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TomSlick

(11,088 posts)
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 08:16 PM Aug 2021

I've got to tell someone and no one here really knows who I am, so "tag" DU is it.

I am the proud grandfather of the cutest, smartest two and a half year old in the history of humankind. I've just learned he is to be the big brother - of twins!

As of yet, I am forbidden to tell anyone, so keep it on the down-low.

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I've got to tell someone and no one here really knows who I am, so "tag" DU is it. (Original Post) TomSlick Aug 2021 OP
Congratulations Grandpa TomSlick! FM123 Aug 2021 #1
How wonderful ❤️ Congratulations! hauckeye Aug 2021 #2
Congratulations Grandpa!! leftieNanner Aug 2021 #3
Congratulations underpants Aug 2021 #4
Congratulations! femmedem Aug 2021 #5
WOW... lucky Grandpa. FalloutShelter Aug 2021 #6
At first I was thinking we might be related! LOL Lisa0825 Aug 2021 #7
Didn't fudge - too excited to think that clearly. TomSlick Aug 2021 #11
Won't tell a soul. blm Aug 2021 #8
I have older brothers who are twins Mr.Bill Aug 2021 #9
Yeah, better them than me. TomSlick Aug 2021 #14
I know what you mean. Mr.Bill Aug 2021 #17
That sounds like great fun. babylonsister Aug 2021 #21
It is fun. Mr.Bill Aug 2021 #24
Seems to run in your family. wnylib Aug 2021 #22
It does run in my family, and my wife's. Mr.Bill Aug 2021 #25
Woohoo! Kick up your heels!!! Karma13612 Aug 2021 #10
Huge congrats! I hope you live close enough to have plenty of fun with them! pnwmom Aug 2021 #12
Not nearly close enough - about three hours. TomSlick Aug 2021 #15
As a twin, that's cause babylonsister Aug 2021 #13
Thanks. TomSlick Aug 2021 #16
Wow! That's wonderful! Your life no matter how full it is, Fla Dem Aug 2021 #18
That's great! KT2000 Aug 2021 #19
You are very blessed. GulfCoast66 Aug 2021 #20
That is so exciting! NH Ethylene Aug 2021 #23
Congratulations! UpInArms Aug 2021 #26
Congratulations! Cracklin Charlie Aug 2021 #27
To you I wish congratulations. wnylib Aug 2021 #28
Shhhhhhh! It's a secret, both the twins will be just as adorable, smart and precious as MLAA Aug 2021 #29
Clearly. TomSlick Aug 2021 #31
How wonderful! brer cat Aug 2021 #30
God's truth. TomSlick Aug 2021 #32
Congrats, Tom! SheltieLover Aug 2021 #33
TY TomSlick Aug 2021 #36
Yw! SheltieLover Aug 2021 #37
Oh, oh, oh! Lucky you! PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2021 #34
The testing says they are identical twins. TomSlick Aug 2021 #38
Oh, wonderful. PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2021 #39
Congrats! Joinfortmill Aug 2021 #35
I am the great grandma locks Aug 2021 #40
Congratulations.Tom. Our twins were born nearly 26 years ago. Their older CentralMass Aug 2021 #41
Raising one was humbling enough. TomSlick Aug 2021 #43
I didn't tell anyone but Twitter! ... aggiesal Aug 2021 #42
Shower that toddler grandkid with love Random Boomer Aug 2021 #44
That's the plan. TomSlick Aug 2021 #54
What wonderful news! secondwind Aug 2021 #45
A proud Grandpa... MiHale Aug 2021 #46
A proud Grandpa whose greatest gift is a caring family. pazzyanne Aug 2021 #47
Congratulations! I am the father of twins and a grandfather of a one and a half cutie. panader0 Aug 2021 #48
Congratulations grandpa seta1950 Aug 2021 #49
Keep what down-low?? marble falls Aug 2021 #50
Congratulations! Heartstrings Aug 2021 #51
OMG! I'm the oldest of 3 Cheezoholic Aug 2021 #52
Congratulations to you and your family!!! LaMouffette Aug 2021 #53
How can that be? Could have swore my guy was that kid............ 2Gingersnaps Aug 2021 #55
Congratulations! ShazzieB Aug 2021 #56
Dad, is that you? Marthe48 Aug 2021 #57
I've befriended twins zipplewrath Aug 2021 #58
That is awesome! Bettie Aug 2021 #59
how exciting congrats!! Tree Lady Aug 2021 #60
Aww..congrats! HipChick Aug 2021 #61

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
7. At first I was thinking we might be related! LOL
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 08:33 PM
Aug 2021

My cousin just told me yesterday that he and his wife are expecting twins! They are keeping it secret too! But their son is 4, so not likely.

