of users. It's dead on point Dec 2013 #19
I notice mostly tweens, teens and older people. Older teens, young adults do not use it much uppityperson Dec 2013 #22
I know lots of young adults on Facebook daleo Dec 2013 #33
Not soon enough for me. n/t loudsue Dec 2013 #23
Facebook is anything but dead. klook Dec 2013 #25
Just because it's the only game in town doesn't mean it's a good game seabeckind Dec 2013 #27
I agree, those that say it is dead are a little quick to dismiss it davidpdx Dec 2013 #55
Maybe, if 'young people' were the be all and end all, elleng Dec 2013 #28
FB has experienced mission creep seabeckind Dec 2013 #29
Excellent! DeSwiss Dec 2013 #34
facebook is dead? madrchsod Dec 2013 #30
Facebook is well entrenched with older cohorts daleo Dec 2013 #31
If teenagers don't like it... AlbertCat Dec 2013 #32
No. It means FB doesn't meet their requirements. seabeckind Dec 2013 #38
I will really be surprised.. sendero Dec 2013 #35
If I had the mentality of a teenager, I'd think Facebook sucked too TekGryphon Dec 2013 #36
Until it doesn't. seabeckind Dec 2013 #39
Until a meteor kills us all? Then what? TekGryphon Dec 2013 #40
Slippery slope? No. Reality. seabeckind Dec 2013 #42
If you needed tech advice, all you had to do was ask. TekGryphon Dec 2013 #43
You keep propping up these strawmen seabeckind Dec 2013 #45
Ok, great. TekGryphon Dec 2013 #54
that one is a lost cause Skittles Dec 2013 #56
If you're as bad at Facebook as you are at reading comprehension, I can understand your frustration TekGryphon Dec 2013 #58
I admire people who refuse to be sucked into the facebook borg Skittles Dec 2013 #59
There's many reasons not to use Facebook. TekGryphon Dec 2013 #65
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Dec 2013 #68
Um, that is what LinkedIn is for LOL snooper2 Dec 2013 #76
I maintain a LinkedIn account. LinkedIn is the definition of dead. TekGryphon Dec 2013 #78
I guess none of the folks you follow have a job snooper2 Dec 2013 #79
Who said I'm looking for a job? Who said Facebook is for job searching? TekGryphon Dec 2013 #81
facebook is for people whose mask has become the face. not sharing the real you pitohui Dec 2013 #37
You should probably learn how to use Facebook TekGryphon Dec 2013 #41
actually you should, you're going to get a nasty surprise one of these days pitohui Dec 2013 #51
This "old guy" is an Information Systems Administrator w/ ... TekGryphon Dec 2013 #57
Has it occurred to you ... GeorgeGist Dec 2013 #69
Oh, yes. I don't even deny it. TekGryphon Dec 2013 #71
I never really understood why people want everyone to know their business. YOHABLO Dec 2013 #44
Hotel California seabeckind Dec 2013 #46
So funny you say that, because I posted that too a couple of years ago when a friend tried to DesertDiamond Dec 2013 #48
facebook is in the process of busting/deleting aliases pitohui Dec 2013 #52
I think you've hit the reason for its decline in the young seabeckind Dec 2013 #70
I would wager that close to half of the accounts on FB are fake names. MADem Dec 2013 #77
I feel deep gratitude for FB for reconnecting me with old friends and for the new ones I've made. DesertDiamond Dec 2013 #47
I agree! mia Dec 2013 #61
Yes! DavidDvorkin Dec 2013 #63
Good riddence NoOneMan Dec 2013 #53
Because staying in touch with older family members is such an adult thing Lifelong Dem Dec 2013 #60
Ain't nobody's business if I do use Facebook Blue Owl Dec 2013 #64
I find most social networking sites to be overrated IMO chungking34 Dec 2013 #66
You've Got Mail! DontTreadOnMe Dec 2013 #67
Corporate overseers in america use FB workinclasszero Dec 2013 #73
Jeep, guns, and motorcycle groups ileus Dec 2013 #75
Myspace is coming back!! Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #82

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
1. These days Facebook is mostly for things like new moms posting placenta pics.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 11:41 AM
Dec 2013

My teenage kids never seem to use it anymore.

Jesus Malverde

(10,274 posts)
2. Facebook themselves have been emphasizing this message...
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 11:52 AM
Dec 2013

They themselves brought it up on their last conference call.

This is a marketing campaign to convince the world that Facebook is "grown up" and credible.

