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If a dog behaved this way, it would face stiffer consequences.
Cirque du So-What
(25,938 posts)Encouraging a cat to bite while playing?
Merlot
(9,696 posts)The cat made motions to lick the hand, had the person petted the cat instead of being an agressor cat would not have been upset.
Cirque du So-What
(25,938 posts)His expression in the beginning suggested familiarity with being pestered for a humans amusement.
LiberalLoner
(9,761 posts)You have to learn to read cat body language and adapt yourself to them and what they need and want.
You have the exquisite privilege of having a small version of a lion or tiger in your life, so the small sacrifices you make to keep them healthy and happy should not be burdensome to you.
I hate seeing cats distressed in any way or teased. My kitty Bobo is the best friend I have and I have no doubt he would give his life for me if need be. I do my best to make his life a happy and pleasant one, with special heated beds, special food, pets and lap time any time he wishes, play time, etc. I even play him music cats love every morning during our snuggle time. He purrs when the music begins, so I really do think he likes the music.
Kitties are one of the best things life offers, if you ask me.
Fix The Stupid
(948 posts)My Russian Blue LOVES when I play the guitar...not an acoustic - I mean my electric, cranked to 11, with full backing tracks in the background...I'm talking house-shaking loud...
I usually play sitting down in front of a table that has my electronics on it...he will climb right up and get about 2 feet from the guitar and just sit there in a trance...he loves it...will eventually fall asleep..somehow.
Never had a cat that did that before.
LiberalLoner
(9,761 posts)VA_Jill
(9,966 posts)I am not able to have an indoor cat due to spousal allergies, so I adopted two semi-feral ladies from our shelter's "barn cat" program. After a period of adjustment in a "habitation crate" they got used to me, to being fed on a regular schedule, and to the sights and sounds of our place. Now that they are out and about and still being fed on a regular schedule, with a place to sleep and all, they are semi=domesticated. Funny thing about them...they will let me pet them (one is quite friendly) around what we call the "Rodent Patrol Substation", where they're fed and where one of them, at least, sleeps. Anywhere else on the property, it's a quick glance and "Who you?" as they take off in another direction.
I clean the stray cat jail at the shelter once a week and get another kitty fix there. That's where the cats are kept for a week or two before they are transferred to a partner shelter or go on to Adoptables or Barn Cats or (sometimes) get reunited with their people. These guys are often in need of lots of loving and attention as well and we give them as much as we have time for along with cleaning their temporary homes. I have a particular fondness for the senior ladies and gentlemen that we get, who often have medical problems and sometimes are unceremoniously dumped by former owners. I wish I could take one home, but I can't, so I take pictures and put them on my Facebook page instead.
Bless you for your work with strays and abandoned kitties. Bobo came from the animal shelter nearby.
Baitball Blogger
(46,705 posts)I thought he got a raw deal when it turned out to be a very sick cat that required a lot of expensive treatment, but the boy rose to the occasion. He was so bonded that he never thought about the cost, just agonized about keeping his pal safe and healthy. When I told him I wanted to gift him a plant he made sure the plant was cat friendly. And I was grateful that the two have such a tight relationship because the cat has been his only true companion through Covid.
We caught him by surprise on a FaceTime and the entire conversation that cat sat on his lap and my son kept petting it. The two looked like a team.