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Mike 03

(18,690 posts)
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:16 AM May 2021

Please help: Is this an email scam? (I think I know the answer)

I just can't believe a scammer got this person's personal email. He was a mentor/boss of mine and a really important person in my life. He is quite elderly and never writes unless it is something important:

I received this email from him last night:

How are you doing? Are you busy? I need a little favor from you.
>
> Thanks so much Bob smith

I thought maybe it had something to do with the passing of Eli Broad, who he knew. I wrote back:

Dear Bob,

Absolutely. Never too busy for you.

I'll leave my email up onscreen today, or you can call (my phone number) or I can call you at whatever number you'd like. I hope everything is OK with you and your wonderful family.

I get up very early so there's no such thing as contacting me "too early."

Was saddened to see the news overnight about the passing of Eli Broad. I imagine you had many dealings with Mr. Broad over the years, and I'm sorry for your loss.

Warm regards,

And "Bob" wrote back:

I'm sorry for bothering you, I really do need your assistance with purchasing (Google Play Gift Card) for my friend who is a cancer patient . She's a year older today, I promised her a Google Play Gift Card as a birthday gift but I can't do this right now because I'm currently traveling and i tried purchasing it online but unfortunately no luck with that.

wondering if you could get it from any store around you ? I'll pay it back as soon as am back. Please let me know if you can handle this

Thank you so much Bob smith

***

So, I'm pretty sure this is not Bob and I'm angry with myself for falling for it and giving this person my phone number.

Has anyone else received an email like this? Is it definitely a scam? I just need a reality check from an objective third party, because this is a person I would do anything for and I want to be absolutely positive it is a scam.

Thank you.

EDIT: Thank you all from the bottom of my heart. Normally I wouldn't bother DUers over something like this, but this scammer was playing on my emotions by posing as this particular person. Just needed to make absolutely sure. DUers are the best, most helpful people on the planet.



EDIT 2: Back in the day, Bob's emails really were like this: short and to the point, only moderately punctuated. He lost vision in one eye, which made it harder for him to write, and in any event he was always rather impatient about communicating in writing.

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Please help: Is this an email scam? (I think I know the answer) (Original Post) Mike 03 May 2021 OP
It has the hallmarks of being a scam True Dough May 2021 #1
Thank you. Mike 03 May 2021 #3
The whole scenario practically oozes scamminess EYESORE 9001 May 2021 #2
Thanks. It is totally out of character for Bob to request this. He has a lot of kids and a Mike 03 May 2021 #4
I should ask him his wife's name and see if he knows. Mike 03 May 2021 #6
As sophisticated as recent scams have become EYESORE 9001 May 2021 #9
Scam for sure. Treefrog May 2021 #5
I will do that. Mike 03 May 2021 #7
+1 2naSalit May 2021 #11
Yep. A common scam. Last year I got an SMS message from someone I know very well... TreasonousBastard May 2021 #8
If you have to ask if it is a scam Sherman A1 May 2021 #10
+1 2naSalit May 2021 #12
It doesn't take much for a scammer to get someone's email intrepidity May 2021 #13
For the first time I got a Text scam, be careful. multigraincracker May 2021 #14
100%, definitely a scam mercuryblues May 2021 #15
Do you have the address? maybe we can all send them "cards"! bamagal62 May 2021 #16
i got that same type of message via messanger..from someone I hadnt really been friends with.... samnsara May 2021 #17
I get those pretty frequently, usually pretending to be from my department chair petronius May 2021 #18
"How are you doing? Are you busy?" this intro shows up in my spam bucket about once a month. mitch96 May 2021 #19
I get a lot of scam emails at work. People look at my Linkedin connections... NNadir May 2021 #20
Yeah, it's a scam sarge43 May 2021 #21
got similar scam from a "friend" dixiegrrrrl May 2021 #22

True Dough

(26,215 posts)
1. It has the hallmarks of being a scam
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:20 AM
May 2021

The request to purchase a Google Play Gift Card is always a tell-tale sign and some excuse why they cannot buy it themselves.

I'd stay away from that email chain.

Are you able to give Bob a call to confirm?

Mike 03

(18,690 posts)
3. Thank you.
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:23 AM
May 2021

Yeah, it just doesn't seem right. I don't think Bob travels much any more.

I will try to find a number for him. It's a situation where he was very influential and we were close for a long period of time but that was almost 20 years ago and rarely have had contact since (unfortunately).

Thank you for your post.

I wonder if I should now block that email address. I can't believe I gave him my phone number.

