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NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
Wed May 29, 2019, 08:02 PM May 2019

I joined DU in October 2003 and this was the first personal pic I posted here



Yesterday, this same girl at her high school, she went through a Rising Up ceremony and is now "officially" a high school senior

(OK,she has one more week of junior year, but they did have the ceremony)

This was her recently playing Olivia in her school's version of Shakespeare's 12th Night




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I joined DU in October 2003 and this was the first personal pic I posted here (Original Post) NewJeffCT May 2019 OP
Congratulations! elleng May 2019 #1
She is gorgeous. And obviously JanetLovesObama May 2019 #2
Thanks NewJeffCT May 2019 #4
time flies. congrats. Kurt V. May 2019 #3
Thanks NewJeffCT May 2019 #6
She is beautiful, I'm sure you are unbelievably proud. dewsgirl May 2019 #5
I'm happier that she's a good kid NewJeffCT May 2019 #8
Apples, trees, distance GeoWilliam750 May 2019 #7
It's funny...if I had seen the second pic cold, and asked what character it was... First Speaker May 2019 #9
It was a role that was out of character for her NewJeffCT May 2019 #19
So much to be proud of there. Baitball Blogger May 2019 #10
Thank you NewJeffCT May 2019 #35
Lovely daughter. gademocrat7 May 2019 #11
Congrats! Solly Mack May 2019 #12
Junior year was pretty stressful NewJeffCT May 2019 #20
beautiful!! samnsara May 2019 #13
So good of you to share the photos! She's gorgeous...we'll need a graduation update! Karadeniz May 2019 #14
I'll probably make a few posts next year NewJeffCT May 2019 #21
Wow! My God! They grow up so quickly don't they? lunatica May 2019 #15
Yes NewJeffCT May 2019 #22
Amazing how time flies, isn't it? You must be proud! George II May 2019 #16
I know NewJeffCT May 2019 #36
Ohhhh, brava ! defacto7 May 2019 #17
Amazing how children grow! PatrickforO May 2019 #18
Mazel-tov sellitman May 2019 #23
Congratulations to you NewJeffCT May 2019 #25
This makes me smile about the beauty of our children in the fullness of time. ancianita May 2019 #24
She's a good kid NewJeffCT May 2019 #37
K&R stonecutter357 May 2019 #26
Brava! FM123 May 2019 #27
Thanks NewJeffCT May 2019 #38
Awww. Lovely. blm May 2019 #28
Congrats on having a high school mercuryblues May 2019 #29
Thanks NewJeffCT May 2019 #30
Lovely young woman lillypaddle May 2019 #31
Beautiful baby and a Beautiful girl! Kind of Blue May 2019 #32
Well you posted some great pictures of your beautiful daughter for your first time. Well done. Fla Dem May 2019 #33
I'm sure I had posted pics before that NewJeffCT May 2019 #34
Good job Dad grantcart May 2019 #39
Been there, done that, know exactly how you feel. DFW May 2019 #40

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
6. Thanks
Wed May 29, 2019, 08:18 PM
May 2019

She's a year young to be a senior, but she started kindergarten a little early and we just stuck with it rather than have her repeat kindergarten or 1st grade like many do.

First Speaker

(4,858 posts)
9. It's funny...if I had seen the second pic cold, and asked what character it was...
Wed May 29, 2019, 08:35 PM
May 2019

...I would have said, Olivia. That expression on her face is just exactly what Olivia *should* look like... in case you couldn't guess, Twelfth Night is my favorite play...

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
19. It was a role that was out of character for her
Wed May 29, 2019, 09:53 PM
May 2019

My daughter is the stereotypical angsty teen, but Olivia is confident and outgoing, flirty - or at least they played her like that. However, after some struggles in early rehearsals, she really grew into the role.

The director changed the setting to the 1930s instead of the 1600s as well.

Solly Mack

(90,758 posts)
12. Congrats!
Wed May 29, 2019, 08:49 PM
May 2019

Senior year is a big deal.

