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Finally purged the guys I served with in the Gulf from my "friends" list. (Original Post) Aristus Sep 2020 OP
Sorry bout that. In_The_Wind Sep 2020 #1
that's hard... dawg day Sep 2020 #2
Tough call. I respect your difficult decision. Firestorm49 Sep 2020 #3
I am sorry you had to do that, my dear Aristus...but I understand why. CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2020 #4
It's their loss, not yours. fierywoman Sep 2020 #5
They won't miss me. Aristus Sep 2020 #7
That's the main problem with way to many repugs, they really do HATE Democrats KS Toronado Sep 2020 #16
They hate who they're told to hate. And they have no idea why. Aristus Sep 2020 #18
And that why I like you so much! Lady Freedom Returns Sep 2020 #32
I don't blame you. I'm sorry they still live in such fear. TygrBright Sep 2020 #6
I had to move my VFW membership, and cancel my Legion membership The Polack MSgt Sep 2020 #8
Similar situation that my brother has with one of his Persian Gulf War buddies. TexasTowelie Sep 2020 #9
Gotta do what you gotta do awesomerwb1 Sep 2020 #10
I haven't spoken to someone that who'd been my friend for 30+ years because of Dolt45. MarianJack Sep 2020 #11
Same. A friend for 45 years. We moonscape Sep 2020 #21
My friend was opposed to the ACA. MarianJack Sep 2020 #29
Sorry to hear that, brother Aviation Pro Sep 2020 #12
Me too. Aristus Sep 2020 #14
What these people don't and can't understand is that it's not politics Mr. Ected Sep 2020 #13
HAS to be a cult Skittles Sep 2020 #15
Huge step, dude. Well played, sir. jaxexpat Sep 2020 #17
I am sick and tired how this presidency has divided family and friends kimbutgar Sep 2020 #19
And their reason: "He made American great again!" Aristus Sep 2020 #20
We're so great now we're viewed internationally as stupid Americans kimbutgar Sep 2020 #26
I'm resuming my traditional Friday Night drinking thread this weekend. Aristus Sep 2020 #27
And what he has said about the military didn't moonscape Sep 2020 #22
I found this article years ago, makes me wonder why anyone in the military would support a rwsanders Sep 2020 #23
I agree with your decision. Ananda62 Sep 2020 #24
I am lucky Woodwizard Sep 2020 #25
Well...good. But "friends lists" are so middle-school-ish. Unplug from that shit. n/t slumcamper Sep 2020 #28
Sucks, man. n/t malthaussen Sep 2020 #30
They don't believe they were called "suckers"? zanana1 Sep 2020 #31

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,580 posts)
4. I am sorry you had to do that, my dear Aristus...but I understand why.
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 01:32 PM
Sep 2020

Life is too short to deal with toxic idiots.



May your day get a whole lot better!

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
18. They hate who they're told to hate. And they have no idea why.
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 03:49 PM
Sep 2020

"Liberals want communism." - Uh, no we don't.

"Liberals hate America." - Uh, no we don't.

"Liberals hate cops". - The bad ones? Yup. All the others? Nope.

"Liberals don't want to work for a living." - Um, I work fifty weeks a year and earn a six-figure salary.

"Liberals hate our troops." - Uh, no we don't. We're not the ones who try to cut funding for veterans programs every budget period.


It defies logic...


TygrBright

(20,756 posts)
6. I don't blame you. I'm sorry they still live in such fear.
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 01:34 PM
Sep 2020

But even in the scary world they inhabit, they are not losers or suckers, and I honor their service.

I just wish they could leave all the "scary people will get us if we don't make ourselves into the biggest scariest bullies on the planet" fear behind.

sadly,
Bright

The Polack MSgt

(13,186 posts)
8. I had to move my VFW membership, and cancel my Legion membership
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 01:43 PM
Sep 2020

Over that Bullshit.

If you can find a majority AA post in your area it will have way way WAY fewer trumpistas.

That way, you can still participate veteran's assistance drives, or judge the Patriot Pen essay contests or raise money for homeless vet rehabilitation services (that's my post's main local charity. https://www.thejosephcenter.org/)

You may feel like a stranger at 1st, but it will give you a place to feel the camaraderie of a vets' organization with out the fucked upedness of a Trump favoring group of dickheads who forgot their oath to defend the constitution.

I respect your choice cousin

TexasTowelie

(112,102 posts)
9. Similar situation that my brother has with one of his Persian Gulf War buddies.
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 01:46 PM
Sep 2020

My brother tries to keep up with visits from one of his buddies living in Tennessee. His buddy is liberal while my brother is a Trump cult member. I really don't know what they have to talk about besides recalling the time they spent in West Germany and Iraq.

awesomerwb1

(4,267 posts)
10. Gotta do what you gotta do
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 02:05 PM
Sep 2020

You're on the right side of history. The other side is toxic and hateful.

