Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:01 PM
Goodheart (4,271 posts)
OMG... I was overliked at dinner by the couple at the next table.
Bear with me.
I didn't know them, they didn't know me, they didn't gush over me, I don't think they even noticed me, and I didn't speak to them nor they to me. But they DID annoy me. Their conversation.... You don't really WANT to tune in to what your neighbors are saying, but sometimes in close proximity you can't NOT hear it. Maybe I shouldn't be so irritable but it becomes like nails on a blackboard. I call it being "overliked". You've probably also been overliked. I'll explain by posting a bit of what the young fellow was saying to his friend: "So, I was LIKE watching this documentary, and it was LIKE about immigration, and I sort of LIKE felt sorry for those people because I'm sure it must be LIKE terrifying to come a strange place because LIKE your own country is so bad LIKE. And Ford LIKE doesn't make cars anymore, because LIKE they're moving to all truck and SUV production because that's LIKE the future. LIKE, LIKE, LIKE, LIKE, LIKE, LIKE....." What is it with this Like Generation? Granted... we had our "um's" and "you know's"... is "LIKE" supposed to be a step up from those? It's ANNOYING AS HELL. And you really, really, really want to lean over and say "young man, you say LIKE too much"... but you don't because you don't want to cause a scene, or admit that you were listening to them even though it was entirely not your fault, nor hurt some feelings, and they seem to be otherwise very fine people. Really unlikable, though.
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Author | Time | Post |
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Goodheart | Jul 2019 | OP |
InAbLuEsTaTe | Jul 2019 | #1 | |
blueinredohio | Jul 2019 | #2 | |
dhill926 | Jul 2019 | #4 | |
Leghorn21 | Jul 2019 | #5 | |
a kennedy | Jul 2019 | #14 | |
sl8 | Jul 2019 | #17 | |
Danascot | Jul 2019 | #35 | |
redwitch | Jul 2019 | #3 | |
LakeArenal | Jul 2019 | #6 | |
Skittles | Jul 2019 | #7 | |
spooky3 | Jul 2019 | #8 | |
AJT | Jul 2019 | #9 | |
NRaleighLiberal | Jul 2019 | #10 | |
ProudLib72 | Jul 2019 | #11 | |
mnhtnbb | Jul 2019 | #12 | |
Crabby Appleton | Jul 2019 | #13 | |
a kennedy | Jul 2019 | #15 | |
Callalily | Jul 2019 | #16 | |
zanana1 | Jul 2019 | #18 | |
Goodheart | Jul 2019 | #19 | |
zanana1 | Jul 2019 | #25 | |
sl8 | Jul 2019 | #20 | |
IrishEyes | Jul 2019 | #21 | |
JustABozoOnThisBus | Jul 2019 | #22 | |
Goodheart | Jul 2019 | #23 | |
JustABozoOnThisBus | Jul 2019 | #24 | |
underpants | Jul 2019 | #26 | |
grumpyduck | Jul 2019 | #30 | |
underpants | Jul 2019 | #31 | |
zooks | Aug 2019 | #39 | |
Demovictory9 | Aug 2019 | #43 | |
catbyte | Jul 2019 | #27 | |
Ilsa | Jul 2019 | #37 | |
catbyte | Jul 2019 | #38 | |
Bradshaw3 | Jul 2019 | #28 | |
Voltaire2 | Jul 2019 | #29 | |
customerserviceguy | Jul 2019 | #32 | |
NJCher | Aug 2019 | #41 | |
lunasun | Jul 2019 | #33 | |
Disaffected | Jul 2019 | #34 | |
happybird | Jul 2019 | #36 | |
zooks | Aug 2019 | #40 | |
roody | Aug 2019 | #42 |
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:04 PM
InAbLuEsTaTe (23,728 posts)
1. I like hear what you're saying.
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:06 PM
blueinredohio (6,261 posts)
2. My sister says know what I mean? After every sentence. It drives me nuts.
Response to blueinredohio (Reply #2)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:08 PM
dhill926 (14,511 posts)
4. I do know what you mean...
know what I'm sayin'?
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Response to dhill926 (Reply #4)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:14 PM
Leghorn21 (13,067 posts)
5. I do know what you're sayin'...
ya feel me?
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Response to Leghorn21 (Reply #5)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 10:47 PM
a kennedy (25,557 posts)
14. Yup....that know what I'm saying, drives me nuts too........
HATE IT. Now it’s or was “moving forward”. And i’m trying to get over “awesome” myself.
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:07 PM
redwitch (14,684 posts)
3. I like that he feels compassion for immigrants.
He could have been, like, gushing over the orange moron.
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:16 PM
LakeArenal (22,857 posts)
6. At a restaurant we regularly go, our waitress...
Says “Just like that,” after every service.
Take the order, “just like that” Bring the drink, “just like that” Bring dinner, “ just like that”. 😳😳 |
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:20 PM
Skittles (144,756 posts)
7. omg
standing in line at a book store, a couple of 20 something gals behind me, they were like, talking about upcoming job interviews and like, how nerve wracking it would be and like, we need to get tips on the internet....I turned around and said, excuse me, I HAVE A TIP FOR YOU ....you need keep your LIKE HABIT in check during a job interview.....I agree it is ANNOYING as hell.....neither one of them was aware they were doing this, it had become normalized
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:25 PM
spooky3 (30,274 posts)
8. I know a 50-something with a master's degree who does this.
It’s maddening!
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:27 PM
AJT (5,240 posts)
9. I like what you're saying....
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 09:45 PM
NRaleighLiberal (56,721 posts)
10. So, to make a long story short, like...
so many buzz terms these days!
