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Ok, what is that 5 O'clock shadow beard thing lotsa men are wearing these days??? (Original Post) a kennedy Nov 2018 OP
I call it scruffy ugly vlyons Nov 2018 #1
Ha ha, ha......I know....so popular tho.... a kennedy Nov 2018 #2
I get lots of compliments on mine... but, I just go with it cuz I got better things to do than shave InAbLuEsTaTe Nov 2018 #5
Come on....ya gotta show us...... a kennedy Nov 2018 #7
Unless your a handsome 20 something.... mitch96 Nov 2018 #18
If you are older than 50... Major Nikon Nov 2018 #20
Scrugly. Less offensive if overheard. nt TwistOneUp Dec 2018 #55
It's called "Hipster Doofus". fleur-de-lisa Nov 2018 #3
it makes me think... eShirl Nov 2018 #4
It's called "Perma Stubble" Quemado Nov 2018 #6
yup, pretty sure it debuted on Miami Vice htuttle Nov 2018 #13
I cane to post miami vice d_r Nov 2018 #15
dated look. SHAVE! gah. pansypoo53219 Nov 2018 #19
... SammyWinstonJack Dec 2018 #21
When Don Johnson made it popular I tried in Fortinbras Armstrong Dec 2018 #35
every second not shaving, bdtrppr6 Nov 2018 #8
Evokes memories of my bartending days... madamesilverspurs Nov 2018 #9
they've finally caught up with me - that's been my look since 1979! NRaleighLiberal Nov 2018 #10
This look has been around forever ... it just that some are lazy and don't trim / clean up... SWBTATTReg Nov 2018 #11
"these days"??? skypilot Nov 2018 #12
My husband calls it his day off. Solly Mack Nov 2018 #14
Not surprisingly, it doesn't work for Donald Trump Jr. Paladin Nov 2018 #16
My two-year old tRump protest beard yonder Nov 2018 #17
Steve Bannon Stubble? n/t MrsMatt Dec 2018 #22
I'm 60/40 grey hair and I can pull the look off. NightWatcher Dec 2018 #23
Doesn't work for everybody. Some guys just look like they rolled out of bed and couldn't be bothered Fla Dem Dec 2018 #24
"Lazy." malthaussen Dec 2018 #25
i hate it, at least for the man I'm with. lark Dec 2018 #26
It's how it feels for me too TexasBushwhacker Dec 2018 #40
Such BS. greatauntoftriplets Dec 2018 #27
Yup, 5 o'clock shadow Farmer-Rick Dec 2018 #28
I do it for one reason.... moose65 Dec 2018 #29
Why not grow a beard? TexasBushwhacker Dec 2018 #41
I alternate between beard and scruff moose65 Dec 2018 #45
I see TexasBushwhacker Dec 2018 #47
There are times when I don't want to bother shaving before going to the clinic. Aristus Dec 2018 #30
Scruffy :) works well on some men. Oh yeah. Guilded Lilly Dec 2018 #31
No Shave November Generic Brad Dec 2018 #32
Designer stubble JudyM Dec 2018 #33
I DON'T LIKE IT AT ALL. I think it's dumb. trueblue2007 Dec 2018 #34
It's "dumb"? moose65 Dec 2018 #44
I'm not sure why you're asking me this. I am woman and ..... lolol, I have a smooth face. trueblue2007 Dec 2018 #50
How am I supposed to know that you're a woman? moose65 Dec 2018 #58
well you do what smart people on DU do.... check posters profile trueblue2007 Dec 2018 #59
Your profile says nothing about you being a woman moose65 Dec 2018 #61
Oh stop it already, Stop harrassing me. trueblue2007 Dec 2018 #62
Laziness...I just dgaf anymore cbdo2007 Dec 2018 #36
They sell trimmers with that as a setting now, like a "# 1/2" Recursion Dec 2018 #37
More of a "growth" than a beard ... nt eppur_se_muova Dec 2018 #38
When you want to get personal, but... zanana1 Dec 2018 #39
That's why I try to stay baby-smooth as often as possible... Aristus Dec 2018 #42
Here's what I really loathe - designer stubble w/ a tux TexasBushwhacker Dec 2018 #43
To me, the shadow beard thing frogmarch Dec 2018 #46
Mine means that I've been working so hard that I don't have the energy to shave. Tobin S. Dec 2018 #48
I kinda like it. Laffy Kat Dec 2018 #49
Movember campaign? Men's health? applegrove Dec 2018 #51
"Monkey do what monkey see." demosincebirth Dec 2018 #52
When I retired I decided to go without shaving for a while. IMHO I looked much older after a dameatball Dec 2018 #53
Call it "some people think it's hot" randr Dec 2018 #54
See, they have SO much testosterone that even after they shave, the beard grows so fast. mahina Dec 2018 #56
I think it makes you look dirty Lunabell Dec 2018 #57
It's what hipsters do... jmowreader Dec 2018 #60
Shaving was interesting for a month or two. Harker Dec 2018 #63

