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The Polack MSgt

(13,186 posts)
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 06:35 PM Feb 2021

On Jan 27th I received a Termination Letter from my company

30 days notice. Posted about it here if you'd like to follow the conversation:
https://www.democraticunderground.com/103445508
I turn 58 in a couple weeks, and the thought of collecting unemployment on my birthday kind of pissed me off.

The fact that I was getting laid off a week after being told in my quarterly review that gold dust practically wafts from my ass and rainbows bend to greet me also put a bit of salt in my attitude.

So, whatever. I dusted off the old resume and started looking around.

Cutting to the chase, I just accepted an offer today at 93% of my current salary.

Crisis averted.

Everybody gets a virtual beer on me.

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On Jan 27th I received a Termination Letter from my company (Original Post) The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 OP
Congrats! soothsayer Feb 2021 #1
It's all gonna turn out better! Kudos! CurtEastPoint Feb 2021 #2
OK, so tell us.......... MyOwnPeace Feb 2021 #3
Congratulation MustLoveBeagles Feb 2021 #4
Congratulations Gothmog Feb 2021 #5
Thanks Gothmog The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #15
Bet that feels good to know NJCher Feb 2021 #6
Indeed it does. The evil part of me wanted to put in two weeks notice as a middle finger move The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #11
A heart for you! iamateacher Feb 2021 #7
And one back to you. The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #12
Thank you! iamateacher Feb 2021 #16
Good news! Desert grandma Feb 2021 #8
Congrats! and thanks for the beer.... dhill926 Feb 2021 #9
If you can, send your boss a picture of his/her spouse and kids sleeping in their beds. Wolf Frankula Feb 2021 #10
I hope you find your new work home UpInArms Feb 2021 #13
Congratulations. sinkingfeeling Feb 2021 #14
That's great. Congrats. JDC Feb 2021 #17
Fantastic, MSgt.! SergeStorms Feb 2021 #18
Thanks SergeStorms The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #21
Yay for you and the lucky new company! Karadeniz Feb 2021 #19
Congrats! SheltieLover Feb 2021 #20
Sprinkle some of that gold dust around Tbear Feb 2021 #22
That's great news! lunatica Feb 2021 #23
So happy for you. TNNurse Feb 2021 #24
What a relief! That is such good news! Tanuki Feb 2021 #25
So, I guess they were right about the gold dust wafting from your ass? 😬 MLAA Feb 2021 #26
Great! Quick turnaround. Like to hear something like that, especially in this day and age... George II Feb 2021 #27
Thanks George. The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #29
Congratulations!!!! zeusdogmom Feb 2021 #28
Congratulations! Could I have wine instead? niyad Feb 2021 #30
Of Course. My wife has a Malbec in the cabinet The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #31
Mmmmmmm. Thank you. Hope the new job is wonderful. niyad Feb 2021 #32
congrats Hamlette Feb 2021 #33
Congratulations! 🍾🎉🎊 Fla Dem Feb 2021 #34
Thanks for the virtual beer srose58089 Feb 2021 #35
I hear those limes are loaded with ACID! The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #43
Congratulations wendyb-NC Feb 2021 #36
Wow! Way to go!!! Generic Brad Feb 2021 #37
You aught to be trying to find work in your 70's! BComplex Feb 2021 #64
Congratulations on the new job. FuzzyRabbit Feb 2021 #38
That's great!!! ailsagirl Feb 2021 #39
WOW leighbythesea2 Feb 2021 #40
It's a weird life being a DOD Contractor. I'm in a highly technical specialized field The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #46
It's interesting leighbythesea2 Feb 2021 #52
About 12 years ago... Colorado Liberal Feb 2021 #41
Congratulations! SunSeeker Feb 2021 #42
Congratulations! Heartstrings Feb 2021 #44
Congratulations! catbyte Feb 2021 #45
Good things happen to good people! Congratulations rurallib Feb 2021 #47
Good things do happen to good people, and sometimes good things happen to me too! The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #56
Congratulations!! Glad to hear you landed on your feet. 58Sunliner Feb 2021 #48
And you get a heart from me, sir! (n/t) PJMcK Feb 2021 #49
Sent one back to you just now The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #57
Way tiptonic Feb 2021 #50
I'm really glad for you! You dodged a major bullet there. PatrickforO Feb 2021 #51
Awesome!!!!!!!! Upthevibe Feb 2021 #53
Champagne for me please! GeoWilliam750 Feb 2021 #54
So many folks in the room, I bought Spumante for the pre-poured glasses. The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #55
Well, in a pinch..... GeoWilliam750 Feb 2021 #58
congrats NewEnglandAutumn Feb 2021 #59
My wife got laid off from her university job and I was very happy for her. NNadir Feb 2021 #60
Congratulations and thanks for the beer.. mountain grammy Feb 2021 #61
On what grounds was the layoff? Sounds like you are highly valued if you got an offer right away. housecat Feb 2021 #62
No. It was strictly a lowest bidder getting the contract and squeezing out as much The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #82
What was the 'reason' for the firing? keithbvadu2 Feb 2021 #63
My current company was not the lowest bidder, and the new company is sure that our section is - The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #81
OK. The 'evil part' and 'middle finger' made it look like you were a little bitter about it. keithbvadu2 Feb 2021 #83
Huzzah! Bmoboy Feb 2021 #65
I'm 59, 21 years on the job. Now my job description is re-written Nictuku Feb 2021 #66
After I retired from the Air Force I had planned to get back to my strongest talent The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #80
Thank you for your advice Nictuku Feb 2021 #84
Thanks for the beer Master Sargeant Tender hopper Feb 2021 #67
Congratulations The Polack MSgt - good to hear good news. No beers for me but you do get c-rational Feb 2021 #68
I'll drink to that! machoneman Feb 2021 #69
Congrats MSgt!!! COL Mustard Feb 2021 #70
Have two, the glasses are too small. Pints is for my auntie. marble falls Feb 2021 #71
And a toast to you, as well!!! BobTheSubgenius Feb 2021 #72
Very happy for you... Moostache Feb 2021 #73
Congrats! Mrs. Glamrock Feb 2021 #74
Congratulations! So happy for you, it's rough out there, my husband is still looking. Jay25 Feb 2021 #75
Just for you world wide wally Feb 2021 #76
+++ The Polack MSgt Feb 2021 #77
A crisis averted is always better than a crisis looming DFW Feb 2021 #78
wow congratulations! barbtries Feb 2021 #79
Way to go Joinfortmill Feb 2021 #85
Outstanding news, sir! Paladin Feb 2021 #86
Nice...congratulations! nt iluvtennis Feb 2021 #87
Good for you! yardwork Feb 2021 #88
are you and engineer weissmam Feb 2021 #89

