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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsOur little dog just died
She was 11, a small terrier mix and feisty as heck. She used to run like a maniac all over the back yard. Our big dog would just stand and watch.
2 weeks ago started having trouble breathing, but then perked up. A few days ago she was lethargic and bloated. Vet found fluid in her lungs and thought there was a tumor.
She went for a good walk this morning, ate her breakfast and then went downhill fast. We knew we couldn't get her to the animal hospital in time - it's an hour away. So we put her on her favorite blanket and stayed with her till she breathed her last.
I'm sad, but glad for her it went fast. I thought we'd have her for another few weeks, though.
MaryMagdaline
(7,964 posts)Glad you were able to be with her and she got to be in her own little bed.
mcar
(46,056 posts)CountAllVotes
(22,215 posts)So true.
Wish it could always be this way!
madaboutharry
(42,033 posts)It is good she didn't suffer too much.
mcar
(46,056 posts)She was a very good dog.
gademocrat7
(11,940 posts)Laffy Kat
(16,952 posts)It sounds like she had a good last few hours with the ones she loved the most.
mcar
(46,056 posts)about a half hour before she breathed her last, she lifted her head up and rested it on my arm. I knew right then she wasn't long for this world.
She was with her pack at the end. For her sake, I'm grateful.
Laffy Kat
(16,952 posts)For her, it was a good of death as it could have been.
mcar
(46,056 posts)For that, I am grateful.
Harker
(17,785 posts)and good feelings about our best friends.
sheshe2
(97,627 posts)I am so very sorry.
Glad she was with her family that loved her.
mcar
(46,056 posts)MontanaMama
(24,722 posts)What a gift for her to be with you through her last moments.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)Ohiogal
(40,578 posts)If you can ..... take comfort in the fact that you were there with her when she passed -- giving her comfort until her last breath. Her last vision was one of you, her most loving owner.
It's never easy. I know, I've been there. Love and hugs to you all.
mcar
(46,056 posts)First one to go at home, though.
montanacowboy
(6,714 posts)We lost three of our fur babies since Christmas and it has been a hard year here. We just adopted two rescues and are getting them acclimated into the family. I can still remember pain of losing pets from years past. We love them so. Good passage to your little one.
mcar
(46,056 posts)Wow, that's hard.
Our little girl was my mother-in-law's dog. We "inherited" her when MIL died 5 years ago. She and our big husky mix were great company for each other.
montanacowboy
(6,714 posts)Our Aussie Boy was 13 but suffered from diabetes and terrible joint pain. The cat died from a burst spleen, out of nowhere and we just lost our little mini Aussie rescue girl in June from kidney failure. She was a rescue from a puppy mill where she was crated and had babies constantly until she was rescued. We had her for 3 wonderful years.
But the two new rescue girls are keeping us on our toes!
lapucelle
(21,061 posts)There's comfort in that, but it still hurts so much when a beloved pet dies.
mcar
(46,056 posts)skylucy
(4,024 posts)Botany
(77,323 posts)She died @ home surrounded w/love and she was loving you guys to her last breath.
mcar
(46,056 posts)and she brought a lot to our lives. I was never a dog person - my father was asthmatic so we never had pets. SO always had pets around and then with 2 kids it was inevitable.
They get under your skin, whether you like it or not.
Botany
(77,323 posts)I lost my best buddy last Sept. 1st .... nice big black male lab and i said
I would never go through that again but as I type I now have 7 month old
female blond lab at my feet.
Puppies are cute but they are a pain in the ass too.
mcar
(46,056 posts)And yes, puppies are a PITA.
Botany
(77,323 posts)... but until then she will live on in your hearts. You might want to volunteer @ a local
shelter or someplace that works with pups that help out people in need.
Scarsdale
(9,426 posts)leave pawprints on our hearts. So sorry for your loss. Glad she knew she was loved so much. Some fur babies never have what she had, a loving protective family. They all deserve to be loved, too.
sinkingfeeling
(57,835 posts)DonaldsRump
(7,715 posts)Demovictory9
(37,113 posts)Doreen
(11,686 posts)emmaverybo
(8,148 posts)great sadness and missing and will again. Bless you for all you did for her.
redstatebluegirl
(12,827 posts)Chicagogrl1
(645 posts)That you lost your baby.It never gets easy. You did such a wonderful thing by helping her over the rainbow bridge. Sending you ❤️ & {{ }}.
Fla Dem
(27,633 posts)Am Amazed she was able to go for a walk this morning. Sounds like she knew and went on her own terms
mcar
(46,056 posts)I'm glad she had one last stroll.
