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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsY'all grammarians, more and more I see this sort of thing:
if only he would have done that
If I wouldnt have done that
My understanding is that, a better way of saying that is:
if only he had done that...
If I hadnt done that
I saw both of these in the language of letting go today. Im no expert in grammar. I couldnt tell you when to use whom If my life depended on it.
I know languages change, and this isnt a hill to die on not for me anyway. But I just want to know what yall think. Because I am seeing this more and more and hearing it more too.
handmade34
(22,756 posts)secondwind
(16,903 posts)Pretty sure.
Cirque du So-What
(25,932 posts)Heres a concise guide:
https://www.grammarly.com/blog/who-vs-whom-its-not-as-complicated-as-you-might-think/
Cirque du So-What
(25,932 posts)Unnecessary words must be shot on sight.
As long as its not would of, it doesnt bother me too much. 😉
if..fish..had..wings
(662 posts)Winston Churchill
abqtommy
(14,118 posts)wishes to communicate. Of course there are physical tells the ring my bells and also show
me the intent of hell-bent others. There's a precedent to which any whom desire can turn to and that's the story by Ernest Hemingway I read in school titled For Whom The Bell Tolls
which was also made into a movie. There is no connection to Tollhouse Cookies that I know of unless one counts them as a snack consumed while reading.
But then the phrase For Whom The Bell Tolls was lifted from and earlier piece of writ by
John Dunne, whom has not been forgotten:
For Whom the Bell Tolls, novel by Ernest Hemingway, published in 1940. The title is from a sermon by John Donne containing the famous words "No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the Continent, a part of the main
. Any mans death diminishes me, for I am involved in mankind. Any therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee."
link: https://www.britannica.com/topic/For-Whom-the-Bell-Tolls-novel-by-Hemingway
John Donne who originated the "For Whom" quote died in 1631.
link: https://allpoetry.com/No-man-is-an-island
So what goes around comes around for whomever is paying attention. If you can't afford
to pay attention it just might affect your retention. Or is it "effect"? But that's a topic for another op for whom an whomever wishes.
note: This op has been entirely trump-free.