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redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 01:31 PM Nov 2019

Help from some male people on DU.

Ok, I am married to a scientist, he lives and breathes science, lives in the lab, doesn't have a ton of hobbies. He loves his Jazz and Blues music and expensive scotch . I always struggle at Christmas to find something to blow his socks off. I did it once with an old scientific balance in a wood case but since then not so much.

Any ideas would be truly appreciated!!!!

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Help from some male people on DU. (Original Post) redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 OP
Maybe some *really* expensive Scotch? The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2019 #1
I thought about ordering some from Scotland. redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #2
What kind of scientist is he? The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2019 #7
A physical chemist. redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #9
I gave a relative who went to Scotland $ to buy me some good Scotch. jayfish Nov 2019 #25
Personally I don't care much for expensive gifts related to my interests Major Nikon Nov 2019 #50
There are really good Whiskies for 50-80 bucks. The Polack MSgt Nov 2019 #54
Name a Star after him. MicaelS Nov 2019 #6
Blues Cruise - and you can go with him. Lochloosa Nov 2019 #3
Wow he would love that! So would I! redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #5
You can skimp on the room a little. You won't be in it much of the time. Lochloosa Nov 2019 #10
This would be worth the money redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #12
It's a blast. Impromptu late night jams. Drinking with the bands. Lochloosa Nov 2019 #18
There are several to choose from, but I would do beachbumbob Nov 2019 #51
Blues Cruise was very first thing I thought of !!! PufPuf23 Nov 2019 #56
This message was self-deleted by its author sl8 Nov 2019 #4
My member can't type Cartoonist Nov 2019 #8
Stand closer to the keyboard. rsdsharp Nov 2019 #11
I'll need some visual stimulation Cartoonist Nov 2019 #14
With the visual stimulation and sdfernando Nov 2019 #33
Can only reach the space bar at my age. customerserviceguy Nov 2019 #16
a subscription to sock club...name a star for him...a ride on a MIG jet... samnsara Nov 2019 #13
Star naming is a racket Cartoonist Nov 2019 #17
Agreed. LakeArenal Nov 2019 #34
I adopted an orphaned elephant through the Sheldrick Trust for my daughter's birthday. Arkansas Granny Nov 2019 #22
My lady and I customerserviceguy Nov 2019 #15
Anytime we go to intimate venues for Jazz night is a good time. redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #19
I'm not into cruises, either customerserviceguy Nov 2019 #62
What are his hobbies? How old is he, does he have any prepper interests such as hurricanes, weather? braddy Nov 2019 #20
He is 58, he doesn't really have any hobbies which is the issue in finding him a gift. redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #21
Don't they have "Storm Chaser Tours" in your neck of the woods? The Figment Nov 2019 #23
You know he might really enjoy that. redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #24
I guess he already has the tech that he desires related to weather? The fancy radio, the weather braddy Nov 2019 #30
Thank you he has some of the "toys" but some of these would be good to think about. redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #31
Affordable cool stuff LunaSea Nov 2019 #26
I love this, great idea for a stocking stuffer! redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #32
Does He Have A Turntable... jayfish Nov 2019 #27
He has a turntable and some sansui speakers he won't part with :-). redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #29
Well... Back to scotch then. jayfish Nov 2019 #35
Oh like this! Thanks! redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #36
NICE! Glad I could be of service. -NT- jayfish Nov 2019 #37
Scotch and vinyl OriginalGeek Nov 2019 #41
He is a fun guy, smart guy, kind of geek, but really fun. redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #44
I try to be all that for my wife OriginalGeek Nov 2019 #45
I just treated myself Dr Vegas Nov 2019 #28
A Tasting Tour Of Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 🥃 Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2019 #38
When we win the lottery :-)! redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #39
Cheers! 🥃 Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2019 #40
Have you checked out the catalog "Uncommon Goods"? woodsprite Nov 2019 #42
Wow I will check that out. redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #43
This retired land surveyor suggests: yonder Nov 2019 #46
These are good ideas, I have been on the hunt for an old microscope. redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #48
Get him a slide rule... Wounded Bear Nov 2019 #47
If he likes good Scotch buy him a couple diffrent high quality Japanese whiskeys. comradebillyboy Nov 2019 #49
a slide rule Dustlawyer Nov 2019 #52
FWIW, Amazon has an interesting collection of classic jazz on vinyl sarge43 Nov 2019 #53
A single pot still, Baby! Brother Buzz Nov 2019 #55
If he likes mechanical things-a vintage pocket watch? Boxerfan Nov 2019 #57
A mechanical solar system bucolic_frolic Nov 2019 #58
Beer brewing kit? denbot Nov 2019 #59
Gosh lots of great ideas thank you all! redstatebluegirl Nov 2019 #60
You might consider a special book... Harker Nov 2019 #61

jayfish

(10,037 posts)
25. I gave a relative who went to Scotland $ to buy me some good Scotch.
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 02:31 PM
Nov 2019

She brought back Dewar's. ...White Label!

