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"Piecaken", which I guess is the dessert equivalent to a "Turducken". He couldn't quite remember exactly remember what it was, but he thought it was a pecan pie on the bottom, with a cheesecake middle and a carrot cake top or something like that.
Leave it to Americans to completely overdo everything! 
Plus 2 bottles of Cab Sav. Will cook and drink, put food in the fridge, and continue to enjoy the evening. 
As long as you have wine, you will be fine! 
I love tapas! Who says T-giving has to be traditional! 
My husband is deployed. Our nearest family is a couple thousand miles away ( not that it matters with covid restrictions). So, I allowed the kids to set the menu. Everyone will have their favorite dish made by me.
Stay safe, everyone. 
And I wish your deployed husband all the best and pray for his safe return. I know how anxiety provoking that can be. My brother was deployed numerous times and every time I just felt sick to my stomach until he returned safely. Thank god he did.
I wish you and your family all the best!
If you can, please thank you brother for his service. 
I will be alone as well and I am happy about it too. No anxiety. However, I really wish I was retired!
I really wish more people would be more cautious, but unfortunately, I think there is going to be an explosion of this virus due to people insisting upon having family gatherings. It's only going to make things worse and prevent Christmas gatherings from happening as well.
I have already decided that I am going to give Christmas a pass as well. It's not going to get better between now and then. It can only get worse. I don't want to contribute to it, nor to I want to risk my health.
Stay safe PJMcK. I hope you and your family stay safe and healthy!
I'm by myself, but my daughter brought me a turkey about 2 weeks ago. I thawed it out and roasted it that weekend, and had all of the yummy leftovers. Thursday, I'm planning to make a small pork roast, some roasted potatoes and some vegetables. I'm making rolls and will drop them off at my daughter's before their dinner. She is going to make me a plate later and drop it off. We're being flexible, but we won't eat together. We won't enter each other's homes, but that's okay.
We're going to get on Zoom with her sister, and watch the parade.
Sounds like you'll have a nice meal. And leftovers 
It's best to be careful now so that you can be together - alive and healthy - later. We are all doing the Zoom T-giving as well. I don't think it will be so bad. It will be reassuring that everyone will be safe and healthy. I would rather feel secure than have to worry about infecting anyone in my family or worry that they might infect me. It's not worth it.
Hope you and your family stay safe and healthy!
And enjoy your dinner
I love Beef Wellington! One of my favorite dishes! The rest sounds great as well!
I hope you and the rest of the FSogol family have a wonderful holiday!
Potatoes au gratin
Brussels sprouts
No dessert planned yet, needs to be low carb
I have cooked dozens of turkeys over the years and perfected my cooking methods including brining the turkey. I have a fabulous recipe for brine if anyone is interested.
Did a nice brined turkey for my in-laws last year -- one of my best. But with only 4 of us there were lots of leftovers. I am so sick of turkey. I'm a frequent dieter and I eat loads of ground turkey. Turkey meatloaf, turkey burgers, turkey meatballs.
This year since it is just my husband and I social distancing, I am rebelling. Still a special dinner but NO TURKEY.
That is something that is usually on our Christmas menu, but who says T-giving has to only include Turkey. Why not switch it up and serve something different? I love your rebellious spirit! 
I wish you and your family a wonderful T-giving and I am sure your meal will be superb! Enjoy!
Of staying home for that holiday too. Maybe I will even try to learn too cook my own.
Nah, I hate cleaning up afterward. Ordering in is just so easy, and they do much better than I can usually do.
However, I really am interested in learning how to cook it for myself, just not until after the end of the year. This year has completely exhausted me. I honestly feel like I could sleep from now until Christmas.
I am hoping 2021 will bring me renewed energy and motivation.
I have a small turkey breast which will be accompanied by sausage stuffing (Pepp. Farms), mashed potatoes, fresh asparagus, cranberry sauce, and a glass (or two) of Pinot Grigio. I just realized I forgot to buy biscuits, so will do without to avoid another trip to the store. No dessert because it's not my thing.
My son and his family live nearby, but they have an active household consisting of two working adults and two busy teens - too much exposure for my liking. With the COVID numbers escalating, I decided it's too risky to spend the holiday there. They offered to drop off a plate, but I'd miss the leftovers for the turkey/stuffing/cranberry sandwich on Friday. The same will probably be true of Christmas also. It's a little lonely, but certainly safer, and I've done it before and lived.
