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backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:07 PM Feb 2020

Having surgery next week - edit surgery went well

Last edited Thu Mar 5, 2020, 12:29 PM - Edit history (1)

Update: Thank you all for your support. Surgery was yesterday. I am able to walk a bit this morning and hope to go home this afternoon.

Last night was a bit rough - pain wise - but sooo much better today.


...............


Not going to be able to take care of my pup, so I had to make arrangements at the vet to kennel for a few days.

Buddy is a 7 year old yellow lab who acts like he's 2. He lives in the house. I'm going to miss my dog. He's way too hyper for me to handle during recovery.


I got his kennel cough spray today. Vet told me he will be fine, but Buddy's never spent time away from home.

Cinder, his feline sister should be ok to stay home. She'll probably enjoy recovering with me (i.e. lots of napping)

Ive stocked up on soup, toilet paper, water, and have cleaned house pretty good.

Any suggestions to make recovery easier? I packed a bag with a night gown, robe, house shoes, toothbrush, and my backup glasses.

I have a ride home.

Trying to make a list of things I need to do.








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Having surgery next week - edit surgery went well (Original Post) backtoblue Feb 2020 OP
honestly? Skittles Feb 2020 #1
I dont have a tv in my room backtoblue Feb 2020 #6
books are great! Skittles Feb 2020 #8
Fruit juice popsicles. Nice light snack that's Phoenix61 Feb 2020 #2
Check backtoblue Feb 2020 #7
Rest, read, hydrate, watch good shows and get well. And pet the babies... CurtEastPoint Feb 2020 #3
I have a cup with a lid and straw backtoblue Feb 2020 #10
Definetly second the hydration! woodsprite Feb 2020 #34
Sorry to hear about the surgery...hope you feel better real soon...sounds like you got it covered. Demsrule86 Feb 2020 #4
He gets to bring his bed and a few toys backtoblue Feb 2020 #9
Best of luck!! InAbLuEsTaTe Feb 2020 #5
I early voted on Monday backtoblue Feb 2020 #11
Best wishes to you and yours during your surgery and recovery. I'm sure that you will be ... SWBTATTReg Feb 2020 #12
I didnt think of socks backtoblue Feb 2020 #14
You're always welcome. We got your back!! With good thoughts of you and your family during ... SWBTATTReg Feb 2020 #15
Organic, loose leaf spinach is a great thing to add Mersky Feb 2020 #13
I add fresh spinach to alot of my soups backtoblue Feb 2020 #21
A pot of good Vegatable soup True Blue American Feb 2020 #27
Potato and leek soup - the original comfort food sarge43 Feb 2020 #31
If you are having shoulder surgery, get pre-strung dental floss picks at the drug store. Shrike47 Feb 2020 #16
No, but thanks for the tip backtoblue Feb 2020 #22
I've had a few surgeries in the past few years and, like you..... Mars and Minerva Feb 2020 #17
Thanks! backtoblue Feb 2020 #23
Simply keeping you in my heart for surgeon's hand guided by Providence and an sprinkleeninow Feb 2020 #18
Thank you backtoblue Feb 2020 #24
I don't see underwear or moisturizer on your list.... Bayard Feb 2020 #19
Good catch! backtoblue Feb 2020 #25
Always keep a couple of new undies on hand.:) True Blue American Feb 2020 #28
Sending good vibes KT2000 Feb 2020 #20
Vibes received! backtoblue Mar 2020 #44
A cane to help walk with? Turbineguy Feb 2020 #26
I have one waiting on me at home backtoblue Mar 2020 #45
electric blanket janterry Feb 2020 #29
One of those closet shoe holders might work too! redstatebluegirl Feb 2020 #33
A pack of Kleenex wet wipes Alliepoo Feb 2020 #30
That was a great suggestion backtoblue Mar 2020 #46
See if you can get someone to be on call just in case you should need them blueinredohio Feb 2020 #32
+1 MissMillie Feb 2020 #39
I have a family member picking me up this afternoon backtoblue Mar 2020 #47
I'm glad your surgery went well and hope you continue to get a lot better. blueinredohio Mar 2020 #59
Small things, low to the floor LenaW Feb 2020 #35
Thanks backtoblue Mar 2020 #48
Not pleasant to think about, but don't forget to have a stool softener on hand. woodsprite Feb 2020 #36
Yeah, Im finding myself in that boat... backtoblue Mar 2020 #49
Hope you're on the mend! woodsprite Mar 2020 #57
I look back to when my son was a baby backtoblue Mar 2020 #58
Hope all goes well for you. Pup will be super happy when he comes home. Fla Dem Feb 2020 #37
Thank you backtoblue Mar 2020 #50
Excellent Info in this thread! Duppers Feb 2020 #38
Lots of love and info! backtoblue Mar 2020 #51
While recovering at home MissMillie Feb 2020 #40
I have cheesecake waiting on me at home backtoblue Mar 2020 #52
Wishing you a speedy recovery, Backtoblue Niagara Feb 2020 #41
Everything went well backtoblue Mar 2020 #53
Read, listen to music shenmue Feb 2020 #42
All went well backtoblue Mar 2020 #54
BacktoBlue, I hope (it may be too early) all is well w/ you, I wanted to touch base w/ you, I... SWBTATTReg Feb 2020 #43
Had surgery yesterday backtoblue Mar 2020 #55
Thank goodness and glad to hear that you're up and walking already, and perhaps out the door ... SWBTATTReg Mar 2020 #56