She's a beautiful young woman.

I adore proud parents.

I do feel old now though.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
20. Junior year was pretty stressful
Wed May 29, 2019, 09:56 PM
May 2019

with SATs, AP exams and starting the college search process. I'm hoping she get get her college essay and a good deal of the supplemental info done over the summer, as it supposedly makes a big difference for seniors if they get it out of the way. Otherwise, they're stressing about filling out applications and balancing courses and extra-circular activities.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
21. I'll probably make a few posts next year
Wed May 29, 2019, 09:57 PM
May 2019

Hopefully, she'll get into her early decision college choice (knock on wood) and then graduation.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
36. I know
Thu May 30, 2019, 11:49 AM
May 2019

To me, I still remember helping her prepare for Odyssey of the Mind spontaneous questions back in 3rd grade like it was yesterday.

sellitman

(11,605 posts)
23. Mazel-tov
Wed May 29, 2019, 10:05 PM
May 2019

Nothing like seeing your kids succeed. My daughter got married a week and a half ago and it was one of the happiest days of my life. Remember these days. They will help get you through the tougher ones.

Congrats

ancianita

(35,929 posts)
24. This makes me smile about the beauty of our children in the fullness of time.
Wed May 29, 2019, 10:34 PM
May 2019

I know you're a great human to have brought the world such a great human.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
37. She's a good kid
Thu May 30, 2019, 11:50 AM
May 2019

I think I helped most with living in a nice, safe town with good schools. Otherwise, the biggest help was me not screwing up too badly.

mercuryblues

(14,521 posts)
29. Congrats on having a high school
Thu May 30, 2019, 08:13 AM
May 2019

senior. Mine graduates 1 week from today! Yay! You will have a busy year. College applications, Prom, senior day class ring ceremony, banquets and more.

I am assuming you don't have a few million to buy her way into Yale.

I will suggest that you start getting all her certificates, awards, letters of recommendations, your tax returns, immunization records, SAT scores, and anything else she has done in one folder and keep adding to it when she gets a new one. Trust me, it will save time looking for all that during the application/acceptance process. Also write down passwords to the websites you & she will use.

You would think in state tuition should be easy to prove, considering she graduates from a high school in your state. I did. Nope the college wanted to know where our cars were registered, how long, whether we rented or owned and for how long. Proof of where he was born (at the hospital right next to the college)

Luckily I knew where all that info was, but I had to go upstairs and dig it out of the filing cabinet every freaking step of the way.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
30. Thanks
Thu May 30, 2019, 09:23 AM
May 2019

Congrats to your daughter as well.

She has some friends that just graduated and most of them advised her to fill out what she can on the Common App this summer, as well as to finish her essay (the essay prompts/topics are available already). Then, when August 1st gets here, colleges release the supplemental info that each colleges want completed - "Why do you want to attend XYZ University?" or "What makes you a good fit for ABC College?"

Most likely, she is going to a college out of state, so we won't have to worry too much about proving we are state residents... that said, she will probably apply to UConn (University of Connecticut) as a backup/safety school and probably Wesleyan because several friends are going there from the just graduated senior class.

I think Yale and other top 10 schools are too big of a reach for her, though she may apply to a few just outside the top 10 as "reach" schools - Northwestern probably.

I'd say her top 3 are NYU, USC and UCLA. Washington University in St Louis was right up there, but are down a notch with the new Missouri abortion ban.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
34. I'm sure I had posted pics before that
Thu May 30, 2019, 10:35 AM
May 2019

but, I'm 99% certain that was the first non political picture I posted.

DFW

(54,272 posts)
40. Been there, done that, know exactly how you feel.
Thu May 30, 2019, 05:23 PM
May 2019

There will be some water to yet flow under the bridge before you can finally sit back and finally say "whew!" but it's coming. I hope you enjoy the ride as much as you have up to now.

In the meantime, I'll add my congratulations along with the rest!

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