Looks like there might be a few of us here on DU that day.
and let these adult family members choose their own fate, whatever it will be. You're doing the right thing, not only for yourself, but for your family as well. There's just so much you can do to get others to go along, however.
I hope they all make out well under the circumstances. It's really a sad day that health and family decisions follow political lines, but such is the divisiveness of the tRump administration. Like you, I choose to believe the science.
I think it's wise for you to skip getting together for the holiday for safety reasons. Hopefully things will be better in another month, but if not, please don't rush it.
Glad you have a nice plan for T-giving for yourself! I think i would feel deprived if I didn't have the traditional T-day meal, even if I am going to be alone.
There are no mandates that T-giving dinner has to be absolutely traditional. It should be whatever you like. I was thinking of Chinese food for a while until I realized that I was going to be on a Zoom call w/my family (an realized that I didn't want to explain my unorthodox choice). Besides, I do like the traditional dinner, but it's kind of a pain.
I hope you and your family have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
I wish we had a decent Chinese that delivers, but the only one in our area keeps deteriorating, and has gone below the level of our tolerance.
I just want everyone to be safe on T'day.
There are a lot of foolish people who are flying and I hope none or few of them is a DU member. I like to think we are smarter than that, but you know how that goes....
so for the 3 of us I am doing it like always. I have been baking bread for the last few days for stuffing and then all the usual turkey dinner things. I love to do it and do it from scratch. SO...I am doing it. There will be lots of leftovers and that is a blessing these days too. I also decided to make a Cranberry Upside Down cake. I did that once a long time ago and it was wonderful.
I truly do enjoy cooking on holidays and birthdays. Not so much on other days, but I will always bake. They have been doing all the shopping and dishes for me as I work outside on the farm during the days. They deserve this, they earned it and I love it. I did think about blowing it off, they would have been fine with it but I just wanted to do it.
It all sounds delicious! But Cranberry upside-down cake sounds great! Yum!
Hope you all have a wonderful holiday and you will have to share your recipe with us and send us some pics!
I only got a 4lb boneless turkey breast. It's not as flavorful, but I just didn't feel like dealing with the mess.
I am normally not a dessert person at all, but I am most excited about the WF pecan pie (which I will heat up) and the Talenti Vanilla Caramel Swirl Gelato to top it (also got some Vanilla Bean Gelato as back up, since I already broke into the VCS gelato - it's like crack.)
Anyway, I think I will have to start a new diet as a New Year's resolution. 
My plans are almost the same, except alone. However, I don't mind. I am one of those introverts who actually loves being alone, but I will enjoy connecting with people by phone and email on Thursday. However, that will be sufficient forme.
I hope you and your husband have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
Especially the ice cream thing! Maybe I will!
Do you have a pic of Zeus Dog? That is the only thing I am missing is a dog. I would love to have a doggie more than anything! All my siblings have dogs (big dogs) and I am just obsesed with them, but I don't get to see them very often. I miss them constantly.
Wishing you and Zeus Dog a very happy day of thanks as well!
It's just me, hubby, and a very trusted friend that hardly leaves her house except to visit us and go to doctor appointments. No other third party is allowed into our house.
We're having a 7.7 pound bird as opposed to the usual 20 to 30 pound bird. Garlic mashed potatoes, brussel sprouts w/garlic butter and bacon, asparagus in lemon butter, butter croissants and rolls, A cherry,blueberry, or strawberry cheesecake (possibly all three). We doing a punch with sherbert ice cream, 7 Up, Malibu Rum, Sunny D and frozen sliced fruit. He's already made an upside down cake with his homemade cranberry sauce and I doubt there will be any left by Thanksgiving. He's also made a cocktail with the leftover cranberry juice and Bacardi Gold rum.
Especially the Punch! All of it sounds really good! Do your beagles get some turkey?
We grew up with beagles and I just love them! They are the sweetest dogs. I love it when they howl - ours used to howl at the noon whistle in our town and when fire engines went by. They were so cute!
Anyway, hope you all have a great holiday and have a glass of punch for me! 
Our dogs will get turkey and other extras. We have to be careful about giving too much to Dobie our new rescue. He's a butterball. We'll probably have to wake up Oscar the 14 year old to give him treats. The dogs outnumber the people in this house. The friend also has a beagle named George and a pom/rat terrier mix named Tiger.