Skittles

(153,142 posts)
1. honestly?
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:11 PM
Feb 2020

try to make sure you catch no glimpses of Trump on TV

be kind to yourself

Buddy will be fine, and so will you

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
6. I dont have a tv in my room
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:16 PM
Feb 2020

At first I thought it was a bad thing, but decided on a media/MF45 vacation.

I've checked out a few books from the library.



backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
10. I have a cup with a lid and straw
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:30 PM
Feb 2020

Enough pillows to adjust as needed.

We're hoping it's just gonna be laser, so that it will be an easier recovery.



woodsprite

(11,911 posts)
34. Definetly second the hydration!
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 10:55 AM
Feb 2020

I didn't know how important that was in the healing process as well as ridding yourself of the side effects from anesthetic.

Demsrule86

(68,543 posts)
4. Sorry to hear about the surgery...hope you feel better real soon...sounds like you got it covered.
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:12 PM
Feb 2020

I know how you feel about the pup...but wise not to risk hurting yourself...When we moved our dogs spent like two months at the kennel while we waited to get in our new house...we sold our house in two weeks and Ohio has this crazy law where your sellers get 30 days to move out...but I digress...the animals (including the cat) where fine...and what a reunion! Message me and tell me how you are making out.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
9. He gets to bring his bed and a few toys
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:26 PM
Feb 2020

At least I know he's gonna be physically ok.

I bet you had a good reunion!!! Makes me think of Homeward Bound...

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
11. I early voted on Monday
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:33 PM
Feb 2020

Check into the hospital on Tuesday, so I made sure I had time to vote.

Thank you!

SWBTATTReg

(22,112 posts)
12. Best wishes to you and yours during your surgery and recovery. I'm sure that you will be ...
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:40 PM
Feb 2020

fine. Plenty of tissue paper for blowing your nose, perhaps have a charging station for your phone located next to your bed/where'll you will be at most of the time. The books are a good idea, perhaps watch some good movies if you have the time (and a dvr player). If you on a different floor than the restroom, perhaps put in a temp. chamber pot so you don't have to go too far out of your way to go to the restroom. I suspect that you won't be staying too long at the hospital, or will have outpatient surgery the same day, so the stay won't be too long at the surgery center.

Some snacks in case you get the munchies while there (candy bars, etc.), something to take the edge off (that won't interfere w/ your surgery instructions). Warm socks too. Last time I went, they couldn't get me warm enough!

Let us know how you and your family does when you get back. Take care!

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
14. I didnt think of socks
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:46 PM
Feb 2020

Thanks Reg!

This is why I need help

Ive got a pack of granola bars and plan on making a big pot of spaghetti the day before.



SWBTATTReg

(22,112 posts)
15. You're always welcome. We got your back!! With good thoughts of you and your family during ...
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:49 PM
Feb 2020

this time. Get well and heal quickly!!

Mersky

(4,980 posts)
13. Organic, loose leaf spinach is a great thing to add
Wed Feb 26, 2020, 11:43 PM
Feb 2020

To soups and easy fix meal stuffs. Has lots of vitamins A & K, as well as iron - all help with healing.

Is kinda my signature flavor - I sneak it into dishes or under entrees as must-be-eaten garnish all the time. Is about the best value organic food, imo.

Has been a go-to when I’ve been on the mend, especially. Just throw a handful in the bottom of a bowl, then pour hot soup over it, and it’ll wilt nicely.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
21. I add fresh spinach to alot of my soups
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 09:55 AM
Feb 2020

You reminded me that I could make up an easy potato/carrot/onion/spinach/ soup.

True Blue American

(17,982 posts)
27. A pot of good Vegatable soup
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 10:22 AM
Feb 2020

Would be nice.

If you love to read that will be a great help. Handi wipes for germs.

