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Stuart G

(38,414 posts)
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 03:04 PM Mar 2020

"Saddest Movie" .. ever seen in a movie theater?

Romeo and Juliet ..1968..Stars: Leonard Whiting, Olivia Hussey, John McEnery,

Director: Franco Zeffirelli

I was on a movie going binge..Got to see them all..and all. I did know it wasn't a happy film, but I came out of the theater crying it was so sad. Awfully sad. I didn't think it would work so well, but the writer knew how to write sad plays, and also, Zeffirelli knew how to direct sad movies.
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"Saddest Movie" .. ever seen in a movie theater? (Original Post) Stuart G Mar 2020 OP
My personal favorite movie of all time. n/t Mister Ed Mar 2020 #1
For me, it's a tie... FM123 Mar 2020 #2
Sophie's Choice. Yes. I'm still not over it. Guilded Lilly Mar 2020 #7
I started watching it then had to stop, just so very sad but you wonder what you would have done. katmondoo Mar 2020 #22
I read the book first... Guilded Lilly Mar 2020 #25
I have never been able to watch Sophie's Choice. hedda_foil Mar 2020 #23
I agree. On my worst blue days, that horrible "choice"... Guilded Lilly Mar 2020 #27
Nope. Old Yeller. LakeArenal Mar 2020 #3
"Exodus" with Paul Newman . . . Iliyah Mar 2020 #4
Bambi Walleye Mar 2020 #5
Our High School Took Us To See It JimGinPA Mar 2020 #6
Probably "Million Dollar Baby" Mike 03 Mar 2020 #8
OMG Million Dollar Baby TexasBushwhacker Mar 2020 #33
"Fahrenheit 911" although I didn't know it at the time. n/t rzemanfl Mar 2020 #9
Terms of Endearment. peacefreak2.0 Mar 2020 #10
ET MuseRider Mar 2020 #11
The movie Trip to Bountiful has stuck with me. It was sad but contained a powerful messge about in2herbs Mar 2020 #12
I didn't see that one in the theatre, but it immediately popped in my head. Coventina Mar 2020 #13
I watched it as a video rental back in the 80s. nt in2herbs Mar 2020 #15
Little Big Man and Soldier Blue both from 1970 Submariner Mar 2020 #14
The biscuit eater. EmeraldCoaster Mar 2020 #16
"Anne of a Thousand Days". LisaM Mar 2020 #17
The Champ JustFiveMoreMinutes Mar 2020 #18
"Life is Beautiful" n/t LenaW Mar 2020 #19
"The Pawnbroker" rurallib Mar 2020 #20
+100 Sneederbunk Mar 2020 #32
Schindler's List; nothing else even comes close for me. malchickiwick Mar 2020 #21
My choice too... Satch59 Mar 2020 #31
Yeah, me too. Any distant second is so far distant. LanternWaste Mar 2020 #41
Bambi and Dumbo Cartoonist Mar 2020 #24
Dating myself here...Titanic. dewsgirl Mar 2020 #26
We went the night it premiered, they stood in front and talked dewsgirl Mar 2020 #28
Sophie's Choice and Trip to Bountiful. OregonBlue Mar 2020 #29
"Boy in the Striped Pajamas" Pachamama Mar 2020 #30
Where the Red Fern Grows!! bluestarone Mar 2020 #34
Saving Private Ryan jrandom421 Mar 2020 #35
Dances With Wolves got me a bit Ahpook Mar 2020 #36
1984 hunter Mar 2020 #37
Charlotte's Web... every time, every version JCMach1 Mar 2020 #38
LaLa Land LaelthsDaughter Mar 2020 #39
"Testament" (1983) Paladin Mar 2020 #40

hedda_foil

(16,371 posts)
23. I have never been able to watch Sophie's Choice.
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 04:32 PM
Mar 2020

I can deal with Holocaust films and documentaries. I've read widely on the subject and know how close we are to a repetition right here (though they're unlikely to start with Jewish Americans). I've seen scenes of children separated from their mothers then and now, and can handle it. But being forced to choose which of your children will die has always been too awful for me to bring myself to see it.

Guilded Lilly

(5,591 posts)
27. I agree. On my worst blue days, that horrible "choice"...
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 05:02 PM
Mar 2020

Can haunt one’s mind.

I find what’s happening at the border now in the “haunting” category.

Mike 03

(16,616 posts)
8. Probably "Million Dollar Baby"
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 03:16 PM
Mar 2020

"Sophie's Choice" was traumatic, almost in a category by itself, "beyond sad" but I didn't see it in a theater.

I might change this if I think of something that affected me more.

"Requiem for a Dream" is devastating but, again, didn't see it in a movie theater.

