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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsFinally purged the guys I served with in the Gulf from my "friends" list.
Long past time.
I decided that the fact we served together was no longer reason to put up with their pro-Trump toxicity...
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)dawg day
(7,947 posts)Trump is such a discordant force-- he forces people apart.
Firestorm49
(4,032 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,580 posts)Life is too short to deal with toxic idiots.
May your day get a whole lot better!
fierywoman
(7,683 posts)Aristus
(66,316 posts)I was everything they hate about liberals.
KS Toronado
(17,198 posts)Aristus
(66,316 posts)"Liberals want communism." - Uh, no we don't.
"Liberals hate America." - Uh, no we don't.
"Liberals hate cops". - The bad ones? Yup. All the others? Nope.
"Liberals don't want to work for a living." - Um, I work fifty weeks a year and earn a six-figure salary.
"Liberals hate our troops." - Uh, no we don't. We're not the ones who try to cut funding for veterans programs every budget period.
It defies logic...
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)TygrBright
(20,756 posts)But even in the scary world they inhabit, they are not losers or suckers, and I honor their service.
I just wish they could leave all the "scary people will get us if we don't make ourselves into the biggest scariest bullies on the planet" fear behind.
sadly,
Bright
The Polack MSgt
(13,186 posts)Over that Bullshit.
If you can find a majority AA post in your area it will have way way WAY fewer trumpistas.
That way, you can still participate veteran's assistance drives, or judge the Patriot Pen essay contests or raise money for homeless vet rehabilitation services (that's my post's main local charity. https://www.thejosephcenter.org/)
You may feel like a stranger at 1st, but it will give you a place to feel the camaraderie of a vets' organization with out the fucked upedness of a Trump favoring group of dickheads who forgot their oath to defend the constitution.
I respect your choice cousin
TexasTowelie
(112,102 posts)My brother tries to keep up with visits from one of his buddies living in Tennessee. His buddy is liberal while my brother is a Trump cult member. I really don't know what they have to talk about besides recalling the time they spent in West Germany and Iraq.
awesomerwb1
(4,267 posts)You're on the right side of history. The other side is toxic and hateful.
There's better "brothers" for you out there.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)I've never ended friendships over politics before, not even Dubya or Tricky Dickie.
#notmypresident
RESIST
moonscape
(4,673 posts)went through a lot together. But he lost his formerly sound and intelligent mind. I just could not deal.
It was sad, but what happened to him was even sadder.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)She also knew that Dolt45 is an ass hole.
Don't you just love how we're supposed to forget their conduct of 8 years and they expect us to respect Trump simply because he's in the White House?
Ah well.
#notmypresident
RESIST
Aviation Pro
(12,149 posts)What absolutely confounds me is how any servicemember can stand that fucking, five-deferment coward.
Aristus
(66,316 posts)But it sends a distressing message to future candidates for public office: Validating racism and bigotry count for more than military service.
Mr. Ected
(9,670 posts)That causes us to become apoplectic about Trump. It's that he represents an existential threat to the survival of our democratic republic.
And I mean a real and actual threat, not the make-believe threat HRC or Obama posed them.
Skittles
(153,147 posts)HOW could ANY veteran support Cadet Bonespurs, who routinely belittles the service of others.
jaxexpat
(6,818 posts)One less weight to carry. Living is brighter when one's head is not bent to a joyless task.
kimbutgar
(21,127 posts)When I find out with disgust that a longtime friend or family member is a mf45 supporter. It totally sickens me and sadly I dont trust them or their judgements anymore. I never knew there were so many weak minded people who cant see what is right in front of them and is so obvious the orange maggot is a lying evil MFer who only cares about himself and how he can profit off being president. And he doesnt give a shit about his supporters except for the adoration they give him.
And this corona virus didnt have to be this bad 200,000+ souls dead. And you know that number is under represented. Families decimated and destroyed by poverty and sickness.
I hate this MFer and what he has done to this country.
Good for you getting those a holes out of your life.
Aristus
(66,316 posts)is never backed up with verifiable evidence.
And they will never, ever, admit that the only reason they support him is because he validates their toxic worldview.
kimbutgar
(21,127 posts)We cant travel internationally anymore our passports are worthless. Millions are hurting and starving. Racial strife has been tuned up to 1000%. Family and friends divided, long time businesses closed and millions out of work. Yeah he has really made America great under his leadership.
We are the laughingstock of the world. Last year, I was in the Canary Islands and the cab driver said what happened to America? You have an insane man as your leader. I was so embarrassed. after that when people asked where we were from we said California.
Aristus
(66,316 posts)I'm hoping that will help me a little with all this...
moonscape
(4,673 posts)matter to them? Give them pause?
I will never, ever, understand any of this, no matter how many talking heads, intellectuals, articles, editorials, books, try to explain it to me. Just cannot.
rwsanders
(2,596 posts)Ananda62
(258 posts)I served during the Gulf war, although not in the Gulf (former JAG). I cut off ties with some fellow vets years ago. The only vets I talk to are my family members (who hate Trump). Thank goodness, the civilian employees (admin, docs and nurses) I deal with at the VA also hate Trump.
Woodwizard
(841 posts)The two veterans I keep in touch with are on the same page as me, can not stand Bone Spurs. How some do is beyond me, he is everything military training tells us not to be.