Best wishes with the surgery. It is amazing how much easier they have become.

sarge43

(28,941 posts)
31. Potato and leek soup - the original comfort food
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 10:44 AM
Feb 2020

Post op: Naps, lots of naps. herbal teas and the classic books and films you've always wanted to check out.

Do you have eggs? Always a go-to for a quick snack.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
16. If you are having shoulder surgery, get pre-strung dental floss picks at the drug store.
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 12:08 AM
Feb 2020

It’s really hard to floss one handed.

Mars and Minerva

(369 posts)
17. I've had a few surgeries in the past few years and, like you.....
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 12:16 AM
Feb 2020

I live alone except for my pets. I over-think and over prepare every time. But here are a few small things you might need if you are over-nighting in the hospital.

Ear plugs and eye shades. The nurses are in and out all night checking on you so, if you want to get any rest, those little things really help. CVS and Walgreens sell them together in a little pack for a few bucks. Also, some really good tea bags and your favorite sweetener. Hospital tea is usually sad.

There are lots of other things folks bring, like a pillow or small blanket, but that's just bulky stuff unless you really need that pillow to sleep.

For home, make sure that you can Facetime your dog so you know how he is doing (don't let him hear you or he'll get upset).

Let your friends baby you but, these days, you can get anything you want delivered in 24 hours.

If you need pain medication, or any medication when you get home, make sure someone picks it up for you so it's there when you need it. They might need an authorization from the prescribing doctor for the pharmacy.

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
18. Simply keeping you in my heart for surgeon's hand guided by Providence and an
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 12:17 AM
Feb 2020

astoundingly speedy bounce back! Love to you and fur children. 💙

True Blue American

(17,982 posts)
28. Always keep a couple of new undies on hand.:)
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 10:26 AM
Feb 2020

Nightgowns, too.

I went out and bought a close friend one when her kids failed to get them from her house. She was upset, I did not blame her.

KT2000

(20,572 posts)
20. Sending good vibes
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 12:54 AM
Feb 2020

Do you have a good thermometer at home? Sometimes they want you to keep track of that.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
45. I have one waiting on me at home
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 12:31 PM
Mar 2020

Im getting around pretty good today. Ready to go home and see my kid/animals.

 

janterry

(4,429 posts)
29. electric blanket
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 10:36 AM
Feb 2020

or a heating pad? (Depending on the surgery, of course).

My daughter made me a wool wall hanging (repurposed sweaters) - with a bunch of pockets. I keep tissues, aspirin, bengay in there.

I rarely take aspirin (when I do, it's baby aspirin). And I only use bengay or the like once every 6 months or so. But having them all within reach, in the middle of the night - it's great . I even have a flashlight in there.


Heal quickly!

Alliepoo

(2,215 posts)
30. A pack of Kleenex wet wipes
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 10:43 AM
Feb 2020

Or baby wipes-nice to freshen up with!! Sounds like your pretty well prepared!

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
46. That was a great suggestion
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 12:33 PM
Mar 2020

I picked up a travel size and they came in handy. Wasnt able to get out of the bed yesterday, so the wipes were welcome! Thank you

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
32. See if you can get someone to be on call just in case you should need them
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 10:45 AM
Feb 2020

Normally when you have surgery there are prescriptions to fill. Ask your driver if they could stop at the pharmacy on the way home, go themselves to pick up your prescriptions or if you're lucky you have a pharmacy that delivers. Antibiotics etc. are very important. Good luck on your surgery.

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
59. I'm glad your surgery went well and hope you continue to get a lot better.
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 01:25 PM
Mar 2020

Keep us posted on your recovery.

 

LenaW

(51 posts)
35. Small things, low to the floor
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 11:03 AM
Feb 2020

I see a big pot of pasta as part of your plan. But depending on your surgery, lifting it might be an adventure. Package it into small servings for reheating so you don't have to lift a 5lb pot. If you drink coffee, same thing - don't get home and realize you need caffeine but can't lift the coffee pot to make or pour it. Better to make a pot or two ahead of time and pour it into single serve mason jars and pop those in the fridge to cover the first day or two.

Same with cat food - make sure you don't have to lift a giant bag to scoop out what you need.

If you need to use pots and pans to heat things, get them down from the overhead cabinet ahead of time if that's where you store them. And shampoo - if it's in a hangy thing up high in your shower, move it lower if you need to.

After surgery, sometimes I get super light headed and dizzy and dehydrated. And the fix is water - but I have to stand up to get a water bottle or glass, and when I stand up I start to get dizzy and have to plop down on the floor immediately so I don't black out. Then I'm sitting on the floor but still need water and can't get it. So put some water in a lower cabinet somewhere just in case.

