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Siwsan

(26,249 posts)
Wed May 16, 2018, 04:42 PM May 2018

I'm having a rough day so I've decided to share more flower photos

A car came down the street that looked just like the one my much loved sister drove. Before her health took a fatal turn, she used to stop by, unannounced, and we'd start weeding and talking. For a blissful instant I was thinking 'Yea! She can help me with the garden and we can have a good chat." Then my second thought was a crash of reality.

Anyway, wandering out around nature's beauty is a sure way for me to move past emotional walls. The first two photos are from my crab apple and pear tree. The third is an ornamental tree that I keep only because it is spectacular, for a brief period, during the Spring. The rest of the year it is just something else annoying around which I have to mow.






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I'm having a rough day so I've decided to share more flower photos (Original Post) Siwsan May 2018 OP
Thank you hueymahl May 2018 #1
Thank you - beautiful!! Laf.La.Dem. May 2018 #2
Sorry you are having a rough day. Me, too. mnhtnbb May 2018 #3
Lovely Me. May 2018 #4
About ten years ago when I got my cancer diagnosis Ohiogal May 2018 #5
Amazing pictures. You certainly have a skill for nurturing beautiful flowers, trees and plants. Fla Dem May 2018 #6
love to see pics of other's NJCher May 2018 #7
Really beautiful pics. . . Mazeltov Cocktail May 2018 #8
They are all beautiful GeoWilliam750 May 2018 #9
Thank you for posting these. Scarsdale May 2018 #10
Your photos are a respite from the daily madness. magicarpet May 2018 #11
Thank you for sharing this Siwsan backtoblue May 2018 #12
It is a crab apple Siwsan May 2018 #14
Gorgeous! lunatica May 2018 #13

mnhtnbb

(31,373 posts)
3. Sorry you are having a rough day. Me, too.
Wed May 16, 2018, 05:36 PM
May 2018

My best friend has decamped for the summer to her apartment in Ft. Lee, NJ. She didn't go last year because her husband had a stroke. They usually spend May-October in Jersey and then are back in Chapel Hill for the rest of the year. I'm going to miss her, a lot. She's getting up there in age, too, in her 80's.

Those are lovely flowering trees! Thanks for posting the photos.

Ohiogal

(31,909 posts)
5. About ten years ago when I got my cancer diagnosis
Wed May 16, 2018, 05:56 PM
May 2018

I was a zombie for quite a while! The only thing that seemed to make me feel better was going outside and being surrounded by nature. I found gardening to be very therapeutic.

Beautiful photos, thank you for sharing. You have some nice memories of your sister.

Fla Dem

(23,586 posts)
6. Amazing pictures. You certainly have a skill for nurturing beautiful flowers, trees and plants.
Thu May 17, 2018, 08:38 AM
May 2018

Sorry about your sister. I can understand how you had a momentary flashback. But look at it this way, it was just her letting you know she is always with you.

Mazeltov Cocktail

(569 posts)
8. Really beautiful pics. . .
Thu May 17, 2018, 05:55 PM
May 2018

Sorry your day is going badly but your coping mechanisms are beautiful. . . I am truly sorry for your loss.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
10. Thank you for posting these.
Fri May 18, 2018, 09:16 AM
May 2018

Beautiful. I am sure your sister is there in spirit for you. Losing someone close is devastating. The hurt keeps returning at unexpected times. The beauty of the flowers is always welcome.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
12. Thank you for sharing this Siwsan
Sat May 19, 2018, 07:31 PM
May 2018

Beautiful pictures. I've been doing yard work and tending to my gardens to take my mind off things.

It's definitely therapeutic and good for the soul. Your photos of your flowers are great! Is the white one a dogwood tree?

Siwsan

(26,249 posts)
14. It is a crab apple
Sat May 19, 2018, 07:46 PM
May 2018

I have several fruit trees: 2 kinds of plums, a grafted pear that has both red and anjou pears, a yellow delicious apple and the crab apple.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
13. Gorgeous!
Sat May 19, 2018, 07:37 PM
May 2018

Sometimes I think of something to share with my son and the same happens to me. Your flowers are a welcome sight.

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