Get an educated opinion before you order.

Major Nikon

(36,817 posts)
50. Personally I don't care much for expensive gifts related to my interests
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 04:27 PM
Nov 2019

Inevitably you wind up with something you'd probably never buy yourself, simply because it doesn't match your particular tastes and/or it's not a good value for what you prefer.

I think you are better off buying something that matches your interests, because you'll have a better idea of what separates the wheat from the chaff. It also tells someone you put more thought into it.

The Polack MSgt

(13,175 posts)
54. There are really good Whiskies for 50-80 bucks.
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 05:03 PM
Nov 2019

If he isn't a big fan of heavily peated scotches - Monkey Shoulder is really good and available for about $43 which is a very reasonable price.

If it's that heavy peat, salty highland barley with the smoke he likes - Laphroaig runs from about $40 for the 10 Year (DELICIOUS) select to $700 for a bottle of the special barrel selection 18 year old single malt (I will never taste this)

But honestly you'd be hard pressed to beat the $70-90 Laphroaig Single Malt Cairdeas for any amount.

But, all whisky (Scotland and Japan) or whiskey (rest of the world) rankings are subjective - and while we can agree on what is bad, what is good only exists in the mind of each drinker.

Side notes: If he likes other kinds of whiskies, Michter's American Whiskey is my current obsession- it's around 50 bucks.

Knob Creek Rye is always amazing if hubby has a taste for the spicy.

If really good low smoke/mellow whisky with cool looking labels are the ticket - just about any Hibiki blend will work.

Budgetbottle.com is a good place to start the search - But I always buy local in a brick and mortar store - because Boomer.

Lochloosa

(16,055 posts)
3. Blues Cruise - and you can go with him.
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 01:35 PM
Nov 2019
https://bluescruise.com/

There are others that leave from different ports. Some friends of mine take the one out of San Diego, CA

Here's last years lineup:

Taj Mahal Quartet, Kenny Wayne Shepherd, Fabulous Thunderbirds, LRBC w/ Tommy Castro, Tinsley Ellis, Vanessa Collier & John Nemeth, Tab Benoit, Ruthie Foster, Ana Popovic, Victor Wainwright & The Train, California Honeydrops, John Hammond, Tommy Castro & The Painkillers, Terrance Simien & The Zydeco Experience, Larry McCray, Sugaray Rayford, Albert Cummings, Thornetta Davis, Nick Moss Band w/ Dennis Gruenling & Kate Moss, Nick Schnebelen Band, Dexter Allen, Gumbo Grits & Gravy (Anne Harris, Guy Davis, Marcella Simien), Mississippi Heat w/ Lurrie Bell, Jontavious Willis & Andrew Alli, Mitch Woods, Rev. Billy C. Wirtz, Barry Cuda, Lola & more

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
5. Wow he would love that! So would I!
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 01:37 PM
Nov 2019

He has a conference in San Diego next year, maybe we could take a little extra time and do this. THANK YOU!!!!

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
12. This would be worth the money
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 01:43 PM
Nov 2019

I see expensive scotch as a waste once it goes past a certain price. .

Thanks so much!

PufPuf23

(8,741 posts)
56. Blues Cruise was very first thing I thought of !!!
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 06:59 PM
Nov 2019



Joe Bonamassa, Kenny Wayne Shepherd, Samantha Fish, Walter Trout - Going Down - KTBA Cruise 2019

Response to redstatebluegirl (Original post)

samnsara

(17,600 posts)
13. a subscription to sock club...name a star for him...a ride on a MIG jet...
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 01:47 PM
Nov 2019

...hubby adopted a giant Madagascar cockroach for me for my bday once..of course it has to stay at the zoo, but i get papers on it...ewww

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
15. My lady and I
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 01:52 PM
Nov 2019

have taken to giving each other "experience" presents, where we do the experience together. We already have more than enough stuff, and we gave away vast amounts of stuff to charity this year as part of the final phase of our move to SC.

Are there things you have done together that he particularly liked?

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
19. Anytime we go to intimate venues for Jazz night is a good time.
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 02:00 PM
Nov 2019

He relaxes and enjoys himself. The blues cruise that someone suggested may be just the thing this year. I'm not into cruises, but this one sounds great.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
62. I'm not into cruises, either
Fri Nov 22, 2019, 01:28 AM
Nov 2019

but surely, there is a jazz club within a few hundred miles of where you live. Maybe getting tickets to it, and finding a nearby motel to spend the night is an enjoyable and affordable present that you both will remember fondly.

