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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsToday is the 3rd anniversary of me kicking a pack and a half
of Camel non-filters a day habit.
I had at that point tried quitting so often that I set my target date to Feb 2nd as an "It's Ground Hog's Day!" joke.
And yes I got fatter, but there's no proof I wouldn't have done that anyway
Chantix worked for me, the side effects were rough no lie, but it was worth it.
So for all those still fighting tobacco, keep fighting. It took me a decade to do it but it's worth it in the end
patricia92243
(12,977 posts)jpak
(41,780 posts)Ohiogal
(40,769 posts)I know how hard it is to quit smoking.
Floyd R. Turbo
(33,083 posts)secondwind
(16,903 posts)One day in the mid-80's, I decided to quit. I was not a heavy smoker at all, and one day I put the pack of cigarettes in the freezer and took one as I wanted, knowing that it was my LAST PACK.
It lasted over a week, and I said to myself "that is that", and have never touched a cigarette again.
I remember my dad, several decades ago, taking a cigarette out of his mouth and exclaiming "you little piece of sh*it, you are NOT going to dominate me!"
And that was that. So I salute you for your success, because it was very hard for you to do this, obviously.. CONGRATULATIONS!!!
irisblue
(37,646 posts)mountain grammy
(29,088 posts)Every day will get easier. After stopping many times I quit for good 15 years ago. Best thing I ever did.
wysimdnwyg
(2,268 posts)I'm at 21 years myself after my own pack and a half habit. One of the hardest things I ever did, but SOOOOOO worth it.
AmyStrange
(7,989 posts)-
Congratulations and thank you for sharing.
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marble falls
(72,096 posts)KarenS
(5,050 posts)I had an copd exacerbation and did it cold turkey because I was very ill at the time,,,,
I will say tho that this past year, I have wanted to smoke, get some relief from this stress,,,, but I knew that nicotine would not change anything,,,, and I cannot even imagine drawing smoke down my throat again. Did I mention that I had smoked for 55 years!!??!!
and in a week my Husband will join this celebration
he quit Feb 11th.
Yay for us all!!
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)judesedit
(4,598 posts)Quitting smoking was one of the hardest things I've ever done. But, it was also the best thing I ever did for myself. I gained weight, too, but started walking, then running short distances and lifting weights. I felt 15 years younger. So, if possible for you, start walking. The weight will melt off. Again, CONGRATULATIONS! You did it. Don't take one little puff. Matter of fact, put some old smoked cigarette butts in a jar with a small amount of water in it. Screw the lid on. Whenever you think you might want to smoke, take a whiff of what's in that jar. It will gross you out. And to think your hair, your skin, and your clothes smelled like that everyday to non-smokers. Worked for me.
colsohlibgal
(5,276 posts)I did it some when I was younger but not that much even back then. So I just walked away from it no big problem like a 2-3 packs a day person. That has to be hard.
The most curious and amazing quitting cold turkey was my Paternal Grandfather. He quit the day JFK was killed, on the spur of that moment. He was an amazing man and both my sister and I kind of idolized him.
CentralMass
(16,992 posts)It's a tough habit to break.
wendyb-NC
(4,702 posts)That is an accomplishment, good work.
handmade34
(24,025 posts)I have always been grateful I didn't start because I get how difficult it is to quit... I applaud you!
niyad
(133,094 posts)NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)(cost per pack) x 1.5 x 365 x 3 = ______
In my five smoke-free years... at Maryland prices/taxes... I've saved about $17,000.
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)not like the filtered version which is discounted
So 3 packs - which is 2 days of cigs - would cost me $26 on the economy.
I used to buy them much cheaper on base (no state tax on military bases) but that went away because the DOD commissary system stopped selling them and AAFES (the base exchange stores) charges the average state price.
I actually bumped up my 401k by $250 so I banked $9k so far
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)I wish I'd set-aside all of my savings from the past five years. That would be a nice nest egg for a rainy day... but, the savings just went back into the general budget and were spent on other things rather than being burned to ashes.
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)And I didn't do anything or even think about the money, and that cash just evaporated and made no impact
So when I did this attempt I deliberately cut my pay (by increasing the 401K deduction) by $125 a payday. Thought of it as incentive pay
Jilly191
(74 posts)Smoked lightly from age 16 to almost 22 and gave it up cold turkey when I read a health pamphlet from the Hippocrates organization entitled "Smoking is for Suckers" and decided I wasn't one of them...
cayugafalls
(5,963 posts)Teddy Beer
(80 posts)I have an older sister who is hooked and hates herself for not being able to kick it. But we all know the stats: the recidivism rate is higher than that of heroin! I just thank the gods/fates/neurons/oak trees I never took it up.
lark
(26,087 posts)Good for you!!!
