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Peregrine Took

(7,413 posts)
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 01:13 PM Feb 2020

Our dog died suddenly this morning I can hardly breathe.

He was our 13 year old baby - always together.

Our house is full of his toys -seems so terribly quiet and empty.

I would post his adorable little picture but I don't think its allowed.

If you saw him you would love him, too.

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Our dog died suddenly this morning I can hardly breathe. (Original Post) Peregrine Took Feb 2020 OP
Message auto-removed Name removed Feb 2020 #1
Sigh Me. Feb 2020 #2
I am so very sorry. DonaldsRump Feb 2020 #3
I'm so sorry Rorey Feb 2020 #4
I am so sorry. Evergreen Emerald Feb 2020 #5
I Am So Sorry DarthDem Feb 2020 #6
I'm sorry you lost your friend. I know how much that hurts. BusyBeingBest Feb 2020 #7
I'm so sorry Bettie Feb 2020 #8
I am so sorry. dewsgirl Feb 2020 #9
So sorry for your loss awesomerwb1 Feb 2020 #10
I'm so sorry Ohiogal Feb 2020 #11
I am so sorry whopis01 Feb 2020 #12
Remember, you gave your little guy a good life and he died loving you. n/t Raven Feb 2020 #13
I had two puppers die at home..one 10 and one 15.. samnsara Feb 2020 #14
Oh I am sorry to hear this sad news. Especially when the loss is sudden. My heart goes ... SWBTATTReg Feb 2020 #15
Sorry to hear about your baby. Kota Feb 2020 #16
I'm so sorry you lost your baby! What is his name? MissMillie Feb 2020 #17
So very musicman65 Feb 2020 #18
Please accept my condolences. zanana1 Feb 2020 #19
Sorry ProfessorGAC Feb 2020 #20
I am so sorry for your loss zeusdogmom Feb 2020 #21
It always hurts to lose a good friend jls4561 Feb 2020 #22
So very sorry. Duppers Feb 2020 #23
I am so sorry. tosh Feb 2020 #24
Very tough thing to go through. mysteryowl Feb 2020 #25
Of course you can post a picture. It's done all the time. defacto7 Feb 2020 #26
... handmade34 Feb 2020 #27
Oh no. MontanaMama Feb 2020 #28
I'm so sorry happybird Feb 2020 #29
I am so sorry... lapfog_1 Feb 2020 #30
It's the same as losing family. CaptYossarian Feb 2020 #31
I'm sorry for your loss vercetti2021 Feb 2020 #32
I'm so sorry. Phoenix61 Feb 2020 #33
Sorry to hear this. I know it is tough. Midnight Writer Feb 2020 #34
I am heartbroken for you. AJT Feb 2020 #35
It's hard when you lose your best friend so suddenly FakeNoose Feb 2020 #36
Sending hugs Ginger42 Feb 2020 #37
I'm so sorry! I would be devastated to lose any of MojoWrkn Feb 2020 #38
Please post his picture if you want. It is certainly allowed ms liberty Feb 2020 #39
I'm so sorry. I know your pain too well and that it will take some time to heal... hlthe2b Feb 2020 #40
dogs pamdb Feb 2020 #41
Sorry for your loss. Jim__ Feb 2020 #42
I know this pain well. I'm so sorry. NurseJackie Feb 2020 #43
sorrow ahlnord Feb 2020 #44
I'm so sorry karin_sj Feb 2020 #45
I am so sorry. mnhtnbb Feb 2020 #46
So sorry to hear, vishnura Feb 2020 #47
I'm so very and sincerely sorry for your loss. Texin Feb 2020 #48
I'm so sorry, FoxNewsSucks Feb 2020 #49
I agree. By sharing your grief, it eases...somewhat. Frustratedlady Feb 2020 #51
Aw -- the loss of a beloved dog hits HARD, I know. pnwmom Feb 2020 #50
Oh, my God, what happened? I think you can post photos and I wish you would. I feel so bad Karadeniz Feb 2020 #52
So sad, Iam sorry to hear this. peacebuzzard Feb 2020 #53
I'm so sorry Mersky Feb 2020 #54
Take care and condolences may the good memories keep you going in this time of grief lunasun Feb 2020 #55
Hugs to you and yours! lunatica Feb 2020 #56
I am very sorry for your loss. Moostache Feb 2020 #57
My heart goes out to you. Politicub Feb 2020 #58
So sorry democrank Feb 2020 #59
I am so sorry for your loss, losing a babydog is just heartbreaking... FM123 Feb 2020 #60
Hugs to The Peregrine Took family... Tikki Feb 2020 #61
I'm so sorry seta1950 Feb 2020 #62
How awful wryter2000 Feb 2020 #63
I'm so sorry for your loss democrattotheend Feb 2020 #64
Condolences The Mouth Feb 2020 #65
I'm so sorry... mithnanthy Feb 2020 #66
I'm so sorry. To have him go so suddenly, very difficult for you. Hugs. Fla Dem Feb 2020 #67
So sorry... Phentex Feb 2020 #68
You can always share photos of your family members here Niagara Feb 2020 #69
Thanks to everyone for your kind and thoughtful remarks. One thing about us DU'rs... Peregrine Took Feb 2020 #70
I am so sorry Peregrine Took. smirkymonkey Feb 2020 #71
... Skittles Feb 2020 #72
I am so very sorry. mzmolly Feb 2020 #73
I'm very sorry for your loss. Unexpected losses are the worst. They sinkingfeeling Feb 2020 #74
I'm sorry for your loss! jimlup Feb 2020 #75
I am so sorry. Blue_playwright Feb 2020 #76
I am so very, very sorry. StarryNite Feb 2020 #77
My thoughts to you and your family Botany Feb 2020 #78
So sorry! The Velveteen Ocelot Feb 2020 #79
I am so sorry for your loss! [[Hugs]] n/t Backseat Driver Feb 2020 #80
My sincere condolences Dennis Donovan Feb 2020 #81
Breathe, take a breath. Polly Hennessey Feb 2020 #82
So sorry - maybe this will help Beaverhausen Feb 2020 #83
Oh, no.... Bayard Feb 2020 #84
I am so sorry for your loss gopiscrap Feb 2020 #85
Awwwwwwww, so sorry for your loss. a kennedy Feb 2020 #86
I am sorry for your loss. Stuart G Feb 2020 #87
I'm so sorry csziggy Feb 2020 #88
Oh, no - I am so very sorry! I have been there, too. Rhiannon12866 Feb 2020 #89

