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mysteryowl

(7,383 posts)
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 02:02 PM Feb 2020

I saw a woman save her boyfriend's life on the parking lot pavement yesterday.

I want to honor a woman from yesterday that saved her boyfriend’s life. She was amazing!

I was on my way to my car after shopping and I see an unconscious man on the pavement and a woman giving him CPR. She had stopped her car in the middle of the parking lane and must have pulled him out of the car laying him flat on his back on the pavement. The car doors were open, and the incident blocked any car movement down that lane. She was single minded and only cared about tending to this man. Her young child was in the back seat and she called out to the elder woman with her to please tend to the child.

I have medical training, so I tried to help. I made a quick assessment that it appeared to be a drug overdose. Bystanders told me 911 had been called. I checked his carotid pulse, it was there, but he was not breathing. She kept giving him mouth to mouth and stopped the chest compressions. At some point he started to breath, but you really couldn’t tell. She was sure of it however and stopped the mouth to mouth breathing for him.

I asked the crowd for blankets and a woman hands me two; that was nice of her. We rolled him on his side and used one blanket to protect his head and one to cover his body. Slowly, we can hear raspy breathing, and then an eyelid flutter. The woman tells me she gave him Narcan, that miracle drug that saves people from overdose. She had injected him with the only dose she had. She tells me she is an EMT and this is her boyfriend. I ask her if she is okay and her tears flow, “I thought he was off it, heroine.” He starts to breath deep, his eyes open and he sits up. “I’m okay,” he says. Moments later he is on his feet. Someone hands him a bottle of water and he drinks. Police arrive and the ambulance soon after, but he won’t need them now.

The woman was so calm and deliberate with step by step actions. Her powerful presence of stillness was impressive. She had zero concern for the scene around her. She had a life to save.

I could hear some judgment chatter from the crowd, but most offered silent support and concern. This is a Native American family and the man is in his mid-30’s, very thin, long dark hair, neck tattoos coming up to his face, and well-worn jean clothing.

I tell the woman she was amazing and did a great job. I also say, “You saved his life”. She received the comments with silence and then thanked me for my support. I wish I knew her name, none-the-less, I want to honor this woman for doing such a great job, so I thought I would share it with you here on DU.

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I saw a woman save her boyfriend's life on the parking lot pavement yesterday. (Original Post) mysteryowl Feb 2020 OP
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Well done on her pa MLAA Feb 2020 #1
Yes, indeed. mysteryowl Feb 2020 #2
Little clapping hands in multiple skin colors 🙂 MLAA Feb 2020 #7
Oh my goodness, I could not tell that. mysteryowl Feb 2020 #8
I know the clapping hands are almost as small as impotus' little hands 😬 MLAA Feb 2020 #9
Quite a story... Freedomofspeech Feb 2020 #3
OMG. You know 14 people that have died from overdose? UGH. mysteryowl Feb 2020 #4
I am talking SW Pennsylvania.... Freedomofspeech Feb 2020 #6
I'm from the same area you are, it's awful. ebbie15644 Feb 2020 #17
From NW PA here. I know of 3 but even 1 is 1 too many appleannie1 Feb 2020 #22
I am so sorry to hear that... Freedomofspeech Feb 2020 #25
I am glad she was there to help, Glad you were able to offer support as well and I am especially tulipsandroses Feb 2020 #5
Has anyone else heard this? Don't do mouth to mouth, do chest compressions. Karadeniz Feb 2020 #10
CPR guidelines changed in 2010 mysteryowl Feb 2020 #11
Thank you! I didn't know this. femmedem Feb 2020 #14
RE: "I want to honor this woman for doing such a great job" BadGimp Feb 2020 #12
You have to be a special kind of asshole flotsam Feb 2020 #13
Yay! BigOleDummy Feb 2020 #15
Around here on Long Island NY gerryatwork Feb 2020 #16
I did hear the cop tell him he would need to go to the hospital and get checked out. mysteryowl Feb 2020 #20
Thanks for sharing this moving story. Nitram Feb 2020 #18
There are heros who walk amoung us... she is one. reACTIONary Feb 2020 #19
I don't know whether this is true at all pharmacies, or even all pharmacies in my state or city, but renate Feb 2020 #21
She did save his life, probably the father of her child. But you too were there to support. Fla Dem Feb 2020 #23
I was told that Narcan only lasts a limited time and the person can back into arrest when it wears appleannie1 Feb 2020 #24
Thank you for sharing Gothmog Feb 2020 #26
Yep, I strongly feel that everyone can benefit from taking first aid and CPR classes. mysteryowl Feb 2020 #27
I am former boy scoot leader and used to get this training every winter and summer camp Gothmog Feb 2020 #29
There's so many of those types of moments in life, so many people do the right thing exactly ... marble falls Feb 2020 #28
Our Sheriff Dept. pioneered use of Narcan by deputies; first in a pilot program, Liberty Belle Feb 2020 #30
Narcan sts069 Feb 2020 #31
Glad you were there to help. calimary Feb 2020 #32

MLAA

(17,288 posts)
1. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Well done on her pa
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 02:08 PM
Feb 2020

Addiction sucks. I wish this couple the best.

Freedomofspeech

(4,223 posts)
6. I am talking SW Pennsylvania....
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 02:20 PM
Feb 2020

Yes, 14....it is horrifying. They were all good kids in school...just made horrible choices. Some became addicted after sports injuries, others from partying.

appleannie1

(5,067 posts)
22. From NW PA here. I know of 3 but even 1 is 1 too many
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 04:32 PM
Feb 2020

I have a grandson that has been in rehab over a dozen times. He cries when he talks about how hard it is to quit.

