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Why do first names for males become first names for females? (Original Post) raccoon Feb 2020 OP
Moms who have faced discrimination on paper Ilsa Feb 2020 #1
Yes.. whathehell Feb 2020 #2
My daughter in law and son are naming my granddaughter dewsgirl Feb 2020 #3
You probably know this Cartoonist Feb 2020 #7
Actually I didnt, thank you. dewsgirl Feb 2020 #8
Or capitol cities? "Madison" was a fashionable girls' name for awhile. The Velveteen Ocelot Feb 2020 #4
Providence, historically has been a girl's name. Fla Dem Feb 2020 #10
And by the time they've finished 3rd grade they're scarred for life The Velveteen Ocelot Feb 2020 #11
Did you ever see the film "Splash?" PJMcK Feb 2020 #12
I know a young woman named Brooklyn. Nt raccoon Feb 2020 #17
the mermaid movie with Tom Hanks is where that started. yellowdogintexas Feb 2020 #13
I have a friend in her 60s named Madison. lastlib Feb 2020 #25
What was Obama's mother's name? Stanley? rurallib Feb 2020 #5
And then there's Leslie Nielsen....... lastlib Feb 2020 #26
My husband's middle name is frazzled Feb 2020 #6
Oh, that's my middle name! nolabear Feb 2020 #24
Why do first names for females become first names for males? edbermac Feb 2020 #9
Sometimes the seemingly male name is actually the last name of yellowdogintexas Feb 2020 #14
"first names for males" left-of-center2012 Feb 2020 #15
Yes. They started out as names for men. Aristus Feb 2020 #16
Names are just words. shenmue Feb 2020 #18
Tell that to the boy named Sue. LOL. nt raccoon Feb 2020 #19
It's a song. A song about being friendly to people whether you think their names are 'weird' or not. shenmue Feb 2020 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author raccoon Feb 2020 #23
There was a REAL Boy named Sue Wolf Frankula Feb 2020 #22
You mean like whistler162 Feb 2020 #21
I think boys are more difficult to name than girls MontanaMama Feb 2020 #27
Transferring named across genders is multiple millennia old. Augustus Caesar (aka Octavian/Octavius) RockRaven Feb 2020 #28
Courtney was also originally a male name. madaboutharry Feb 2020 #29
Often in the past they would be spelled differently dawg day Feb 2020 #30
My first boss at a JC Penney... 3catwoman3 Feb 2020 #31

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
1. Moms who have faced discrimination on paper
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 12:17 PM
Feb 2020

give their daughters names like Blake so you can't tell gender on a resumè.

That's one reason.

dewsgirl

(14,961 posts)
3. My daughter in law and son are naming my granddaughter
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 12:22 PM
Feb 2020

Greyson. I guess it is a popular name for boys.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
4. Or capitol cities? "Madison" was a fashionable girls' name for awhile.
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 12:29 PM
Feb 2020

I never got that. Why not name your daughter Albuquerque or Bismark or Tallahassee or Boise? OK, Helena is already a name. Providence? Phoenix?

Fla Dem

(23,656 posts)
10. Providence, historically has been a girl's name.
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 01:36 PM
Feb 2020

The name Providence means Divine Guidance Or Care and is of English origin. Providence is a name that's been used by parents who are considering baby names for girls.

https://www.babynames.com/name/providence

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
11. And by the time they've finished 3rd grade they're scarred for life
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 01:38 PM
Feb 2020

from the relentless teasing of kids who aren't named Providence.

PJMcK

(22,035 posts)
12. Did you ever see the film "Splash?"
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 02:04 PM
Feb 2020

It’s why, I think, Madison was popular for a while. The movie was released in the mid-1980s and I know several women in NYC in a their 30s named Madison.

Curious.

I’ve met two women named Brooklyn. I have a niece named Savannah. It’s weird.

