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mvd

(65,173 posts)
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:38 AM May 2018

Asking for kind thoughts from fellow DUers

My dad is still fighting cancer. It continues to be very hard on him. My dog Gordon had a high white cell count and enlarged lymph nodes during the last vet visit. Hopefully infection since he is mostly acting himself. Just acting a little older as he's 10. And I am in a bad financial situation. Just so many things going on. If you have thoughts and prayers (if you do prayers), they would be appreciated.

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Asking for kind thoughts from fellow DUers (Original Post) mvd May 2018 OP
Vibes to you and yours. applegrove May 2018 #1
So sorry to hear bout your situation and that of your dad and dog... InAbLuEsTaTe May 2018 #2
You certainly have my heartfelt prayers. sprinkleeninow May 2018 #3
... dweller May 2018 #4
Thanks all mvd May 2018 #5
Will pray for you samplegirl May 2018 #6
mvd ..... LenaBaby61 May 2018 #7
My mother always prayed samplegirl May 2018 #10
"My mother always prayed to St. Jude, and no prayer was left unanswered." LenaBaby61 May 2018 #32
What a beautiful prayer! mvd May 2018 #17
mvd .... LenaBaby61 May 2018 #33
My thoughts and prayers for your dad and doggie... chillfactor May 2018 #8
Thanks for the uplifting post mvd May 2018 #18
Prayers and hugs to you. EffieBlack May 2018 #9
Best of everything to you, mvd. C Moon May 2018 #11
Prayers and healing thoughts for all! pazzyanne May 2018 #12
Hang in there, mvd Rhiannon12866 May 2018 #13
Thanks mvd May 2018 #20
Of course MFM008 May 2018 #14
Do you have a gofundme, PayPal, or ? account AtomicKitten May 2018 #15
I have thought about it mvd May 2018 #19
I'll check back. AtomicKitten May 2018 #24
I appreciate the idea mvd May 2018 #28
Love light and hope irisblue May 2018 #16
Best wishes vercetti2021 May 2018 #21
Again, thanks all mvd May 2018 #22
All Best Wishes on your Birthday! Donkees May 2018 #39
Thank you! mvd May 2018 #40
Love and peace to you... Freedomofspeech May 2018 #23
Good Vibes... malthaussen May 2018 #25
I am so sorry! GreenPartyVoter May 2018 #26
Hoping and praying for strength for all of you to get through this Ohiogal May 2018 #27
I'm so sorry. Sometimes life is overwhelming, I've been there. AJT May 2018 #29
You have the weight of the world o your shoulders right now. Fla Dem May 2018 #30
... lunamagica May 2018 #31
You have them, and raven mad May 2018 #34
Sending you much love, mvd backtoblue May 2018 #35
Good vibes sent to you and yours......nt Heartstrings May 2018 #36
Best to you, mvd. The bad times pass. Hang in there. Squinch May 2018 #37
There's some good news mvd May 2018 #38

InAbLuEsTaTe

(24,122 posts)
2. So sorry to hear bout your situation and that of your dad and dog...
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:46 AM
May 2018

Not a big believer in prayer, but I do hope, if there is a God, your prayers will be answered and all of you will soon be on the mend.

LenaBaby61

(6,974 posts)
7. mvd .....
Thu May 10, 2018, 02:07 AM
May 2018

Prayers going out to my favorite patron St. Jude for you, your Dad, your puppy, and for a financial blessing.

I can just "feel" your stress and hardships. God Bless

LenaBaby61

(6,974 posts)
32. "My mother always prayed to St. Jude, and no prayer was left unanswered."
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:57 PM
May 2018

samplegirl,

That's precisely why St. Jude's been my go to Saint since I was a very little girl in Catholic School, because NONE of my prayers were ever left unanswered.



chillfactor

(7,575 posts)
8. My thoughts and prayers for your dad and doggie...
Thu May 10, 2018, 02:24 AM
May 2018

I am a cancer survivor so do not give up hope...I thought I was going to die but here I am 10 years later. I have a precious little girl......her name is Fajita...she is a 4# Chihuahua who has been through thick and thin with one ailment or another and she is cuddled up next to me now sound asleep..so do not lose hope for your precious Gordon......dogs are amazing about what they can overcome. Bless you, your dad, and your beautiful Gordon.

pazzyanne

(6,555 posts)
12. Prayers and healing thoughts for all!
Thu May 10, 2018, 03:04 AM
May 2018

Don't give up, keep the faith. As a wise person told me many times in my low points in life, "This too shall pass."

Rhiannon12866

(205,320 posts)
13. Hang in there, mvd
Thu May 10, 2018, 03:06 AM
May 2018

I've been where you are, my Dad had cancer, too, and I know that helpless feeling. And my puppy just turned 12, hard for me to believe, and he's fine, but I worry. Sending you all I've got...

 

AtomicKitten

(46,585 posts)
15. Do you have a gofundme, PayPal, or ? account
Thu May 10, 2018, 05:44 AM
May 2018

... so we can ease your financial situation?

I got help a few years back for which I was very grateful and would like to help.

mvd

(65,173 posts)
19. I have thought about it
Thu May 10, 2018, 07:00 AM
May 2018

I am just trying other things first. My parents are also not well off. I have some rich relatives (a couple have briefly been in the news in a way I don't like) but they aren't very generous. One I am closer to and has helped before, but afraid to ask. I might set up one as a last resort.

AJT

(5,240 posts)
29. I'm so sorry. Sometimes life is overwhelming, I've been there.
Thu May 10, 2018, 10:17 AM
May 2018

You have a lot of people sending their love.

Fla Dem

(23,668 posts)
30. You have the weight of the world o your shoulders right now.
Thu May 10, 2018, 10:18 AM
May 2018

May you find some peace and tranquility when you need it the most. Send good thoughts and prayers your way for you, your Dad and your pup.


backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
35. Sending you much love, mvd
Thu May 10, 2018, 04:14 PM
May 2018

Sorry you're having such a rough go right now. Adding a financial burden to all youre going through sure does make things more difficult.

Im sending you some awesome vibes, along with a little prayer.



May tmrw come with some needed comfort and a whole lotta love!

mvd

(65,173 posts)
38. There's some good news
Fri May 11, 2018, 01:19 PM
May 2018

Gordon has acted the best he has been in a while. Barking for his jerky treats when he heard me this morning. The vet wanted to have a biopsy, but we decided to wait a couple weeks and see how things look then. Glad he's been acting like this.

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