Dukkha
(7,341 posts)Two packs to zero cold turkey. Are you still having coughing fits? I had them for the first few years. I'd say by year 7 it was fully purged from my system.
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)Weird thing is - I still smoke in my dreams
Dukkha
(7,341 posts)Dreams that I have relapsed and I'm so disappointed in myself.
Firestorm49
(4,558 posts)KPN
(17,434 posts)I know. I did the very same thing pack and a half way back in 1979 after probably at least 20 earnest attempts and many more half-hearted and ill-fated tries.
Had to laugh about Groundhog Day because I actually used almost the identical trick by using April 1st as my date so Id be reminded to think You Fool every time I was tempted to bum just one smoke. It worked! Ive never had a single cigarette since going on 43 years now.
safeinOhio
(37,804 posts)My long walks turned into long runs. I smoked for 40 years.
sarge43
(29,173 posts)The weight will drop. Adjust your eating habits and take your time.
PatrickforO
(15,472 posts)I quit a pack a day habit back in 2010. I smoked Winstons.
Like you, if I lit up a cigarette today, right now, within a week I would be smoking a pack a day.
They don't have 12-step programs for tobacco. I kicked it cold turkey. Two weeks of hell, and then OK. But I got fatter too.
Funny how capitalism is all about putting addictive things in our hands to keep up shareholder profits. We have nicotine, alcohol, added sugar, excessive salt, and a variety of other things designed to keep you using the product and keep those profits coming in regardless of what the product actually does to your health.
This is why I am not a capitalist, and believe we must find a way to overturn the shareholder primacy doctrine in favor of a stakeholder approach. That would solve SO MANY PROBLEMS. If you want to find out more, the best book I've found on this peculiarly American capitalist cancer is The Shareholder Value Myth, by Lynn Stout. It is really good.
Ferrets are Cool
(23,002 posts)ancianita
(43,312 posts)Tried to quit by inauguration day but am still failing. Still triggered after eating and writing. Particularly by politics and other annoying things.
I think I'm giving up.
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)So it's a benefit even if you fall back into it.
I quit at least a dozen times before and those attempts lasted from 3 days to 10 months.
I tried cold turkey, used the gum and the patch and it didn't do it.
The Chantix did it. Keep trying until you find the way that works for you
ancianita
(43,312 posts)I might have to give the Chantix a try, even if it's not over-the-counter.
The gum has worked in the past but not this time. I've successfully quit for a year and did have a lot more energy, so even though I'm older I believe I can get there.
Thanks for your help.
Ztolkins
(433 posts)I got fat too but at least we have the lung capacity to try working it off.
jmbar2
(8,044 posts)Quit 22 years ago. It is a tremendous accomplishment, which is why you see so many able to tell you the very day they quit years ago.
I went to a 12 program to quit. It was right down the hall from Narcotics Anonymous, which met at the same time. Some nights, newcomers would come to our room by mistake. As soon as they heard we were quitting smoking, they nearly left skid marks getting out of that room. They were ready to tackle heroin but not smoking.
We used to tell them, "you'll be back -- we are the last addiction", hence we were at the end of the hall.
Keep up the good work.
brer cat
(27,624 posts)That is a very hard habit to break.
Danmel
(5,791 posts)Congratulations!
TNNurse
(7,543 posts)until the first time I tried to lose weight.
My father died at 50, when I was 10. He always had more than one job, I do not remember him much except in episodes.
But, I can tell you that he smoked Winstons...none of his children have ever smoked, we learned.
Congratulations. Now, I need to get back to losing some weight.
Silver1
(721 posts)And one of the best things to do!
CaptainTruth
(8,230 posts)Upthevibe
(10,206 posts)Good for you!
I started smoking in my early teens. I quit for over 20 years and then relapsed two or three times. My last time was in 2011 so I guess I'm going on 10 years now.
Chantix was a miracle for me! If someone really, really wants and/or needs to quit, I can't recommend that medication enough. My only side effect were the dreams but they were actually awesome in a weird way.
Once again, congratulations!
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)I had weird dreams too, but oddly those weren't bad. I had worse dreams when using the nicotine patch TBH
I quit the Chantix with a month left on the script, because of the side effects, but the cure seemed to take anyway
Phentex
(16,713 posts)That's great to hear!
RamblingRose
(1,163 posts)it spiraled down the rabbit hole into other addictions and she's lost to us.
I think part of the reason she started vaping was to keep the weight off (Freshman 15) though she was never fat.