MyOwnPeace

(16,925 posts)
3. OK, so tell us..........
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 06:39 PM
Feb 2021

MORE about this "gold dust" part, not to mention the "rainbows?"

Oh, by the way - CONGRATS!

The Polack MSgt

(13,186 posts)
11. Indeed it does. The evil part of me wanted to put in two weeks notice as a middle finger move
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 06:48 PM
Feb 2021

But a good reputation is critical in defense contracting - we all move company to company in situations like this - and a "Kiss My Ass" move like that would get the wrong kind of notoriety

Desert grandma

(804 posts)
8. Good news!
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 06:43 PM
Feb 2021

I have always believed that things like this happen for a reason. I hope your new company will appreciate you more than the previous one. Congratulations!!

Wolf Frankula

(3,600 posts)
10. If you can, send your boss a picture of his/her spouse and kids sleeping in their beds.
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 06:46 PM
Feb 2021

Tell them "I don't want to hurt anybody." You'll keep your job.
If that doesn't work, tell them you'll sue.

Wolf

SergeStorms

(19,193 posts)
18. Fantastic, MSgt.!
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 07:02 PM
Feb 2021

I always said someone of your "caliber" wouldn't have a problem finding employment. I'm sincerely overjoyed for you.

MLAA

(17,277 posts)
26. So, I guess they were right about the gold dust wafting from your ass? 😬
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 07:52 PM
Feb 2021

Congratulations! And whew!

George II

(67,782 posts)
27. Great! Quick turnaround. Like to hear something like that, especially in this day and age...
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 08:01 PM
Feb 2021

I remember more than 20 years ago now (1998!), a bunch of us were laid off. On his way home, one guy stopped to visit a vendor of the company's to say goodbye to someone he was friendly with. They offered him a job on the spot, he was out of work for less than an hour!

No beer, but I'll dedicate my nightly Manhattan to your good fortune.

Generic Brad

(14,274 posts)
37. Wow! Way to go!!!
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 08:31 PM
Feb 2021

It took me six months to find work when that happened to me. What is it about people in their late 50's who are vital and relevant one day to suddenly become expendable without warning the next? For some it's nearly tantamount to a death sentence.

Thanks for the virtual beer. I toast you!

leighbythesea2

(1,200 posts)
40. WOW
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 08:51 PM
Feb 2021

Congrats! That is impressive. So agravating however. We are of an era that performance does not matter.

I too received a stellar review @ this time last year. I was let go along with many, knowing it was prob salary related. Never laid off before.
Everything was going fine with leads, until March, then the world shut down. Took me til December. & not near 93%. But it's a non-existant market out there in some fields.
So I drink you you, and drink to me.
Wonderful news.