The subtext is, if young people are not using it, older people must be using it..

Older people hear this and wonder what they are missing and log back into Facebook.

For all the love of young consumers...the older consumer is the only consumer with much discretionary income.

I'm pretty sure these studies are really marketing to get people talking and logging back into Facebook.



 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
6. Well - if FB wants to target us older people, I'm all for it.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 12:18 PM
Dec 2013

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.
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Intelligent discussions beat frivolous posts imo.

Locally I belong to a few groups - 3 of them totally community related.

It is nice to keep in touch with friends and community, share community upcoming (and past) events, pictures and so on.

I never got into the gaming part of it, no interest.

I've found and got into contact with friends from decades ago - no other venue I know of could have accomplished that.

Maybe some of the wiser young ones may hang on with the prospect of being able to keep in contact with those they cherish.

Hopefully there's enough of us old farts to keep FB financially viable for the creators/administrators.

I think so - good or bad, the average mean age of humans is increasing.

CC

bluedigger

(17,437 posts)
13. That was what I thought when the kids started wearing their pants around their knees.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 01:40 PM
Dec 2013

When was that - twenty years ago?

bitchkitty

(7,349 posts)
62. Something I wish would become uncool.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 11:40 PM
Dec 2013

I hate that look. I especially hate it when I see grown men with it...

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
72. I guess... Sometimes though I want to look at the brighter side of things.
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 11:08 AM
Dec 2013

I congratulate them on their weight loss.
Thinking they may not have had time to buy newer threads.

bemildred

(90,061 posts)
21. The Internet is not a fad, but there are lots of fads on the internet.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 03:28 PM
Dec 2013

Many internet businesses, that's their business plan, become a big internet fad and sell out in an IPO.

 

4dsc

(5,787 posts)
4. I'm older and I love FB..
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 12:17 PM
Dec 2013

I know most of my younger relatives don't like some the comments I post but that's why I'm their uncle. lol

 

Plucketeer

(12,882 posts)
11. LOL....
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 01:29 PM
Dec 2013

My D-I-L and I have pissed off my granddaughter on FB. Just recently, I posted a toddler photo of her. She was not amused. We just saw that photo differently.

 

4dsc

(5,787 posts)
5. I love their liberal news feeds too.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 12:18 PM
Dec 2013

Great source of information for liberal if you ask me.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
50. I agree
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:18 PM
Dec 2013

I would bet that you like myself share a lot of that with your friends. There is some good information to spread via some of those groups.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
49. Yeah
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:17 PM
Dec 2013

How else are we suppose to keep up with the newest Grumpy Cat pictures? I'm not convinced any of the others are a good alternative.

progressoid

(53,179 posts)
12. What? Young people don't want to do the things their parents and grandparents are doing?
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 01:37 PM
Dec 2013

shocking.

Lint Head

(15,064 posts)
15. Snapchat Downplays Phone Number Matching Hack, Says It’s Added New Counter-Measures
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 01:54 PM
Dec 2013

Security researchers publishing a way to match Snapchat usernames to phone numbers, Snapchat has published a skimpy statement making the hack sound impractical and noting “We recently added additional counter-measures and continue to make improvements to combat spam and abuse.”

Earlier this week ZDNet published an in-depth write-up of how white-hat Gibson Security researchers had tried to notify Snapchat of a way hackers could connect usernames to phone numbers for use in stalking, but were ignored. The GibSec team then published the exploit publicly on Christmas Eve. Read ZDNet’s post for full details on how the hack works.

http://techcrunch.com/2013/12/27/snapchat-phone-number-hack/

madville

(7,847 posts)
16. I have no idea what the "teenagers" are doing
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 02:01 PM
Dec 2013

I have about 400 friends/family/coworkers on Facebook, it's still popular in my circles. I don't even know anyone that uses Twitter, I have a Twitter account but all it does is follow a couple of sports teams and sends me updates on their status.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
18. Social networking without all those complicated words and thoughts.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 02:13 PM
Dec 2013

Just purty pictures.

on point

(2,506 posts)
19. Stopped using it as soon as it became clear they had no respect for privacy of users. It's dead
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 03:11 PM
Dec 2013

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
22. I notice mostly tweens, teens and older people. Older teens, young adults do not use it much
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 03:28 PM
Dec 2013

Once it opened up for everyone, those young adults bailed, leaving the other 2 age ends on there. It is an easy way to share pictures with a lot of people though. Oh, businesses also are using it more.

daleo

(21,317 posts)
33. I know lots of young adults on Facebook
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 04:23 PM
Dec 2013

They might not be very cool, though, just like most people.

klook

(13,600 posts)
25. Facebook is anything but dead.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 03:38 PM
Dec 2013

It is THE de facto method of communication for many people I know, young and old -- many of whom have given up on email because they can't figure out how to control spam, and can't be bothered to call or send a physical letter or postcard. I've lost touch with a number of friends, and have diminished contact with some family members, all because they communicate almost exclusively via Facebook.