I hope someday she will decide to kick it. I know it will take A LOT of HARD work and feel sorry for her
Congratulations! and stay well!
DownriverDem
(7,021 posts)29 years for me. It is hard and not wanting to go through quitting again has kept me from starting again.
jaxexpat
(7,794 posts)Plant bed preparation in February. Sowing the beds in March. Setting the plants in May. Chopping out the fields all summer. Cutting and housing in August. Stripping and sales in December. I was rolling and smoking my own cigars as we stripped the leaves off the stalks by the time I was 15.
Smoked my last cigarette at 45, 23 years ago. 3 packs a day, loved the menthol. Left an unsmoked carton inn the freezer for 2 years. Finally tossed it out to stock more ice-cream. I'd had 32 years of destroying my taste buds. Food actually started and still tastes delicious.
Congratulations!
58Sunliner
(6,355 posts)The worst part is you don't feel the damage till much later in life sometimes.
Quemado
(1,262 posts)I quit smoking on January 31, 1992.
ChazInAz
(3,019 posts)And congratulations are due. It's a beastly habit to kick.
I quit some twent-five years ago from the pack-and-a-half level. As an actor, I was playing the huge title role in "Polonius Waits", a modern riff on Hamlet told from Polonius's viewpoint. One morning I fired up my first cigarette of the day...and couldn't breathe. Needless to say, one can't act onstage if one cannot speak! A quick trip to the doctor got a prescription for patches and an asthma inhaler. Never smoked again. (The play was a success.)
CountMyVote4Reality
(294 posts)Congrats! Thank you Chantix as well. I had to cut back to one pill a day.
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)of mine - But it worked.
I haven't really had a strong urge to smoke in months
My wife was convinced that I'd start again a year and a half ago, at my Mom's funeral.
Not only was it sad and stressful, but most of my relatives smoke like chimneys.
I figure that if that didn't trigger me nothing will
Ziggysmom
(4,140 posts)My husband is stage 3-4 COPD. He even smoked after open heart surgery valve replacement and a bypass. He cant walk over 50 feet without rest and is tethered to oxygen 24/7. He didnt quit till it was too late. People focus on the cancer smoking can cause, but the long term COPD is much worse, I think. Years of struggling to breathe, seeing that panic look in his eyes. I cant go on writing about it, it hurts too much.
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)Ziggysmom
(4,140 posts)I think its a Buddha quote, One moment can change a day, one day can change a life, one life can change the world.
Makes me think of my fav Emily Dickinson poem:
Forever is composed of Nows
Tis not a different time
Except for Infiniteness
And Latitude of Home
From this experienced Here
Remove the Dates to These
Let Months dissolve in further Months
And Years exhale in Years
Without Debate or Pause
Or Celebrated Days
No different Our Years would be
From Anno Dominies
dawn5651
(781 posts)usaf-vet
(7,827 posts)3Hotdogs
(15,434 posts)He ended up with throat cancer. Dr. said he will die in one or two ways.
The cancer will grow in his throat and slowly suffocate him, or if he is lucky, the stress will bring on a heart attack. He wasn't lucky. He grew weaker over a period of three months and died on Christmas Day, 1998.
Fine Christmas that one was. I guess he wasn't so "Lucky,"
So keep up your resolve. We need you here for good music.
AirmensMom
(15,115 posts)I sat in my brother's hospital room and held his hand as he died from lung cancer. He had tried everything, but it was impossible for him to quit. He was 9 years older than me and now I'm 2 1/2 years older than he was when he died. That's a very strange feeling.
Meanwhile, his 23-year-old daughter stood outside the hospital, cursing the gods, and chain smoking. It makes me so sad, especially to see young people start.
I smoked when I went back to college in my late 20s, mostly because there was only one student lounge and it was a smoking lounge. I kept it up, off and on, for a few years. Even with such a short time smoking, it was very hard to quit.
Every person who quits represents hope to me. That's one more person whose family will have longer to enjoy him/her. It's one more person who won't have to suffer the way he did. And if the weight gain bothers you, there are ways to beat that too.
Huge kudos to you! What a victory!
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)I'm touched by that story. Thanks
malaise
(296,872 posts)RainCaster
(13,770 posts)... and I can't remember the last time I had a craving.
Good for you, it does get better.
NNadir
(38,255 posts)...smokes even while dying, I applaud your resolve and success.
N_E_1 for Tennis
(13,086 posts)ornotna
(11,520 posts)Worth tooting your own horn about.
Chainfire
(17,757 posts)It has been about 15 years since I quit both smoking and drinking at the same time......
