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My nephew has become my niece (Original Post) spinbaby Jul 2021 OP
Just love and support her LetMyPeopleVote Jul 2021 #1
Yes. I bet she would love a card from you telling her how much she means to you always. FM123 Jul 2021 #2
I think I would send her a necklace with her new name on it (if she changed her name) and MLAA Jul 2021 #3
with a small ruby whistler162 Jul 2021 #6
That's a good idea spinbaby Jul 2021 #7
I would. Glorfindel Jul 2021 #4
I believe I would be happy for them & I hope, supportive. But, I won't suggest it isn't difficult hlthe2b Jul 2021 #5
Try Etsy Deep State Witch Jul 2021 #8
Send a card. Cracklin Charlie Jul 2021 #9
Always been your niece. Just official now. Love her, support her, she'll appreciate you for that. marble falls Jul 2021 #10
Send a letter. And be thankful she can be who she is her whole life. applegrove Jul 2021 #11
Yes. Niagara Jul 2021 #12

FM123

(10,385 posts)
2. Yes. I bet she would love a card from you telling her how much she means to you always.
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 11:56 AM
Jul 2021

MLAA

(19,800 posts)
3. I think I would send her a necklace with her new name on it (if she changed her name) and
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 11:57 AM
Jul 2021

send it with lots of love and tell her you are proud of her 💞💖💕

spinbaby

(15,404 posts)
7. That's a good idea
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 12:07 PM
Jul 2021

Other major life changes have some kind of formal acknowledgment, this should, too.

hlthe2b

(114,683 posts)
5. I believe I would be happy for them & I hope, supportive. But, I won't suggest it isn't difficult
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 12:02 PM
Jul 2021

for everyone to adjust/readjust.

I would send a personal note expressing your love for them, acceptance, and perhaps an acknowledgment that you recognize the depth of the adjustment that will occur for all but that you hope your support is not in doubt.

marble falls

(72,531 posts)
10. Always been your niece. Just official now. Love her, support her, she'll appreciate you for that.
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 12:19 PM
Jul 2021

Niagara

(12,126 posts)
12. Yes.
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 01:48 PM
Jul 2021

A card with words of support, strength and love will never hurt anyone.


Also, perhaps a gift card for some clothing or makeup. It doesn't have too expensive, just a little something.

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