InAbLuEsTaTe

(24,122 posts)
5. I get lots of compliments on mine... but, I just go with it cuz I got better things to do than shave
Fri Nov 30, 2018, 05:30 PM
Nov 2018

every day. Don't see how that would bother other people... tho it does sometimes irritate their soft skin.

eShirl

(18,490 posts)
4. it makes me think...
Fri Nov 30, 2018, 05:29 PM
Nov 2018

maybe they haven't washed up in a few days

I mean, grow a beard, don't grow a beard, whatever's fine.

Fortinbras Armstrong

(4,473 posts)
35. When Don Johnson made it popular I tried in
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 06:31 AM
Dec 2018

On me, the effect was more reminiscent of Yasser Arafat, so I shaved.

 

bdtrppr6

(796 posts)
8. every second not shaving,
Fri Nov 30, 2018, 05:48 PM
Nov 2018

beard is growing. been shaving since 13, really fucking tired of it at 50! i hate having full beard so i go 2 weeks then shave.

madamesilverspurs

(15,800 posts)
9. Evokes memories of my bartending days...
Fri Nov 30, 2018, 05:54 PM
Nov 2018

when a couple of the "regulars" routinely showed up unbathed and unshaved; one of them even joked that he shook too badly to risk using a razor. Couple of times they smelled so bad that the other customers threatened to take them out back and introduce them to a garden hose. Sorry, guys, but seeing the scruffiness brings back those smells. Also reminds of junior high when some of the boys were trying to show off the scraggly beginning effects of puberty.

Just one old lady's opinion. And, for the record, I've always been partial to beards and 'staches.


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SWBTATTReg

(22,097 posts)
11. This look has been around forever ... it just that some are lazy and don't trim / clean up...
Fri Nov 30, 2018, 06:02 PM
Nov 2018

I've had this look forever due to skin issues so didn't shave.

Paladin

(28,246 posts)
16. Not surprisingly, it doesn't work for Donald Trump Jr.
Fri Nov 30, 2018, 06:56 PM
Nov 2018

It just confirms his status as a member of a more-or-less organized crime family.

yonder

(9,662 posts)
17. My two-year old tRump protest beard
Fri Nov 30, 2018, 06:57 PM
Nov 2018

is getting close to Billy Gibbons (ZZ Top) long. It ain't coming off til the GutBrain-in-Chief is out of there. I honestly thought he wouldn't last more than 6 months. I was wrong. Awhile back, I gave it a slight Manafort trim and another Manafort/Kushner/Don Jr. trim might be coming up but I'm in it for the long haul.

I believe there is another DU'er doing the same.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
23. I'm 60/40 grey hair and I can pull the look off.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 09:29 AM
Dec 2018

I always look like I've just been out to sea for a week or two without a razor.

I'm working on the river, running a boat, so I can get away with it.

Fla Dem

(23,624 posts)
24. Doesn't work for everybody. Some guys just look like they rolled out of bed and couldn't be bothered
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 11:27 AM
Dec 2018

after a 3 night bender.

lark

(23,082 posts)
26. i hate it, at least for the man I'm with.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 12:07 PM
Dec 2018

Way too scratchy for me. I want either clean shaven or a full soft beard, nothing that hurts.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,161 posts)
40. It's how it feels for me too
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 04:40 PM
Dec 2018

Once a friend's boyfriend sported the perma stubble look. When I left a party at her place, he walked me to my car. While I was thinking he was being a gentleman, he decided to drunkenly steal a kiss. Besides being put off by him assuming he could kiss me, I wondered how she put up with that stubble. It was like kissing a hedgehog! But I couldn't say anything ...