Freedomofspeech

(4,223 posts)
25. I am so sorry to hear that...
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 04:41 PM
Feb 2020

I cannot even imagine the pain. I have three former students who were heroin addicts that have been clean for several years and are very productive. One of them has re-landscaped our front yard, and has a very successful business. Another has done painting for us and has his own business and the third is now married and the Mother of 4. There is hope for your grandson. Love and peace to you and your family.

tulipsandroses

(5,124 posts)
5. I am glad she was there to help, Glad you were able to offer support as well and I am especially
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 02:15 PM
Feb 2020

glad she had Narcan. Anyone with a loved one that is addicted to opioids needs this life saving drug. Hopefully, they both get the help they need.

mysteryowl

(7,383 posts)
11. CPR guidelines changed in 2010
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 03:03 PM
Feb 2020
The guidelines are updated every five years. The 2010 recommendations led to a major shift in how CPR is taught, by focusing more on chest compressions to keep blood moving to prevent brain damage, rather than delivering rescue breaths.

The new guidelines do not have any major changes, but here are some of the basics:

No more than 120 compressions per minute with a minimum of 100.
Chest compressions for adults should be no more than 2.4 inches and at least 2 inches.
911 Operators should be trained to help bystanders check for breathing & recognize cardiac arrest.

BadGimp

(4,015 posts)
12. RE: "I want to honor this woman for doing such a great job"
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 03:20 PM
Feb 2020

You just did!

Thank you for sharing this story.

All the best...

flotsam

(3,268 posts)
13. You have to be a special kind of asshole
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 03:26 PM
Feb 2020

to frown on the use of narcan and complain about the cost when an addict requires doses on multiple occasions. And there are many, many special assholes in this country. "Generic naloxone can cost between $20 and $40 per dose, while Narcan can cost around $130 to $140 for a kit that includes two doses." These are the same people who want million dollar awards when they sue over a slip and fall injury...

BigOleDummy

(2,270 posts)
15. Yay!
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 03:39 PM
Feb 2020

Yay for the OP for posting and YAY for the selfless lifesaver. Everyday heroes come in all shapes, sizes and colors.

gerryatwork

(64 posts)
16. Around here on Long Island NY
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 03:42 PM
Feb 2020

he HAS to get in the ambulance if he was administered Narcan. I’ve had Narcan training and it works wonderfully but only for about 90 minutes. It kicks off and occupies the opiates from the receptors. If he had a big enough dose to kill him then he may find himself not breathing again. The woman should have known that. Hope he made it.

mysteryowl

(7,383 posts)
20. I did hear the cop tell him he would need to go to the hospital and get checked out.
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 03:56 PM
Feb 2020

An afterthought I had was that I had wished I had told her to look for any drugs and paraphernalia and get rid of it. After witnessing this, I can assure you, the last thing this family needed was for anyone to be arrested. I wish I thought of it. Yet, I stayed long enough to see that the cops were not searching him or the car. Thankfully.

renate

(13,776 posts)
21. I don't know whether this is true at all pharmacies, or even all pharmacies in my state or city, but
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 04:08 PM
Feb 2020

At a doctor's appointment the other day, I saw a sign at the in-house pharmacy saying that people who have people in their lives who are at risk of opioid overdose can get Narcan for free.

Fla Dem

(23,656 posts)
23. She did save his life, probably the father of her child. But you too were there to support.
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 04:37 PM
Feb 2020

Great Job!

appleannie1

(5,067 posts)
24. I was told that Narcan only lasts a limited time and the person can back into arrest when it wears
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 04:39 PM
Feb 2020

off. That is why some places have laws that say you have to go to the hospital whether you want to or not.

Gothmog

(145,176 posts)
26. Thank you for sharing
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 05:07 PM
Feb 2020

I am due to get my CPR recerified this spring. I will now definitely attend the class.

This lady is a hero

mysteryowl

(7,383 posts)
27. Yep, I strongly feel that everyone can benefit from taking first aid and CPR classes.
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 06:34 PM
Feb 2020

It is satisfying being able to do something in situations like this. Basic first aid and basic CPR are for everyone.

Gothmog

(145,176 posts)
29. I am former boy scoot leader and used to get this training every winter and summer camp
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 06:43 PM
Feb 2020

It is good to know what to do

marble falls

(57,080 posts)
28. There's so many of those types of moments in life, so many people do the right thing exactly ...
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 06:35 PM
Feb 2020

when its the only thing else that works. Thanks goodness for all those people!

Liberty Belle

(9,535 posts)
30. Our Sheriff Dept. pioneered use of Narcan by deputies; first in a pilot program,
Sun Feb 2, 2020, 08:05 PM
Feb 2020

and now all deputies carry it in San Diego County. Our area also has made this available now even to families and friends.

sts069

(9 posts)
31. Narcan
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 01:45 AM
Feb 2020

As several people have pointed out, Narcan is an amazing drug, but it only has a temporary affect. Anyone who needs Narcan really needs to go to the hospital.

As a former volunteer firefighter, I’ve been on several calls were Narcan was used on someone. It’s really striking to see an unconscious, apneic patient who is being “bagged“ (a rescuer using a bag valve mask to force respirations) get a dose, then walk to the ambulance under their own power two minutes later.

Good job by the woman in this story. Bless her and I hope her boyfriend gets and stays clean.

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