I continue to stay off of Facebook primarily because of their corporate strategy of selling and sharing members' data with their real customers: their advertisers and purchasers of user data.

I'd like to believe FB is dead or dying, but my observations tell me otherwise. With more than a billion users, how exactly is Facebook "dead"?

seabeckind

(1,957 posts)
27. Just because it's the only game in town doesn't mean it's a good game
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 03:59 PM
Dec 2013

The fact is that it has joined the gadget age. Where it tries to be everything for everybody and fails to do any one of those things well.

A "smart" phone is an example. Takes pictures but its lens system is so limited it doesn't do it well. Does email but its keyboard and display are limiting. Same thing with the apps.

Oh, and it lets me watch tv and movies...on a 2 inch screen.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
55. I agree, those that say it is dead are a little quick to dismiss it
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:30 PM
Dec 2013

I think alternatives are going to eventually challenge Facebook. With better technology different platforms can be developed.

Facebook was always going to have to rely upon advertising to stay afloat financially. The users themselves really generate no revenue. It is the information about those users that is used to customize advertising that makes them the money. Granted it was nicer when the advertising wasn't invasive. It is only going to get worse. I have heard they are now including video advertising in news feeds (though I haven't seen it yet).

At the beginning of March I will have been on Facebook six years (I was a latecomer). I live overseas, so I'd say the opposite is true for me. Facebook has helped me stay in contact and actually find people who I haven't talked to since high school.

elleng

(141,926 posts)
28. Maybe, if 'young people' were the be all and end all,
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 04:05 PM
Dec 2013

but as they're not, the study isn't worth much, imo.

I'm a senior, & FB helps me, my friends, classmates, distant family, adult childrens' friends, etc etc etc stay connected.

seabeckind

(1,957 posts)
29. FB has experienced mission creep
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 04:09 PM
Dec 2013

When it was first envisioned it had a single mission and succeeded quite well. Its popularity is the evidence of that.

Then sites that wanted to do forums but didn't want the overhead adopted its system. But that system is terrible for doing real, indepth commentary with continuity. So what we end up with is a hafassed threading system without categorizations.

A lot like the WWW...the most fantastic library system in the world without a card catalog and the dewey decimal system (I prefer the LibofCong).

FB is like so muh of what we run into today in our laissez faire society. The functionality that requires a trancendence across individual profit goals is never done. We couldn't do the space program today of our country depended on it.

That also goes for the telephone system, energy, healthcare, etc. I think it's Tiawan where you carry your medical history on a thumbnail in your pocket. Hit by a truck in Arkansas and that thumbnail is just as valid as in Manhattan. Good luck trying to implement that.

Think what the Rural Electrifcation Project accomplished. We can't even get cell service in a lot of areas.

</rant>

madrchsod

(58,162 posts)
30. facebook is dead?
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 04:12 PM
Dec 2013

number 2 in alexa traffic rankings and snapshot is 8,000 +

snapshot has along ways to go to catch up to facebook`s numbers.










daleo

(21,317 posts)
31. Facebook is well entrenched with older cohorts
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 04:19 PM
Dec 2013

They are a much less fickle group, so Facebook is here to stay for quite a while.

seabeckind

(1,957 posts)
38. No. It means FB doesn't meet their requirements.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 05:58 PM
Dec 2013

I don't think it ever really did but it filled a void, a need. If you need to pound a nail, a screwdriver will sometimes work but not well.

As I've said many times, we have become the barely adequate society. If you don't insist on quality, pretty soon the expectations are reduced to the point where we're willing to accept anything.

And the waste...omg, the waste. Some standards would go a long way toward continuity and reusability. And yet the biggest effort being made in industry is toward uniqueness so you can't take your business anywhere else.

Think of all the effort some people go thru to build a portfolio on one system just to see it become obsolete.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
35. I will really be surprised..
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 05:05 PM
Dec 2013

... if any social media site dominates for more than 5 years or so ever again. It is the nature of humans to want something newer and better and the nature of software developers to create something newer and better.

