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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsOk, what is that 5 O'clock shadow beard thing lotsa men are wearing these days???
and I will admit some men do look pretty hot showing that look. OTHERS not so much......what is the look called??
vlyons
(10,252 posts)a kennedy
(29,642 posts)and really some guys do look kinda cool......JMHP.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)every day. Don't see how that would bother other people... tho it does sometimes irritate their soft skin.
a kennedy
(29,642 posts)Please post a photo.
mitch96
(13,883 posts)Your just scruffy, shabby,grungy and need a shave...
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Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)Its called no more fucks to give
TwistOneUp
(1,020 posts)fleur-de-lisa
(14,624 posts)eShirl
(18,490 posts)maybe they haven't washed up in a few days
I mean, grow a beard, don't grow a beard, whatever's fine.
Quemado
(1,262 posts)The face that inspired the "stubble" setting on electric razors:
https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/PermaStubble
htuttle
(23,738 posts)d_r
(6,907 posts)Late to party as always
pansypoo53219
(20,966 posts)SammyWinstonJack
(44,130 posts)Fortinbras Armstrong
(4,473 posts)On me, the effect was more reminiscent of Yasser Arafat, so I shaved.
bdtrppr6
(796 posts)beard is growing. been shaving since 13, really fucking tired of it at 50! i hate having full beard so i go 2 weeks then shave.
madamesilverspurs
(15,800 posts)when a couple of the "regulars" routinely showed up unbathed and unshaved; one of them even joked that he shook too badly to risk using a razor. Couple of times they smelled so bad that the other customers threatened to take them out back and introduce them to a garden hose. Sorry, guys, but seeing the scruffiness brings back those smells. Also reminds of junior high when some of the boys were trying to show off the scraggly beginning effects of puberty.
Just one old lady's opinion. And, for the record, I've always been partial to beards and 'staches.
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NRaleighLiberal
(60,013 posts)SWBTATTReg
(22,097 posts)I've had this look forever due to skin issues so didn't shave.
skypilot
(8,852 posts)Guys have been sporting that look for a while. Works better on some than on others.
Solly Mack
(90,762 posts)Never shaves on his days off.
Paladin
(28,246 posts)It just confirms his status as a member of a more-or-less organized crime family.
yonder
(9,662 posts)is getting close to Billy Gibbons (ZZ Top) long. It ain't coming off til the GutBrain-in-Chief is out of there. I honestly thought he wouldn't last more than 6 months. I was wrong. Awhile back, I gave it a slight Manafort trim and another Manafort/Kushner/Don Jr. trim might be coming up but I'm in it for the long haul.
I believe there is another DU'er doing the same.
MrsMatt
(1,660 posts)NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)I always look like I've just been out to sea for a week or two without a razor.
I'm working on the river, running a boat, so I can get away with it.
Fla Dem
(23,624 posts)after a 3 night bender.
malthaussen
(17,183 posts)De gustibus non est disputandum.
-- Mal
lark
(23,082 posts)Way too scratchy for me. I want either clean shaven or a full soft beard, nothing that hurts.
TexasBushwhacker
(20,161 posts)Once a friend's boyfriend sported the perma stubble look. When I left a party at her place, he walked me to my car. While I was thinking he was being a gentleman, he decided to drunkenly steal a kiss. Besides being put off by him assuming he could kiss me, I wondered how she put up with that stubble. It was like kissing a hedgehog! But I couldn't say anything ...
greatauntoftriplets
(175,729 posts)The only thing Spanky respects is his bank account.
Farmer-Rick
(10,151 posts)When I wasn't so gray, I had that shadow, stubbiness, if I didn't shave a second time around 5 pm. My wife didn't mind so I just shaved once.
But with my gray, I don't get such an obvious look anymore. The gray stubble, that comes after a day or 2 of not shaving, looks really awful. It looks dirty and makes most old men look grayer and older. I don't know why those old men in Hollywood think it's a good look.
moose65
(3,166 posts)And one reason only - I absolutely HATE to shave. Ugh. Drives me up the fucking wall, so Id rather have the stubble. As a geezer-in-training of 53, I have reached the point in my life when I dont give a shit what other people think of my face! Of course, it helps that as a gay man I dont have to worry about what the ladies like 😁
TexasBushwhacker
(20,161 posts)I can totally understand not liking to shave. I hate shaving my legs, but I do like how they feel smooth, so I do it.
moose65
(3,166 posts)When it gets too long, it gets itchy and theres a lot of gray in it.
TexasBushwhacker
(20,161 posts)Gray does seem to show up in a guy's beard first, or most. It can make you look older than you want.
Aristus
(66,307 posts)But I do it anyway.
Stubble is great for looking the part of a scruffy, exhausted, overworked medical provider. But it's best left to the emergency medicine staff. It just looks lazy on a primary care provider like me who at least gets to go home at five o'clock.
Guilded Lilly
(5,591 posts)Generic Brad
(14,274 posts)It's December now. You should begin seeing fewer raggedy ass beards.
JudyM
(29,225 posts)trueblue2007
(17,202 posts)i like smooth face.
moose65
(3,166 posts)Are you talking about your own face or someone elses?
trueblue2007
(17,202 posts)moose65
(3,166 posts)Im curious why you called it dumb though.
trueblue2007
(17,202 posts)and as to why I called the look dumb. Look it is my opinion. You don't like what I say.....just ignore my comment.
I am not the only person calling the look dumb ...
moose65
(3,166 posts)trueblue2007
(17,202 posts)cbdo2007
(9,213 posts)My job is pretty laid back and especially on days i don't have meetings I'll just skip a few days here and there because I'm over it.
Normally I would have shaved every other day but in my advanced age (40) and young kids who don't sleep...I'm over it. Sorry
Recursion
(56,582 posts)I hesitate to call that a "beard", but if it's hair that you deliberately have on your face, I suppose that's a beard.
eppur_se_muova
(36,256 posts)zanana1
(6,106 posts)The guys gives you beard burns.
Aristus
(66,307 posts)TexasBushwhacker
(20,161 posts)I am totally fine will a well groomed beard or goatee, but if you're in a tux, FUCKING SHAVE ALREADY!!!
frogmarch
(12,153 posts)makes guys look as if they don't wash and have bad breath and b.o.
Equally ugly to me is the "shadow root" fad I see on some tv actresses now. The bottom part of their hair is blonde and the upper part, starting with the roots, is dark.
https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/08/169865/blonde-hair-dark-roots-hair-trend
Tobin S.
(10,418 posts)Laffy Kat
(16,376 posts)applegrove
(118,577 posts)demosincebirth
(12,536 posts)dameatball
(7,396 posts)couple weeks. So I ended up buying one of those beard/moustache trimmers where you can adjust the settings. Eh...it was okay. But mostly I just shave. Now and then I let it grow for a few days, but not often. Lots of men and women shave various areas these days. A friend told me so.
randr
(12,409 posts)I get compliments from younger women if I sport a shadow, which I often do, and I am in my 70s. Go figure.
mahina
(17,637 posts)Mui macho.
Is the idea I guess.
Lunabell
(6,068 posts)And smelly. Just my opinion.
I like clean shaved or well groomed beard and mustache.
jmowreader
(50,546 posts)...when they want something on their face and they refuse to wear eye shadow.
Harker
(14,007 posts)I thank Don Johnson and George Michael practically every day. After 45 years, scraping the hair off my face is something I don't mind doing a few times per year.