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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsQuestion: if I'm writing a letter ..and I don't know to whom...
Do I write....
Dear Sir/ Madam
Dear Sir/Ms
Dear SIr/ ??
What is currently the correct way to address a person you dont know who is reading it ?
Phoenix61
(16,992 posts)targetpractice
(4,919 posts)flor-de-jasmim
(2,125 posts)To Whom It May Concern sounds very outdated.
I've used "Dear staff", or "Good morning/afternoon/evening", or even just "Hello"
I have also used the title of the person I think might be reading the letter/email, such as "Dear Sales Manager".
targetpractice
(4,919 posts)I personally open with "Greetings"
Rustyeye77
(2,736 posts).
MissB
(15,803 posts)Whatevs, meaning whatever. So whomevs would be short for whomever. Dont recommend that approach and am guessing it was said tongue in cheek.
Rustyeye77
(2,736 posts)targetpractice
(4,919 posts)hlthe2b
(102,106 posts)"To whomevs," I would read no further. The round file awaits.
If you know their name, that is always best (Dear Mr. or Ms. .... or Dr. or whatever). If you don't know their name, guessing at their title might be best: Dear Customer Service Representative (or Manager), Dear Human Resource Representative, etc., etc.
As to the three choices in the OP above, Dear Sir or Madam is traditional. Perhaps outdated, but still used. Probably not the best choice, though.
targetpractice
(4,919 posts)... It's important to know your audience and the purpose of the letter. I do think both "To whom it may concern" or "Dear Sir/Madam" are quite formal, yet indicates you have no idea who the recipient may be, and Sir/Madam could be insulting to some people.
That's why I stick to "Greetings" if I don't know who might read the letter... It's friendly, generic, yet may be too informal.
Rustyeye77
(2,736 posts)Harker
(13,957 posts)ret5hd
(20,480 posts)Harker
(13,957 posts)lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,584 posts)In a formal/business setting "Dear Sir/Ms" might be correct, though I'm woefully out of touch with that world.
If you're writing to a more informal group something more personable might be in order.
Turbineguy
(37,285 posts)Lectori Salutem
Fla Dem
(23,573 posts)But here are a couple of other suggestions......
"To Whom it may Concern"
Or if writing to a Human Resource department, Dear HR Manager. Same would hold true for other departments, like
Dear Customer Service Representative or Manager.
Dear Vice President, Operations
Rustyeye77
(2,736 posts)I may go with To whom it may concern,
Midnightwalk
(3,131 posts)Among basically colleagues I havent talked to before. Or Hello Fla. Even if you were a VP.
Dear anything would seem strange. I very rarely see that.
Like I said this is in a setting where collegiality is the norm and expected. In other settings I might be more formal and use one of your suggestions.
To whom...always sounds confrontational. My mom would write letters like that and then describe very well why she was pissed off.
lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)That's what I always used. Less formal and cold than "To whom it may concern" and just a tad friendly and casual without being presumptuous.
Rustyeye77
(2,736 posts)malaise
(268,668 posts)because I am female and made a commitment to put myself first.
Our male brethren have perfected that.
JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,315 posts)Rustyeye77
(2,736 posts)gratuitous
(82,849 posts)Followed by a comma if this is an informal letter, a colon for more formal correspondence.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,540 posts)title of the individual that should receive the correspondence based on the subject.