TekGryphon

(430 posts)
36. If I had the mentality of a teenager, I'd think Facebook sucked too
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 05:45 PM
Dec 2013

If I added about a thousand "friends" I barely know and don't care about, and then deleted all the authors, software developers, economists, journalists, think tanks, social justice institutes, philosophers, and industry experts I follow, then liked a bunch of con-artist retailers promising free iPads who spam my wall constantly - I'd think Facebook sucks too.

Thankfully I'm not an idiot teenager anymore, so Facebook serves its purpose perfectly: an amazingly customizable and powerful RSS feed that also allows social networking.

seabeckind

(1,957 posts)
42. Slippery slope? No. Reality.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 06:54 PM
Dec 2013

Betamax, VHS, CD, DVD, Blueray.

110, 126, 35mm, slides, negatives, jpg.

78rpm, 45rpm, 33rpm, 8-track, cassette, thumbnail.

What do these have in common? Hint: each is either obsolete or is ready to be obsolete

Pick any element in that list and if you have invested anything that is not retrievable, you're SOL.

A month or so ago I lost the last PC I had which was capable of reading 3.5 inch floppies. Its hard drive was the old technology so I drove nail thru it. Someday I'll probably remember something that was on it that I really wanted.

TekGryphon

(430 posts)
43. If you needed tech advice, all you had to do was ask.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 07:11 PM
Dec 2013
http://www.amazon.com/External-Floppy-Disk-Drive-19308801-40/dp/B000FGCUSE

For $11 you can access 3.5 inch floppies 10,000x faster than you did in the olden days.

As for your original premise, I believe that refusing to adopt technology because "eventually" it's going to be retired or redundant is an absolutely stupid way to go through life.

Enjoy technology while its here, get the most out of it while its viable, then move to something else when its not.

Otherwise you're just one of those poor saps constantly chasing the "next best thing", of which 95% are failures and the other 5% are prohibitively expensive for first generation adopters.

seabeckind

(1,957 posts)
45. You keep propping up these strawmen
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 08:53 PM
Dec 2013

and then arguing against them instead of what I said.

I didn't ask for tech advice. What I said was that 3.5 inch floppies are obsolete. I upconverted as I got new PCs. I still have some laying around for sentimental reasons -- the release ones with my name on them.

I never said I refused to adopt new technology. What I said was that you have to make sure you don't burn your bridges and always realize that the only constant is change and that today's greatest new thing will end up in the landfill right next to the yesterday's greatest thing. It's just prudence to make sure the video of your kid's first step isn't on it exclusively. And isn't in a format that nobody supports anymore.

Example: the MS Surface might be the greatest thing since toilet paper but would you entrust information you value very highly to a cloud?

TekGryphon

(430 posts)
54. Ok, great.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:29 PM
Dec 2013

Eventually Facebook will become obsolete.
Eventually a meteor will kill all of us.

I'll handle those eventualities when they come. Until then, I'll continue using effective technology to its fullest, and Facebook is an amazingly effective technology for RSS-style information and social networking.

Skittles

(171,717 posts)
56. that one is a lost cause
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:31 PM
Dec 2013

thinks you don't have a life if you don't suck up to facebook

TekGryphon

(430 posts)
58. If you're as bad at Facebook as you are at reading comprehension, I can understand your frustration
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:44 PM
Dec 2013

I did not say people who don't use Facebook have no lives.

I said people who call Facebook "boring" or "stupid" are people who must have "boring" or "stupid" lives, simply because 99% of the information Facebook displays on your feed is stuff YOU subscribed to and that YOU choose to continue to subscribe to.

Your wall on Facebook is a mirror of yourself and your interests. Nothing more, nothing less.

Skittles

(171,717 posts)
59. I admire people who refuse to be sucked into the facebook borg
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:53 PM
Dec 2013

I don't claim they have no lives

TekGryphon

(430 posts)
65. There's many reasons not to use Facebook.
Sun Dec 29, 2013, 12:00 AM
Dec 2013

Some of those reasons are good ones.
Some of those reasons are bad ones.

Two of the bad reasons are people who say they left Facebook because it was "boring" or "stupid". Those people deserve to be laughed at because either:

1. Facebook is a correct reflection of their "boring" and "stupid" lives.
2. They lack the bare minimum cognitive abilities needed to subscribe to "interesting" and "smart" feeds that match their interests.

