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Amerigo Vespucci

(30,885 posts)
Sun May 6, 2012, 04:03 AM May 2012

Attempts to ban talk of birth control, homosexuality reveal conservatives' deepest sexual fears

Saturday, May 5, 2012 10:00 PM UTC
Right-wing sexual pathos
Attempts to ban talk of birth control and homosexuality from classrooms reveal conservatives' deepest sexual fears
By Tracy Clark-Flory



http://www.salon.com/2012/05/05/right_wing_sexual_pathos/

Imagine a high school teacher having to separate a smooching pair outside the classroom door to protect herself from being sued for condoning “gateway sexual activity.” Envision a sex education class where the mention of homosexuality is forbidden by law and discussion of contraception, or even puberty, is deemed unnecessary.

That’s the world that would be created by a recent raft of abstinence education bills in Tennessee, Utah and Wisconsin. These initiatives are frightening — but, viewed the right way, they shine light on extreme conservatives’ deepest, darkest fears about sex. They’re veritable inkblot tests for right-wing sexual pathos.

This week saw the passage of a Tennessee bill that has the usual aim of abstinence initiatives — to “exclusively and emphatically” promote abstinence until marriage. But the bill ultimately goes above and beyond the usual. It allows parents to seek damages in court if a teacher “promotes gateway sexual activity” to their child. It’s unclear what exactly “gateway sexual activity” is because the measure defines it vaguely as “sexual contact encouraging an individual to engage in a non-abstinent behavior.” Critics of the bill have suggested that this could include everything from hand holding to french kissing. The bill also proscribes “implicitly” promoting or “condoning” gateway sexual activity (the latter could mean simply turning a blind eye to it, hence the example above).

The potential legal implications here are what’s most important, but understanding the philosophy behind this view of “gateway” sexual activity is crucial, too. The thinking here is transparent: Premarital or extramarital sex, even physical affection, is like a drug — all-consuming, addictive and life-destroying. Sen. Margaret Dayton, a co-sponsor of the bill, actually said, as the Salt Lake Tribune paraphrased, “Teaching children about contraception is comparable to telling kids not to do drugs, then showing them how to ‘mainline’ heroin.” Here we have that fundamental fear of sex, of the power it holds over us, and of the possibility of losing ourselves (or our kids) to it.
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Attempts to ban talk of birth control, homosexuality reveal conservatives' deepest sexual fears (Original Post) Amerigo Vespucci May 2012 OP
So the kids can learn all they need to know Mopar151 May 2012 #1
So, no more homecoming dances or proms kids glowing May 2012 #2
Facts don't get in the way of their beliefs NewJeffCT May 2012 #3
The one's who tend to get "knocked up" the most are the one's who lack access glowing May 2012 #10
My prediction is that the TN statute of "promoting gateway sexual activity" will be struck down by no_hypocrisy May 2012 #4
Oh yeah, "Just say no" to instinct driven affection will work for a social species. RC May 2012 #5
Thought so. elleng May 2012 #6
They need to get their heads out of vaginas and peoples bedrooms. Lil Missy May 2012 #7
My husband talked to a woman from a very repressive school. Zoeisright May 2012 #8
This is hilarious. MemeSmith May 2012 #9

Mopar151

(9,980 posts)
1. So the kids can learn all they need to know
Sun May 6, 2012, 05:56 AM
May 2012

From "Jersey Shore", "Desperate Housewives", and online porn? Oh, yeah, that'll work........

 

glowing

(12,233 posts)
2. So, no more homecoming dances or proms kids
Sun May 6, 2012, 06:40 AM
May 2012

God forbid u know what sex is.... WTF is wrong with these idiots... They just want a bunch of kids with std's and young ladies knocked up... Dumb asses.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
3. Facts don't get in the way of their beliefs
Sun May 6, 2012, 07:23 AM
May 2012

If facts show that abstinence-only education sucks it's not because of the failings of abstinence-only education - it's because of the decaying morals of society as a whole (led by liberals, of course) corrupted their efforts and that they need even more authority to enforce their moralistic views.

 

glowing

(12,233 posts)
10. The one's who tend to get "knocked up" the most are the one's who lack access
Mon May 14, 2012, 11:10 PM
May 2012

to places like Planned Parenthood (a major reason why in my rural area of VT, many young women could get birth control and other things without the family Dr knowing and was affordable)... Or those who come from very conservative upbringing who do it anyway and don't use protection.

Once of my friends was knocked up by the Preacher Kid's son at a church teen "sleepover"... You know the place for teens to hang out who are "committed to God and waiting"....

no_hypocrisy

(46,083 posts)
4. My prediction is that the TN statute of "promoting gateway sexual activity" will be struck down by
Sun May 6, 2012, 07:51 AM
May 2012

the Supremes for being vague and ambiguous. Not that Scalia and Thomas don't agree with the premise, but they're sticklers for language.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
5. Oh yeah, "Just say no" to instinct driven affection will work for a social species.
Sun May 6, 2012, 09:32 AM
May 2012

When will people realize laws such as these are put forth by pathologically damaged people that, instead of being elected to political office, need mandatory professional help just for living their day to day lives. This is a serious mental health issue.

Zoeisright

(8,339 posts)
8. My husband talked to a woman from a very repressive school.
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:08 AM
May 2012

They weren't allowed to drink, smoke, have dances, go to movies, or play cards. He asked what they did for fun. She said, "we had sex."

MemeSmith

(188 posts)
9. This is hilarious.
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:25 AM
May 2012

They are placing conservatism in contest with a teen's libido.

Game over.

Let's welcome an entire generation of new, young liberals, growing up in the conservative heartlands.

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