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Diana Nyad: My Life After Sexual Assault
Source: NYT
Here I was, a strong-willed young athlete. There he was, a charismatic pillar of the community. But Im the one who, all these many years later, at the age of 68, no matter how happy and together I may be, continues to deal with the rage and the shame that comes with being silenced.
My particular case mirrors countless others. I was 14. A naïve 14, in 1964. I dont think I could have given you a definition of intercourse.
My swimming coach was in many ways the father I had always yearned for. I met him when I was 10, and those first four years were marked by a strong mentor-student bond. He repeatedly told me I had all the talents to one day rock the world. I worshiped my coach. His word was The Word. I built a pedestal for him and gazed up at the center of my universe.
That summer, our school hosted the state championships. It was a big deal, and I was a star in the middle of it all. In between the afternoon preliminaries and the night finals, bursting with confidence, I went over to Coachs house for a nap. This was normal: Coachs house, his family, his kids were all part of the swim teams daily milieu.
I was dead asleep in the master bedroom when it happened. Out of nowhere, he was on top of me. He yanked my suit down. He grabbed at and drooled onto my breasts. He hyperventilated and moaned. I didnt breathe for perhaps two full minutes, my body locked in an impenetrable flex. My arms trembled, pinned to my sides. He pleaded with me to open my legs, but they were pressed hard together. If breath gives us force, that day I could feel the strength in my body from the polar opposite from not breathing. He ejaculated on my stomach, my athletic torso I was so proud of now suddenly violated with this strange and foul stuff.
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Diana Nyad: My Life After Sexual Assault (Original Post)
demmiblue
Nov 2017
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I remember following her 2013 record breaking swim from Cuba to Florida here on DU.
demmiblue
Nov 2017
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Aristus
(66,380 posts)1. Whew! That's rough!
I became a fan of Diana Nyad back in the 70's when she attempted the swim from Cuba to Florida.
I'm sickened that this happened to her. (And to anyone, really...)
demmiblue
(36,855 posts)3. I remember following her 2013 record breaking swim from Cuba to Florida here on DU.
She is an inspiration in more ways than one.
demmiblue
(36,855 posts)7. For posterity's sake:
Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin
(108,009 posts)2. ...
SharonAnn
(13,776 posts)5. Marilyn Van Derbur, Miss America 1958 told her tragic story in several articles in the 1990's
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/1991-05-10/news/9102110499_1_francis-s-van-derbur-child-abuse-children-and-mute-adults
"Now 53, Van Derbur said that between the time she was 5 and 18 her father sexually abused her frequently and that she coped with the trauma by developing a split personality divided between ``daychild,`` the vivacious beauty who won pageants, and ``nightchild,`` the terrified rape victim.
It wasn`t until she was 24 that Van Derbur`s two personalities became known to each other and she realized what had happened, she said."
"Now 53, Van Derbur said that between the time she was 5 and 18 her father sexually abused her frequently and that she coped with the trauma by developing a split personality divided between ``daychild,`` the vivacious beauty who won pageants, and ``nightchild,`` the terrified rape victim.
It wasn`t until she was 24 that Van Derbur`s two personalities became known to each other and she realized what had happened, she said."
question everything
(47,483 posts)6. Wish she identified him (nt)
demmiblue
(36,855 posts)8. She did in an interview with Andrea Mitchell.