That's it. No other options are possible. Facebook has everything for everyone and the people who fail at utilizing it effectively are people who suck or who suck at the internet.

Response to TekGryphon (Reply #65)

TekGryphon

(430 posts)
78. I maintain a LinkedIn account. LinkedIn is the definition of dead.
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 01:20 PM
Dec 2013

None of my favorite authors, economists, philosophers, social justice institutes, niche industry news sites maintain a LinkedIn feed.

Besides, I like cat pictures. If a friend posted a bunch of cat pictures I didn't like, I'd turn off updates from that person, or set it to "only important" updates so I could only see things on my wall that got plenty of likes and comments (like a wedding announcement, etc).

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
79. I guess none of the folks you follow have a job
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 01:28 PM
Dec 2013


That's what LinkedIn is for...

social networking for professionals


When you update your status on LinkedIn to "searching for job" you'll get hits and advice and offers...

When you update your facebook status to "searching for job" you'll get a bunch of "is sad" cat picks LOL



http://images.cryhavok.org/d/11199-1/LOLcat+-+Happy+Cat+is+Sad.jpg



TekGryphon

(430 posts)
81. Who said I'm looking for a job? Who said Facebook is for job searching?
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 03:00 PM
Dec 2013

I just re-read my posts and can't see anything anywhere that would lead any reasonable person to think I claimed Facebook was a job-finding site.

pitohui

(20,564 posts)
37. facebook is for people whose mask has become the face. not sharing the real you
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 05:50 PM
Dec 2013

but you cannot be yourself on a forum that is being scrutinized by bosses, lawyers, grandparents, and so on

for older people who no longer have any secrets, any job or bosses, or sex/party life it's fine i guess but otherwise you have to be constantly checking your privacy settings & constantly fixing little holes here and there

it also angers me that facebook will tell other users that you "liked" something you didn't like, just because their robot decided you "woulda" liked it if you thought of it -- i've several times been told someone liked something she couldn't have liked, in one case because she was DECEASED

it's really better off avoided unless you are marketing a carefully crafted image...and even then you can fall into some traps



TekGryphon

(430 posts)
41. You should probably learn how to use Facebook
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 06:26 PM
Dec 2013

My posts only show to friends, others can't see then. My profile can't be searched on Google. No apps have posting permission.

Only co-worker on my list is one I chose to accept.

pitohui

(20,564 posts)
51. actually you should, you're going to get a nasty surprise one of these days
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:23 PM
Dec 2013

you think your posts show only to "friends" but oopsy...this isn't always the case...and google is not the only search engine

but this is why i don't talk to old folks like my own folks about it, at some point ppl are unwilling to learn from other people's bad experiences and blame the victim and assume it's always the user who did something wrong

i assure you that my dead friend was not changing her privacy settings, facebook did an update

my friend who used an alternative name didn't change her settings, facebook took it on themselves to that

so on and so forth

if you think your privacy settings on facebook will protect you, you are going to be in for a nasty surprise one of these days, so good luck to you is all i can tell you

kids aren't stupid and they have more time to spend learning new tech than the average bear so...i'm going to trust the combination of their observations and my own experiences...

but maybe it will work out for you, i hope so

TekGryphon

(430 posts)
57. This "old guy" is an Information Systems Administrator w/ ...
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:37 PM
Dec 2013

... 6 years of education in business software and multiple business intelligence system roll-outs across 3 companies and 7 states.

Trust me, Facebook privacy, now more than ever, is a user-centric issue. You're either setting your privacy settings correctly, or you're not. No excuses, especially when there's dozens of reputable sites out there to help you navigate Facebook's privacy options.

And yes, occasionally Facebook will do an update that will create some new default settings. This happens maybe once a year, if that. When that happens you take the 3 minutes to go through and set the new settings to your desired privacy level.

As for your dead friend, I'm sorry to hear that. I had a friend die, too. We took the 30 seconds to learn what to do, and the 5 minutes to request his page be turned to memorial status which prevented anyone but confirmed friends from viewing it.

Using technology is a pro-active process. It's utterly ridiculous that people complain about spending 5 minutes to learn about something they might spend 5 years using.

TekGryphon

(430 posts)
71. Oh, yes. I don't even deny it.
Sun Dec 29, 2013, 04:29 PM
Dec 2013

I've never apologized for being a "bigot" against other bigots.
I've never apologized for calling "stupid" on people with stupid opinions.

