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Ocelot II

(115,693 posts)
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:05 PM Mar 2021

I think the pandemic has given me populophobia, if there is such a thing.

That's my made-up word for fear of people. I got my second Pfizer vaccine last week, which means next week I will presumably be about as immune as I'm going to get and can safely gather in small groups of other vaccinated people.

But I don't want to.

I used to just sort of dislike people as a species but now they actually scare me. I will be able to safely mask up and go grocery shopping instead of ordering for delivery but I don't want to because there will be people in the store. (The possibility that one of them might be armed and insane as well as infected doesn't help my attitude.) My six-foot-radius social distancing bubble, which I have come to regard as an impenetrable force field, might be pierced.

After a year of avoiding people like the plague, which is literally what I was doing, I'm going to have to get used to not avoiding people like the plague unless I want to be a permanent hermit. Some people are eager to get out and socialize, but I think it's going to take me awhile.

Am I just weird or do any of the rest of you have populophobia now, too?

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I think the pandemic has given me populophobia, if there is such a thing. (Original Post) Ocelot II Mar 2021 OP
Fear of people is called anthropophobia, or sometimes anthrophobia. mnhtnbb Mar 2021 #1
Well, I seem to have it, regardless whether the root is Greek or Latin. Ocelot II Mar 2021 #2
It's a real thing. No doubt. mnhtnbb Mar 2021 #3
I'm right there with you! blueinredohio Mar 2021 #9
I have fear of stupid people MiniMe Mar 2021 #4
Lot of people doing stupid things in many places empedocles Mar 2021 #10
I totally understand. Lars39 Mar 2021 #5
I've noticed I'm not as friendly toward strangers Rorey Mar 2021 #14
I think I have it somewhat. Diamond_Dog Mar 2021 #6
It will be awhile before I venture into a restaurant. Ocelot II Mar 2021 #8
If I drive my car down the commercial and business areas near me around 6pm Diamond_Dog Mar 2021 #12
I know I'm the odd duck Rorey Mar 2021 #15
Same for me about restaurants Rorey Mar 2021 #11
I do enjoy occasional dining out Diamond_Dog Mar 2021 #16
I'm a victim of my past Rorey Mar 2021 #18
Yep, me, too! oregonjen Mar 2021 #7
I'm a little paranoid about driving out of town Rorey Mar 2021 #13
I find I am distracted by ppl when at the grocery, not in a good way PortTack Mar 2021 #17
Yeah, I instantly despise them Rorey Mar 2021 #19
I walk away from them abruptly, wnylib Mar 2021 #20
Yes intrepidity Mar 2021 #21

mnhtnbb

(31,388 posts)
1. Fear of people is called anthropophobia, or sometimes anthrophobia.
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:11 PM
Mar 2021

No, I'm looking forward to getting together with certain people, but not any or all people.

I have been going to the grocery store all along. Limited other stores. ABC (liquor sales in NC) store. Occasionally a Lowe's.

Buying a house meant I had to deal with certain builder reps in person, attend the closing in an attorney's office, etc.

MiniMe

(21,716 posts)
4. I have fear of stupid people
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:15 PM
Mar 2021

The people who say it is all a hoax, won't get vaccinated and go to Florida for Spring Break. Ugh. Meanwhile, 1,400 people died of covid yesterday

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
5. I totally understand.
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:18 PM
Mar 2021

I had a doctor’s appointment today. I realized I’m going a bit feral...manners rusty, distrust of fellow human actions in regards to acting responsibly. My prim and proper Dr sounded totally fed up with the anti-vaxxers and maskholes, too.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
14. I've noticed I'm not as friendly toward strangers
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:42 PM
Mar 2021

I've been trying to make a conscious effort to smile with my eyes, and show recognition of those around me.

I used to be "that person" who struck up conversations with people waiting in line with me. I don't know if I'll be like that going forward.

Diamond_Dog

(31,999 posts)
6. I think I have it somewhat.
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:23 PM
Mar 2021

I’m so used to staying home,and staying away from people that it’s going to take some getting used to (for me) to do things like we did before.