The Polack MSgt

(13,186 posts)
46. It's a weird life being a DOD Contractor. I'm in a highly technical specialized field
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 09:16 PM
Feb 2021

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a "One of One" type of guy, but the community is pretty insular.

We either know each other we have a friend who knows you.

So when a company loses a contract - which is what happened here - the names are floated around, resumes are shared and most of us find something.

The issue for me was salary.

I've been in this role for quite a while, so the drop to entry level would've been to steep for me to accept - and they know it.

So this company ALMOST matches my requested salary with their offer figuring I'll take the bird in hand, rather than hold off. I accept the offer figuring if I execute the contract well, I'll get some pay boosts or bonusses.

Then we all shake hands and move on.

The game sucks but it is what is

leighbythesea2

(1,200 posts)
52. It's interesting
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 09:49 PM
Feb 2021

How fields can be different but still the same in many ways. Your work sounds cool. I've always been fascinated with military work and the compliments to it. Maybe bc its 180 of my industry.
The fashion industry I guess lost its contract with consumers as a whole. Lol. But it is one propped up by constructed desire, so that's the game, and we all saw the writing when everything shut down.

What's similar is everyone knows everyone. I know what some peoples portfolios look like never having met them.

I relate to your description of everyones name gets floated around (from a brand closing) and then the offers, (during normal times) are just under where individuals were. It IS a game. They can play with bonus and promise etc....
So glad it worked out for you.
I am beyond happy with my new gig. And relieved.

Colorado Liberal

(145 posts)
41. About 12 years ago...
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 08:53 PM
Feb 2021

...in my mid-forties, I got laid off (f***ing "Business Machines" company). Wound up getting a job with one of the partners I did business with, but settled for about 80% of my then salary. Am now making >40% more than that salary I was kicked to the curb from, and am SO MUCH happier in this job (now 12 years in).

I guess you never know how much happier you can wind up being. Congratulations on the new job, and on averting the crists.

rurallib

(62,406 posts)
47. Good things happen to good people! Congratulations
Fri Feb 12, 2021, 09:17 PM
Feb 2021

I'm a teetotaler, but I think I can have a virtual one with you



Damn, that was good

The Polack MSgt

(13,186 posts)
55. So many folks in the room, I bought Spumante for the pre-poured glasses.
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 01:15 AM
Feb 2021

But, (looks over both shoulders) Don't tell any one but I have a bottle of Ayala Brut I was saving

Cheers!

NNadir

(33,512 posts)
60. My wife got laid off from her university job and I was very happy for her.
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 11:18 AM
Feb 2021

She was practically running her office and they were treating her badly.

She was out of work for a few months, and then got hired at a much more prestigious university, working with people whose work actually matters, slightly lower pay but much better benefits and the satisfaction of doing good for the world.

Congrats to you!

housecat

(3,121 posts)
62. On what grounds was the layoff? Sounds like you are highly valued if you got an offer right away.
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 12:18 PM
Feb 2021

So do you suspect some kind of discrimination?

The Polack MSgt

(13,186 posts)
82. No. It was strictly a lowest bidder getting the contract and squeezing out as much
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 03:38 PM
Feb 2021

salary as they can.

keithbvadu2

(36,770 posts)
63. What was the 'reason' for the firing?
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 12:20 PM
Feb 2021

What was the 'reason' for the firing?

Personal, performance, loss of personal contact, company contract, railroaded out?

The Polack MSgt

(13,186 posts)
81. My current company was not the lowest bidder, and the new company is sure that our section is -
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 03:37 PM
Feb 2021

"Over Staffed"

So they convinced the agency that their company can do the job with fewer people for much less.

keithbvadu2

(36,770 posts)
83. OK. The 'evil part' and 'middle finger' made it look like you were a little bitter about it.
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 03:45 PM
Feb 2021

OK.

The 'evil part' and 'middle finger' made it look like you were a little bitter about it.

Nictuku

(3,605 posts)
66. I'm 59, 21 years on the job. Now my job description is re-written
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 12:42 PM
Feb 2021

Either I move in the new direction (and basically become a glorified secretary), doing things that I dislike and would never ever have interviewed for, or go find another tech job where I can still use my strongest strength skills (which is what I have been doing for 21 years there).

I haven't decided what to do. I'm in the middle of a pandemic. I don't want to go to committee meetings and take minutes and write up reports...

I want to troubleshoot computer problems and fix them and make people happy.

I wrote up a new resume, and am looking around just to see what is out there. So far it looks like I'll have to take a big drop in salary. I take care of my mom, have a mortgage. I feel like screaming. Crying. I'm angry. I feel like they are setting me up to fail by asking me to do things that I don't have any training (or even interest) in,.