Response to Peregrine Took (Original post)

awesomerwb1

(4,267 posts)
10. So sorry for your loss
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 01:17 PM
Feb 2020

Been through a few pet losses so I know how you're feeling.

Hope you feel better soon and I hope you find another little angel to love and spoil soon.

samnsara

(17,619 posts)
14. I had two puppers die at home..one 10 and one 15..
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 01:24 PM
Feb 2020

...my heart is breaking for you....your best friend gave you the best gift. (((hugs)))

SWBTATTReg

(22,112 posts)
15. Oh I am sorry to hear this sad news. Especially when the loss is sudden. My heart goes ...
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 01:35 PM
Feb 2020

to you and your family.

Post his picture, I don't think you're going to run into any problems in posting here on DU, after all, a few of
us do post 100s of animal related pictures and/or stories too, which we all read.

Again, my condolences for your loss.

MissMillie

(38,550 posts)
17. I'm so sorry you lost your baby! What is his name?
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 01:46 PM
Feb 2020

There is absolutely nothing wrong w/ posting a picture of your little loved one. In fact, I'm sure it will bring a smile to many of us here.

He's going to miss you too, for certain.

musicman65

(524 posts)
18. So very
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 01:49 PM
Feb 2020

sorry for your loss of a family member,we did it 8 years ago,and still empty,even though we have a 5 year old german shepherd
you never truly heal,just move on a bit and share more love

zanana1

(6,110 posts)
19. Please accept my condolences.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 01:52 PM
Feb 2020

The loss of a pet is one of the worst things that can happen to us, even if we know it's coming

mysteryowl

(7,376 posts)
25. Very tough thing to go through.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:03 PM
Feb 2020




When my animals have died, I collect some of their items and create a kind of memorial altar. I liked having it for a week or two. It helped me.

lapfog_1

(29,199 posts)
30. I am so sorry...
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:06 PM
Feb 2020

Give yourself some time to grieve... and then, if you can, find another companion animal to share your life.

CaptYossarian

(6,448 posts)
31. It's the same as losing family.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:06 PM
Feb 2020

You see them every day, talk to them, and share quality time.

I'm so very sorry.

Ginger42

(59 posts)
37. Sending hugs
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:13 PM
Feb 2020

I'm so sorry. However long our dogs are with us, it's never long enough. They bring us so much joy and take up so much space in our lives that they leave a big hole when we lose them. I know that "terribly quiet and empty" feeling, too. He was obviously very much loved and had a great doggie life.

ms liberty

(8,572 posts)
39. Please post his picture if you want. It is certainly allowed
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:14 PM
Feb 2020

I am so sorry for your loss! I've been thru it a few times myself. It just isn't ever easy.

hlthe2b

(102,225 posts)
40. I'm so sorry. I know your pain too well and that it will take some time to heal...
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:16 PM
Feb 2020

I let myself cry during long walks (typically not in sight of other hikers) for some time after my last precious girl. And something that helped me is keeping a lock of her hair in a little keepsake box that I could touch now and then. It has always made it feel she is still with me.


May you focus as much as possible on the memories of joy your pup brought you. They are a gift, even if allowed to us for far too short a time.

pamdb

(1,332 posts)
41. dogs
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:17 PM
Feb 2020

i think pictures are allowed.