People who refuse to take the 5 minutes to learn Facebook's privacy settings and spend 5+ years leaking data and then say "Facebook is un-secure" have stupid opinions. People who have any number of interests but refuse to subscribe to pages that cater to those interests and then call Facebook "boring" have stupid opinions. People who add every single person they come across in their lives as "friends" and never learn how to manage feeds and then call Facebook "overwhelming" or "pointless" have stupid opinions.

Even avoiding Facebook because your family can see your posts is stupid. You can easily change your settings so that users x, y, and z can't see your posts, making it so you can post freely without worrying about mommy and daddy seeing so long as you don't go so extreme that someone brings your posts up to them.

 

YOHABLO

(7,358 posts)
44. I never really understood why people want everyone to know their business.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 08:38 PM
Dec 2013

I am under an alias on FB .. and now I would like to close the account and don't know how. I actually don't want people from my past finding me. That's history.. I've moved on.

seabeckind

(1,957 posts)
46. Hotel California
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 08:57 PM
Dec 2013

You can check out but you can never leave.

They're like the catholic church...once you realize the error of your ways they'll take you back. Just a little grovelling.

It's one of the options in the account setup. Or the security...

DesertDiamond

(1,616 posts)
48. So funny you say that, because I posted that too a couple of years ago when a friend tried to
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 09:27 PM
Dec 2013

delete his account and found out it couldn't be deleted. I posted, "Facebook -- you can check out any time you want, but you can never leave." LOL

pitohui

(20,564 posts)
52. facebook is in the process of busting/deleting aliases
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:26 PM
Dec 2013

good luck, maybe they'll just delete your account for you

i know a number of ppl it happened to over the past few weeks, unfortunately they were a group of folks in their 40s and they wanted their accounts to remain

but they have jobs and can't use real names to talk frankly abt politics, women's issues, etc.

several of them just plain got kicked off the site for refusing to use their "real" names, that's just stupid, what is a woman's "real" name anyway? her dad's name? her husband's? it's like its 1969 all over again

seabeckind

(1,957 posts)
70. I think you've hit the reason for its decline in the young
Sun Dec 29, 2013, 09:37 AM
Dec 2013

In real life you have exchanges on different levels and different topics depending on the person you communicate with. In FB there's too much risk that this personal link will be seen by someone who you don't want to see it.

Like a parent finding out that their chaste daughter has been having carnal thoughts. Or a friend overhears something said about her.

IOW, if you can't be totally social in the ways you need to be social, what good is it? All the stuff is bland. Like eating at an old people's buffet. Where's the spice?

Then there's the boss.

When I set up my FB I used my real last name but a combo of my wife and my first name. The wingnuts on the local rightwing newspaper have an active goal to eliminate opposing views. So they flagged my posts. The newspaper kicked it to FB cause I wasn't using a real name. Splitting hairs.

FB asked for an image of my driver's license or other gov't ID. Aside from the crazy idea that they would include exact DOB in their system, what person in their right mind would send that image off to the ether?

MADem

(135,425 posts)
77. I would wager that close to half of the accounts on FB are fake names.
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 01:18 PM
Dec 2013

Maybe even fake personas...

DesertDiamond

(1,616 posts)
47. I feel deep gratitude for FB for reconnecting me with old friends and for the new ones I've made.
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 09:24 PM
Dec 2013
 

Lifelong Dem

(344 posts)
60. Because staying in touch with older family members is such an adult thing
Sat Dec 28, 2013, 10:54 PM
Dec 2013

Yeah, and because Twitter is so so much better. Did I mention I own stock in Twitter and Snapchat. Oops left that out in the study report.

 

chungking34

(51 posts)
66. I find most social networking sites to be overrated IMO
Sun Dec 29, 2013, 12:08 AM
Dec 2013

They're home to lots of spam and trolls. Plus many sites these days require you to verify your account by providing your cell phone info - a real invasion of my privacy.

 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
73. Corporate overseers in america use FB
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 11:39 AM
Dec 2013

to spy on employees and fire them for acts done in their so-called private lives.

Don't hear the reich wing bitching about first amendment rights when Joe Blow gets fired from hi job cause he posted party pictures on FB.

ileus

(15,396 posts)
75. Jeep, guns, and motorcycle groups
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 01:05 PM
Dec 2013

I'm a member of 70 or so groups. My "friends" feed takes about 3% of my FBI time.

The rest is browsing groups dedicated to interests, or selling.

Probably 45 BST gun groups
5-10 dedicated jeep groups
3-4 motorcycle groups
10-15 misc interest groups



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