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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhat's this new way of ending spoken sentences on an upbeat?
I don't know how to describe it, but it's like asking a question or asking for a reply.
I see it all the time here in the Bay Area. Drives me nuts.
AllaN01Bear
(18,194 posts)the other one that drives me crazy is using the letter n in front of words . have no example for you. have a grand day. another peve is the missspelling and missuse of the pronoun to and or too. and quiet as spellt like quite . the quite hours are from 0800 to 10 pm.
Phoenix61
(17,003 posts)Annoys the hell out of me too. If you want my opinion, just ask for it.
Arne
(2,012 posts)C_U_L8R
(45,002 posts)Sanity Claws
(21,847 posts)Like adding "right?" at the of a sentence. I think that is what I heard. Have you noticed whether it is more common among women than men?
What gets me is the voice that comes from the back of the voice and makes the voice croaky. There is a specific term for this but I can't recall it now.
bbernardini
(9,938 posts)Sanity Claws
(21,847 posts)I wonder if it fries the vocal cords.
RockRaven
(14,966 posts)grumpyduck
(6,232 posts)but out here I've noticed it far more common among women.
targetpractice
(4,919 posts)...and drive dialect deviations, accents, and linguistic styles... that are accepted over time. The vocal fry is a good example.
https://www.nytimes.com/2012/02/28/science/young-women-often-trendsetters-in-vocal-patterns.html
bbernardini
(9,938 posts)There's a fancier name for it that I forget.
Irish_Dem
(47,036 posts)Edited to add:
My daughter took a college linguistics class a couple of years ago and the professor said that language is always evolving and changing. Common usage may sound odd in the beginning, but then becomes the norm.
I hope Upspeak is just a fad, but who knows???
soothsayer
(38,601 posts)I was mortified
Irish_Dem
(47,036 posts)My daughter is very smart and has several degrees, one a graduate science degree.
She called me last year, she had to mail a real letter, and she asked me where she might
be able to buy a stamp.
I was floored and mortified, I must have failed at parenting.
I had to explain the US post office to her and where it is located.
She can buy a stamp and mail a letter there.
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)What I find annoying though is people starting every answer with So.... I heard some health professional on TV a couple of nights ago who started every reply that way as if she had to collect her thoughts first. Come prepared!
grumpyduck
(6,232 posts)Liberal and Proud
(13 posts)Ive noticed a lot of guests on the cable shows will begin with so. I think theyre just gathering their thoughts before answering the question/s put to them.
Fla Dem
(23,661 posts)It was a thing at the time, haven't heard it so much in a while. Thought it made the women sound somewhat phoney. or if they were trying to sound "with it".
Irish_Dem
(47,036 posts)But what do I know.
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ZenDem
(442 posts)She's very condescending. She speaks to everyone like she would to a toddler. Her sentences all seem to be asking, "Are you listening?", "Do I need to speak slower?", "Are you smart enough to understand my great intelligence?" She stopped talking to me that way when I returned the favor, slightly exaggerated. Heh...
MichaelSoE
(1,576 posts)rurallib
(62,413 posts)EarlG
(21,947 posts)have now taken to speaking the words "question mark" at the end of a question.
So I will frequently hear things like, "Does anyone want to play Fortnite question mark?" They still go up at the end of the sentence, except they now also speak the words "question mark" out loud.
What the hell is wrong with these kids today question mark?
rurallib
(62,413 posts)the actual reading starts at @ 2:10, but you may want the upfront explanation:
grumpyduck
(6,232 posts)by reading a phone book.
CottonBear
(21,596 posts)Its really fun to listen to him playing. Their battle chatter is filled with unique vocabulary. They also speak in memes.
2naSalit
(86,594 posts)written questions and don't use a question mark.
VA_Jill
(9,966 posts)It's very common in certain parts of the country, particularly Appalachia and in the Ozarks (my mom grew up in SW Missouri and I visited there every summer as a child). It's called "uptalking" or "upspeaking" now, and as used in the parts of the country where I've lived and visited, it generally means one hasn't finished a thought or hasn't finished speaking. If it's also used in Canadian speech, it might have originated in Scotland. Appalachia was originally settled by Scots-Irish.
NNadir
(33,516 posts)Being something of a linguistic chameleon (but not quite at the level of my wife) I adopted it for a while myself.
In New Jersey, I've reverted to my New York patois, and every question is "What's your problem?" usually with an expletive before "problem." Just kidding...
I can speak generic Californian when required. What annoyed me when I first moved there, was being informed repeatedly that "Californians don't have an accent."
Cirque du So-What
(25,938 posts)but some young people have become nearly impossible for me to understand. Their speech sounds flabby and tongue-tied, although I often get an intelligible answer when I say, I cant understand you, making me believe they werent trying to be understood before.
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)and I've been hearing that since at least high school?
trackfan
(3,650 posts)It started among teenagers, who are now about 45 years old now.
UTUSN
(70,686 posts)Answering every question, "So..."
It's like announcing that they are about to explain, somehow that all of us benighted beings don't know the obvious. Condescending, patronizing, a variant of mansplaining but for everybody.
So.
yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)for example; "Kono ofisu no kabe ni wa tosō sagyō ga hitsuyōda to omoimasu yo ne??"
translation: I think this office wall needs a paint job, right?
In Japanese the word "ne" is used a lot and comes at the end of a sentence. "ne" is often used when someone wants to include everyone and making sure everyone agrees.. its a polite way of speaking, so you include the people you are speaking with.
"Desu ne" is an ending to a sentence that they are wanting your confirmation. Desu ne(ですね )= is that right.
Ne (ね )
Ne can be translated into isnt it? or right? in English. It is added to the end of a sentence in Japanese regardless of the level of politeness youre using.
In general, the particle Ne is asking for confirmation, agreement or assent of the other person or group that the speaker is talking to. Typically, the Ne indicates that both the speaker and the listener share the same information or opinion about something. As a result, this particle creates a sense of togetherness.
Example:
みかさん:としおくん、今日いい天気ですね!
Mika-san: Toshio kun, kyou ii tenki desu ne!
Mika-san: Toshio, todays weather is good, isnt it?
In the above dialogue, Mika-san is expressing the idea of the weather being good, and Toshio san shares this information, either by knowing the weather, or because they are walking together. Ne is a good way to start a smooth conversation in this case.
https://cotoacademy.com/ending-particles-ne-and-yo/#:~:text=Yone
grumpyduck
(6,232 posts)Marthe48
(16,950 posts)almost every sentence ended with ni da (I don't know how to spell it)
Marthe48
(16,950 posts)Until recently, the messaging system at my dr. office had a recording of a young woman ending every sentence that way. Sounded like she was leaving off "you know what I mean, right?" and just making every statement a question. Glad they changed it.