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 10:10 PM
ProudLib72 (17,984 posts)
11. Maybe it was Dr. Lexus
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 10:26 PM
mnhtnbb (29,694 posts)
12. LOL. I'm not alone!
I live in a high rise apartment building with many 20 and 30 something tenants. Occasionally I will get on the elevator with a couple of them having a conversation loaded with "likes". It really is a terrible habit.
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 10:28 PM
Crabby Appleton (5,231 posts)
13. I can dig it, man.
Response to Crabby Appleton (Reply #13)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 10:49 PM
a kennedy (25,557 posts)
15. Ha ha, now that takes me back......
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 07:52 AM
Callalily (13,240 posts)
16. Using the work "like" all the time is very annoying.
Another one is when people end the sentence on an active or two higher than the rest of the sentence, or sing the last word or two! Sheesh!
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 09:00 AM
zanana1 (5,336 posts)
18. When I was in high school, 50 years ago...
We said "like" constantly. I guess it made a comeback.
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Response to zanana1 (Reply #18)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 09:08 AM
Goodheart (4,271 posts)
19. I thought it started, like, with that "Valley Girl" movie.
Great movie.... except for its societal impact, I guess.
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Response to Goodheart (Reply #19)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 02:55 PM
zanana1 (5,336 posts)
25. Nope. We also coined the word "dude" regarding guys. nt
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 09:57 AM
sl8 (9,765 posts)
20. I think I ran into those two, too:
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 09:58 AM
IrishEyes (3,218 posts)
21. I was a 90s x generation kid and I used the word like constantly.
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 10:11 AM
JustABozoOnThisBus (22,203 posts)
22. Yeah, so, ...
... I don't actually have anything to add. I just notice when verbal responses start out, "Yeah, so ...".
And that's "irregardless" of whether they say "like" a lot. ![]() |
Response to JustABozoOnThisBus (Reply #22)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 10:25 AM
Goodheart (4,271 posts)
23. You sound mighty defensive, Maynard!
Response to Goodheart (Reply #23)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 12:29 PM
JustABozoOnThisBus (22,203 posts)
24. Yeah, no, so, huh, what?
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 02:57 PM
underpants (170,728 posts)
26. My teenager does this
I was getting on her about it and she explained that because she’s surrounded by teenagers if you take a break in talking someone else will start.
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Response to underpants (Reply #26)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 04:06 PM
grumpyduck (4,656 posts)
30. So "like" is like a filler word you use while you like think of like what else to say?
Another one that bugs me is "reach out." It's like used all the time nowadays by like everybody.
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Response to grumpyduck (Reply #30)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 04:13 PM
underpants (170,728 posts)
31. As she says, it's better than saying "Uh"
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Response to grumpyduck (Reply #30)
Thu Aug 1, 2019, 07:06 PM
zooks (308 posts)
39. OMG "reach out" drive me totally nuts
Response to underpants (Reply #26)
Sun Aug 4, 2019, 01:17 AM
Demovictory9 (28,012 posts)
43. So "like" is the new "um". I call them all mouth noises
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 03:06 PM
catbyte (29,326 posts)
27. I hear ya. Same with the word "basically." ARRGH!
Response to catbyte (Reply #27)
Wed Jul 31, 2019, 10:06 PM
Ilsa (59,806 posts)
37. Like, basically,
for what it's worth, right?, and others.
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Response to Ilsa (Reply #37)
Wed Jul 31, 2019, 11:48 PM
catbyte (29,326 posts)
38. At the end of the day, you're right.
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 03:25 PM
Bradshaw3 (6,294 posts)
28. I once started counting the number of "likes" a college student at the next table was saying
I quit after 50. That's literally true and doesn't even include the ones she said till I started counting.
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 03:47 PM
Voltaire2 (10,523 posts)
29. It's even worse. They were all over my lawn
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 04:23 PM
customerserviceguy (25,182 posts)
32. I have absolutely learned
to tune everything out. My lady likes to listen to conversations around the room. That comes in handy on Trivia Night.
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Response to customerserviceguy (Reply #32)
Thu Aug 1, 2019, 07:17 PM
NJCher (30,255 posts)
41. I do that, too
Except I had a head injury a few decades ago that left me with the inability to tune things out naturally. Consequently I wear headphones in public. I wear them everywhere because these types of things annoy me a great deal. I've found I can actually enjoy shopping now that I have headphones.
Anytime I forget to wear them, I'm sorry. It's always something: screaming kid, cell phone conversation I don't want to hear, noisy store. ![]() |
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 04:37 PM
lunasun (21,646 posts)
33. Yeah well
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Tue Jul 30, 2019, 05:02 PM
Disaffected (2,757 posts)
34. And, why
does almost everyone (even on teevee and radio) seem to say "gonna" or "gunna" instead of "going to"??
That's one reason I enjoy listening to British programming - they still speak English over there. What's not to like? ![]() |
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Wed Jul 31, 2019, 08:54 PM
happybird (3,285 posts)
36. 😁
From the title, I thought you were going to say the couple was aggressively trying to pick you up.
![]() The 'like' thing is something I, like, hate. Drives me nuts! Sorry you had to endure that. Ugh. |
Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Thu Aug 1, 2019, 07:08 PM
zooks (308 posts)
40. Be happy you weren't sitting in front of two guys whose
every other word was shit. "It was shit car and man that bridge was shit" and on and on.
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Response to Goodheart (Original post)
Sat Aug 3, 2019, 08:15 PM
roody (10,808 posts)