"Silent Running"

TexasBushwhacker

(20,167 posts)
33. OMG Million Dollar Baby
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 06:28 PM
Mar 2020

I went to see it with a boyfriend and knew nothing about it except it was about a female boxer and Clint Eastwood directed it. It was the first anniversary of my mothers death, who I had cared for as she was dying of breast cancer. I just EXPLODED in tears.

peacefreak2.0

(1,023 posts)
10. Terms of Endearment.
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 03:21 PM
Mar 2020

My brother had just died from brain cancer and the movie hit way too close to home for me.

MuseRider

(34,104 posts)
11. ET
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 03:29 PM
Mar 2020

I was a grown ass adult bawling like a little baby.

That particular Romeo and Juliet was my first, I was in Jr. High I think.

Someone else mentioned Terms of Endearment, I saw that at home thankfully. The entire thing was sadness the funny then sadness. Well done. I love anything that Larry McMurty writes but when I read the book I was amazed at how different it was from the movie.

in2herbs

(2,945 posts)
12. The movie Trip to Bountiful has stuck with me. It was sad but contained a powerful messge about
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 03:31 PM
Mar 2020

getting old.

Coventina

(27,093 posts)
13. I didn't see that one in the theatre, but it immediately popped in my head.
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 03:36 PM
Mar 2020

I saw it just after my grandmother died and it absolutely wrecked me.

Submariner

(12,503 posts)
14. Little Big Man and Soldier Blue both from 1970
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 03:37 PM
Mar 2020

about the continuing breaking of peace treaties and Indian slaughters of the old west. These were the top 2 saddest movies for me, and still bother me.

I saw these movies just after serving in the Navy with some Cherokee and Navajo shipmates. and they were not at all like the savages the nuns taught me about. These were very depressing movies to see in the midst of the anti-Vietnam campus riots back in the day.

LisaM

(27,800 posts)
17. "Anne of a Thousand Days".
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 03:43 PM
Mar 2020

I saw it multiple times and it got me every time. I was pretty young and it really affected me.

Satch59

(1,353 posts)
31. My choice too...
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 05:53 PM
Mar 2020

Almost unbearable. That last portion where Schindler was being cheered but all he could feel was regret for not saving more...

Sophie’s Choice
Terms of Endearment (I had just had my daughter so subject matter and hormones were not a good combo...)

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
41. Yeah, me too. Any distant second is so far distant.
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 02:01 PM
Mar 2020

The "I could have done more" monologue at the end gets me every damn time.

Every damn time.

Damn.

Cartoonist

(7,314 posts)
24. Bambi and Dumbo
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 04:34 PM
Mar 2020

Disney had me bawling at both of them. It's easy to create such emotional responses. Even though it's fake and manipulative, it always works. Unless you're Oscar Wilde.

"One would have to have a heart of stone to read the death of little Nell without dissolving into tears...of laughter."

dewsgirl

(14,961 posts)
28. We went the night it premiered, they stood in front and talked
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 05:04 PM
Mar 2020

to us beforehand, they even passed out tissues, my husband and the guy next to him were like no not me, by the time it was over we were all traumatized. I have never had that kind of experience in a theatre before or since.

jrandom421

(1,003 posts)
35. Saving Private Ryan
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 08:42 PM
Mar 2020

The final scenes of Jimmy Ryan returning to Normandy 50 years later. Gazing at all the grave markers at the cemetery, he turns to his wife and says, "Tell me I've led a good life.Tell me I'm a good man." One of the saddest movies I've seen


Ahpook

(2,749 posts)
36. Dances With Wolves got me a bit
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 09:36 PM
Mar 2020

The context of the movie is bad enough, but anything with animals hurts me to the core.

The scene towards the end when Two Socks was killed for no reason (which is all to prevalent) is saddening and infuriating.

hunter

(38,309 posts)
37. 1984
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 10:00 PM
Mar 2020

In a huge old ornate downtown theater.

There were not many people in the theater to begin with, but by the end of the movie it was just me and another guy sitting in the back.

He may have been drunk.

Or dead.



I generally avoid all sad movies.

Had enough in real life.

LaelthsDaughter

(150 posts)
39. LaLa Land
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 10:49 AM
Mar 2020

I am a woman... I’m very fond of my dramas. Lala land was released in I think 2017/2018. I had just been a stage hand for my local theater’s Beauty and the beast. We all went out to watch LaLa Land. Now... I rarely ever cry for a movie. I’ve only cried for two. Lala Land was one of them. The story is super sweet and slowly turns so sour. The main couple do get together and try to live a really good life reaching thier dreams, but their dreams lead them away from each other. In the end they break up and move on. They have their own lives and everything. Well... they meet again breifly and at the end of the movie it shows the audience everything they could have had together if they had just pushed through the hard times. It’s sooooo sad.

Paladin

(28,246 posts)
40. "Testament" (1983)
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 11:34 AM
Mar 2020

A small California community goes through its final days, after a nuclear war. With Jane Alexander and William Devane. Grim beyond description; to this day, I regret seeing it.

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