RazBerryBeret
(3,075 posts)pets are like family and they go too fast. I have a little Shiba Inu, he is 18 (!) he gets around pretty well, not as peppy as he was 5 years ago and he's deaf... I do dread when his time comes. I hope it is relatively quick and painless like your little terrier's.
CurtEastPoint
(20,024 posts)murielm99
(32,988 posts)Dogs are the best. This is so hard.
hlthe2b
(113,971 posts)May you be able to remember only the "happy" and not the "sad" soon.
mcar
(46,056 posts)It was joyful to watch.
hlthe2b
(113,971 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)So very sorry, I know how it hurts. 💔. They are our special babies.
Gothmog
(179,869 posts)It was tough. Spenser was 15 which is old for a beardie. At the end, we took him to the vet. I ended up flying my middle child who was in law school in Iowa down to say goodbye. I picked her up at the airport and we drove to the vet's office. My beardies knew who she was and put his head in her lap. We were there when they gave him the shot and watched him go to sleep. It was nice that the entire family got to say goodbye.
I am glad that it went fast.
I just replaced by beardie with a new puppy and it has been fun. Time heal all wounds and the new puppy is fun.
mcar
(46,056 posts)But now she's just gone.
It'll be a while before I stop looking for her. Big dog is confused, too.
littlemissmartypants
(33,588 posts)I hope you find comfort in the memories she left behind.
zwyziec
(173 posts)First of all, we're sorry for your loss of a beloved companion. Our terrier mix was 12, developed a cough in February, was treated for Kennel Cough, but it didn't clear up. Xrays showed a large tumor in his lung. Considered surgery but by April, he was failing fast. My wife and a close friend of ours who loved Max, made that final trip to the Vet with him He enjoyed his ride with his head out the window savoring the wind in his face. We are still grieving and I at 80 will never get over missing his sparkling personality. What makes it more difficult for us is to realize that at our age he was the last of eight companions, each with their own loving qualities. We have his ashes on the mantle next to our favorite photo of him and a few of his favorite toys. Everyday I have my Max Moment. Enjoy your memories of him.
mcar
(46,056 posts)applegrove
(132,216 posts)MuseRider
(35,176 posts)for her. So hard. I am so sorry, you love them so and the pain is so much.
I hope knowing you did what was right for her gives you some solace. I bet she had not a fear because you were there.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(25,518 posts)PatrickforO
(15,426 posts)
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(98,883 posts)Moral Compass
(2,393 posts)Politicub
(12,328 posts)Little terriers sure rule the roost at home, dont they?
My heart goes out to you.
Hulk
(6,699 posts)We have a five year old pekingese male. Didn't have him fixed, but he's been watched over like a hawk, and he's not going to father any litters, unless maybe we meet up with another pekingese owner in the next year or two. He doesn't know what "sex" is, so that's all good. Just couldn't bring myself to having his nuts cut off. I know, I know....testicular cancer, habits, blah, blah, blah. Will take our chances on that one. He's happy, we're happy, and we'll just move forward.
My one thought since my wife brought him home (totally unexpected) was the day when we have to have him put down. My heart breaks every time I think of that, and it's at least daily. Your story is a sad one. It's part of life with a pet, and maybe that's why I didn't want another. We had a Brittany Spaniel when my kids were growing up, and my evil wife was only too happy to take her in to have her put down when she started losing bladder control, and was pretty arthritic and in pretty poor health. My wife had a heart as cold as ice, and I think she hated the dog since she picked her out 11 years prior. Broke my heart. I would have had a real hard time putting her down.
Back to you...I'm very sorry for you. Sounds like it was a warm and loving last few days and moments with your friend. Lots of good memories we are left with. Best wishes.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)lame54
(39,771 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)It sounds like she was comfortable. She was with her loved ones.
pazzyanne
(6,759 posts)Just remember she loved you and your family, and would not have wanted to be with anyone else when her time came to cross the Rainbow Bridge. Cherish the memories. And perhaps you will have the opportunity to give another deserving pupper a great life when the time is right. The sadness of death does not outweigh the joy they bring into our lives.
jalan48
(14,914 posts)democrank
(12,598 posts)Glad she had her favorite blanket in the end.
catbyte
(39,152 posts)Tears are being shed here in Michigan for your precious girl.
Collimator
(2,118 posts)And she had a good end.
In the depths of their loving, loyal hearts, no doggie would ask for more.