I’ve heard that Trump dated a girl named Kansas City. (wink)

rurallib

(62,411 posts)
5. What was Obama's mother's name? Stanley?
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 12:33 PM
Feb 2020

Must say I have wondered about that. Also why it doesn't go the other way? Did Shel Silverstein kill it with "A boy named Sue"? just kidding.

Then there are the men who were given a man's name at birth and see it turn into a woman's name when they are older. I think of sport writer Shirley Povich on this one.

And lastly, why all the different spellings for a name? We named one daughter Erin, among other things thinking that was a name that couldn't be screwed up too badly. Boy was I wrong. I think I have seen a dozen different spellings. Not to mention that my Aunt sent us a card for our new baby "Aaron."

lastlib

(23,224 posts)
26. And then there's Leslie Nielsen.......
Thu Feb 6, 2020, 12:30 AM
Feb 2020

"And don't call me Shirley!" --- --- ---

And Franki(e) is a dual-gender name, FWIW.

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
6. My husband's middle name is
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 12:48 PM
Feb 2020

Lynn. Usually a female name, but apparently started as a male name, Welsh for “lake.”

nolabear

(41,960 posts)
24. Oh, that's my middle name!
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 09:13 PM
Feb 2020

I didn’t know that’s what it meant. So my full given name means “Snare Lake Forest.” Y’know, I could do something with that...🤔

yellowdogintexas

(22,252 posts)
14. Sometimes the seemingly male name is actually the last name of
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 03:22 PM
Feb 2020

some relative. My sister's middle name is Ross which is a name in my mother's family tree.

That sister's daughter is named Mary Douglas after her grandfather whose name is Douglas. Until she went to college everyone called her Douglas, and the family still does. She also has fiery red curly hair, so the name suits her

My dad's sister is named for their grandparents Richard Rivers and Sarah Jane. Her name is Jane Rivers.

Using family names as first names especially for girls has increased a lot over the past 20 or 30 years.

shenmue

(38,506 posts)
20. It's a song. A song about being friendly to people whether you think their names are 'weird' or not.
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 07:18 PM
Feb 2020

Response to shenmue (Reply #20)

Wolf Frankula

(3,600 posts)
22. There was a REAL Boy named Sue
Wed Feb 5, 2020, 08:26 PM
Feb 2020

Sue Hicks. He was the prosecutor of record in the 1925 Scopes Trial.

Wolf

MontanaMama

(23,313 posts)
27. I think boys are more difficult to name than girls
Thu Feb 6, 2020, 12:45 AM
Feb 2020

because giving girls a name that might be traditionally a boy’s name is trendy. Boys names are more limited because you really can’t name a boy Sue or Tiffany etc. However, if I had a girl, I might consider giving her a gender neutral name so she might not be discriminated against based only on her name.

RockRaven

(14,966 posts)
28. Transferring named across genders is multiple millennia old. Augustus Caesar (aka Octavian/Octavius)
Thu Feb 6, 2020, 12:52 AM
Feb 2020

had an older sister known to historians as Octavia the Younger, to distinguish her from their elder half-sister Octavia the Elder. They were all named after their father Gaius Octavius.

madaboutharry

(40,209 posts)
29. Courtney was also originally a male name.
Thu Feb 6, 2020, 01:13 AM
Feb 2020

Randy too. And also now Riley, I know two people who named girls Riley.

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
30. Often in the past they would be spelled differently
Thu Feb 6, 2020, 01:22 AM
Feb 2020

Allison for a woman, Alison for a man.
Vivienne for a woman, Vivian for a man.
Lindsay for a woman, Lindsey for a man.
Shelley/Shelly.

I've noticed "Kyle" and "Jordan" and others are trending female now too.

3catwoman3

(23,975 posts)
31. My first boss at a JC Penney...
Thu Feb 6, 2020, 01:48 AM
Feb 2020

...store, when I was 16, was named Doris. He went by his initials - D.W.

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