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Drunk-posting. I love you all. Thank you for keeping me sane. (Original Post) Aristus Feb 2020 OP
and we love YOU! elleng Feb 2020 #1
Thank you... Aristus Feb 2020 #2
Thank you Aristus. MontanaMama Feb 2020 #3
Love you, Aristus whathehell Feb 2020 #4
Paz.. RestoreAmerica2020 Feb 2020 #5
I'm with you there. 2naSalit Feb 2020 #6
You're among friends. I hope it's enough until you can see your therapist. Aristus Feb 2020 #9
I think it will be... 2naSalit Feb 2020 #34
Save room for a toast to that correct Hepatitis A diagnosis yonder Feb 2020 #7
Thank you. Aristus Feb 2020 #10
Maintainance has value at times... Harker Feb 2020 #8
And thank you. Aristus Feb 2020 #11
I'd be honored to be accepted as such. Harker Feb 2020 #12
... sheshe2 Feb 2020 #18
One of my all-time favorite songs... Aristus Feb 2020 #19
mine to. sheshe2 Feb 2020 #20
Good night. Aristus Feb 2020 #22
I wish I could drink Warpy Feb 2020 #13
I try not to encourage anyone to check out with something mind-altering. Aristus Feb 2020 #14
I was pretty much drunk for the first 3 years ... coming up on 90 days here sober ... mr_lebowski Feb 2020 #17
I confine it to weekends now. Aristus Feb 2020 #21
If I could do that? That's what I'd do too ... mr_lebowski Feb 2020 #23
Understood. Warpy Feb 2020 #35
Love you too brotha ... you're a good egg Aristus :) nt mr_lebowski Feb 2020 #15
Thank you... Aristus Feb 2020 #16
Aristus, you are a Major Dude Captain Zero Feb 2020 #25
Goodnight. ❤️ emmaverybo Feb 2020 #24
Same here Aristus! cilla4progress Feb 2020 #26
I get more love on here 💞 than I been gettin' from some in my circle ya'd expect it from. sprinkleeninow Feb 2020 #27
I never drunk post yaesu Feb 2020 #28
Thanks for posting this customerserviceguy Feb 2020 #29
Cheers to having had a good week at work! 3catwoman3 Feb 2020 #30
Poshting Jrunk? Same on Yoo! Denis Enko Feb 2020 #31
Enjoy taking a break next week. In_The_Wind Feb 2020 #32
❤️🌹😍👍 LiberalLoner Feb 2020 #33
Oh, Aristus, you are surely with friends here...we need all the friends we can get right now! CTyankee Feb 2020 #36
Congratulations on getting your book published! Aristus Feb 2020 #37
Well, it's not for sale (privately published) but I can send you a copy. I think you will like it. CTyankee Feb 2020 #38
Might I also PM you for a copy? 3catwoman3 Feb 2020 #39
Sure. I just dunno when my daughter will get finished making the alterations on the dpi. CTyankee Feb 2020 #41
Be safe! Dangerous times for your profession... Wounded Bear Feb 2020 #40

2naSalit

(86,534 posts)
6. I'm with you there.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 12:59 AM
Feb 2020

I heard about something horrible that happened in a town I moved from recently and it not only bothers me because it's my neighbors but because the details are a major trigger for me and my therapist is out of town for two weeks.

And then there's all this political rubbish... *sigh*

2naSalit

(86,534 posts)
34. I think it will be...
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 11:25 AM
Feb 2020

but it isn't easy because it has sort of disrupted mt already unusual sleep patterns which makes everything challenging. I spend a lot of time here because I feel like I'm ampng friends... for the most part, not counting the troll factor of course.

Harker

(14,012 posts)
12. I'd be honored to be accepted as such.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 01:12 AM
Feb 2020

Acceptance is vastly more valuable than tolerance.

There's an eastern screech owl trilling like a swamp frog near me... another friend I've never seen.

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
14. I try not to encourage anyone to check out with something mind-altering.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 01:31 AM
Feb 2020

Some people are battling it with all their might, and I respect that.

But I hope for you some comforting balm in Gilead...


 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
17. I was pretty much drunk for the first 3 years ... coming up on 90 days here sober ...
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 01:53 AM
Feb 2020

Talking like ... I could make it about 1 hour after rising before I was at the liquor store ... if I woke up with nothing. And I would make a drink pretty much first thing in the AM if I had some.