I don't know what's worse, having them die like that or taking them to the vet and holding them while they are put to sleep. Both are so hard. My sympathies.

ahlnord

(91 posts)
44. sorrow
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:28 PM
Feb 2020

I am so sorry for you. What a wonderful companion he must have been, and I am sure he was very fortunate to be with you. Please cherish the loving memories and know that your sorrow is a bridge to the shared humanity of all loving people.

karin_sj

(808 posts)
45. I'm so sorry
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:31 PM
Feb 2020

My heart goes out to you. It’s so unbearably sad when our beloved fur companions are no longer with us. We experienced that many years ago with our beloved shepherd/husky mix and it took 14 years for us to get another dog. We finally got another dog, a rescue German shepherd, who is 14 years old now and we take it day to day. I know the day is coming in the not-too-distant future and I dread it.

Take care and know it will get easier in time. One of the hardest things for us was looking around for her and feeling the emptiness when she wasn’t there. And yes, please post a picture of him. I’m sure it is allowed as I’ve seen lots of other people post pictures of their pets.

mnhtnbb

(31,382 posts)
46. I am so sorry.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:31 PM
Feb 2020

There is no reason you can't post a photo of him.

My almost 14 yo pup is living with a heart arrhythmia diagnosed 2 1/2 years ago which makes her susceptible to sudden death.

These fur babies will be in our hearts forever.



Texin

(2,594 posts)
48. I'm so very and sincerely sorry for your loss.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:36 PM
Feb 2020

It's something we can prepare our minds around, but the reality is so much more profoundly sad that we can't unbreak our hearts from the loss.

FoxNewsSucks

(10,429 posts)
49. I'm so sorry,
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:38 PM
Feb 2020

they're never here long enough

It's OK to post his pictures. I'd like to see him and I'm sure everyone else would too

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
51. I agree. By sharing your grief, it eases...somewhat.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:42 PM
Feb 2020

I wish I'd had DU when our pets left us. It is so painful. May you find peace.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
50. Aw -- the loss of a beloved dog hits HARD, I know.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:38 PM
Feb 2020

Please post the picture. People post animal photos here frequently.

Karadeniz

(22,506 posts)
52. Oh, my God, what happened? I think you can post photos and I wish you would. I feel so bad
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:46 PM
Feb 2020

For what you're going through. As an animal rescuer who's kept many unadoptables and raised them for years, I've had to suffer their passings more than most people. Just gutwrenching to lose those who we love so much. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Mersky

(4,980 posts)
54. I'm so sorry
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 03:52 PM
Feb 2020

I have been there. Breathe slow and deep. Take extra care with yourself as you get through the day and week. Your pup would want that for all the good living you gave him.

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
57. I am very sorry for your loss.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 04:01 PM
Feb 2020

It never gets any easier because we love them like family. I hope you get the support and understanding you need in this time of grief.

Niagara

(7,595 posts)
69. You can always share photos of your family members here
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 07:18 PM
Feb 2020

I'm so sorry for your unexpected loss. My heart goes out to you.

Peregrine Took

(7,413 posts)
70. Thanks to everyone for your kind and thoughtful remarks. One thing about us DU'rs...
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 07:36 PM
Feb 2020

no matter our particular stripe of the Democratic Party, we all have compassion for animals-

Thanks again.


 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
71. I am so sorry Peregrine Took.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 08:45 PM
Feb 2020

How heartbreaking! Of course you can post his adorable picture. I am sure we would all love him too! Please take care. My condolences to you and your family.

Skittles

(153,150 posts)
72. ...
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 09:30 PM
Feb 2020


Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you.
I loved You so
‘twas heaven here with you.

Isla Paschal Richardson

sinkingfeeling

(51,445 posts)
74. I'm very sorry for your loss. Unexpected losses are the worst. They
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 10:43 PM
Feb 2020

feel so unreal. I know the pain you are feeling.

Hugs

Botany

(70,490 posts)
78. My thoughts to you and your family
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 12:15 PM
Feb 2020

BTW if your dog passed on its own then that is a blessing in not having to take that
last trip to the vet.

Just remember the more you hurt now shows just how much you and your dog loved
each other.

Polly Hennessey

(6,793 posts)
82. Breathe, take a breath.
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 12:31 PM
Feb 2020

I know the pain and quiet are unbearable. I have felt trapped because I know they cannot return. It is an impossible feeling knowing you can do nothing. What I do know is that the pain will lessen. It will never leave you but it will become less. I only wish that all of the DU family who responded could be there with you. We understand your pain.

Bayard

(22,061 posts)
84. Oh, no....
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 01:02 PM
Feb 2020

SO sorry! Please post his picture.

I'm sure he knew you loved him. I've lost so many of various species over the years. It never gets any easier, but remember him as young, healthy, playing with his toys, and sitting in your lap.

gopiscrap

(23,756 posts)
85. I am so sorry for your loss
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 01:38 PM
Feb 2020

our furry friends become family. They have a unique and important way of entering our hearts! I would love to see a picture of him. I have felt the same type of loss you are experiencing. My heart goes out to you! Mike

Rhiannon12866

(205,224 posts)
89. Oh, no - I am so very sorry! I have been there, too.
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 06:57 AM
Feb 2020

And the feeling is often unbearable. One thing that you need to remember is how fortunate your dog was to have had you. And of course a picture is allowed, we love pet pix on DU...

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