My heart goes out to you.
lillypaddle
(9,606 posts)I'm so sorry.
nocoincidences
(2,489 posts)You got to be with her to the end, in the comfort of her home. That is the best passing possible.
brer cat
(27,587 posts)The passing of our furbabies leaves a big hole on our hearts.
No Vested Interest
(5,297 posts)as well.
Cherish the memories.
paleotn
(22,218 posts)Lulu KC
(8,893 posts)pandr32
(14,272 posts)Hugs from a fellow dog lover.
Bayard
(29,693 posts)Losing our fur kids is incredibly hard, and their time is short. Give them your heart, and they will return your love many times over.
Thinking of you and your little pupster.

mcar
(46,056 posts)It really does help. I know many of you have experienced similar losses.
We've buried her in the back yard, underneath a tree she and big dog liked to lay under.
OldManTarHeel
(435 posts)My how I do wish dogs had a much longer life expectancy . .
Kurt V.
(5,624 posts)From what you wrote, sounded like you loved her very much and took great care of her.
williesgirl
(4,033 posts)Mars and Minerva
(369 posts)the Family who loves you watching over you while you leave this world on the comfort of your favorite blanket.
It's sad for you but you were there for her in the best way possible.
mcar
(46,056 posts)Hubby is worrying that he shouldn't have taken her on the walk. But she wanted to go - tail wagging and happy. I told him the same - she did what she loved best - walked and ate.
Mars and Minerva
(369 posts)Here's to an excellent little pup and a loved family member.
Kaiserguy
(740 posts)It so hard to lose a best friend and dogs are the best friend anyone can have. They love you without any strings attached. May you find peace in the days to come.
DesertRat
(27,995 posts)It's lovely for her and you that she spent her last day going for a walk, then passing peacefully at home on her favorite blanket. Sending hugs.
Me.
(35,454 posts)I am so, so very sorry. And glad for her, she was in her home and with her family. And don't hold back on the grieving, it will help. We went and sat on a park bench until they stopped.
mcar
(46,056 posts)We were just going through some pictures and videos. Smiling through the tears.
It actually took us 7 days to stop completely. And we still have her leash and tags.
mcar
(46,056 posts)I'll donate her harness to the shelter.
secondwind
(16,903 posts)in familiar surroundings and with her favorite people.... and her toys.
She crossed over gently.... I hope this gives you some solace.
NewDayOranges
(751 posts)SMILE because it happened.
I hope this makes you feel a little better...
mcar
(46,056 posts)Thank you!
FM123
(10,372 posts)Phentex
(16,709 posts)I'm so sorry! I know how much it hurts.
Stuart G
(38,726 posts)Cha
(319,076 posts)your little doggie loss, mcar.
It's been a tough day.
RIP mcar's doggie
samnsara
(18,767 posts)Thanks.
Tikki
(15,140 posts)The Tikkis
Leghorn21
(14,090 posts)I am awful sorry for your loss, though, mcar, and your family's
sweet dreams, little pup, you will be missed
redstateblues
(10,565 posts)Theres still a huge hole in my life
Lefta Dissenter
(6,703 posts)LuckyCharms
(22,648 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(16,406 posts)It sounds like she went peacefully in familiar surroundings with the people she loved.
vercetti2021
(10,481 posts)Rainbow bridge they wait for us
Buzz cook
(2,899 posts)We've lost two pets this year, so I know how you feel.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(130,533 posts)She had a good life and you'll always have her in your happy memories of her. But it sure hurts to lose them, doesn't it...
Maraya1969
(23,497 posts)Raster
(21,010 posts)...
over the rainbrow bridge, little one...
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)over the years, I truly wish it could have been like that for all of them. And us.
Ginger42
(59 posts)Dogs give us so much. They leave a big hole in our lives when they go. I'm glad you were there for her at the end.
renate
(13,776 posts)Just walked, just fed, and surrounded by the love she'd known all her life.
I'm so sorry for your loss. It hurts so much.
Wolf Frankula
(3,835 posts)I know what it's like to lose a four legged friend. Wait, then go to a dog rescue and let a doggy pick you out.
Wolf
panader0
(25,816 posts)evident in your words. I'm sorry mcar..........
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)You must be heartbroken. I am glad she didn't suffer for long and that you were there to comfort her until the very end.
Mendocino
(8,492 posts)then when I die, I want to go where they went"
Will Rogers
Niagara
(11,851 posts)Blazesweetie
(42 posts)Dogs bring us so much joy. Their only negative is that their lives are too short.