I didn't HAVE to quit for any particular reason other than feeling like I was probably killing myself with the booze and ... figured that was a bad idea.

I'm here to tell ya ... it's really not any worse now than it was when I was handling it w/booze. In fact I was probably more pissed off when I was drinking than I am now.

Do I miss it? Of course. But I know it wouldn't make anything better for me, and it'd likely make a bunch of shit worse.

Pretty nice saving all that money I was spending, too

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
21. I confine it to weekends now.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 02:01 AM
Feb 2020

And I've cut way back even then. Good thing, too. My clothes fit better than they have in a while...

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
23. If I could do that? That's what I'd do too ...
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 02:18 AM
Feb 2020

I think that 3.5 year long 48-64 percs worth of oxy bender I went on in the early 2000's might've had a permanent effect on my ability to moderate alcohol consumption ...

What's scary is I had so much tolerance by the end that I could easily put away a 750ml bottle a day (every day) and nobody around me would even know it, other than maybe if they smelled it.

Probably helps that my general demeanor is smiling, friendly, laughing and generally comporting myself like an overgrown kid ... with or without booze.

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
35. Understood.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 03:05 PM
Feb 2020

When it became clear that alcohol was triggering migraines and I had to say goodbye, I didn't miss the buzz, I missed beer. I grew up on beer and really, really miss it, especially on a hot desert day.

cilla4progress

(24,726 posts)
26. Same here Aristus!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 02:25 AM
Feb 2020

N. Raleigh Liberal had a great post here over the weekend and it's been keeping me going.

Can't seem to re-post!

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
27. I get more love on here 💞 than I been gettin' from some in my circle ya'd expect it from.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 02:35 AM
Feb 2020

This strange scene don't compute. 🤔

💙 to you Ari, and to all on DU tonite.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
29. Thanks for posting this
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 02:48 AM
Feb 2020

Sometimes I feel that I'm the only one sitting down to the keyboard with a good beer or two, or ten. Drinking WA beer right now, we fly back to the Carolinas again tomorrow.

3catwoman3

(23,972 posts)
30. Cheers to having had a good week at work!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 02:56 AM
Feb 2020

I had someone really unhappy with me at the beginning of the week, and then today I got a card from a different mom, thanking me for staying late recently so one of her kids could be brought in by grandma at the end of office hours while mom was at work. The kind note had a Starbucks gift card in it. I’m note a coffee drinker, but the card itself had the same effect as a jolt of caffeine - perked me right up at a moment when I really needed it.

CTyankee

(63,902 posts)
36. Oh, Aristus, you are surely with friends here...we need all the friends we can get right now!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 04:34 PM
Feb 2020

I rarely think of drinking again and I just realized I am at 6 months totally without any alcohol at all, altho I only drank wine.

However, good news! My first book is going to press and I have had a great breakthrough with my thinking about my second book! And I now have a collaborator who is a good friend and very talented!

My major issue since I stopped drinking is weight gain, not loss. It seems that sugar has taken over my diet so there will have to be cutbacks there.

All else is good!

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
37. Congratulations on getting your book published!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 04:37 PM
Feb 2020

That's quite an achievement.

Are you going to favor us all with the title so we can buy a copy?

CTyankee

(63,902 posts)
38. Well, it's not for sale (privately published) but I can send you a copy. I think you will like it.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 05:21 PM
Feb 2020

It's a collection of the art essays I published here on DU several years ago (you might not have been around at that time). PM me with your name/address and I will send you one when it is ready (issues with the dpi level on the art work, now being resolved by my book's designer who is my talented daughter).

I was advised that there was a glut on the market of this type of book so given my advanced age anyway why not privately publish and my daughter took it on as a project. I consider it my legacy to my grandchildren (to whom it is dedicated).

I think you will like it. It's a collection of 45 essays I published here ranging over 6 centuries of western European art. I had traveled for over 10 years to Europe, hunting down the art work I wanted to see before I died and I saw a lot.

Edited to add: The title is "Immutable Truth: Essays on Art 2014 - 2017".

CTyankee

(63,902 posts)
41. Sure. I just dunno when my daughter will get finished making the alterations on the dpi.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 08:42 PM
Feb 2020

I'm sorry. I promised to send it to others here and I still have their names and addresses...but all eventually will go out.

Yes, that was an interesting journey. I am hoping to go back to Spain in October with my daughter but am hoping the coronavirus stuff will be settled by then. the travel companies must be screaming DO SOMETHING to trump...

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