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TigressDem
(5,126 posts)Thanks for sharing that.
Wish we could get all our leaders to that level.
THEN we'd stand a much better chance at reversing the damage that has been done, keeping the planet from burning up and actually getting back to days of Joy, Light and Fun.
barbtries
(31,350 posts)as long as the second party is the republican party. you could say they're the party of never say you're sorry. they do not admit wrongdoing and they don't care who gets hurt.
TigressDem
(5,126 posts)They aren't just mean and destructive, they are self-destructive.
Act like that long enough, it blows their own mind.
Not that their brain dead don't still run for office (Hershel Walker) but it gets more absurd and bizarre.
barbtries
(31,350 posts)i have a good friend though, she's so resistant to giving up the idea that there are good republicans, that SCOTUS is an august body where justice happens, etc. I don't think she is a rarity. She considers herself middle of the road politically, is fervently in favor of abortion rights, but she just can't quite bring herself to acknowledge that republicans have left the ship.
During the Kavanaugh hearing she defended fucking Susan Collins to me. I'm like you believe her? she's just a republican. Then when he was put on the supreme court the same day I said to her, say good-bye to Roe. She didn't believe it until it happened. We can still discuss things. But she remains resistant to the reality that the republican party needs to be ground into dust now. they are destroying our country.
TigressDem
(5,126 posts)DEMs USED to be the KKK's bitch, at least down South.
But we kicked KKK to the KKKurb and started fighting hard for voting rights and equal opportunity and against racial profiling.
It's a hard thing to think about, but in the early 20;s we used to be just as owned as they are now.
Their peeps are ready to fight.
WHEN (IF) they realize their REAL OVERLORDS are their party leaders, all that anger is going to be doubled or more because the BETRAYAL of it all will sink in and they will go all French Revolution on their Oligarchs.
barbtries
(31,350 posts)not Democrats writ large. Their thing is white supremacy. I moved from CA to NC almost 15 years ago and there are people here still litigating the civil war.
So many people have been republican forever, their parents were, their grandparents were, they just can't seem to let it go. But in the South, when the CRA was passed they dropped being Democrats like a hot potato. Now you would think being a republican was somehow part of their fucking DNA or something. Still about white supremacy.
I'm not trying to claim that there aren't any good republicans left exactly. It's just that these people, like my friend, have not quite caught up to reality yet. Their party is GONE. If they are "good" republicans they actually believe in democracy and compromise and are not trying to turn the USA into a theocratic fascist state; consequently they should leave their party and either try to join or create a viable 3rd party to represent their values consistent with the constitution, or become Democrats. Staying republican just perpetuates the harm. We are losing democracy here, and it's because of republicans.
TigressDem
(5,126 posts)that there are still "good Republicans" or at least "good Libertarians" who are being deluded by this crazy propaganda machine that is going at breakneck speed to dis-inform everyone so they can NOT believe the "truth" because the facts are constantly being disputed.
Because...
my son is one of them.
We can barely talk and I have to keep at him to not yell at me and have just decided we shouldn't talk about politics at least for the time being.
At least then we can make it one or two paragraphs before it devolves.
I am reading Verbal Judo - The Art of Gentle Persuasion
I hope it gives me enough skills to pierce through the lies. He honestly believes the election was stolen. That his vote was stolen. I got his voter registration card in the mail. I have a way he can request his voting record. It's just draining to have to reduce everything I say to the Reader's Digest version or a tweet sized bite to be able to finish my sentence.
He will talk and accuse me of interrupting him and honestly if he quotes MTG he has to stop or I will hurt him. I can't help myself.
But he wants to talk for half an hour or so and by the time he's dumped all that garbage on the floor in front of me, I don't know where to start and am so mad and disgusted, I can't think straight.
barbtries
(31,350 posts)I've essentially lost my oldest brother to the cult as well. We don't argue; we don't talk at all. This way, he still got invited to his nephew's wedding (haven't heard if he's RSVP'd, though we don't expect them). he can show up at my funeral or I at his when it comes to that.
I would say that your son is buried in the trump cult. All the evidence contrary to what he believes means nothing (eg, almost 60 court cases lost trying to prove fraud), his brain simply rejects it.
There is a sub-reddit you may find helpful, or at least validating. https://www.reddit.com/r/QAnonCasualties/
I don't read it faithfully but occasionally there is a story of someone whose loved one turned, saw the light if you will.
cilla4progress
(26,526 posts)is what matriarchy - leading with the feminine - looks like.
BeyondGeography
(41,198 posts)I was thinking thats language youll never hear an American official use. But I also doubt youd hear it from any man anywhere.
barbtries
(31,350 posts)to make a scandal out of that. Here in the USA we have an ex-president who is a treasonous stochastic terrorist, malignant narcissist, psychopathic 2 year old and a media that swoons over him. We have mass murders on the daily. We have torn up families and lifelong friendships shitcanned, fox news and QAnon in Congress.
oh to make that a scandal. She must be as popular as President Obama or something.
The Unmitigated Gall
(4,710 posts)Fuck the scumbags trying to hang something on her. Fuck them to hell and back.
And back to hell and fucking STAY there.
LakeArenal
(29,949 posts)She is lovely too.
Rhiannon12866
(258,780 posts)Rhiannon12866
(258,780 posts)I've been to Finland, kind and generous people.
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