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Question: if I'm writing a letter ..and I don't know to whom... (Original Post) Rustyeye77 May 2021 OP
"To Whom It May Concern:" nt Phoenix61 May 2021 #1
Covers all the bases, certainly! n/t targetpractice May 2021 #3
Good question! flor-de-jasmim May 2021 #2
"To whomevs" is a bit more contemporary. targetpractice May 2021 #4
Did you spell that correctly? Or am I out of step ? Rustyeye77 May 2021 #8
I think it's a play on MissB May 2021 #11
Thank you........I guess I'm a little slow. Rustyeye77 May 2021 #12
Yes, tongue in cheek (before coffee). n/t targetpractice May 2021 #13
Greetings works. Personally, though I suspect you aren't serious, if anyone used hlthe2b May 2021 #22
Yes... I was not serious with "whomevs"... However.... targetpractice May 2021 #23
"Good day" ??...maybe or is that too weird ?? Rustyeye77 May 2021 #9
I have used "Greetings", but "Earthlings" would do it, too. n/t Harker May 2021 #5
"Sentient Being"? ret5hd May 2021 #6
That's pretty gracious, and includes most people. Harker May 2021 #7
I'm in the "Greetings" camp, too. lillypaddle May 2021 #19
Depends on the situation... Wounded Bear May 2021 #10
If you want to be snooty.... Turbineguy May 2021 #14
I think you're correct with the Dear Sir/Madam salutation Fla Dem May 2021 #15
Is Dear Sir/ Madam politically correct ? not sure that's not offensive. Rustyeye77 May 2021 #16
In emails I sometimes use Hello, Midnightwalk May 2021 #17
"Greetings" lillypaddle May 2021 #18
Thank you.. Rustyeye77 May 2021 #20
I always write Madame/Sir malaise May 2021 #21
Dear Reader, ... nt JustABozoOnThisBus May 2021 #24
Thats a new one. I'll have to think about it. Rustyeye77 May 2021 #25
"Yo" gratuitous May 2021 #26
Is the letter going to a business, or other organization? If so, contact it and ask for the name and Floyd R. Turbo May 2021 #27
"Ladies & Gentlemen" lastlib May 2021 #28

flor-de-jasmim

(2,125 posts)
2. Good question!
Thu May 13, 2021, 09:14 AM
May 2021

To Whom It May Concern sounds very outdated.

I've used "Dear staff", or "Good morning/afternoon/evening", or even just "Hello"

I have also used the title of the person I think might be reading the letter/email, such as "Dear Sales Manager".

MissB

(15,803 posts)
11. I think it's a play on
Thu May 13, 2021, 09:55 AM
May 2021

Whatevs, meaning whatever. So whomevs would be short for whomever. Don’t recommend that approach and am guessing it was said tongue in cheek.

hlthe2b

(102,106 posts)
22. Greetings works. Personally, though I suspect you aren't serious, if anyone used
Thu May 13, 2021, 11:21 AM
May 2021

"To whomevs," I would read no further. The round file awaits.

If you know their name, that is always best (Dear Mr. or Ms. .... or Dr. or whatever). If you don't know their name, guessing at their title might be best: Dear Customer Service Representative (or Manager), Dear Human Resource Representative, etc., etc.

As to the three choices in the OP above, Dear Sir or Madam is traditional. Perhaps outdated, but still used. Probably not the best choice, though.

targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
23. Yes... I was not serious with "whomevs"... However....
Thu May 13, 2021, 11:48 AM
May 2021

... It's important to know your audience and the purpose of the letter. I do think both "To whom it may concern" or "Dear Sir/Madam" are quite formal, yet indicates you have no idea who the recipient may be, and Sir/Madam could be insulting to some people.

That's why I stick to "Greetings" if I don't know who might read the letter... It's friendly, generic, yet may be too informal.

Wounded Bear

(58,584 posts)
10. Depends on the situation...
Thu May 13, 2021, 09:47 AM
May 2021

In a formal/business setting "Dear Sir/Ms" might be correct, though I'm woefully out of touch with that world.

If you're writing to a more informal group something more personable might be in order.

Fla Dem

(23,573 posts)
15. I think you're correct with the Dear Sir/Madam salutation
Thu May 13, 2021, 10:29 AM
May 2021

But here are a couple of other suggestions......

"To Whom it may Concern"

Or if writing to a Human Resource department, Dear HR Manager. Same would hold true for other departments, like
Dear Customer Service Representative or Manager.


Dear Vice President, Operations



 

Rustyeye77

(2,736 posts)
16. Is Dear Sir/ Madam politically correct ? not sure that's not offensive.
Thu May 13, 2021, 10:50 AM
May 2021

I may go with “To whom it may concern”,

Midnightwalk

(3,131 posts)
17. In emails I sometimes use Hello,
Thu May 13, 2021, 10:57 AM
May 2021

Among basically colleagues I haven’t talked to before. Or Hello Fla. Even if you were a VP.

Dear anything would seem strange. I very rarely see that.

Like I said this is in a setting where collegiality is the norm and expected. In other settings I might be more formal and use one of your suggestions.

To whom...always sounds confrontational. My mom would write letters like that and then describe very well why she was pissed off.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
18. "Greetings"
Thu May 13, 2021, 10:57 AM
May 2021

That's what I always used. Less formal and cold than "To whom it may concern" and just a tad friendly and casual without being presumptuous.

malaise

(268,668 posts)
21. I always write Madame/Sir
Thu May 13, 2021, 11:10 AM
May 2021

because I am female and made a commitment to put myself first.
Our male brethren have perfected that.

Floyd R. Turbo

(26,540 posts)
27. Is the letter going to a business, or other organization? If so, contact it and ask for the name and
Thu May 13, 2021, 04:20 PM
May 2021

title of the individual that should receive the correspondence based on the subject.

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