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left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
Sat Jan 30, 2021, 11:31 PM Jan 2021

Losing another friend to cancer

I found out today that a friend of 50 years has an inoperable brain tumor and maybe six weeks left to live. Although he and I have drifted apart the past couple decades, I wrote him a note this evening. I did not feel 'emotionally up to' calling.

The past several years I have looked up old friends, roommates, classmates, coworkers, etc and found that many have passed away, and many from various forms of cancer.

In my own family, out of five brothers I have two brothers die of different types of cancer, and two still living who are battling cancer. Four out of five of my brothers with some form of cancer.

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Losing another friend to cancer (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Jan 2021 OP
I am so sorry. In_The_Wind Jan 2021 #1
Sending 💕💕💕 MLAA Jan 2021 #2
Sorry for your loss PersianStar Jan 2021 #3
I am so sorry, left-of-center. sheshe2 Jan 2021 #4
Can only witness, nothing I can say UTUSN Jan 2021 #5
... Lady Freedom Returns Jan 2021 #6
... fierywoman Jan 2021 #7
Yes it seems like cancer in various forms are running amuck captain queeg Jan 2021 #8

captain queeg

(11,780 posts)
8. Yes it seems like cancer in various forms are running amuck
Sun Jan 31, 2021, 03:56 AM
Jan 2021

Many friends and family. Fortunately treatment has come a long way. Sorry your friend didn’t find out in time. A coworker of mine found out he had a brain tumor right after he retired and was gone in six weeks. One of the worst cancers.

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