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kozar

(2,109 posts) Sat Jul 13, 2019, 04:43 PM Jul 2019

I posted about my step daughter I hadn't seen in 20 years,

Just got back from seeing them. I did appreciate the support from my previous post.
So how did the weekend go? you can judge,,

Koz

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I posted about my step daughter I hadn't seen in 20 years, (Original Post) kozar Jul 2019 OP

Beautiful group. I call it a big success! littlemissmartypants Jul 2019 #1

Wonderful for all of you. 💜💜 GentryDixon Jul 2019 #2

Good for you! I have some of my best relations with ex step kids erronis Jul 2019 #3

Fantastic! So glad you reconnected! deurbano Jul 2019 #4

Well, that went well! Hope she stays in contact. Karadeniz Jul 2019 #5

nice Skittles Jul 2019 #6

Looks like this was great for everybody, I am very happy for everyone!! marble falls Jul 2019 #7

That is wonderful. sl8 Jul 2019 #8

How heartwarming and uplifting! montana_hazeleyes Jul 2019 #9

HIGH 5! Can't imagine what you all feel. slumcamper Jul 2019 #10

This is wonderful news - thanks for sharing your great pic with us FakeNoose Jul 2019 #11

So happy for you. TNNurse Jul 2019 #12

Yay! AwakeAtLast Jul 2019 #13

There is nothing I can do, kozar Jul 2019 #14

Reach out--it'll be good for both of you. Love rules. panader0 Jul 2019 #16

We did, kozar Jul 2019 #17

Damn kozar, I have a buddy in Louisiana--you could be his twin. panader0 Jul 2019 #15

littlemissmartypants

(22,632 posts)

1. Beautiful group. I call it a big success!

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 04:45 PM

Jul 2019

GentryDixon

(2,949 posts)

2. Wonderful for all of you. 💜💜

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 05:09 PM

Jul 2019

erronis

(15,241 posts)

3. Good for you! I have some of my best relations with ex step kids

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 05:12 PM

Jul 2019

They have dealt with the two parents and see their good and bad sides. They'll decide how to deal with each.

deurbano

(2,894 posts)

4. Fantastic! So glad you reconnected!

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 05:13 PM

Jul 2019

It's amazing the positive effect we can have without realizing it. You sure did! Something to remember when we're feeling a bit let down.

Karadeniz

(22,506 posts)

5. Well, that went well! Hope she stays in contact.

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 05:34 PM

Jul 2019

Skittles

(153,150 posts)

6. nice

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 05:54 PM

Jul 2019

marble falls

(57,077 posts)

7. Looks like this was great for everybody, I am very happy for everyone!!

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 05:57 PM

Jul 2019

sl8

(13,736 posts)

8. That is wonderful.

Reply to kozar (Original post)

Sat Jul 13, 2019, 06:09 PM

Jul 2019

Thanks for sharing your happy moment with us.

montana_hazeleyes

(3,424 posts)

9. How heartwarming and uplifting!

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 06:19 PM

Jul 2019

slumcamper

(1,606 posts)

10. HIGH 5! Can't imagine what you all feel.

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 06:35 PM

Jul 2019

You all deserve great credit for grabbing ahold of life and making the future yours.

Many of us can benefit from your example.

ROCK ON

FakeNoose

(32,633 posts)

11. This is wonderful news - thanks for sharing your great pic with us

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 06:52 PM

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TNNurse

(6,926 posts)

12. So happy for you.

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Sat Jul 13, 2019, 07:12 PM

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AwakeAtLast

(14,124 posts)

13. Yay!

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Sun Jul 14, 2019, 02:58 PM

Jul 2019

Love it!

kozar

(2,109 posts)

14. There is nothing I can do,

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Sun Jul 14, 2019, 06:13 PM

Jul 2019

She is so unhappy in her life,,I still see her as a daughter and want to fix it right now,,and I cant...Im struggling with this
Koz

panader0

(25,816 posts)

16. Reach out--it'll be good for both of you. Love rules.

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Mon Jul 15, 2019, 06:30 PM

Jul 2019

kozar

(2,109 posts)

17. We did,

Reply to panader0 (Reply #16)

Thu Jul 18, 2019, 04:46 PM

Jul 2019

and are going back this week again to spend another week with her. She knows, because I told her, that I have 'major' depression disorder. All she said was, "my turn to help you Dad" so we are gonna go. Once again,,I can't wait

Koz

panader0

(25,816 posts)

15. Damn kozar, I have a buddy in Louisiana--you could be his twin.

Reply to kozar (Original post)

Mon Jul 15, 2019, 06:27 PM

Jul 2019

So happy that you re-connected.
I have a step-son. He calls me dad and his kids call me grandpa.

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