It also makes me realize what germ-y places restaurants are! I have not been inside a restaurant in over a year. On the contrary to people who are chomping at the bit to go back out to eat again, I’m halfway paranoid about going back out to eat at all.

Ocelot II

(115,693 posts)
8. It will be awhile before I venture into a restaurant.
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:27 PM
Mar 2021

I've always enjoyed eating in restaurants, and sometimes I think longingly of some of the meals I've had - I'm pretty sick of my own cooking - but restaurants have people in them. The inherent germiness of restaurants isn't a problem for me (I've never gotten sick from eating at a restaurant), but the inherent covidiousness of the people in them is.

Diamond_Dog

(31,999 posts)
12. If I drive my car down the commercial and business areas near me around 6pm
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:33 PM
Mar 2021

Every single restaurant is already jam packed every evening, so apparently most people are just throwing caution to the wind right now and going out to eat and saying, fuck it.

The number of cases in Ohio is not going down all that much, either. We are still hovering around 1000-2000 new cases daily.

This does not encourage me. BTW I enjoy dining out as much as anyone. It just makes you think twice, now, if you know what I mean....

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
15. I know I'm the odd duck
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:54 PM
Mar 2021

I just find eating in a restaurant to be distracting from the actual food.

I remember having the most amazing cake once in a restaurant, and I only took a couple of bites and then took the rest home so I could TRULY enjoy it. Then a few days later I went there a bought a whole cake.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
11. Same for me about restaurants
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:33 PM
Mar 2021

I never got a thrill about sitting in a room full of mostly strangers just to eat food. I love family dinners, and am looking forward to participating in those again. My family members are phenomenal cooks, IMO, and I know that what they prepare is clean and safe. I never have that confidence in restaurant food.

Diamond_Dog

(31,999 posts)
16. I do enjoy occasional dining out
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:59 PM
Mar 2021

And I’ve never gotten sick from restaurant food, but I’m not really too anxious to jump right back into normal life with gusto like many people are. It will be baby steps for me. And not for a long while, anyway. Too many covidiots out there.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
18. I'm a victim of my past
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 01:09 PM
Mar 2021


I've worked in restaurants, so I know the behind the scenes stuff. I'm not really talking about gross stuff, though that sometimes exists, but about the fact that most restaurant people really just don't care. I'm a vegetarian, and I know that there's always a big chance that a hand, utensil, or piece of equipment has touched my food that has also touched a meat product. The exception is when I go to vegan restaurants.

I'm just too picky, I know.

oregonjen

(3,337 posts)
7. Yep, me, too!
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:27 PM
Mar 2021

I have asthma, so I’ve been at home for an entire year. When out walking the dog, I’m avoiding being near other walkers, by quickly crossing the street, etc. This whole pandemic has really taken a toll on my emotional well being. I admit, the introvert in me has been quite happy at home, but I wish to go out hug my elderly parents. A lot of people will be dealing with PTSD, which is why I’m seriously thinking about therapy.

Hugs to you!

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
13. I'm a little paranoid about driving out of town
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 12:38 PM
Mar 2021

I'm planning to go to my son's house some time this weekend. It's about a hundred miles away, and I'm a little nervous. It's been so long since I've driven in actual traffic, but I know I've got to make myself face the fear.

But yeah, this is all pretty weird.

PortTack

(32,767 posts)
17. I find I am distracted by ppl when at the grocery, not in a good way
Fri Mar 26, 2021, 01:07 PM
Mar 2021

Not wearing masks, or the mask is below their nose, going down the isle the wrong way..and their so smug about!! I forget what I’m there to buy because of my distraction...I just don’t want to be there with “them.”

Everyone one of them I see as an anti science trumphumper and I’m thoroughly disgusted.

wnylib

(21,464 posts)
20. I walk away from them abruptly,
Sat Mar 27, 2021, 12:14 AM
Mar 2021

in the middle of an aisle and go back to that aisle after they leave.

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