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[Soph0571]

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[brush]

1. Sorry, I'm confused. Did you meet the person from the site you were well suited for...

before the car crash? Or you didn't meet him because of the crash and found yourself suited to his cousin?

And are you now grieving the cousin?

[Soph0571]

5. I am grieving my SO who died on Monday

That is all.

[Lars39]

2. I got thru some bad times by looking through old photos

and listening to music. I hope it gets easier for you, Soph.

[GemDigger]

3. For the Laird!

My last one for himself

For you Soph

[Soph0571]

4. Huzzah to the laird

My heart

[GemDigger]

7. You were his gift Soph, take that with you in the days ahead. I never understood why he chose

those words but now that I know how you met him, it makes perfect sense.

[NoRoadUntravelled]

6. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

This sounds like a wonderful relationship with beautiful memories the two of you made together. As time passes, those memories will surface like bubbles in fine champagne and you will know he is at peace.

[Karadeniz]

8. It's just going to take time...nothing to be done for it. Try to not be alone...and vent however

Much you want!!!❤. I know this is going to look like I'm minimizing your pain, but do you have a pet to look after, walk...I find pets so comforting and helpful.

[abqtommy]

9. Don't let this be the last time you "talk about this". You may need to talk more and that's o.k.

You're surrounded by people who have suffered loss and we understand...

[smirkymonkey]

10. I'm so sorry for your loss, Soph.

Feel free to talk about it as much as you like. Grieving is a long process and you may need to come here to get things off your chest every now and then. It has been said that pain shared is halved. Please don't feel like you are burdening us with your feelings.

Sending healing thoughts and love your way.

[abqtommy]

11. kick

[Lady Freedom Returns]

12. No words....

🕊️

[lillypaddle]

13. Thank you

Well, could you tell us at least what he looked like? Did he have a nice laugh? If this post is "the last of it," maybe you could edit it if you are willing to tell us more about him.