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Related: About this forumToddler responds to cashier who questioned her choice of a black doll.
In recognition of BHM... this heartwarming video gives me hope for our future.
Toddler has perfect response for cashier who questioned black doll. Cashier: "She doesn't look like you."
Gothmog
(145,666 posts)Nocturnowl
(74 posts)And she's going the same way.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)colorado_ufo
(5,738 posts)I believe the concept of kindness extends to this cashier as well. And this darling little girl gave her a different way to think about things, and I will bet that this cashier will be a different lady in the future. Stay positive my friends!
3catwoman3
(24,064 posts)...stuff a sock down the throat of the cashier. How dare she ask such a horrible question. None of her damn business.
I hope the mother complained to store management. I would have.
KS Toronado
(17,364 posts)LittleGirl
(8,292 posts)mrs_p
(3,014 posts)When someone gives me their opinion - beyond commenting on the weather - or says anything on my shopping choices.
mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)I like something I see they're buying, esp. if I have it too on the belt, I might show them it and say "good taste" and smile.
But I would certainly wouldn't blurt out anything negative.
LittleGirl
(8,292 posts)MontanaMama
(23,351 posts)He also got to go to Target and pick out a toy. He chose a Little Mermaid barbie doll. His dad pitched a small fit about it. At the time we had a posse of boys on the street and the mermaid became one of them. She spent time in the tree fort, my son bungeed her to the handlebars of his scoot bike, she took part in water gun fights...it was awesome.
liberalhistorian
(20,819 posts)two-year phase at a young age when he loved dolls and wanted to get them and "take care" of them and "be a good daddy" to them. This included sitting with them to give bottles and rocking them. Mom and I thought it was great and encouraged him, as did my stepdad after initial discomfort that he admitted he recognized was culturally based. His father wouldn't even discuss it and refused to even consider allowing him to do it, but fortunately he very rarely saw him while growing up so it didn't matter what the hell he thought.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)50 Shades Of Blue
(10,064 posts)greatauntoftriplets
(175,754 posts)an aunt gave me two dolls at Christmas -- one white, and one black. I was young enough at the time to not think it much, but later came to really appreciate the gesture. And when I wanted to be a freedom rider at age 12 (and living in Illinois), I've often wondered if Aunt Elsie's dolls played a role in that.
calimary
(81,527 posts)nationalities!
So I went on a spending spree and bought one of each. So she had an African-American Barbie, a Chinese Barbie, and more!
Part of the fun was the way the dolls were dressed - in costumes reflecting the heritage of each. BEAUTIFUL!!! Shoot! I wanted outfits like those to wear! And it sparked conversation about these dolls and who and what they represented. Altogether a really fun way to educate and enlighten!
NoMoreRepugs
(9,478 posts)ProudMNDemocrat
(16,811 posts)Children are not born to hate, but they are good judges of character though. They see things differently than adults do because they have not been corrupted by negativity.
The Our Generation dolls that Target sells, I have two of them myself. I make clothes for them as my two younger Granddaughters have them as well.
mjvpi
(1,389 posts)......I had hoped that my generation had got it. We had children late in life and my kids in their 20s generation seems to be difference rejoiceful (making up a word). The little human in the video makes my heart sing.
MyMission
(1,851 posts)Many years ago, in my 40's, I started to collect Barbie dolls again. Why? My friend's blonde 4 year old had a bunch of blonde Barbie's, no diversity. It struck me. As a brunette, many of my originals were brunette like me. So I bought black, Asian, Latina, brunette, redhead ones and other ethnic ones to play with her, and at her request made a few trades. She ended up with a diverse group, and I ended up with more blonde Barbie's than I really wanted! Lol
Evolve Dammit
(16,781 posts)SpankMe
(2,970 posts)The girl becomes a doctor and then becomes the physician of the Walmart cashier in 20 years.
They didn't say the race of the cashier, but I'd bet:
a. White; and
b. A Trump voter.
I can't see a minority Biden voter taking this approach.
Jimbo S
(2,960 posts)of a four year old (we'll all white). I took a trip to Jamaica, and on a whim bought an ethnic doll to bring back. The look on both their faces when the little one opened the box!
Sucha NastyWoman
(2,757 posts)Youre doing it right!
AllaN01Bear
(18,522 posts)great smackdown by the little girl.
Upthevibe
(8,082 posts)Thank you for this post.....
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)iluvtennis
(19,881 posts)that, what a better world this could be. As the mom said, it would be a world driven by love.
sheshe2
(83,950 posts)Sophia is a very wise little girl with a very big heart.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)sheshe2
(83,950 posts)OneBlueSky
(18,536 posts)Whatthe_Firetruck
(558 posts)Dolls are culturally "practice babies" for little girls. And maybe why the cashier suggested she get one that looked like her (was the same race). I'm old enough to temember the scorn our society treated white women who had babies with black men... Or who even adopted a black child.
Maybe I'm seeing something that isn't there.
TigressDem
(5,125 posts)She has LOTS of dolls to "practice" her medicine or mothering on, but she needed a co-doctor for that trip.
WOMEN can be more than just a baby making machine these days.
marble falls
(57,350 posts)BobTheSubgenius
(11,572 posts)I remember bringing home my first class pic - Grade One, in about 1958. My father used to tell this story sometimes, because it taught him something, too. He was absolutely NOT a bigot (try some Holocaust denier bullshit around him and see what happens...or what would have happened, if he were still alive), but was curious to see one of my classmates, and my reaction to meeting what was probably the first non-white child I'd ever met.
He said "I see you have a Chinese boy in your class."
My reaction was apparently a bit of puzzlement, because he told me my answer was "No one in my class speaks Chinese."
Maybe my parents didn't do such a bad job.
Oldem
(833 posts)because of that "love" attitude of her parents. If she does become a doctor, her patients will love her. I know because I have a doctor just like her. Here's to you, Dr. Lydia.
BobTheSubgenius
(11,572 posts)Incredibly heartwarming, and instructive...and both Sophia and her doll (sorry, I don't know her name) are both very pretty little girls, and one of them has a real heart beating in her.
judesedit
(4,443 posts)GeoWilliam750
(2,522 posts)Nitram
(22,907 posts)preferred white dolls because of a poor self image. The would be nice.
http://cdf.childrensdefense.org/site/News2?page=NewsArticle&id=8283
argyl
(3,064 posts)You sure you want to buy this Gibson ES 335?
Answer A: I'll go put it right back where I found it.
Answer B: Fuck you. Maybe I'll just buy my ES 335 at a place across town.
Answer B for this old goat. This sweet, loving, caring child may make the same answer, just much kinder.
TigressDem
(5,125 posts)Kids ALSO learn to be inclusive and non-judgemental.
Unless someone keeps them away from kids of other races, kids will all play together.
But a kid like that with such a quick come back for that kind of challenge will be a good doctor some day.
Cha
(297,794 posts)I just flashed on having a little Black baby doll when I was little & that was decades ago!