PM me if you fudged the age as a diversion! LOL

Mr.Bill

(24,238 posts)
9. I have older brothers who are twins
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 08:37 PM
Aug 2021

and I have a nephew who is the father of twins. The parents are in for a helluva ride. Congratulations.

TomSlick

(11,088 posts)
14. Yeah, better them than me.
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 08:42 PM
Aug 2021

I get to spoil three grandchildren and then leave the parents to deal with the mess.

Finally, a benefit of old age.

Mr.Bill

(24,238 posts)
17. I know what you mean.
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 08:47 PM
Aug 2021

I never had children of my own, but 30 years ago met my wife who had two grown children. Fast forward to the present and I have just welcomed my fifth great grandchild to this earth. Just spent last weekend on a camping trip with two of them and other family. Four generations at the campsite.

Mr.Bill

(24,238 posts)
24. It is fun.
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 09:00 PM
Aug 2021

Last week was the fourth birthday of one of the great grandkids and my 68th. Hers is the 28th, mine the 29th. My birthday will forever be over-shadowed by hers, which is okay with me.

We had three large travel trailers and my wife and I had a cabin near them at a private resort at a nearby lake.

wnylib

(21,340 posts)
22. Seems to run in your family.
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 08:57 PM
Aug 2021

I had 2nd cousins who were identical twins. I never learned to tell them apart. The only twins in a very large extended family

I once worked with a woman who was a triplet. She said her mother had also given birth to two sets of twins before, understandably, getting a tubal ligation.

Mr.Bill

(24,238 posts)
25. It does run in my family, and my wife's.
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 09:03 PM
Aug 2021

She does geneology and runs into twins in our family trees.

TomSlick

(11,088 posts)
15. Not nearly close enough - about three hours.
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 08:44 PM
Aug 2021

It is close enough to terribly spoil but not so close that I would have to deal with the clean-up. Closer would be better.

Fla Dem

(23,586 posts)
18. Wow! That's wonderful! Your life no matter how full it is,
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 08:50 PM
Aug 2021

Is going to be so much fuller,of love and fun!

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
27. Congratulations!
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 09:08 PM
Aug 2021

I hope they’re girls.

My two year old and three year old granddaughters have decided to be songwriters. I had to put cotton in my ears today.

MLAA

(17,250 posts)
29. Shhhhhhh! It's a secret, both the twins will be just as adorable, smart and precious as
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 09:17 PM
Aug 2021

their big brother! Hmmm maybe it’s genetic!

TomSlick

(11,088 posts)
31. Clearly.
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 09:29 PM
Aug 2021

Our son is brilliant. I'm not sure he is adorable but he ain't hard to look at. The DIL and my wife are both brilliant and adorable. The genetic odds are good.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,816 posts)
34. Oh, oh, oh! Lucky you!
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 10:00 PM
Aug 2021

It's clear my one son will never reproduce, and so I'm a bit jealous. But only a tiny bit.

I've often had trouble telling fraternal twins apart, although it helps if one is a boy and the other a girl. Identical twins, forget it! It's probably a very good thing I didn't have twins myself, because I'd still be asking, "So which one are you now?"

locks

(2,012 posts)
40. I am the great grandma
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 10:39 PM
Aug 2021

of twin boys, 5 years old. They are so smart I can't keep up with them but their two year old bro (who weighed one pound at birth) thinks he's just as big and smart. They sure can take your mind off covids especially when they tell you about T-Rex who lived 68 million years ago, was 40 feet long and weighed in at 14 metric tons. You will be tired but never tired of them.

CentralMass

(15,265 posts)
41. Congratulations.Tom. Our twins were born nearly 26 years ago. Their older
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 10:50 PM
Aug 2021

sister was 2 1/2 at the time. Having twins can humble you if you think you shoild be in the running for gods gift to parenting. But raising the three of themwas a wonderful experience. I think they survived it for the most part.

TomSlick

(11,088 posts)
43. Raising one was humbling enough.
Wed Aug 4, 2021, 11:22 PM
Aug 2021

The son and DIL are amazing parents. They will be fine - if a little stressed from time to time.

