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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsMy 104 year old 2nd cousin just passed away.
She lived in the same house, on the side of a Maryland mountain, for most of her life. I am glad I got to know her.
Her daughter is 80. Imagine having your mother in your life for that many years.
Anyway, I'll lift a glass to Emma, tonight.
dawg day
(7,947 posts)Emma of the Mountain-- that's how I'll think of her.
dlk
(11,514 posts)Imagine all of the incredible events your cousin lived to see throughout her long life! Condolences to you and your family.
Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)livetohike
(22,123 posts)your cousin. May the stories you all will tell comfort you .
whistler162
(11,155 posts)but egads there is a mother-in-law joke in there.
Dem2theMax
(9,637 posts)And imagine all the things she experienced in that long life.
My sympathy to you and your family.
To Emma. 🍷
japple
(9,808 posts)to her, but she must have been one strong woman and you we lucky to have her all those years. What stories she must have had. Would love to hear some of them.
BigmanPigman
(51,567 posts)(3 months shy) right before tRump was elected. She was a life long Dem and that would have killed her if she lived long enough to see it. She loved to piss off her neighbors in FL with her yard signs. If they said anything she would go off on them in Italian. She had spunk.
StevieM
(10,500 posts)Wow, 104 years. It sounds like she had a full life.
I have a great uncle who lived to be 105 1/2. How close was your cousin to 105?
Also, are you clear about the proper labeling for cousins? If she was your 2nd cousin then that means that you each had a parent who was 1st cousins with each other. If she was the 1st cousin of your parent then she was your 1st cousin once removed. I am only telling you because many people are unclear or confused about that.
Siwsan
(26,250 posts)And, admittedly, this whole degree of cousin thing confuses me. She was my grandmothers niece, so my father's first cousin. I think (but am not positive) that makes her my 2nd cousin.
StevieM
(10,500 posts)Her daughter is your 2nd cousin.
A 2nd cousin is someone who has a parent that was 1st cousins with your parent.
Siwsan
(26,250 posts)So utterly confusing.
AZ8theist
(5,409 posts)So many cousins, aunts, uncles, in laws, you name it. She also has 2 cousins with the exact same name. SHEEEESH!!!
imanamerican63
(13,734 posts)niyad
(113,074 posts)Did your family have her do an oral herstory?
Siwsan
(26,250 posts)And Emma's 90+ year old brother is deep into family genealogy.
AmyStrange
(7,989 posts)-
I know that I will.
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3catwoman3
(23,949 posts)I will lift a glass, too.
orleans
(34,040 posts)gademocrat7
(10,644 posts)warmfeet
(3,321 posts)electric_blue68
(14,818 posts)To live through such extrodinary changes!
Karadeniz
(22,471 posts)SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)RIP, Emma! 🥂
COL Mustard
(5,870 posts)And condolences to her family!