Post surgery, the meds are gonna make it so you can't poop. And right now I can already hear you thinking okay, I'll eat some fiber and there's dulcolax in my medicine cabinet. NO. You're gonna do that and still not poop, and day 3 you're gonna be concerned, by day 5 you're gonna be panicking. Just go spend a dollar and get a bottle of liquid magnesium citrate.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
48. Thanks
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 12:38 PM
Mar 2020

I picked up some Dulcolax. My nurse warned me about not being able to poop. Im full of gas and thats pretty miserable, but otherwise doing great.

woodsprite

(11,911 posts)
36. Not pleasant to think about, but don't forget to have a stool softener on hand.
Thu Feb 27, 2020, 11:15 AM
Feb 2020

Every time I get knocked out for a procedure, no matter how long it takes, the anesthesia always takes awhile to clear my system and it takes me a few days to get back on track.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
49. Yeah, Im finding myself in that boat...
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 12:48 PM
Mar 2020

I had my belly pumped up with gas and trying to "walk it out" before I get to go home.

I walked down to the nursery to see the babies this morning

woodsprite

(11,911 posts)
57. Hope you're on the mend!
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 01:08 PM
Mar 2020

I got to hold a 11mo over the weekend! It doesn't happen often since mine are 19 and 26 with no prospects on the horizon yet I realized if I ever want to work in the church nursery, I probably will have to do some serious strengthening exercises for my shoulder

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
58. I look back to when my son was a baby
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 01:12 PM
Mar 2020

And I think, how the heck did I do it?!

Strollers and car seats, diaper bags. Parents of small children are weight lifters lol.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
51. Lots of love and info!
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 12:53 PM
Mar 2020

I'm thinking about pinning it in the Loner's group.


So many great suggestions that really help.

MissMillie

(38,548 posts)
40. While recovering at home
Fri Feb 28, 2020, 03:20 PM
Feb 2020

Keep your phone right next to you at all times. You won't have to run it down when someone calls, and you'll have it handy in case (hopefully not) you need to call out in an emergency.

A book, puzzle book, or light crafting project.

I know you said you stocked up on soup, but why not make ahead some re-heatable meals? Who wants to eat soup all the time?

chocolate (!!!!!!) or if you prefer, ice cream



backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
52. I have cheesecake waiting on me at home
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 12:55 PM
Mar 2020


I picked up a few sudoku and crossword books. Should be home this afternoon.

Niagara

(7,595 posts)
41. Wishing you a speedy recovery, Backtoblue
Fri Feb 28, 2020, 11:43 PM
Feb 2020

It sounds like you have it covered. I was going to suggest to make sure all the dusting, sweeping, dishes and laundry are done before your surgery. I remember that I couldn't do anything do much of anything after my appendix was removed since I was on a 5 lb. weight restriction for 6 weeks.


You'll probably want super comfy sweat pants, blankets and extra pillows. When they removed my appendix, they pumped a gas into me to remove the inflamed appendix. So, after I went home, the gas started to move around and into my chest making it very uncomfortable. I ended up sleeping with 3 plump pillows under my back to keep my upper body elevated. Sometimes, the hospital "gives" the anti-skid socks to the admitted, they charge, so you'll want to take them.


Besides soup and water, maybe you might want to enjoy some fruit cups, applesauce, yogurt, jello, or pudding cups. I'm not sure what your favorites are, but mine would be pudding cups


Also, I don't like being put under. I've woken up under anesthesia hearing people yelling at me to me to wake up ,and nobody is there doing that. I really hate that.


Take care, stock up and please let us know on occasion on how you're doing.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
53. Everything went well
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 12:57 PM
Mar 2020

I had gas pumped in my belly too. Yesterday was pretty miserable and I even had shoulder and upper back gas pains.

Better today since I've been up and walking a bit.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
54. All went well
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 01:00 PM
Mar 2020

I was lucky enough to get a room to myself last night and the nurses have been great!

SWBTATTReg

(22,112 posts)
43. BacktoBlue, I hope (it may be too early) all is well w/ you, I wanted to touch base w/ you, I...
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 01:21 PM
Feb 2020

hadn't heard or seen anything. Hoping for the best, and take care!

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
55. Had surgery yesterday
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 01:03 PM
Mar 2020

Everything went well. No complications.

I got to walk some this morning and hope to be checking out this afternoon.

I got the house cleaned pretty good beforehand. I'm really sore, but haven't had to take any pain meds today.

I'll keep updating.

SWBTATTReg

(22,112 posts)
56. Thank goodness and glad to hear that you're up and walking already, and perhaps out the door ...
Thu Mar 5, 2020, 01:07 PM
Mar 2020

later today. Rest and continue to get better and thanks so much for the heads up / status!

Thinking of you...

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