Dobie howls and loses his mind over dental sticks. The other day I got a hot dog out of the fridge intending to cut it up in small pieces as treats. I accidentally dropped it and it rolled to a stop by his feet. He was so intent on getting the dental stick he ignored the hot dog! Any other dog would've devoured that in a second. This reminds me that I still have to post photos of Dobie (at the request of Dem2theMax) in the Lounge as soon as I figure out how to transfer the pics on my phone to my computer.
I'll drink a glass of spiked punch in your honor smirkmonkey. 
Have a Happy Thanksgiving everyone and stay safe.
The more the merrier, I say! Sounds like you are already 1 for 1, hopefully the holiday will continue to get better for you. 
Feels like I've been alone most of my life. In the last years of my parents lives, we turned holidays upside down. We started having non-traditional entrees for Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter.
Since they passed away, I have kept the tradition going. This Thanksgiving I will be having salmon for dinner. There will be a vegetable of some sort, and maybe mashed potatoes. Haven't decided yet on whether I'm having apple pie or some yummy chocolate thing for dessert.
Have no clue about Christmas. But Easter it will definitely be pizza for dinner!
My parents are getting up there too and they are determined to go to my sister's home in Maine for Christmas (they are raging republicans w/ four teenage kids, and I know they are not careful or taking precautions, even though ME is a lower risk state) so I worry very much that they may not be around much longer. I will not be able to talk them out of it, especially my step-mother. She is determined. I am invited as well, but I will decline. They don't know yet.
Anyway, your dinner sounds lovely, even though it's untraditional. I love salmon and I think its great to try something different. Pizza for Easter is awesome!
My parents passed long enough ago that I'm now used to it. That doesn't mean I don't miss them like crazy and wish they were here.
But I'm determined to keep our corny traditions going. Other relatives would be appalled when they heard we were having pizza for Easter. We got quite a kick out of it. So I do it in my parents honor and their memory, and it actually makes me happy.
One cousin really was so appalled that she sent us a huge gift certificate for Honey Baked Ham and all the trimmings. She couldn't believe we were going to have pizza for a holiday. Pizza is a perfect food, good for any and every occasion, including breakfast, lunch and dinner.
Shortly after my parents died, a good friend lost her husband. So we started spending Easter together. And of course we had pizza. She has since remarried. And now her new husband has to have pizza with us! LOL! We are not giving up our tradition just because she got remarried. We couldn't get together this year because of
Covid-19, so we had our own pizzas in our own homes, and we sent each other pictures of our pizzas.
I can't imagine having to deal with family who are not taking the virus seriously. Especially when it's your parents. I really feel for you. It's such a special time, but you are doing the right thing in taking care of your own health.
May you have an absolutely beautiful Thanksgiving. And I truly hope that your family will remain healthy.
Hubby and I were talking about doing surf and turf this year with salmon and steak but decided to go the traditional route but scaled back. Sorry to hear about the passing of your parents. 
Mine are gone too.
Have a safe holiday
Your surf and turf reminded me of one of our non-traditional Christmas dinners. We went crazy and had Alaskan king crab legs. (This was some years ago when you didn't have to take out a bank loan to afford them.)
I can't remember how many pounds of crab legs we purchased, but I do remember eating for a few hours. I was so stuffed. And I think that's the happiest I have ever been at a Christmas dinner. I can still see my dad sitting at the other end of the table, grinning from ear-to-ear. Best idea we ever had!
As I mentioned in a previous post, Mom and Dad have been gone for a while, but they are ever present in my thoughts. As I'm sure your parents are in yours. It's always the hardest at the holidays.
From the time I was a little girl, our house was the house all the relatives came to for every holiday dinner. As the years went by, everyone married and moved away. And then more years went by, and as people started passing away, those family get-togethers became smaller and smaller. Until one day, it was just my mom, dad and myself. They had outlived everyone but me.
It is lonely. But I am surrounded by wonderful memories. And there's a lot of love in those memories. I hope it's the same for you.
Have an absolutely wonderful Thanksgiving.
For our parents
Low maintenance, easy cleanup. I am especially into the easy cleanup. If there is one thing I hate about big family meals it is the massive cleanup job afterward. Ugh! I hate it! Even with a dishwasher, it's still a huge chore with about 20 people give or take a few.
I'll be on my own as well, so we will all have to check in here on DU to make sure everyone is doing ok.
Especially after eating something like turkey. 
Can't forget the potatoes though, they are the best part of the meal as far as I am concerned. I could skip everything else but that!