EYESORE 9001

(29,569 posts)
2. The whole scenario practically oozes scamminess
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:22 AM
May 2021

The request for a gift card is a dead giveaway.

Mike 03

(18,690 posts)
4. Thanks. It is totally out of character for Bob to request this. He has a lot of kids and a
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:25 AM
May 2021

wonderful wife who could do something like that, and probably a personal assistant or two.

It stinks.

I appreciate the reality check. Just had to make sure.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
5. Scam for sure.
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:25 AM
May 2021

Maybe you should call this guy and let him know his email is being used?

2naSalit

(101,474 posts)
11. +1
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:41 AM
May 2021

I would call and discuss the event with Bob. I do that whenever something like that comes up, just call and make sure they sent it, before responding in any way via return email to the one you received.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
8. Yep. A common scam. Last year I got an SMS message from someone I know very well...
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:27 AM
May 2021

Started out just "Bill, I need a favor".

A couple of messages later-- "Get me 3 $100 gift cards from Target...

Scam. But they got my phone # and that name from somewhere. Probably a hacked phone company, or hacked email list.

intrepidity

(8,575 posts)
13. It doesn't take much for a scammer to get someone's email
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:44 AM
May 2021

Everybody who appears in someone's "Contacts" list is vulnerable, which is to say: everybody.

One should never judge a suspicious email based on who it appears to be coming from, and the fact that a scammer has someone's email addy is absolutely no reflection on that person's cybersecurity practices. All "Bob Smith" had to do was appear in the contact list of somebody who was compromised/hacked, something that none of us has any control over.

Yeah, it sucks that you gave your phone number. But, if it really is your friend Bob, ask him to call you to verify and that you'll gladly help then. Bet he doesn't call.

multigraincracker

(37,268 posts)
14. For the first time I got a Text scam, be careful.
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:44 AM
May 2021

Got a text from the unemployment office telling me there is a problem with my unemployment account. I retired 20 years ago, so most likely 30 years ago I filed for UE. The phone number for the text was Colorado and I live in Michigan.
Blocked the number on my phone.

I did stop getting phone calls from unknown scams. 2 months ago I started answering unknown phone calls with "Detective Cracker, what do you have". After a few seconds I'd say "run this call Bob". then I'd get hung up on. must have done that 5 times. Have not got any unknown calls for a month now.

mercuryblues

(16,289 posts)
15. 100%, definitely a scam
Sat May 1, 2021, 07:52 AM
May 2021

I rad about this exact scam a few months ago. The thing is once a person buys the card, they ask for more. Ther isn't a legal avenue the scammed can take, because the voluntarily bought the card and mailed them off.

samnsara

(18,751 posts)
17. i got that same type of message via messanger..from someone I hadnt really been friends with....
Sat May 1, 2021, 08:56 AM
May 2021

..asking me to get back to them. DO NOT reply! you get snagged and then that same letter goes out to others in your contact list with YOU requesting the urgent contact. I finally had to close out messenger because i was getting so many responses from those in my contact list telling me I had been hacked.

petronius

(26,695 posts)
18. I get those pretty frequently, usually pretending to be from my department chair
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:33 AM
May 2021

It's a common scam.

The most elaborate one I've gotten recently was an email, ostensibly from the dept chair, with a malicious attachment purporting to be an evaluation form for a new colleague - it referenced the new colleague by name and was cc'd to the other people who actually would evaluate this person. Quite creepy, the lengths scammers will go to...

mitch96

(15,758 posts)
19. "How are you doing? Are you busy?" this intro shows up in my spam bucket about once a month.
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:36 AM
May 2021

Dump it quick... Cynical me... anytime a stranger acts over friendly in the intro.......
don't walk run from the scam...
m

NNadir

(37,677 posts)
20. I get a lot of scam emails at work. People look at my Linkedin connections...
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:37 AM
May 2021

...dig up the email of someone on it, and then send me a document which appears to come from that person that requires me to enter my email password to open it.

I actually fell for it once, but fortunately software caught it and I was able to change my password quickly.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,153 posts)
22. got similar scam from a "friend"
Sat May 1, 2021, 10:19 PM
May 2021


she had yahoo account, Yahoo addys were hacked and stolen, and weeks later I got a similar email as yours that she wanted me to go get a bunch of gift cards because she was traveling, etc.
They said it was for a "niece" birthday.

I know her well enuff that it rang false immediately.

but....problem was that was her email addy, so could not email her to tell her.
I called. she had gotten dozens of calls.

Get a gift card is the the big give away.
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