Farmer-Rick

(10,151 posts)
28. Yup, 5 o'clock shadow
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 12:35 PM
Dec 2018

When I wasn't so gray, I had that shadow, stubbiness, if I didn't shave a second time around 5 pm. My wife didn't mind so I just shaved once.

But with my gray, I don't get such an obvious look anymore. The gray stubble, that comes after a day or 2 of not shaving, looks really awful. It looks dirty and makes most old men look grayer and older. I don't know why those old men in Hollywood think it's a good look.

moose65

(3,166 posts)
29. I do it for one reason....
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 12:53 PM
Dec 2018

And one reason only - I absolutely HATE to shave. Ugh. Drives me up the fucking wall, so I’d rather have the stubble. As a geezer-in-training of 53, I have reached the point in my life when I don’t give a shit what other people think of my face! Of course, it helps that as a gay man I don’t have to worry about what the ladies like 😁

TexasBushwhacker

(20,161 posts)
41. Why not grow a beard?
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 04:43 PM
Dec 2018

I can totally understand not liking to shave. I hate shaving my legs, but I do like how they feel smooth, so I do it.

moose65

(3,166 posts)
45. I alternate between beard and scruff
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 04:50 PM
Dec 2018

When it gets too long, it gets itchy and there’s a lot of gray in it.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,161 posts)
47. I see
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 05:03 PM
Dec 2018

Gray does seem to show up in a guy's beard first, or most. It can make you look older than you want.

Aristus

(66,307 posts)
30. There are times when I don't want to bother shaving before going to the clinic.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 01:04 PM
Dec 2018

But I do it anyway.

Stubble is great for looking the part of a scruffy, exhausted, overworked medical provider. But it's best left to the emergency medicine staff. It just looks lazy on a primary care provider like me who at least gets to go home at five o'clock.

trueblue2007

(17,202 posts)
59. well you do what smart people on DU do.... check posters profile
Mon Dec 3, 2018, 12:07 AM
Dec 2018

and as to why I called the look dumb. Look it is my opinion. You don't like what I say.....just ignore my comment.
I am not the only person calling the look dumb ...

cbdo2007

(9,213 posts)
36. Laziness...I just dgaf anymore
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 08:57 AM
Dec 2018

My job is pretty laid back and especially on days i don't have meetings I'll just skip a few days here and there because I'm over it.

Normally I would have shaved every other day but in my advanced age (40) and young kids who don't sleep...I'm over it. Sorry

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
37. They sell trimmers with that as a setting now, like a "# 1/2"
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 09:18 AM
Dec 2018

I hesitate to call that a "beard", but if it's hair that you deliberately have on your face, I suppose that's a beard.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,161 posts)
43. Here's what I really loathe - designer stubble w/ a tux
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 04:48 PM
Dec 2018
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I am totally fine will a well groomed beard or goatee, but if you're in a tux, FUCKING SHAVE ALREADY!!!

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
46. To me, the shadow beard thing
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 04:56 PM
Dec 2018

makes guys look as if they don't wash and have bad breath and b.o.

Equally ugly to me is the "shadow root" fad I see on some tv actresses now. The bottom part of their hair is blonde and the upper part, starting with the roots, is dark.

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/08/169865/blonde-hair-dark-roots-hair-trend

dameatball

(7,396 posts)
53. When I retired I decided to go without shaving for a while. IMHO I looked much older after a
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 08:14 PM
Dec 2018

couple weeks. So I ended up buying one of those beard/moustache trimmers where you can adjust the settings. Eh...it was okay. But mostly I just shave. Now and then I let it grow for a few days, but not often. Lots of men and women shave various areas these days. A friend told me so.

randr

(12,409 posts)
54. Call it "some people think it's hot"
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 08:36 PM
Dec 2018

I get compliments from younger women if I sport a shadow, which I often do, and I am in my 70s. Go figure.

mahina

(17,637 posts)
56. See, they have SO much testosterone that even after they shave, the beard grows so fast.
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 10:07 PM
Dec 2018

Mui macho.

Is the idea I guess.

Lunabell

(6,068 posts)
57. I think it makes you look dirty
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 10:13 PM
Dec 2018

And smelly. Just my opinion.

I like clean shaved or well groomed beard and mustache.

Harker

(14,007 posts)
63. Shaving was interesting for a month or two.
Tue Dec 4, 2018, 12:54 AM
Dec 2018

I thank Don Johnson and George Michael practically every day. After 45 years, scraping the hair off my face is something I don't mind doing a few times per year.

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