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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhat is really sexy to you?
Bikinis?
Nightgowns?
Leather?
Nothing at all?
To me, a girl in a man's shirt. JUST the shirt.
Obviously
bluesbassman
(19,372 posts)bluesbassman
(19,372 posts)If she can't laugh it don't matter what she's wearing, and if she can then the same applies.
Unless of course I'm playing in Louisville.
DFW
(54,370 posts)Case #1, for example:
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and Case #2:
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The combination of those two, at any rate, has has my attention for the last 38 years or so.
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)ret5hd
(20,491 posts)Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)Smart is sexy. I've dated some, let's say, rather unique looking men that had beautiful brains. My ex-husband looked like a Norfin Troll.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)Intelligence is sexy.
I don't care how good looking a guy is...if he's a dunce, he loses a whole lot of points
Chan790
(20,176 posts)- Glasses
- Brunettes
- Librarians
- Spanish-fluency
- Spaniards
- Bondage
- Scarves
- Sundresses
- Cocktail Dresses
- Scotch Drinkers
- Cooking
- Messiness
- Openly talking about their sexual exploits.
- Advanced Degrees
- Well-travelled
- Expensive taste
- High fashion
- Curves
- Wearing my underwear
- Consent (Really, consent is fucking epic. Way too many of my peers like date-rape and women with lowered inhibitions)
- Dancing
- Lots of other things.
- ...
- Fucking
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)pokerfan
(27,677 posts)Perhaps I didn't properly explain the fundamentals of the slowdown plan...
A HERETIC I AM
(24,368 posts)Annette Bening was sexy as hell in that part and that scene was fantastic.
My favorite line from "An American President" was when they were at Camp David talking about the noise making opposition (Played by Richard Dreyfus) when Annette said;
"These are people who claim to love America but clearly can't stand Americans."
Best line of the movie.
Archae
(46,327 posts)That's what I'm thinking of.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)hay rick
(7,608 posts)If she has a good smile she doesn't need to wear anything else...
mikeytherat
(6,829 posts)mikey_the_rat
bluedigger
(17,086 posts)Wearing my shirt and a baseball cap works, too.
Intelligence and a sense of humor are prerequisites.
JonLP24
(29,322 posts)Though I go through bouts where I'm too serious so I can't expect it. It is there as comedy is my favorite kind of television/movie entertainment.
JonLP24
(29,322 posts)Physically, high-heels.
Overall, assertiveness - self-respect. Intelligence is great too.
DutchLiberal
(5,744 posts)Woman dressed in schoolgirl uniform. White blouse, short red checkered skirt, white stockings up to the knees, black leather shoes. Maybe a tie, too. Think Britney Spears in 'Baby, One More Time'.
I'm also a sucker for non-white girls. African-American, Asian, Latin... wow!
benld74
(9,904 posts)hold her own in a conversation, or rip you a new one IF she was feeling so inclined.
BUT she loves you and would rather not.
BUT I LOVE it when OTHER males find out accidently,,,,,
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)2004 my husband gets three other college friends and their wives for all of us to go to dinner. i do not know these people well. i am in texas. and i am from calif. they are ALL country boy repugs. my hubby at the head of the table leans forward and says.... my wife opposes the war. folded his arms and sat back. my mouth dropped open. little sheeeit. damn good thing i dont get intimidated.
but your post reminds me of that so much.
must be his quirk, too.
protect our future
(1,156 posts)mysuzuki2
(3,521 posts)that look likemy ex-wife when we first got married. Women who look like that can't ALL be evil, can they?
Chan790
(20,176 posts)Not only yes, but they're all Republicans too.
mysuzuki2
(3,521 posts)Chan790
(20,176 posts)UTUSN
(70,686 posts)rurallib
(62,411 posts)I like intelligence and pleasant, humorous personality first.
no makeup.
and it must be how I was born - body hair, especially the underarms.
UTUSN
(70,686 posts)Gidney N Cloyd
(19,834 posts)lovemydog
(11,833 posts)intelligence.
And not being uptight about sex.
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)Great sense of humor
Intelligent
Good taste in music
Liberal
Converse/Vans
Guys (and girls) that play instruments
Great kisser
Skateboards
Gourmet food
Experimental
The movie 9 1/2 weeks
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)But, the women I've liked the most and found the sexiest all seem to be intelligent, somewhat outgoing (or more) and at least reasonably confident. So, I guess it comes down to personality for me.