Random Boomer

(4,167 posts)
44. Shower that toddler grandkid with love
Thu Aug 5, 2021, 08:39 AM
Aug 2021

He's going to be upstaged by the twins, so you can help him feel loved when his whole world feels its turned upside down.

pazzyanne

(6,543 posts)
47. A proud Grandpa whose greatest gift is a caring family.
Thu Aug 5, 2021, 09:14 AM
Aug 2021

Your grand children will provide much joy in the coming years. CONGRATULATIONS to all of you!

panader0

(25,816 posts)
48. Congratulations! I am the father of twins and a grandfather of a one and a half cutie.
Thu Aug 5, 2021, 09:24 AM
Aug 2021

Nothing like it.

Cheezoholic

(2,006 posts)
52. OMG! I'm the oldest of 3
Thu Aug 5, 2021, 10:17 AM
Aug 2021

I thought I was the only one to endure the torture. Identical twin sisters 4 years younger than me. I went from the cutest, smartest to non existent after they were born. Friends and family would come over and after 15 minutes of "they're so cute" crap somebody might walk by me, pinch my cheek, smile no words, then turn and say "ahh, Moe and Curly your so cute", more cute crap. That's the dogs names! I was forgotten about. Holiday pictures went from me front and center to the back row where all you could see was a cowlick of my hair sticking up that blended in with the Xmas tree. I had become an undecorated branch! I ran away from home when I was 10. The twins left the gate open and Moe and Curly got out. That's when everyone realized I was gone! "Hey, where's what's his name?" It was 2 days! I would get grounded for saying things to them like "which one are you?" or I'd tell my mom they switched names again. I'm scarred to this day! I was an illegal immigrant in my own family! I don't think relatives and friends of the family even knew I flew the nest until I got out of college!

Disclaimer: I'm joking on most of that lol. I love my sisters, they deserved all the attention they got and have grown to become amazing individuals, wonderful mothers and we are all the best of friends besides siblings. We always call ourselves the 3 twins lol. We all speak to each other across the many miles at least once a week. I was always big bubby, and am still very protective of them and luckily they are very protective of me. Trust me thats an advantage. Growing up with identical twin siblings can kinda be like living in a Marvel comic at times lol. I just had to share because it really is a rare, and awesome experience and your post brought up some great memories. Congratulations TomSlick (btw my favorite childhood CARtoon). That young man, and yourself, are in for some adventure. Wishing good health to all of you

2Gingersnaps

(1,000 posts)
55. How can that be? Could have swore my guy was that kid............
Thu Aug 5, 2021, 02:37 PM
Aug 2021

Kidding, kidding, Congrats! LOL, my guy is sixteen this summer and mysteriously sprouted shoulders like a linebacker, just like his Grandpa had. You are in for soooooo much fun!

ShazzieB

(16,273 posts)
56. Congratulations!
Thu Aug 5, 2021, 03:48 PM
Aug 2021

I'll confess I don't really understand why people feel the need to keep something like that a secret. If I'd found out I was carrying twins when I was pregnant with my daughter (long ago, in a galaxy far away), I'd have screamed it from the rooftops. But of course, you have to abide by the wishes of the proud prospective parents; that's a given. So I'm very happy you can share it here. 😁

Marthe48

(16,898 posts)
57. Dad, is that you?
Thu Aug 5, 2021, 06:56 PM
Aug 2021

lol (kidding)

One of our maried couple friends had a child subsequently had 2 sets of twins. The dad liked to joke that they didn't know what they were doing the first time

Congratulations and best wishes to the parents

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
58. I've befriended twins
Thu Aug 5, 2021, 08:02 PM
Aug 2021

Paternal, so they are distinctly different. But like so many twins, in many ways they are inseparable in an emotional way. I get along great with them because (they are boys) I'm one of the few adults in their life that isn't a relative and we've established that they can treat me as a "friend"*. I tease them regularly that of course, being twins, they had to divide their intelligence in half (it so not true it's funny. One is the best participant on their debate team.) It becomes a "challenge" regularly for us to "test" each others "intelligence". They beat me more than I want to admit, and they find no small amount of joy in that. But as a child of 7 siblings, it is fascinating to me to see their interaction.

*Yes, they know I'm a friend of their parents so yes there is a certain limit to our teasing of each other. And I will say they are very polite young men. I was embarrassed once in a restaurant when I noticed they were vastly more "respectful" to our waitress than their father or I were. Not that we were disrespectful or something, but they used vastly more "may we please...", "could I possibly have..." kind of language than their father and I who might just say "can we have...", or "... and bring me a...".

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