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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI saw a woman save her boyfriend's life on the parking lot pavement yesterday.
I want to honor a woman from yesterday that saved her boyfriends life. She was amazing!
I was on my way to my car after shopping and I see an unconscious man on the pavement and a woman giving him CPR. She had stopped her car in the middle of the parking lane and must have pulled him out of the car laying him flat on his back on the pavement. The car doors were open, and the incident blocked any car movement down that lane. She was single minded and only cared about tending to this man. Her young child was in the back seat and she called out to the elder woman with her to please tend to the child.
I have medical training, so I tried to help. I made a quick assessment that it appeared to be a drug overdose. Bystanders told me 911 had been called. I checked his carotid pulse, it was there, but he was not breathing. She kept giving him mouth to mouth and stopped the chest compressions. At some point he started to breath, but you really couldnt tell. She was sure of it however and stopped the mouth to mouth breathing for him.
I asked the crowd for blankets and a woman hands me two; that was nice of her. We rolled him on his side and used one blanket to protect his head and one to cover his body. Slowly, we can hear raspy breathing, and then an eyelid flutter. The woman tells me she gave him Narcan, that miracle drug that saves people from overdose. She had injected him with the only dose she had. She tells me she is an EMT and this is her boyfriend. I ask her if she is okay and her tears flow, I thought he was off it, heroine. He starts to breath deep, his eyes open and he sits up. Im okay, he says. Moments later he is on his feet. Someone hands him a bottle of water and he drinks. Police arrive and the ambulance soon after, but he wont need them now.
The woman was so calm and deliberate with step by step actions. Her powerful presence of stillness was impressive. She had zero concern for the scene around her. She had a life to save.
I could hear some judgment chatter from the crowd, but most offered silent support and concern. This is a Native American family and the man is in his mid-30s, very thin, long dark hair, neck tattoos coming up to his face, and well-worn jean clothing.
I tell the woman she was amazing and did a great job. I also say, You saved his life. She received the comments with silence and then thanked me for my support. I wish I knew her name, none-the-less, I want to honor this woman for doing such a great job, so I thought I would share it with you here on DU.
MLAA
(17,288 posts)Addiction sucks. I wish this couple the best.
mysteryowl
(7,383 posts)Hey, what are the brown-blob images in your subject line?
MLAA
(17,288 posts)mysteryowl
(7,383 posts)MLAA
(17,288 posts)Freedomofspeech
(4,223 posts)Thank you for helping. I have lost 14 former students to heroin....I hope he can get help.
mysteryowl
(7,383 posts)That is a lot of grieving.
Freedomofspeech
(4,223 posts)Yes, 14....it is horrifying. They were all good kids in school...just made horrible choices. Some became addicted after sports injuries, others from partying.
ebbie15644
(1,214 posts)appleannie1
(5,067 posts)I have a grandson that has been in rehab over a dozen times. He cries when he talks about how hard it is to quit.
Freedomofspeech
(4,223 posts)I cannot even imagine the pain. I have three former students who were heroin addicts that have been clean for several years and are very productive. One of them has re-landscaped our front yard, and has a very successful business. Another has done painting for us and has his own business and the third is now married and the Mother of 4. There is hope for your grandson. Love and peace to you and your family.
tulipsandroses
(5,124 posts)glad she had Narcan. Anyone with a loved one that is addicted to opioids needs this life saving drug. Hopefully, they both get the help they need.
Karadeniz
(22,513 posts)mysteryowl
(7,383 posts)The new guidelines do not have any major changes, but here are some of the basics:
No more than 120 compressions per minute with a minimum of 100.
Chest compressions for adults should be no more than 2.4 inches and at least 2 inches.
911 Operators should be trained to help bystanders check for breathing & recognize cardiac arrest.
femmedem
(8,201 posts)I hope I never need to use this information, but I'm glad to have it.
BadGimp
(4,015 posts)You just did!
Thank you for sharing this story.
All the best...
flotsam
(3,268 posts)to frown on the use of narcan and complain about the cost when an addict requires doses on multiple occasions. And there are many, many special assholes in this country. "Generic naloxone can cost between $20 and $40 per dose, while Narcan can cost around $130 to $140 for a kit that includes two doses." These are the same people who want million dollar awards when they sue over a slip and fall injury...
BigOleDummy
(2,270 posts)Yay for the OP for posting and YAY for the selfless lifesaver. Everyday heroes come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
gerryatwork
(64 posts)he HAS to get in the ambulance if he was administered Narcan. Ive had Narcan training and it works wonderfully but only for about 90 minutes. It kicks off and occupies the opiates from the receptors. If he had a big enough dose to kill him then he may find himself not breathing again. The woman should have known that. Hope he made it.
mysteryowl
(7,383 posts)An afterthought I had was that I had wished I had told her to look for any drugs and paraphernalia and get rid of it. After witnessing this, I can assure you, the last thing this family needed was for anyone to be arrested. I wish I thought of it. Yet, I stayed long enough to see that the cops were not searching him or the car. Thankfully.
Nitram
(22,794 posts)reACTIONary
(5,770 posts)Thanks for sharing.
renate
(13,776 posts)At a doctor's appointment the other day, I saw a sign at the in-house pharmacy saying that people who have people in their lives who are at risk of opioid overdose can get Narcan for free.
Fla Dem
(23,656 posts)Great Job!
appleannie1
(5,067 posts)off. That is why some places have laws that say you have to go to the hospital whether you want to or not.
Gothmog
(145,176 posts)I am due to get my CPR recerified this spring. I will now definitely attend the class.
This lady is a hero
mysteryowl
(7,383 posts)It is satisfying being able to do something in situations like this. Basic first aid and basic CPR are for everyone.
Gothmog
(145,176 posts)It is good to know what to do
marble falls
(57,080 posts)when its the only thing else that works. Thanks goodness for all those people!
Liberty Belle
(9,535 posts)and now all deputies carry it in San Diego County. Our area also has made this available now even to families and friends.
As several people have pointed out, Narcan is an amazing drug, but it only has a temporary affect. Anyone who needs Narcan really needs to go to the hospital.
As a former volunteer firefighter, Ive been on several calls were Narcan was used on someone. Its really striking to see an unconscious, apneic patient who is being bagged (a rescuer using a bag valve mask to force respirations) get a dose, then walk to the ambulance under their own power two minutes later.
Good job by the woman in this story. Bless her and I hope her boyfriend gets and stays clean.
calimary
(81,238 posts)Thanks for sharing this story! CPR is a wonderful thing to know.