Amerigo Vespucci
(30,885 posts)1). Supremely talented
2). Very subtle and understated...there's a lot going on under the surface, but she doesn't run out onto the stage screaming "HELLO CLEVELAND"
3). She's "consistently sexy"...she doesn't turn it on or off, she's just Norah Jones all the time, and she's gorgeous. Take her performance with Dave Grohl at the Kennedy Center Honors for Paul McCartney. "Maybe I'm Amazed" has always been one of Sir Paul's greatest songs, every bit the equal of ANY song he wrote while in The Beatles. It was a simple, stark, emotionally performed song that he wrote for Linda. Grohl & Jones clearly "understood" the song (watch Pauls facial expressions throughout the performance). But they also turned up the heat, and they did so without compromising what made the original so special. It's subtle, and it's on fire...just like Norah.
BrendaBrick
(1,296 posts)Is that Billy Joel playing the piano? (Quick shot in the beginning) I think another word for Norah would be smouldering. One of my favorites by her is a duet she did with Ray Charles on the CD: "Ray Charles - Genius Loves Company" in the song "Here We Go Again" with Billy Preston playing the Hammond B3:
LynneSin
(95,337 posts)Really
Biggest turn off - racists, homophobic hateful minds.
rrneck
(17,671 posts)This defines sexy for me. There is a mixture of indulgence and skepticism that leaves me dancing on the edge of a knife.
Giantsfootball10
(74 posts)Michelle Obama
Brunettes
Women without Implants
Women who have great hands
....and wear fingernail polish
Women who are Pregnant
Women who do not wear a Bra
lastlib
(23,224 posts)...I don't really know why, but when I look at a woman, I notice her fingers, and long ones are just an incredible turn-on. I'm sure Freud or some shrink would have a field day with that....
Giantsfootball10
(74 posts)I am like you. I also like a Woman with long fingers. Long Fingers with Polish.
lastlib
(23,224 posts)long fingers!
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)a kennedy
(29,658 posts)Last edited Wed May 16, 2012, 08:17 AM - Edit history (1)
is about 25 - 30 years old, has fantastic abs and wears a tool belt, and when he takes his tool belt off, the top button of his jeans is open and there's that trail of hair going down to never never land. edit to correct wording.
leeroysphitz
(10,462 posts)libodem
(19,288 posts)But intelligent conversation turns me on.
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)dana_b
(11,546 posts)a big smile, a big heart and a hearty laugh. I guess I have a crush on Santa Claus.
libodem
(19,288 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Last edited Sat May 12, 2012, 07:25 PM - Edit history (2)
El Supremo
(20,365 posts)Joe Shlabotnik
(5,604 posts)Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)my wife in a plain white t-shirt.
RFKHumphreyObama
(15,164 posts)In terms of physical attraction, I have a thing for well-dressed, well-manicured women and I am drawn to women wearing skirts, blouses, business suits and the like. The more well-dressed and well-manicured a woman is, the more I am drawn to her
Three examples of what my kind of ideal woman would look like
And yes, I know the first one is a Republican
protect our future
(1,156 posts)blueamy66
(6,795 posts)nt
raccoon
(31,110 posts)kath
(10,565 posts)Jeebus H. Christ, that man is hot, hot, HAWT!!
Swoon.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)bif
(22,697 posts)and totally naked from the waist down.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)kentauros
(29,414 posts)the following kind of dance does it for me (along with the beautiful clothing)
And then a beautiful singing voice (fluent in multiple languages)
RedCloud
(9,230 posts)I guess I am part zombie.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Intelligent, talented, gorgeous and able to kick ass (IIRC, she has a martial arts background).
geardaddy
(24,926 posts)Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)sakabatou
(42,152 posts)fizzgig
(24,146 posts)and big arms. not necessarily ripped, but the kind you get from years of physical labor. and i think my husband's chest fur is dead sexy.
mvd
(65,173 posts)You can search DU for my crush list for specific examples of women.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)And I'm with you on the shirt
panader0
(25,816 posts)tabbycat31
(6,336 posts)Only if he has a good body, and only in the appropriate setting (ie not at work, etc).