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qwlauren35

(6,148 posts)
Wed May 15, 2019, 04:54 PM May 2019

All Ideas Welcome

Last edited Wed May 15, 2019, 08:24 PM - Edit history (1)

I have a bedridden 54-year old relative in my home who is slowly dying. He is bored, frustrated, cantankerous. The best we have had to offer him is food and TV. I think he would watch basketball 24-7 if it was on. What can you think of that he might like?

I am thinking maybe a GameBoy - do they still make those?

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All Ideas Welcome (Original Post) qwlauren35 May 2019 OP
iPad CDerekGo May 2019 #1
If he's still "all there", online crossword puzzles may be nice. AJT May 2019 #2
audio books, senior pet nt Fresh_Start May 2019 #3
I assume this is an older person...? Audiobooks might be one thing. dameatball May 2019 #4
Where do I find? qwlauren35 May 2019 #8
enroll in a hospice program. mopinko May 2019 #5
We're in Hospice. qwlauren35 May 2019 #7
Basketball DVDs. My dad said he would die thinking about basketball. Probably did. When he emmaverybo May 2019 #6
Do you have unlimited WiFi? He could look up old comedy bits applegrove May 2019 #9
TED Talks....anyway you can get them for him nt Fresh_Start May 2019 #10
big band music? pansypoo53219 May 2019 #11

dameatball

(7,397 posts)
4. I assume this is an older person...? Audiobooks might be one thing.
Wed May 15, 2019, 05:03 PM
May 2019

Some of those old Celtic -Lakers matchups might be fun....You tube maybe? Would it be safe for him/her to be around an animal visitor?

qwlauren35

(6,148 posts)
8. Where do I find?
Wed May 15, 2019, 05:23 PM
May 2019

The old match-ups? Sounds like a good option.

We have two dogs - pit bull and pit bull terrier, very loving, and he hates them. He wants his own, small dog. It simply would not work in our house. Not sure how he would do with an animal visitor, unless it was a small dog.

Thanks for the ideas.

qwlauren35

(6,148 posts)
7. We're in Hospice.
Wed May 15, 2019, 05:21 PM
May 2019

They help with bathing. But I think I need to get more advice about this sort of thing.

emmaverybo

(8,144 posts)
6. Basketball DVDs. My dad said he would die thinking about basketball. Probably did. When he
Wed May 15, 2019, 05:12 PM
May 2019

had dementia, he still knew all current, and past, scores, coaches and players.
I got my partner a set called The Beautiful Game about soccer.
Check Amazon for titles. Could be highlights, history, scandals.
Maybe he’d like the movie Hoosiers with Gene Hackman or Hoop Dreams.
May he be comfortable. It’s so good he’s not alone and has your caring.
If you get a title on Amazon, your library might have.

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