They just want me to quit (have offered early retirement, but I need to make it to 62 so I can also get SS. I'll barely be making it then, but that was my plan.

So .... I don't know what to do. I'm so upset. I have to give a decision by next Friday. I feel stabbed in the back. Everyone in the place I work absolutely loves me, I am a fantastic tech support person.

But now I'll basically be doing my boss's job and someone else will be doing the tech support.

*sigh*

The Polack MSgt

(13,186 posts)
80. After I retired from the Air Force I had planned to get back to my strongest talent
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 03:29 PM
Feb 2021

Bench work, system testing and trouble shooting. Working wideband and narrow band RF systems like I had for most of my career.

Then I found out that a mediocre staff officer makes twice what a great tech makes.

So, I found a niche position that allows me to stay in the field with the Soldiers and Airmen doing training and evaluation several times a year.

Then I try to correct any shortcomings I found in those exercises and training events the rest of the year.

But that transition was a bitch.

Yes, Senior NCO Academy taught me the basics but that's 12 weeks out of my 23 and a half year career. The remaining time I was in a production work center, either fixing the gear or running the shop -I'd never been assigned to a Headquarters billet.

So I had to bite the bullet and work my ass off to where I became the fat guy from HQ that I always used to hate.

But I had a mortgage and 2 kids in college, so I did it.

I don't know your position your situation or your personality, so my advice is going to be incomplete at best and misguided at worst - So gather a hold of as many grains of salt as you think you'll need.

But Imma give it anyway, because I'm kinda pushy like that.

What I used to dismiss a "Being a glorified secretary" namely staff work, developing exercise plans, resolving budget issues and scheduling training (and the paperwork & processes to make that happen) are all things that I learned to do to keep that higher paycheck.

But I've been doing them so long because as I developed skills I started seeing the value of my work in the bigger scheme of things.

I'm not anything special - I'm just a small cog in a big machine, but I made myself an efficient reliable cog over the course of time.

I don't know, maybe if I had taken a technician job at Raytheon or one of the Cellular companies I'd have been happier in the long run.

I don't know, but I put my family in a good situation.

I know that it sucked back in 05, and I stumble fucked around at first, but thee is a place for technical folks in management, if for no other reason than to be that one dude "upstairs" that remembers what the hell goes on where the rubber meets the road.

Good Luck Nictuku. I wish you success

Nictuku

(3,605 posts)
84. Thank you for your advice
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 04:14 PM
Feb 2021

That is the direction I am leaning. I am telling them that I hope to at least have guidance and direction of where I'm going to get all this data I'm supposed to be analyzing and making reports and recommendations on.

The other bummer is that since Covid, I've been able to work at home, so no more 4 hour daily commute from Napa to San Francisco. Eventually I will have to go back and I was hoping I could transition into mostly working from home (since I've been able to do almost everything from home).

They really want me to resign though, and take this 25K early retirement offer. (I qualify for full retirement in July anyway, but wasn't planning on it until I reach 62 so I can also get my SS)

It is definitely outside of my comfort zone. But I think I can do what they are asking, as long as I get some kind of guidance, and if needed, training. If I can record the damn meetings that I'm supposed to now be taking minutes for I can do that as well. I don't take shorthand. And he better not ask me to get him a cup of fucking coffee!

I think this is driven by budget decisions, but it is hard not to take it personally. The tech world is a man's world and it has been a difficult fight for me over the years, and I still don't feel like I get the same kind of respect the guys do.



c-rational

(2,590 posts)
68. Congratulations The Polack MSgt - good to hear good news. No beers for me but you do get
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 12:46 PM
Feb 2021

a heart for your new job as well as for all the wonderful music you post that I appreciate so much.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
72. And a toast to you, as well!!!
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 01:35 PM
Feb 2021

93% of your former salary to start is pretty easy to take, yes? Congratulations.

When your medical insurance kicks in, you might want to get that ass thing looked at.

DFW

(54,341 posts)
78. A crisis averted is always better than a crisis looming
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 03:13 PM
Feb 2021

I don't know what you do or what you made before, but what you have now is probably better than what you were looking at a few days ago.

I hate beer (I know, and I live in Germany), but I'll get out a teacup and put on the hot water in your honor!

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
79. wow congratulations!
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 03:17 PM
Feb 2021

after i got laid off at 63 i looked for 6 months and never got an offer.
i do have a happy ending, in that as soon as I started collecting early SS, an former colleague offered me a contract job, then a year later he found me another one! So I'm working for myself making good money and all i have to worry about is the taxes.

Paladin

(28,252 posts)
86. Outstanding news, sir!
Sat Feb 13, 2021, 04:57 PM
Feb 2021

I'll pass on the virtual beer and just go directly to an actual scotch & water, in celebration.

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