There's better "brothers" for you out there.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
11. I haven't spoken to someone that who'd been my friend for 30+ years because of Dolt45.
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 03:17 PM
Sep 2020

I've never ended friendships over politics before, not even Dubya or Tricky Dickie.

#notmypresident

RESIST

moonscape

(4,673 posts)
21. Same. A friend for 45 years. We
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 04:04 PM
Sep 2020

went through a lot together. But he lost his formerly sound and intelligent mind. I just could not deal.

It was sad, but what happened to him was even sadder.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
29. My friend was opposed to the ACA.
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 07:32 PM
Sep 2020

She also knew that Dolt45 is an ass hole.

Don't you just love how we're supposed to forget their conduct of 8 years and they expect us to respect Trump simply because he's in the White House?

Ah well.

#notmypresident

RESIST

Aviation Pro

(12,149 posts)
12. Sorry to hear that, brother
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 03:21 PM
Sep 2020

What absolutely confounds me is how any servicemember can stand that fucking, five-deferment coward.

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
14. Me too.
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 03:24 PM
Sep 2020

But it sends a distressing message to future candidates for public office: Validating racism and bigotry count for more than military service.

Mr. Ected

(9,670 posts)
13. What these people don't and can't understand is that it's not politics
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 03:24 PM
Sep 2020

That causes us to become apoplectic about Trump. It's that he represents an existential threat to the survival of our democratic republic.

And I mean a real and actual threat, not the make-believe threat HRC or Obama posed them.

Skittles

(153,147 posts)
15. HAS to be a cult
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 03:41 PM
Sep 2020

HOW could ANY veteran support Cadet Bonespurs, who routinely belittles the service of others.

jaxexpat

(6,818 posts)
17. Huge step, dude. Well played, sir.
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 03:44 PM
Sep 2020

One less weight to carry. Living is brighter when one's head is not bent to a joyless task.


kimbutgar

(21,127 posts)
19. I am sick and tired how this presidency has divided family and friends
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 03:52 PM
Sep 2020

When I find out with disgust that a longtime friend or family member is a mf45 supporter. It totally sickens me and sadly I don’t trust them or their judgements anymore. I never knew there were so many weak minded people who can’t see what is right in front of them and is so obvious the orange maggot is a lying evil MFer who only cares about himself and how he can profit off being president. And he doesn’t give a shit about his supporters except for the adoration they give him.

And this corona virus didn’t have to be this bad 200,000+ souls dead. And you know that number is under represented. Families decimated and destroyed by poverty and sickness.

I hate this MFer and what he has done to this country.

Good for you getting those a holes out of your life.

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
20. And their reason: "He made American great again!"
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 04:01 PM
Sep 2020

is never backed up with verifiable evidence.

And they will never, ever, admit that the only reason they support him is because he validates their toxic worldview.

kimbutgar

(21,127 posts)
26. We're so great now we're viewed internationally as stupid Americans
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 04:16 PM
Sep 2020

We can’t travel internationally anymore our passports are worthless. Millions are hurting and starving. Racial strife has been tuned up to 1000%. Family and friends divided, long time businesses closed and millions out of work. Yeah he has really made America great under his leadership.

We are the laughingstock of the world. Last year, I was in the Canary Islands and the cab driver said what happened to America? You have an insane man as your leader. I was so embarrassed. after that when people asked where we were from we said California.

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
27. I'm resuming my traditional Friday Night drinking thread this weekend.
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 04:21 PM
Sep 2020

I'm hoping that will help me a little with all this...

moonscape

(4,673 posts)
22. And what he has said about the military didn't
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 04:07 PM
Sep 2020

matter to them? Give them pause?

I will never, ever, understand any of this, no matter how many talking heads, intellectuals, articles, editorials, books, try to explain it to me. Just cannot.

Ananda62

(258 posts)
24. I agree with your decision.
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 04:09 PM
Sep 2020

I served during the Gulf war, although not in the Gulf (former JAG). I cut off ties with some fellow vets years ago. The only vets I talk to are my family members (who hate Trump). Thank goodness, the civilian employees (admin, docs and nurses) I deal with at the VA also hate Trump.

Woodwizard

(841 posts)
25. I am lucky
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 04:15 PM
Sep 2020

The two veterans I keep in touch with are on the same page as me, can not stand Bone Spurs. How some do is beyond me, he is everything military training tells us not to be.

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