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(8,879 posts)1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)it was probably spankings, observed and received, that got him to where he is. He needs to be taught what love and respect is.
Ed Suspicious
(8,879 posts)screaming that he needs some tough love. Makes me seething mad watching him treat that little girl the way he does.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)I know ... being the Dad of a 17 yr old daughter, who at one time patterned her choice in suitors after her "bad boy" uncles.
I've had plenty of "talks" with boys.
Ed Suspicious
(8,879 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)but this man-child is a boy without a clue.
grahamhgreen
(15,741 posts)Plucketeer
(12,882 posts)if you spend time watching this past the first few sentences this kid utters, you're as dumb as he is. You can find this exact same shit on the "newspapers" next to the checkout line in your local grocery store.
RedstDem
(1,239 posts)missing a big part of his life, if you know what i mean........lol
cash__whatiwant
(396 posts)something wrong here?
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)there's no where there'd ever be a situation where he woke up and she wasn't laying next to him and he would drag her back to bed. Not in MY house. And he wouldn't be sleep at her house, either.
cash__whatiwant
(396 posts)to let this scrawny little kid treat her that way.
PDJane
(10,103 posts)It also leaves you very much without support; been there, done that. However, I have a well-hidden temper that comes out at certain times. This young woman seems to have had that totally beaten out of her, and that's not a good thing. Also understand that when a man like this says "I can't live without you," it's literally true. He needs someone to whom he can feel superior and whom he can control.
Yes, I've seen this kind of thing played out in real life. A relative of mine, when her husband lifted his hand just once too often, grabbed the hunting rifle off the wall and fired. Of course, she's a little thing, and the rifle had one hell of a recoil, so there was a hole blown in the ceiling and not much other damage!
Further violence won't fix what is wrong with this skinny little strutter; frankly, I'm not sure what will fix what's wrong with him. Once the period for developing empathy is gone, I'm not sure it can be repaired.
alp227
(32,025 posts)Maury was guilty pleasure for me when I was in high school. Maybe you could tie this into the War on Women/rape culture, a political commentary? Is this boy part of a larger pathology that leads to incidents like in Steubenville or Delhi?
BTW, the boyfriend looks like Robert Griffin III.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)I had a sneaky suspicion that this was from Maury, Steve Wilcos or Jerry Springer.