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DiverDave

(4,886 posts)
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 11:18 AM Oct 2018

Do cops ask for phone numbers now?

I was delivering parts to a dealership and had a cop ask me what I was doing. I told him making pizza's. He asked for my id and I gave him my driver's license and then he asked for my phone number.
I said I wasn't giving him my number. Then things slipped into the twilight zone.
He cuffed me, frog marched me to his car and slammed the door on my knee. My 11x surgury knee.
Another cops showed up and he let me go, not without a couple of more jerks of my arms up to my head.
He was an angry man, WAAAY to much to be a cop.
Calling a lawyer tomorrow.

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Do cops ask for phone numbers now? (Original Post) DiverDave Oct 2018 OP
Good. Glamrock Oct 2018 #1
I second that! ...nt 2naSalit Oct 2018 #2
So, they can ASK you for that info 2naSalit Oct 2018 #3
Unless it is a "Stop and Identify" state... A HERETIC I AM Oct 2018 #17
...and that too. 2naSalit Oct 2018 #19
This is a rumor ( So take it with a grain of salt) Mystery sage Oct 2018 #4
He was the real deal DiverDave Oct 2018 #7
damn them handmade34 Oct 2018 #5
I'm sorry to hear about DiverDave Oct 2018 #20
More passive aggressive cops. defacto7 Oct 2018 #6
Nothing passive about him DiverDave Oct 2018 #8
Ok... defacto7 Oct 2018 #18
Hmmmm Socal31 Oct 2018 #9
What details? DiverDave Oct 2018 #11
Well...... Socal31 Oct 2018 #13
I backed my truck up to a large DiverDave Oct 2018 #14
What was his reason for stopping you in the first place? Fla Dem Oct 2018 #10
I was delivering parts DiverDave Oct 2018 #12
A couple of years ago, I arrived home from a long weekend to find my home Totally Tunsie Oct 2018 #15
I don't answer questions from cops Major Nikon Oct 2018 #16
Have a meeting DiverDave Oct 2018 #21

2naSalit

(86,775 posts)
3. So, they can ASK you for that info
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 11:29 AM
Oct 2018

but you are not required to give it nor are you required to give them anything more than your ID. No SoSec# or anything else without being represented or accompanied by legal advice.

Sue them, hard.


A HERETIC I AM

(24,376 posts)
17. Unless it is a "Stop and Identify" state...
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 02:14 PM
Oct 2018

You don’t have to give a cop ID unless you are under arrest

Mystery sage

(576 posts)
4. This is a rumor ( So take it with a grain of salt)
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 11:31 AM
Oct 2018

Those may not be cops but people dressed up to be cops to harass people or cops needing your data to use it at later time but real cop Should not be asking for your ID Out of the blue like that

DiverDave

(4,886 posts)
7. He was the real deal
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 11:48 AM
Oct 2018

But way pissed off I told him no.
Maybe he wanted a date? But I don't date angry people.
And the guy thing is a non starter.
I think he didnt like my pizza joke

handmade34

(22,757 posts)
5. damn them
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 11:35 AM
Oct 2018

sorry that happened to you

my brother is looking for a lawyer... I posted Sat morning about my brother being arrested for "felony drug possession" going through Ohio because he had his prescription pills in a bottle that wasn't the original... he was saying last night that at the station they asked way too many questions... how far in school did you go, etc... he has to be in court Tuesday am... he is scared

he said the cop that stopped him was an asshole... we are all outraged...

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
6. More passive aggressive cops.
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 11:42 AM
Oct 2018

When they become authoritarian they start doing and asking things that are outside of their authority and if you don't comply they can't accept that they overstepped so they double down. The last thing the authoritarian can do is stand down. That's why the other cop was the one to let you go. The first one would have had to backtrack his actions. What a stupid spoiled brat game.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
18. Ok...
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 02:48 PM
Oct 2018

I was referring to him being passive by having another cop let you go which is actually being more aggressive toward you. I wasn't there so I don't know...

Socal31

(2,484 posts)
9. Hmmmm
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 12:39 PM
Oct 2018

Based off multiple encounters during my younger days, they would have asked for that information to file an incident report. There are a few details missing from this story.

DiverDave

(4,886 posts)
11. What details?
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 12:55 PM
Oct 2018

That i was working? That i gave him a current drivers license? So, it's not complete how?
I refused to give my phone number. THAT made him loud and angry.
A total, TOTAL, over reaction on his part.
I will talk to a lawyer. Hope that clears it up, if not, what other details do you need?

Socal31

(2,484 posts)
13. Well......
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 01:25 PM
Oct 2018

Here are the questions that immediately popped into my head:

- It is likely that you were pulled over, but your wording suggested that it could have been a pedestrian Terry stop.

- You didn't mention the reasoning given for the primary stop. Even when they profile, they give BS reasons.

- You said you were delivering parts, but also making pizzas? I couldn't connect the two.

- Asking for your phone number would have happened as he was writing a citation.

- The situation escalating over a phone number, which can be obtained very quickly without your cooperation, is peculiar for an otherwise normal traffic stop


I'm not saying you deserved to be pulled over or detained, or passing any other judgment. I am just pointing out that there was missing information.

DiverDave

(4,886 posts)
14. I backed my truck up to a large
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 01:43 PM
Oct 2018

Roll up door. I had to unlock a chain across the driveway and open a man door to access the roll up door.
I had taken out a large number of parts, put them where they wanted them, and was loading up the returns when he showed up.
I was not driving, I was working. He asked me what I was doing. I said making pizza. Unsaid was "what the fuck does it look like I'm doing"
So, no food, just ford parts.

Fla Dem

(23,736 posts)
10. What was his reason for stopping you in the first place?
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 12:53 PM
Oct 2018

Was it a traffic stop? Were you acting suspicious around a business a establishment? Not that it matters in terms of him asking for your phone # and them going all WWF on you. Just trying to understand what initiated the contact in the first place.

DiverDave

(4,886 posts)
12. I was delivering parts
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 12:57 PM
Oct 2018

To a dealership. Had the keys to the gate and door. I was putting return parts in my trailer when he appeared.

Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
15. A couple of years ago, I arrived home from a long weekend to find my home
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 01:55 PM
Oct 2018

had been broken into. Called the cops and one arrived shortly after. He looked around, did nothing except write a report. Took no prints at the broken window. (Do I watch too much TV?) As he's writing up the report, cop asks me for my Social Security number. I asked him why he wanted or needed it, and his only reason was "standard procedure for the report". Well, that wasn't enough of a reason to me, and I told him so, refusing to give my number. Why would I, the victim, need to give MY number...doesn't make sense. Guess he buried the incident as I never heard another word from the PD.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
16. I don't answer questions from cops
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 02:04 PM
Oct 2018

Years ago I had one misquote me on a traffic ticket to make it appear as if I incriminated myself. I didn't notice before I signed it.

Now I simply tell them I'm going to remain silent. Sarcasm only invites belligerence and belligerent people are drawn to the profession like flies to shit.

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