Or, go with the cruise if you think you can put up with it.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
21. He is 58, he doesn't really have any hobbies which is the issue in finding him a gift.
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 02:06 PM
Nov 2019

He does enjoy the weather. Living in Oklahoma, he is fascinated with storms and such.

The Figment

(494 posts)
23. Don't they have "Storm Chaser Tours" in your neck of the woods?
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 02:25 PM
Nov 2019

If he is a weather geek imagine if he could spend a week chasing tornados!
As a science pro he would have a blast with all the technology and equipment that they use.

LunaSea

(2,892 posts)
26. Affordable cool stuff
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 02:34 PM
Nov 2019

www.sciplus.com
Huge catalog of interesting things.

Like this-

ERLENMEYER FLASK COFFEE CUP

Free paper catalog that's pretty funny to read.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
29. He has a turntable and some sansui speakers he won't part with :-).
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 02:39 PM
Nov 2019

He has a good collection of old vinyl. He prefers that to CDs.

jayfish

(10,037 posts)
35. Well... Back to scotch then.
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 03:02 PM
Nov 2019

I find it difficult to find proper snifters in brick and mortar stores.

This one is pretty nice.

Norlan Whisky Glass

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
41. Scotch and vinyl
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 03:37 PM
Nov 2019

I'm liking your husband more and more. I can't give much Scotch advice other than I love Laphroaig single malt (18yo is some of the best I've had but I can only afford 10yo lol) and I like Buchanan's a lot for a blend but that's more for sentimental reasons as that's my clan.

I can't give much vinyl advice either as I mostly collect death metal vinyl but Coltrane's A Love Supreme is one of my favorite records in the world.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
45. I try to be all that for my wife
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 03:49 PM
Nov 2019

but I'm more smartass than smart.

She hasn't kicked me out yet though (33+ years) so I figure I'm funny enough to keep around.

Cheers to y'all! I'm sure whatever you get he'll love.

Dr Vegas

(456 posts)
28. I just treated myself
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 02:37 PM
Nov 2019

to a NEW CD

Big Band of Brothers "A Jazz Celebration of the Allman Brothers Band"
That would be a great gift for a person who loves Jazz and Blues and under $20.00.

woodsprite

(11,900 posts)
42. Have you checked out the catalog "Uncommon Goods"?
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 03:38 PM
Nov 2019

I'm getting my husband a standing desk balance board for his office. When I was poking around, I saw they had some other nice gifts.

yonder

(9,653 posts)
46. This retired land surveyor suggests:
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 03:54 PM
Nov 2019

An old, survey quality solar compass, transit or theodolite. Maybe an antique compass? It might be a bit out of his discipline but if he liked the balance, he might like something like that.

Maybe an old professional microscope? Something old, well-made and sciency?

Wounded Bear

(58,571 posts)
47. Get him a slide rule...
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 03:58 PM
Nov 2019


It's old school science and engineering. A lot of the moon shot were actually done on these.

They have decorative ones, too. I remember a teacher once who had a slide rule tie clip. Pretty cool

comradebillyboy

(10,128 posts)
49. If he likes good Scotch buy him a couple diffrent high quality Japanese whiskeys.
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 04:07 PM
Nov 2019

They can't call it Scotch but high end Japanese whiskeys are pretty wonderful. I like good Scotch and my wife gave me a couple of bottles of the good Japanese stuff and I was very pleased. I'd check with one of the better bottle shops in your area and they can help select some good choices.

sarge43

(28,940 posts)
53. FWIW, Amazon has an interesting collection of classic jazz on vinyl
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 04:44 PM
Nov 2019

One I'd have is Miles Davis' Kinda Blue

Brother Buzz

(36,356 posts)
55. A single pot still, Baby!
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 06:36 PM
Nov 2019

This is the secret dream of every chemist I've ever known. Making a single malt Scotch whisky is a long learning curve that involves an oak barrel, so you may have solved next years Christmas gift.

Just an idea.

Boxerfan

(2,533 posts)
57. If he likes mechanical things-a vintage pocket watch?
Wed Nov 20, 2019, 07:08 PM
Nov 2019

The prices are way down on the collector market-due to gold prices in a round a bout way. I dabble in repairing them and have a few serviced ready to go if you are interested PM me.

Harker

(13,949 posts)
61. You might consider a special book...
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 11:38 AM
Nov 2019

A very nicely bound copy of a classic in his field, or a signed (not inscribed) copy of a work by one he admires.

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