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Ok, ok, I HATE THAT SCRUFFY BEARD A LOT OF MEN ARE WEARING...... (Original Post) a kennedy Mar 2020 OP
I've grown beards PJMcK Mar 2020 #1
Thanks for the clarification! Dave in VA Mar 2020 #26
Hate shaving BeyondGeography Mar 2020 #28
I'm with you on this. Three-day stubble, not appealing Walleye Mar 2020 #2
Me, too. Not attractive. SharonAnn Mar 2020 #15
And it feels awful TexasBushwhacker Mar 2020 #17
I've tried growing a beard. rownesheck Mar 2020 #3
Saw Ty Burrell on Stephen Colbert last night, and ugh, his was just awful. a kennedy Mar 2020 #4
I don't like the look either leftieNanner Mar 2020 #5
While I don't have a real issue with well groomed close cropped bears, I'd surely not hlthe2b Mar 2020 #6
How is hair on the top of someone's head any different in that respect? Major Nikon Mar 2020 #20
People tell me that Enter Username Here Mar 2020 #7
Welcome to DU..... a kennedy Mar 2020 #11
i'm growing mine for the 1st time long dweller Mar 2020 #8
My youngest son has a luxuriant beard that he keeps well trimmed. My other two sons Arkansas Granny Mar 2020 #9
Just curious, do your other 2 sons have different fathers than your youngest son? beaglelover Mar 2020 #14
The youngest has a different father. The older boys father could grow a beard Arkansas Granny Mar 2020 #16
My wife likes me better with a beard, CanonRay Mar 2020 #10
I like full beards, especially if they're trimmed and shaped lunatica Mar 2020 #19
I got a goatee I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2020 #12
A beard is better than razor bumps if one is prone to that . Just keep it neat. No scruff lunasun Mar 2020 #13
It's gone too far lunatica Mar 2020 #18
my husband hates to shave Orangepeel Mar 2020 #21
and how do YOU like it??? a kennedy Mar 2020 #22
His body, his choice Orangepeel Mar 2020 #23
Hey! That's been my fashion all my adult life. hunter Mar 2020 #24
WITH you! elleng Mar 2020 #25
I sport the bald head big beard look brokephibroke Mar 2020 #27
It's a thing... VarryOn Mar 2020 #29
Yep customerserviceguy Mar 2020 #30
As one whose 5 o'clock shadow shows up before noon... Harker Mar 2020 #31
I didn't get that gene maxrandb Mar 2020 #32
I'm tryna get mine long enough to braid OriginalGeek Mar 2020 #33
Haha......love the skull addition..... a kennedy Mar 2020 #34

PJMcK

(21,998 posts)
1. I've grown beards
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 08:40 PM
Mar 2020

I prefer to be clean shaven. It feels better and it's cleaner.

To each their own.

By the way, I'm a man.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,148 posts)
17. And it feels awful
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 09:41 PM
Mar 2020

A well groomed beard or goatee can be very attractive, but I hate the 3 day stubble and when they let it grow way down on their neck. How David Letterman's wife puts up with this I'll never know.

?w=1000

rownesheck

(2,343 posts)
3. I've tried growing a beard.
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 08:42 PM
Mar 2020

It never looks good. It's all spotty and thin, like I ain't even hit puberty yet!

leftieNanner

(15,067 posts)
5. I don't like the look either
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 08:43 PM
Mar 2020

And kissing that face is awful! My husband doesn't shave every day now that he's retired, and I think he looks like a 112 year old wino when he goes more than a couple of days. Needless to say, the smooches are less frequent.

hlthe2b

(102,138 posts)
6. While I don't have a real issue with well groomed close cropped bears, I'd surely not
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 08:46 PM
Mar 2020

think men would want to wear facial hair right now--at least if COVID-19 continues spreading... To much facial "space" for nasty viral droplets to land and remain-- not to mention temptation for stroking/touching.

a kennedy

(29,618 posts)
11. Welcome to DU.....
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 09:06 PM
Mar 2020

ha ha........I’ve been told that myself, “can’t you cover up??” and I’m female.

dweller

(23,613 posts)
8. i'm growing mine for the 1st time long
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 08:52 PM
Mar 2020

had to keep it short due to work forever, but i'm 'retired' now ...
i want to go out with that John Muir flow
https://www.pinterest.com/pin/69594756711663457/

✌🏼

Arkansas Granny

(31,507 posts)
9. My youngest son has a luxuriant beard that he keeps well trimmed. My other two sons
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 08:54 PM
Mar 2020

don't have enough whiskers and don't even bother trying. They can go without shaving for a couple of days before you would notice. My son-in-law has a beard that looks like shredded wheat. I hate it.

beaglelover

(3,460 posts)
14. Just curious, do your other 2 sons have different fathers than your youngest son?
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 09:32 PM
Mar 2020

I would have thought with the same set of parents, all 3 boys would be equally hairy.

Arkansas Granny

(31,507 posts)
16. The youngest has a different father. The older boys father could grow a beard
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 09:40 PM
Mar 2020

in a matter of days. My dad hardly had any whiskers at all. I guess those are the genes they wound up with.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
19. I like full beards, especially if they're trimmed and shaped
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 10:13 PM
Mar 2020

but the look of a weeks growth looks just sad, unkempt, prickly, shapeless.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,462 posts)
12. I got a goatee
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 09:07 PM
Mar 2020

Transgendered ,they. I got a goatee
It's about 2 1/2 inches long red with dual points.
I have been growing it for over 5 years. The rest of my face is smooth.
I will be really bummed if I have to shave it off. It took over five years to grow it, I love it and it will be missed terribly.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
18. It's gone too far
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 10:10 PM
Mar 2020

I agree that it doesn’t look good when it has gray in it. It just looks unkempt, messy. But on younger men it looks good if it isn’t too much. A two or three day growth is enough.

hunter

(38,303 posts)
24. Hey! That's been my fashion all my adult life.
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 12:20 AM
Mar 2020

Those other guys copied me.

But my motives were pretty basic. The rashes I get from shaving look worse than a scruffy beard.

My pattern used to be this:

Shave. Interview for job. Get job. Continue shaving until someone says, "OMG! What happened to your face!"

It's probably related to this:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dermatographic_urticaria

When my wife says I'm looking too much like Grizzly Adams I set the buzz cutter anywhere from three to seven and trim it back.


 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
29. It's a thing...
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 12:54 AM
Mar 2020

That is all I can say. Even young boys in my office do it. I struggle to understand, but certainly don't lose sleep over it.

Harker

(13,985 posts)
31. As one whose 5 o'clock shadow shows up before noon...
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 01:42 AM
Mar 2020

I view Don Johnson as a liberator from the tyranny of daily shaving.

The more options the better.

maxrandb

(15,298 posts)
32. I didn't get that gene
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 04:39 PM
Mar 2020

Tried on a couple of occasions and the best I could generate was a George Michael.

Of course, it does have it's benefits. My chest is hairless.

My brother in-law looks like a Brillo Pad when he takes his shirt off.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
33. I'm tryna get mine long enough to braid
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 04:49 PM
Mar 2020

maybe put some little silver skulls in it. I think it would be fun at the concerts I go to.

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