I was probably a little cranky for a day or two....
BobTheSubgenius
(12,236 posts)I quit for over a year twice, and you'd think that, after a year, I'd have been done...but constant vigilance is the key. You have to be on guard every day until non-smoking is your habit, and it's hard to say when that day has arrived, let alone when it will arrive.
I finally got that lesson pounded into my own head, and have been a non-smoker for about 36 years. I didn't even keep track of the date, because I didn't want it to be A Thing
Keep at it, everyone. If all you can manage is cutting way down, that's not nothing. Or if your episodes of clean air only last an hour or a few hours, that's not nothing, either.
The most painless method I found was a myriad of tiny battles. "It's 3:17. I can make it to 3:30 without one."
"Oh, now it's 3:30. I bet I can make it to 3:45."
Finally, you can't make it any longer, so you light up, take a couple of puffs - just enough to scratch the itch, or at least diminish it a lot, then put it out.
Soon, the intervals will be longer, and one day, you won't have a single compelling craving, and the constant vigilance chapter begins. It is SOOO worth it. I've known several people who smoking killed, and there are a host of other reasons to do it, as well.
Not the least is cost. I have no idea what a pack costs wherever you are, but here in BC a single pack is about $15. A truly addicted smoker will somehow manage to feed their addiction, but it sure keeps a LOT of kids from picking up the habit.
I'm pulling for ya! And damned good for you, PMS! (didn't foresee that acronym, to be honest. I bet you had a few of those days
)
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)For a while, while was in the Air Force, I had a desk in a large office section of a warehouse/maintenance facility.
The Officer in charge and all the section chiefs had desks there.
The whole time I was assigned to that unit the office was a Major and 5 MSgts.
We had a Hawaiian MSgt, a red headed MSgt, 2 black MSgts, that means no "The Black MSgt" nickname but you get the picture.
So when I heard the Airmen talking about "the Polack MSgt" one day, it tickled me, & that is why I have this nickname.
JuJuYoshida
(2,253 posts)BrightKnight
(3,684 posts)The nicotine addiction is rough but it doesnt take that long to beat. The habit part took longer. It gets easier with time. Every week is a bit easier.
If I had counted smoking for 30 years after that I probably would not be posting here. It was the best decisions I have ever made.
Oldem
(833 posts)I kicked a two-pack-a-day Pall Mall habit in 1964 and thought, for a while, that I'd die. For years, I wanted a cigarette after a meal. Today, I read about a guy packing his pipe, and I got the urge. I could smell it. So be prepared: The urge might never go away. But that's just more, and maybe stronger, proof that tobacco changes us neurologically. So stay strong. The worst is behind you, but temptation can jump up at any moment. If you stumble, just start over. (Sounds like an AA speech, doesn't it?)
Gore1FL
(22,962 posts)I am getting close to 12 years. I went cold turkey with the help of this place:
http://hypnosmoke.com/
It was about 25% hypnosis and the other three hours were talking about what things to expect and how to beat them.
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)I know a guy who took Welbuterin to quit.
there is also hypnosis and acupuncture as well as nicotine replacements like patches and gum - These have all helped folks quit, so my point in all this is KEEP TRYING
BTW- Nice avatar Gore1FL. How about that Arenado robbery Mo just pulled off? I was ready for him to get fired TBH and then he straight up ROBS Colorado.
Gore1FL
(22,962 posts)CO had 1 year of him left. I expect he'll stay in St. Louis for the duration of his contract, at least. The difference in value to both clubs was a strange dynamic that certainly played well for the redbirds!
applegrove
(132,582 posts)to cheat and fail there was no point. No niccotine was getting to those synapses that give you the high. Then when i was quit end off champix i smoked herbal cigarettes for a few months. They were awful. I managed to trick my brain into thinking smoking was awful - no fun at all. I was thrilled to get rid of the herbal smokes. And i had very few cravings for them in the last 12 years.
LeftInTX
(34,552 posts)I'm lucky that it didn't "stick with me"...I smoked, but it always gave me sore throats and coughs...It just wasn't fun. I haven't had a cigarette in over 38 years. Actually by 1975, I had curtailed my smoking to about two packs per month. It just didn't stick with me.
Niagara
(11,876 posts)I know how difficult it is. I quit cold turkey. I'm now 1 year and 2 days nicotine free.
The Polack MSgt
(13,810 posts)Niagara
(11,876 posts)I've gotten fatter too, but I'll work on that later.
Keep up the excellent achievement of smoking cessation.
MustLoveBeagles
(16,820 posts)I'm still trying.